FabSwingers.com forum: Oral, yes or no?

By *heemuffinman OP Man
38 weeks ago

Larkhall

Isnt oral just the norm nowadays, met a girl who doesnt do it, from here, honestly the first ever, just point blank refusal, kinda makes it all sound a bit too borning for me now, she expects to receive tho, so im pretty much put off now.

Got blocked for saying its a bit selfish but hey ho was never gonna happen anyway, are there more out there like this?

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By *p4Fun7070Man
38 weeks ago

Leven

As Chris Rock once said, there are three types of women in this world.

The first type will absolutely point blank refuse to suck your dick.

The second type, doesn't really enjoy sucking dick but will do it anyway, because she wants to please her guy.

The third type, loves nothing more than to suck your dick.

Now it's the third type who makes this world a better place to live

It's all about preference - either she will or won't

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By *im494Man
38 weeks ago

Westhill

Sex with no oral is like a donut with no jam, absolutely pointless and no added flavour

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By *izzymayWoman
38 weeks ago

Glasgow

Going by the OP's name it may have been to big and put her off.

I personally love giveing oral and if its big all the more fun trying to take it all the way down

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By *assy LassieWoman
38 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

"Isnt oral just the norm nowadays, met a girl who doesnt do it, from here, honestly the first ever, just point blank refusal, kinda makes it all sound a bit too borning for me now, she expects to receive tho, so im pretty much put off now.

Got blocked for saying its a bit selfish but hey ho was never gonna happen anyway, are there more out there like this?"

So you found someone you weren't compatible with. It happens.

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By *onderlust69Couple
38 weeks ago

Central belt

There's plenty of guys on here that aren't very good at returning the favour. It's definitely off putting especially as Mrs WL always puts lots of effort into giving. Never come across a woman that doesn't yet.

I suppose during a meet its more important they are comfortable and enjoying what they are doing, it is obvious if someone is going through the motions and not really enjoying it.

The best oral comes from those that love doing it.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
38 weeks ago

Stirling

How very dare she refuse to suck your cock, it is your right......no, wait a minute!

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By *ookie69Man
38 weeks ago

Whistle Dixie

No sucks given ( girl who refuses oral)

Aw feck wrang post

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"There's plenty of guys on here that aren't very good at returning the favour. It's definitely off putting especially as Mrs WL always puts lots of effort into giving. Never come across a woman that doesn't yet.

I suppose during a meet its more important they are comfortable and enjoying what they are doing, it is obvious if someone is going through the motions and not really enjoying it.

The best oral comes from those that love doing it.

This. Like anything else in life, if your heart (or your mouth) isn't in it, whats the point.

Personally, I enjoy receiving but not as much as I love giving to both women and men.

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By *ookie69Man
38 weeks ago

Whistle Dixie

If she didn’t suck it then, sure as hell she isn’t going to suck it now as you’ve put it on a public forum.

What happened to discretion.

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By *ittyScritchesWoman
38 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'm not sure what's more amusing to me - the idea that sex where a guy doesn't get a blowjob is 'boring' or that not reciprocating a specific sex act makes you 'selfish'.

Given how aggressive some guys get around shoving a dick down a throat it could very well be a result of unpleasant experience(s).

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By *e_AdoredWoman
38 weeks ago

east fife

I love sucking dick . But I know a few guys that aren't all that good at returning the favour . I won't moan about it though , nothing to moan for

However it doesn't nessisarily turn me off them . If we have a good time , we have a good time ! Xx

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By *orl1971Couple
38 weeks ago

Glasgow

We had a meet with a VWE guy who lay back and received lots of foreplay and oral. Not only did he not do oral but did no foreplay at all.

Tried entering wife without warming her up. It was sore as he hadn’t prepared her. So she just ended the meet.

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By *ee69Man
38 weeks ago

glasgow

"We had a meet with a VWE guy who lay back and received lots of foreplay and oral. Not only did he not do oral but did no foreplay at all.

Tried entering wife without warming her up. It was sore as he hadn’t prepared her. So she just ended the meet. "

Don’t blame you guys

Everyone different a love giving oral but some folk don’t a guess , a love giving it to a girl then the sex is the better , I think anway lol

Nice to receive some but tbh ad rather get a nice ride lol

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By *ussieman74Man
38 weeks ago

Musselburgh

I am always happy to give oral to a female without recipication. Blow job's, anal always seem to be a must for guys, me I am not that demanding. I am just ahppt to go with the flow

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By *tirling DarkCouple
38 weeks ago

Stirling

"I'm not sure what's more amusing to me - the idea that sex where a guy doesn't get a blowjob is 'boring' or that not reciprocating a specific sex act makes you 'selfish'.

Given how aggressive some guys get around shoving a dick down a throat it could very well be a result of unpleasant experience(s)."

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By *amierebelMan
38 weeks ago

My own little world

Was in a relationship for 9 years without receiving oral it's no the be all and end all pal some people don't like giving some don't like receiving either

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By *nverMan
38 weeks ago

....down the Rabbit Hole with a shotgun

To be honest, I much prefer to give a lass oral rather than receive it. I get far too sensitive and it removes any enjoyment, for me, that might be had.

