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By *ir laugh a lot OP   Man
40 weeks ago

glasgow

the older i get i find almost every female on fab these days are not interested in blokes my age I do understand to many fems I am old enough to be dad or yup grandad but have all the older females who still enjoy sex as much as I do left fab? i guess I notice it more as I get older after 18 years on fab many old friends are no longer fabbers

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By *W1970Man
40 weeks ago

hamilton

Yeah I feel your pain. It’s as if you reach a certain age you find that your past it to most ppl in here.

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By *luebell888Woman
40 weeks ago

Glasgowish

I am still here but prefer younger men.

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By *ookie69Man
40 weeks ago

Whistle Dixie


"I am still here but prefer younger men."

I think that’s the OPs point.

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By *luebell888Woman
40 weeks ago

Glasgowish


"I am still here but prefer younger men.

I think that’s the OPs point."

He was indicating that us older ladies may have left fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Yes it seems 40 or 45 is the cut off point for guys I know when I reached that age things fell off the edge of a cliff on here lol

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By *omble 69Man
40 weeks ago

Symington

Definitely struggle here I like older than me but that age demographic seem to mostly want younger

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By *leaseCumAgain96Man
40 weeks ago

North Lanarkshire

I struggle here to get a Mail, 44 and feel as if my days are limited here lol

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By *amierebelMan
40 weeks ago

My own little world

Just a numbers game and the numbers ain't even age. I noticed last night in early hours the difference in ratio was pages of men in scotland all active and online to around 5 active females and around 6 couples. People are going to have preferences to what they want and with so many men then it's limitless options

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
40 weeks ago

Glasgow

OP, there's nothing on your profile that would attract us to you, your profile is almost blank. On your profile it says your looking for FF nothing else. Your also looking for a 99 year old? Go over your profile again, add photos and put in exactly what your looking for.

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By *ittyScritchesWoman
40 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"I'm not getting laid so it must be a problem with the wimminz"

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Age is but a number and a FAB profile is a window of opportunity.

Plus

Over my lifetime, lifestyles, dating and approach to possible partners, gender, sex, have changed dramatically.

If your not adaptable and open to change you can be left behind and perhaps that's more the problem.

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By *evertoolate400Man
40 weeks ago

Edinburgh

It's the luck of the draw . I go through times where is seems pointless being on here , then out of the blue something crops up , usually with couples over 60 which is ideal for me , that might not suit guys in their 40's & 50's .

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By *corpioboyMan
40 weeks ago

Glasgow

It is much harder once you reach a certain age on here but I’d like to think we’ve still got a lot to give.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
40 weeks ago

Dundee


"OP, there's nothing on your profile that would attract us to you, your profile is almost blank. On your profile it says your looking for FF nothing else. Your also looking for a 99 year old? Go over your profile again, add photos and put in exactly what your looking for. "

I agree with this, your profile needs a complete overhaul. I'd also say that your age window of 18-99 is not only unrealistic but also screams that you're not fussy. The point of a profile is to sell yourself to the best of your ability. Do that and you may find that it garners more interest from age appropriate ladies.

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By *ir laugh a lot OP   Man
40 weeks ago

glasgow

i never once made any refrence that it must be the fault of women , nor was it a cry about not getting laid I was just sharing my thoughts that the demographic people my age and by some posts younger appear to have reached a plato on fab which makes it harder to find a companion to share fun times with

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By *nRMan
40 weeks ago

central Scotland

As my better half always use to say “There is many a good tune played on an old fiddle”. The problem is nobody wants to play with us anymore ??

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By *ookie69Man
40 weeks ago

Whistle Dixie


"i never once made any refrence that it must be the fault of women , nor was it a cry about not getting laid I was just sharing my thoughts that the demographic people my age and by some posts younger appear to have reached a plato on fab which makes it harder to find a companion to share fun times with "

Well said bud

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By *panksspankedMan
40 weeks ago

Edinburgh

It seems I'm unable to contact a lot of members because of their age restrictions. Fair enough that's their choice and I respect that. Yet when I meet them in person it doesn't seem to be an issue. Oh well that's just the way of it and the answer seems to be go out and meet people

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

The age restrictions do limit us older ones on here. But each to their own and you just have to appreciate it's the ladies choice and they have multiple options.

