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By *erc321 OP   Man
17 weeks ago

DUNFERMLINE

Why do people assume that because I .older I must be past it ,it not true age is only a number

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Are they saying your past it or are they saying you arent for them?

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By *erc321 OP   Man
17 weeks ago

DUNFERMLINE

It seems like they look at my age and delete ,dont look at me

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"It seems like they look at my age and delete ,dont look at me "

Thats called preference, everyone is allowed to have a preference

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By *agatoXXXMan
17 weeks ago

Eroticon Six


"It seems like they look at my age and delete ,dont look at me "

How do you know it's just your age? Are you just guessing/assuming?

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By *eiaorganaWoman
17 weeks ago

Dundee

I don't assume anyone your age is past it, I just have no interest in fucking someone my parents age

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By *erc321 OP   Man
17 weeks ago

DUNFERMLINE

no Its obvious that they delete the message as soon as they see my age , its not me being paranoid

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By *erc321 OP   Man
17 weeks ago

DUNFERMLINE

We all have types and I appreciate your comment

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By *agatoXXXMan
17 weeks ago

Eroticon Six


"no Its obvious that they delete the message as soon as they see my age , its not me being paranoid "

You still haven't said how you KNOW this.

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By *ack-FMan
17 weeks ago

Glasgow

That’s why I advocate that fab swingers should have a “ sexy seniors section “…… if only …

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By *eiaorganaWoman
17 weeks ago

Dundee


"no Its obvious that they delete the message as soon as they see my age , its not me being paranoid "

In what way is it obvious?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
17 weeks ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Why do people assume that because I .older I must be past it ,it not true age is only a number "
Think you are reading too much into it.

People have preferences and your just not within those preferences .

You yourself have set age range filters in place so if you think age is just a number why have set age ranges !?

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By *lasgowHorseyMan
17 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Why do people assume that because I .older I must be past it ,it not true age is only a number "

It’s no big deal, it’s just everyone’s preference, I’m outside the majority of their age range but I still have a brilliant time on here, socialising, swinging, sex, great chat and laughs.

I just deal with it and get on with it and if someone who has me outside their age range are lucky enough to meet me then I see it as a treat for them

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By *ert999400Man
17 weeks ago

Glasgow


"It seems like they look at my age and delete ,dont look at me "
How do you know that they look at your age???

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By *ookie69Man
17 weeks ago

Whistle Dixie


"Why do people assume that because I .older I must be past it ,it not true age is only a number "

This doesn’t make any sense.

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By *ockslutt28Man
17 weeks ago

Greenock

Nothing wrong with age or age gap relationshipslol

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By *uctifanoWoman
17 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Why do people assume that because I .older I must be past it ,it not true age is only a number Think you are reading too much into it.

People have preferences and your just not within those preferences .

You yourself have set age range filters in place so if you think age is just a number why have set age ranges !? "

This, you seem pretty well verified too so doing better than lots younger

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By *agatoXXXMan
17 weeks ago

Eroticon Six


"That’s why I advocate that fab swingers should have a “ sexy seniors section “…… if only … "

Fab seniors would suffice, we're not all sexy!

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"I don't assume anyone your age is past it, I just have no interest in fucking someone my parents age"

Absolutely this !

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By *nubis282Man
17 weeks ago

Hamilton


"no Its obvious that they delete the message as soon as they see my age , its not me being paranoid "

What makes it 100% obvious to you that it's your age causing the problem?

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By *luebell888Woman
17 weeks ago

Glasgowish

I have nothing against older men but here to meet younger men than you.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Nothing worse when theirs someone you like and you kiss their age by a yr or two lol

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By *erc321 OP   Man
17 weeks ago

DUNFERMLINE

You know that the message is deleted and has not been read

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By *erc321 OP   Man
17 weeks ago

DUNFERMLINE

As I said previously , we all have types and I appreciate your comment

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By *eiaorganaWoman
17 weeks ago

Dundee


"You know that the message is deleted and has not been read "

I've deleted many messages without reading, age has never been one of the reasons. You're making an assumption that can't be proven.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"I have nothing against older men but here to meet younger men than you."

When you look as good as you do you can get what you want. I love your pics and videos

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

If it was just your age, most people use the age filter.

Don’t just assume it’s your age:

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By *erlins5Man
17 weeks ago

South Fife

If it is your age so what? I know I am not past it....but I also know that people may not want to meet someone my age.... we all have preferences and choices. Are you assuming all women over 70 are past it ? That is your upper age limit on your profile so surely it works both ways ?

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

You realise the amount of mails a woman can get . Having preferences is part of life and having those preferences on their profile should help with filtering through the mails that's sent . If your ignoring what's on their profile then as bad as it sounds it's your fault you put yourself in the position of being deleted unread . . The amount of threads there has been about no replies is ridiculous but somehow there always tends to be a new one pops up . A no reply is a no thanks. Preferences are set for a reason.. if you read the profile.and too heed of them then could minimise the rejection your facing !

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"You realise the amount of mails a woman can get . Having preferences is part of life and having those preferences on their profile should help with filtering through the mails that's sent . If your ignoring what's on their profile then as bad as it sounds it's your fault you put yourself

in the position of being deleted unread . . The amount of threads there has been about no replies is ridiculous but somehow there always tends to be a new one pops up . A no reply is a no thanks. Preferences are set for a reason.. if you read the profile.and too heed of them then could minimise the rejection your facing ! "

Yes but theirs ones where u fit what they want and don't reply or read it. I must be getting better at messaging had a few reply thanks but no thanks recently

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By *parkle13Woman
17 weeks ago

Dundee

Mabey the age of the woman ur messaging is unrealistic..ur 67 so anybody about 40 ect might just not be interested

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Central


"It seems like they look at my age and delete ,dont look at me "

Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people. Age will be a factor but you're stuck with others' preferences

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By *e_AdoredWoman
17 weeks ago

east fife

There's a few things that put me off your profile. You couldn't possibly know it was your age that I didn't like ....

