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"I hope you've learnt your lesson - next time don't give him the time of day unless he addresses you as vault boy! Inappropriate jokes aside - only you can decide if it's enough to put you off the site. You have distinguishable features that will make it very difficult to preserve your anonymity. It's certainly a stark reminder there are some proper fucking weirdos typing among us. " I mean I guess in a lot of aspects you are absolutely right however I shouldn’t *need* to do that. He should have known better than to do something so ridiculously stupid in the first place he VERY clearly has more life experience than me considering the large age gap. It’s not the issue of being approached that bothered me, if it’s done in a respectful way by someone that is within the parameters of what my profile displays in a less enclosed space like a public bathroom then I’d be happy to chat or whatever without them being so direct. He knew what I looked like from my tattoos, he knew that he couldn’t message me, he knew that I’m not looking for ANYTHING like that yet the creepy cunt still went for it, it’s despicable and absolute desperation from an old man & makes me worried if that type of thing can happen to me then I dread to think what could have happened had I been a woman instead. Thank you for your advice. I think for now I am going to make my photos private & have a little think wether to take a break or not. | |||
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"I’ve been asked many times by women to feck them in the Ladies toilets, back of cars, the woods and even take me to Primarks changing rooms. Honestly, ya couldnae write it, just leaves me totally embarrassed Honest Take IMAs advice bud. Just move on from it, some folk don’t realise discretion goes hand in hand with swinging Good luck " That Primark Philanderess was likely just trying it on with you. Probably has a few hang-ups or was going through the change - I'd draw a curtain over it. | |||
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"I’ve been asked many times by women to feck them in the Ladies toilets, back of cars, the woods and even take me to Primarks changing rooms. Honestly, ya couldnae write it, just leaves me totally embarrassed Honest Take IMAs advice bud. Just move on from it, some folk don’t realise discretion goes hand in hand with swinging Good luck " Had it been someone within the parameters of my profile & what I’m looking for and and NOT in an enclosed public bathroom then I’d probably be flattered tbh, embarrassed yes but not completely freaked out like I was today. What he done was wrong and even the aura he was giving off was just instant bad vibes once he entered the bathroom I could tell, him being in that bathroom after approaching me for the time earlier was no coincidence. People like him give this place a terrible name. I’m going to private my images and move on from it in hopes of actually making some real connections with genuine people. I think I’ll need to be on this site for many many years before I get that kind of attention you’re receiving LOL! | |||
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"Geez. Thats scary. Even being "outed" by anyone from the site is weird. But to do it in the manor he did. Terrifying. Did u have face pix?, I looked earlier and didn't see any, how would he know it was you. It's bound to know your confidence. Shame HE can't be outed" I don’t know why people feel the need to do these things, and yes you used the correct word it was terrifying. I’m a grown man & I regularly do boxing training so had things taken a bad turn I could’ve handled it however I felt like in that moment alarm bells started ringing and my brain was just telling me to get the fuck out of there. I never acknowledged him once and he kept talking. As for your question, no I do not have face pictures displayed publicly he said he ID’d me from my tattoos and how they look great on my arms etc etc, I still never said a word. I have no idea who he is, I have no idea what age he is, and have no idea if he has been back to look at my profile. Scary ordeal | |||
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"I’ve been asked many times by women to feck them in the Ladies toilets, back of cars, the woods and even take me to Primarks changing rooms. Honestly, ya couldnae write it, just leaves me totally embarrassed Honest Take IMAs advice bud. Just move on from it, some folk don’t realise discretion goes hand in hand with swinging Good luck Had it been someone within the parameters of my profile & what I’m looking for and and NOT in an enclosed public bathroom then I’d probably be flattered tbh, embarrassed yes but not completely freaked out like I was today. What he done was wrong and even the aura he was giving off was just instant bad vibes once he entered the bathroom I could tell, him being in that bathroom after approaching me for the time earlier was no coincidence. People like him give this place a terrible name. I’m going to private my images and move on from it in hopes of actually making some real connections with genuine people. I think I’ll need to be on this site for many many years before I get that kind of attention you’re receiving LOL!" Nah… I’m just shedding some light kid. Only joshing with ya. There are always a few loose spanner’s bud. Annoying as you shouldn’t be subjected to that sort of pish. Ya seem to have your head screwed on, don’t let it beat ya up. Good luck | |||