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By *exxerMan
40 weeks ago

Livingston

While it does seem unfair to be discounted because of your age, we all have tastes and preferences. Others may scroll past people because of their body shape or sexual choices. That’s the way of the world unfortunately. I don’t look my age but I get why it matters to some. x

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By *assy LassieWoman
40 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

Maybe it isn't age that is the stumbling block. Would bet ££ that 90% of the time its not age that's the issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"Definitely struggle here I like older than me but that age demographic seem to mostly want younger "

Not for me. Much prefer someone my age or 10 years older.

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By *alcon43Woman
40 weeks ago

Paisley

I’ve met the OP and verified him. He’s a lovely guy but just not for me.

I’m currently seeing a younger guy but we met in person at a social then got chatting. If he’d messaged me here first I probably wouldn’t have met him based just on his profile.

I’m still friends with a couple I met at my first social event 12 years ago. We all have to start somewhere. Once you start networking and meet people you’ve a better chance of meeting someone that wants to play.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
40 weeks ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Hello Mr not seen you around in a while.

I too have met the op a few times at socials over the years .

He's a lovely man .

As for not being in people's age ranges that's just part of fab as everyone has preference of the type of people they would like to meet & their age ranges .

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By *evertoolate400Man
40 weeks ago

Edinburgh

My experience is that older couples ( over 60 ) and ladies know what they want and indeed like , generally not timewasters either . Some older couples / ladies either prefer same age adventures or with other maybe 20 years younger .

As a number of people hete have posted , all people different with preferences etc , no pont in being hung up about your age , just embrace it !

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By *onderlust69Couple
40 weeks ago

Central belt

As a couple with an age gap we have a fairly complex dynamic when it comes to age preferences for playmates and to be completely honest I (mrs) use to make lots of choices based on age. Experience has taught me in reality it has very little influence on sexual chemistry. For example I put off meeting a guy for around a year because he was around my age and my preference was older, but when we did finally have a meet the chemistry was instant and some of the best sexual experiences on fab have come from meets with them and we very nearly passed him by based on a number.

We love meets with couples and singles of lots of ages it's all about connection, that's best established through social meets and club meets in my opinion.

One thing we have noticed that is increasingly an issue, the amount of single men lying about their age by significant amounts to increase their chances of getting a meet. Very, very frustrating and an instant block from us. No need to lie and trick people into meeting for any reason.

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By *evertoolate400Man
40 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Very well said ! Also true .

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Everyone's situation is different I'm 37 but probably look in my 40s and struggle but had a couple of meets with women in their 40s.

I find younger women don't want to know but I don't find many mid 30s they are mostly in couples not many in single at that age.

A lot of women in their 30s want relationships I've found rather than sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Why is it always the fault of the profile when 90% of the time your msg gets read and patched and no one has looked at your profile anyway?

It's modern dating. You might just be looking for fun but it's exactly the same as any dating app on here.

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By *ighungforwifeMan
40 weeks ago

douglas

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By *ighungforwifeMan
40 weeks ago

douglas


"I am still here but prefer younger men."
Hey there I really like your videos and pictures your a little hot rod very sexy. I see you like younger men give me a message and a will send face pictures ect xx

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Blame it on the profile or that u don't go to clubs

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By *ir laugh a lot OP   Man
40 weeks ago

glasgow

yes we had lunch twice and fab or sex were never mentioned we chatted and then she went back to work but I got to see those trainers up close ..lol and I tried to arrange a blood donors day but folk had other things to do so she offered to meet me for lunch and again as lunch buddies and I enjoyed her company and chat nice to see your comment xxx take care

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By *ir laugh a lot OP   Man
40 weeks ago

glasgow

a funny lovely woman who lights up a room enjoy being in her company and no we have never had sex together dammit ,lol xxx

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By *eiaorganaWoman
40 weeks ago

Dundee

If you use the reply and quote button we'll know what you are responding to

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I'm 50 but still doing ok.Been on and off fab for about 5 years now.

Only thing I find frustrating at times is the age restriction, you see a lovely woman but only wants to get contacted by max 45 or 49, but youb know it would work...

Then later you read they have been let down or no show then you think..should have gone for the reliable, more experienced older guy....

Thankfully , as said. I'm still doing ok. My last meet was 25, attractive, athletic, and now a friend....

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"I am still here but prefer younger men."

Pretty much the only reason I’m looking forward to turning 40 is getting by your message filter.

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