I don't meet people of here and in the club I don't ask ages. I just look for a connection, maybe you should try a different way of meeting people

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"You realise the amount of mails a woman can get . Having preferences is part of life and having those preferences on their profile should help with filtering through the mails that's sent . If your ignoring what's on their profile then as bad as it sounds it's your fault you put yourself

in the position of being deleted unread . . The amount of threads there has been about no replies is ridiculous but somehow there always tends to be a new one pops up . A no reply is a no thanks. Preferences are set for a reason.. if you read the profile.and too heed of them then could minimise the rejection your facing !

Yes but theirs ones where u fit what they want and don't reply or read it. I must be getting better at messaging had a few reply thanks but no thanks recently "

I get that but just because you meet the preferences doesn't mean your gonna be a match ,attraction comes into play and if someone isn't attracted to you then preferences or not it's no gonna happen .

My point is age is probably the most specific prefrence and if the OP is mailing profiles with specific age preferences that he's setting himself up for rejection .if that is the case then he's done it to himself .far too many folk take no regard to what's actual written in a profile and then wonder why they get no reply .

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
17 weeks ago

Glasgow

We delete messages if someone doesn't have public photos. A lot of couples and single women get a lot of messages a day. We sometimes delete when a profile pic is a cock. It could be lots of reasons they delete your message without reading it.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

OP I have no problem chatting on here but I really don't engage in mails with people I don't know .. I'd rather keep it to the forum .

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By *onderlust69Couple
17 weeks ago

Central belt

Unfortunately age is a factor. For example you are older than my Dad that's a hard limit for me. Would you meet a 95 year old? I'm also not attracted to men 20+ years younger and has nothing to do if a person is past it or not and everything to do with what turns me on. It's just life! Keeping expectations realistic is a huge issue on here sometimes. We are a couple with a age gap so reaching out on fab can be difficult and we can relate in a small way to what you are saying, as others have said going to socials and clubs really breaks down barriers but you definitely still have to keep expectations realistic xx Mrs

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By *erc321 OP   Man
17 weeks ago

DUNFERMLINE

Thank you for the comments , really appreciated

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By *agnar2323Man
17 weeks ago

Valhalla


"Why do people assume that because I .older I must be past it ,it not true age is only a number "

You might not be past it but folk have a preference and to be honestif they deleted your message it's a polite no!

If only people would accept this my wife would have an easier life as would all the women.

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By *erc321 OP   Man
17 weeks ago

DUNFERMLINE

its not a case of deleting , I understand that we all have types , its just obvious they have not looked or read the message

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By *ookie69Man
17 weeks ago

Whistle Dixie


"its not a case of deleting , I understand that we all have types , its just obvious they have not looked or read the message "

They have the right to choose what they do with their profile.

If they don’t read your profile or message and choose to delete or block, why does it matter?

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By *eiaorganaWoman
17 weeks ago

Dundee


"its not a case of deleting , I understand that we all have types , its just obvious they have not looked or read the message "

Here's my process:

- receive message

- check profile

- if nothing on the profile interests me, message deleted

No one is obliged to read or respond to a message.

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By *erlins5Man
17 weeks ago

South Fife


"its not a case of deleting , I understand that we all have types , its just obvious they have not looked or read the message "

A lot of people dislike cock pics on a profile, your profile pic is literally a cock pic....maybe some folk don't open the message as soon as they see the profile dick pic attached to it.....just a thought.

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By *ugh_jardonMan
17 weeks ago

Larkhall

Your only as old as the woman you feel

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By *erc321 OP   Man
17 weeks ago

DUNFERMLINE

Yes I get all that , maybe I am overthinking ,Fab has been good for me over the years and have met a lot of lovely people as well as the not so nice . I know what I am and know what I can offer have never lost confidence in myself

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By *igboobiesCouple
17 weeks ago

Saltcoats


"its not a case of deleting , I understand that we all have types , its just obvious they have not looked or read the message "

So you would feel better if they opened message then deleted? Is it not same outcome

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By *agnar73Man
17 weeks ago

Glasgow


"its not a case of deleting , I understand that we all have types , its just obvious they have not looked or read the message

A lot of people dislike cock pics on a profile, your profile pic is literally a cock pic....maybe some folk don't open the message as soon as they see the profile dick pic attached to it.....just a thought."

This, I think the impression the profile pic gives is important as it’s often what someone sees first on a profile.

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By *ookie69Man
17 weeks ago

Whistle Dixie


"Yes I get all that , maybe I am overthinking ,Fab has been good for me over the years and have met a lot of lovely people as well as the not so nice . I know what I am and know what I can offer have never lost confidence in myself "

Good!

Glad to hear you haven’t lost any confidence.

Sometimes things happen when you least expect it.

Try focus on the people you are compatible with.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

That's cool, your parents are still fucking btw lol

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By *aldGingerMan
17 weeks ago

Glasgow


"no Its obvious that they delete the message as soon as they see my age , its not me being paranoid "

It sounds like you’re self conscious about your age rather than it being a reason.

I don’t send a lot of messages. If they’re read then deleted, it could be a number of things - for all I know I’m too handsome in their eyes.

It isn’t because of modesty anyway

Guys are outnumbered 20-1 or something on here, the fact is women and couples’ inboxes are deluged with messages. More often than not they can’t even read them all.

Everyone has their tastes and you just don’t happen to be theirs. I’ve talked to women on here, got on great, but no spark. That’s just life. No hard feelings, move on and get on with things.

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