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"I’ve been asked many times by women to feck them in the Ladies toilets, back of cars, the woods and even take me to Primarks changing rooms. Honestly, ya couldnae write it, just leaves me totally embarrassed Honest Take IMAs advice bud. Just move on from it, some folk don’t realise discretion goes hand in hand with swinging Good luck That Primark Philanderess was likely just trying it on with you. Probably has a few hang-ups or was going through the change - I'd draw a curtain over it. " It was the Primark Summer Season Collection changing room. What a bitch, I just realised it was late December. I should have known better. | |||
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"I’ve been asked many times by women to feck them in the Ladies toilets, back of cars, the woods and even take me to Primarks changing rooms. Honestly, ya couldnae write it, just leaves me totally embarrassed Honest Take IMAs advice bud. Just move on from it, some folk don’t realise discretion goes hand in hand with swinging Good luck Had it been someone within the parameters of my profile & what I’m looking for and and NOT in an enclosed public bathroom then I’d probably be flattered tbh, embarrassed yes but not completely freaked out like I was today. What he done was wrong and even the aura he was giving off was just instant bad vibes once he entered the bathroom I could tell, him being in that bathroom after approaching me for the time earlier was no coincidence. People like him give this place a terrible name. I’m going to private my images and move on from it in hopes of actually making some real connections with genuine people. I think I’ll need to be on this site for many many years before I get that kind of attention you’re receiving LOL! Nah… I’m just shedding some light kid. Only joshing with ya. There are always a few loose spanner’s bud. Annoying as you shouldn’t be subjected to that sort of pish. Ya seem to have your head screwed on, don’t let it beat ya up. Good luck" Thank you for your advice & words of wisdom I do appreciate it. This is not by any means my first time on this website but everyday I still feel like I’m finding my feet here. It’s good to see that it’s not full of fakes & creeps. | |||
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"Wouldn’t say I was confronted but myself and a male friend did get flashed bye the strathy flasher one day in the 90s It was really strange, then I went down the next day with my wife and the flasher walked past us. My wife hurled abuse at him, never seen an old man move so fast " So he went from the strathy flasher to The Strathy Flash in the blink of a japseye? | |||
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"Thanks for all the advice people. This has been a wake up call to be more diligent with what I share on this website & online in general. Now that the initial shock has went away it’s left me feeling quite poignant about the whole situation, I hope that man finds the help he so desperately needs before something potentially even worse could happen. And for anyone reading this.. don’t approach strangers in a public bathroom & try to compliment their cock " Nor to be critical of their cock! I've always been a champion of sit doon pees - they're the future. | |||
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"Wouldn’t say I was confronted but myself and a male friend did get flashed bye the strathy flasher one day in the 90s It was really strange, then I went down the next day with my wife and the flasher walked past us. My wife hurled abuse at him, never seen an old man move so fast So he went from the strathy flasher to The Strathy Flash in the blink of a japseye? " That’s one way of putting it | |||
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"I’ve been asked many times by women to feck them in the Ladies toilets, back of cars, the woods and even take me to Primarks changing rooms. Honestly, ya couldnae write it, just leaves me totally embarrassed Honest Take IMAs advice bud. Just move on from it, some folk don’t realise discretion goes hand in hand with swinging Good luck " lol I’m a slut I’d have to do a few lol | |||
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"Yup, many times. Approached on the bus just the other day. Been called Jigs and asked weird things in front of family members, friends.. even with a small child in tow. Some people really don't follow the rules and sadly it's often the creeps. Of which, there are many Only you can make a decision about how important being part of the swinging lifestyle is to you. People active on the scene are generally more discrete, so then it's more of a case of what you choose to publically put on fab. Jigs x " Anyone who comes up to you in public, or on a night out etc... regarding to fab or the swinging scene, then they are the people you do not want anything to with. Noticed people on fab that I know when out and about and I've just smiled from afar and went on my way. There's no way I would come up to anyone on fab or swinging scene in public as discretion is one of the main points about the scene. Had the same happen to me, 3 in one night on a night out, 2 in the counting house and one in the Corinthian. two just smiled and move don and one came up to me to say hiya when the person I was with was in the toilet. All 3 were discreet so it was a good night and thats the way it should be | |||