It's a definite "not bothered" over here lol

Not a deal breaker.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
38 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'm.sure.im not the only woman that's had a message asking to sick their dick for absolutely nothing in return

They are the selfish ones op

The woman probably didn't like doing them and if you'd have gave her a chance probably would have pleased you in other ways

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By *hekaiserMan
38 weeks ago

Glasgow

It's a mix bag...couple of ex girlfriends were not keen on giving me bjs whilst some others loved sucking me off.

Didn't stop seeing the ones who didn't give bjs.

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By *panksspankedMan
38 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'm orally bi and enjoy giving to both. It's nice to receive too but not a deal breaker for me. As long as we all have fun that's all that's important really

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

An ex partner never gave oral, she wasn’t comfortable with it, I love giving oral so I had no problem giving and took just as much from giving her pleasure as I would have had receiving. I’ve always said any sexual experience should be enjoyable and comfortable for all parties, being clear in boundaries is fine just don’t arrive with preconceived expectations. Giving pleasure can be pleasurable in itself, don’t be selfish, just enjoy the experience.

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By *uffinMan
38 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Never had a bk for over 27 years. Never cum in someone's mouth either. If I did get one now I don't think I'd enjoy it.. way too stressful.

I love giving oral but again it's been 6 years since I've even had any opportunity to do it...

And I'm married!

I dunno... Any ladies want a challenge I honestly think the day of BJ's is no more..

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By *ookie69Man
38 weeks ago

Whistle Dixie

I really don’t have a checklist what to do or not to do.

I'm very spontaneous therefore I don’t plan anything sexually

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

A bad experience can put someone off .. like guy thinking they're in a porno straight off the bat and trying to ram it down your throat , can leave a woman with a dislike for performing oral .

Just putting it out there, if she really dislikes it then why would she feel pressured or shamed into doing it ,it wouldn't be enjoyable for you nor her, no one should feel like it's something they need to do .

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By *exy gentMan
38 weeks ago

Midlothian

I'm absolutely cool with giving and receiving

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By *omble 69Man
38 weeks ago

Symington

Love both ways nice and slow lovely mmmmm

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By *woformorefunCouple
38 weeks ago

Dundee

Mrs TFMF loves giving oral, sometimes I think she likes it even more than I like her doing it. Me being a gentleman, I let her do it whenever she likes

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By *ee69Man
38 weeks ago

glasgow

Love giving , always leads to a better ride lol

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By *scobar67Man
38 weeks ago

glasgow

I could lick some pussy today if there are any takers ...

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By *j_rockgodMan
38 weeks ago

Gourock

I’d have thought this would have been discussed before your meet. Likes/dislikes etc?

For me, as part of the chat/social you can start to understand what turns them on, and just as importantly, what turns them off

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Oral is just another element in the arsenal of sexual intimacy.

It's not required if you are able to substitute it with other elements.

But communication, likes, dislikes, and boundaries are the most important parts.

If compatibility isn't there, i.e., oral is a deal breaker.

Then there is no point continuing.

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By *cottybhoyMan
38 weeks ago

falkirk

"Going by the OP's name it may have been to big and put her off.

I personally love giveing oral and if its big all the more fun trying to take it all the way down

And I can testify she’s not too bad at it

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
38 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Wow, guys that don't like giving oral. Hang your head in shame and may your bellends fall off with leprosy.

For me it's the best part of sex. Do I get it right all the time? Do I bollocks. Sometimes I'm rewarded fairly quickly, other times whilst trying to breath through my ears and ass, with my jaw hanging off and my tongue about to curl up like a funfair blowy thing, she's still there trying to break me!

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By *uietbloke67Man
38 weeks ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

I love giving oral to a woman, it's,a joy.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I've never had any complaints giving oral which I enjoy - even more so if it's a beautiful one and belongs to someone I'm attracted to!

I also enjoy receiving oral - and not all blokes know what they're doing

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By *rdadjokesMan
38 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I love giving oral more than receiving it so I tend to offer first but it’s great when you have a mutually satisfying session with each other

But have spoke to others and it ain’t for them

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By *ibennyMan
38 weeks ago

rutherglen

Definitely YES

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By *ennyjMan
38 weeks ago

falkirk

Love giving oral, and had a few compliments as well as a few soakings.

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By *amierebelMan
38 weeks ago

My own little world

"Love giving oral, and had a few compliments as well as a few soakings."

Tbf mate... don't we all (in every context to your words here)

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By *heemuffinman OP Man
38 weeks ago

Larkhall

Just for the record im not shaming or demending it, i have honestly never came across it before, well not scince my teens anyway, its a must do for me tho, just my thing, we all have things we like and cant do without

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By *ndy edinMan
38 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'll add myself to enjoying Giving more than Receiving, there is no fun that gets me more turned on than giving to a receptive partner. Not at all fussed on expecting a return, it's a wee bonus - 90% of my fun is giving!!

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