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"Yup, many times. Approached on the bus just the other day. Been called Jigs and asked weird things in front of family members, friends.. even with a small child in tow. Some people really don't follow the rules and sadly it's often the creeps. Of which, there are many Only you can make a decision about how important being part of the swinging lifestyle is to you. People active on the scene are generally more discrete, so then it's more of a case of what you choose to publically put on fab. That’s absolutely shocking Jigs. Some people just have no respect or discretion. Sorry to read that x Jigs x " | |||
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"Yup, many times. Approached on the bus just the other day. Been called Jigs and asked weird things in front of family members, friends.. even with a small child in tow. Some people really don't follow the rules and sadly it's often the creeps. Of which, there are many Only you can make a decision about how important being part of the swinging lifestyle is to you. People active on the scene are generally more discrete, so then it's more of a case of what you choose to publically put on fab. Jigs x Anyone who comes up to you in public, or on a night out etc... regarding to fab or the swinging scene, then they are the people you do not want anything to with. Noticed people on fab that I know when out and about and I've just smiled from afar and went on my way. There's no way I would come up to anyone on fab or swinging scene in public as discretion is one of the main points about the scene. Had the same happen to me, 3 in one night on a night out, 2 in the counting house and one in the Corinthian. two just smiled and move don and one came up to me to say hiya when the person I was with was in the toilet. All 3 were discreet so it was a good night and thats the way it should be " 100% None of them are people I have anything to do with. Most times I don't even recognise them and have often never spoken to them. They just know my face / nickname from parties or clubs etc. It's horrible but it's what happens. Friends from the scene I don't have issue with because they know me in real life. Jigs x | |||
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"Yup, many times. Approached on the bus just the other day. Been called Jigs and asked weird things in front of family members, friends.. even with a small child in tow. Some people really don't follow the rules and sadly it's often the creeps. Of which, there are many Only you can make a decision about how important being part of the swinging lifestyle is to you. People active on the scene are generally more discrete, so then it's more of a case of what you choose to publically put on fab. Jigs x Anyone who comes up to you in public, or on a night out etc... regarding to fab or the swinging scene, then they are the people you do not want anything to with. Noticed people on fab that I know when out and about and I've just smiled from afar and went on my way. There's no way I would come up to anyone on fab or swinging scene in public as discretion is one of the main points about the scene. Had the same happen to me, 3 in one night on a night out, 2 in the counting house and one in the Corinthian. two just smiled and move don and one came up to me to say hiya when the person I was with was in the toilet. All 3 were discreet so it was a good night and thats the way it should be 100% None of them are people I have anything to do with. Most times I don't even recognise them and have often never spoken to them. They just know my face / nickname from parties or clubs etc. It's horrible but it's what happens. Friends from the scene I don't have issue with because they know me in real life. Jigs x " I’m genuinely sorry for this. Even if I’m friends with someone on fab I would. It come up to them in Ashe they are with family or someone that could put them in an awkward position. Those who do come up to someone like the experiences you had is just people who don’t give a feck about anyones privacy and it’s actually creepy | |||
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"If you are open to view in public on social media (even more so on social media platform involving sex), you are at a higher risk of meeting someone out of the blue. Could be good could be bad. But that's the risk anybody takes for having of public profiles. If you want to mitigate the risks at a basic level, you hide face, recognisable tattoos and location. To reduce the risk further you hide profile completely and use stealth mode to look at others. Everyone is nieve if they think it would never happen to them. It can , it does and it probably will do, unless you live on a fecking island by yerself and a bunch awh sheep! " Well said | |||
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