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By *abhighland OP   Man
39 weeks ago

scotland

How many women on here are truly submissive?

Does being owned by a master really turn you on?

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By *amierebelMan
39 weeks ago

My own little world

Maybe 6 or is it 7?

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By *ittyScritchesWoman
39 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Well for starters being a submissive doesn't automatically mean you want to be 'owned' by anyone, let alone a self-appointed 'Master'...

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By *inkyropecoupleCouple
39 weeks ago

carluke

Mrs kinkyrope is submissive and also demanding.

A puzzle wrapped up in an enigma

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
39 weeks ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"Well for starters being a submissive doesn't automatically mean you want to be 'owned' by anyone, let alone a self-appointed 'Master'..."

All of this...

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By *igsaw93Woman
39 weeks ago

Glasgow

Are you using the word sub to get around the fab ban on the proper word?

Jigs x

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By *panksspankedMan
39 weeks ago

Edinburgh

As opposed to falsely submissive?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
39 weeks ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"How many women on here are truly submissive?

Does being owned by a master really turn you on?"
Im very submissive however being owned is not a turn on but being submissive is .

A woman can give the gift of submission to a man without being owned .

However I guess the true dom /sub scenario is slightly different .

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By *oreverplayfulCouple
39 weeks ago

motherwell


"How many women on here are truly submissive?

Does being owned by a master really turn you on?Im very submissive however being owned is not a turn on but being submissive is .

A woman can give the gift of submission to a man without being owned .

However I guess the true dom /sub scenario is slightly different . "

I agree with this. I don't like the fact or the phrase of being owned (gives me the ick) but I'm naturally submissive (more than I like to admit) which I do enjoy with the right person aslong as boundaries aren't pushed to extremes

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

I think you maybe should have used the word s*ave as opposed to submissive. Two different scenarios completely speaking from experience on the s*ave situation. Lots of woman like a man to take control and be dominant but don’t want a master as such. I don’t actively look for any scenario and the master s*ave situation happened more so on the other side.

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By *ittyScritchesWoman
39 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"However I guess the true dom /sub scenario is slightly different . "

Not sure what you mean by this but there is no One Twue Way - a power exchange dynamic is / can be whatever the people involved agree to so everyone's mutual, complementary interests can be met.

It doesn't even have to involve sex...

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
39 weeks ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"However I guess the true dom /sub scenario is slightly different .

Not sure what you mean by this but there is no One Twue Way - a power exchange dynamic is / can be whatever the people involved agree to so everyone's mutual, complementary interests can be met.

It doesn't even have to involve sex..."
what I mean is a true Don/sub relationship is often about ownership

Where the male is the master & owner of the sub .

However like you have said doms/subs on here can have their own set of rules of what they will and won’t do

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By *panksspankedMan
39 weeks ago

Edinburgh

It's an interesting topic isn't it. I enjoy a lot of activities which many regard as submissive.

I am not submissive in the slightest by temperament. I see it as choosing to do these things for mutual enjoyment.

In my view everything should be consensual and limits respected

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By *amierebelMan
39 weeks ago

My own little world

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By *amierebelMan
39 weeks ago

My own little world

Why does bondage always end up with "that's not the correct way" legit the bdsm scene is one place where everyone has to be right

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39 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago


"How many women on here are truly submissive?

Does being owned by a master really turn you on?"

The topic of submissive is very interesting and the same, 'interesting' from everyone's views on here, well the ones who have posted.

'Some' people who are truly submissive don't even think they are.

Submissive is not one particular way, there are many ways depends on what the "submissive person" desires, wants and needs. You have, 'non sexual submission', you have 'Mind submission' (my fav) and 'Sexual submission' (sexual can go down so many different routes) and many other types of submissive.

There will be people on here who will talk about submission and a naturally submission person who reads it might think, naw, that aint for me or yeah, I want that.

We all have choices, views, what we enjoy, what we don't like, like and in our minds especially regarding submissive we all have views, but is that the right one, the best one, the most enjoyable, if it keeps you happy then of course it is.

I adore the mind, cant get enough of it, even in company, seeing it change, watching it adapt but the experiences that I have enjoyed and my company has enjoyed are when that connection hits, and in our minds its been amazing experience.

I'm naturally dominant but not looking for the dominant/submissive relationship or fun, (well not all the time) but in reality I'm quite a chilled, relaxed guy and my company's enjoyment is what I truly enjoy but for me, respect is a huge thing, and having that connection that can have someone showing their submissive side because they truly want too and this can lead to any level we both want or don't even realize we want.

When you think of it, even from what I have posted, there are huge gaps and depths to explore and I'm sure there are many who have explored.

This is without doubt a topic that knows no bounds

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By *panksspankedMan
39 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"How many women on here are truly submissive?

Does being owned by a master really turn you on?

The topic of submissive is very interesting and the same, 'interesting' from everyone's views on here, well the ones who have posted.

'Some' people who are truly submissive don't even think they are.

Submissive is not one particular way, there are many ways depends on what the "submissive person" desires, wants and needs. You have, 'non sexual submission', you have 'Mind submission' (my fav) and 'Sexual submission' (sexual can go down so many different routes) and many other types of submissive.

There will be people on here who will talk about submission and a naturally submission person who reads it might think, naw, that aint for me or yeah, I want that.

We all have choices, views, what we enjoy, what we don't like, like and in our minds especially regarding submissive we all have views, but is that the right one, the best one, the most enjoyable, if it keeps you happy then of course it is.

I adore the mind, cant get enough of it, even in company, seeing it change, watching it adapt but the experiences that I have enjoyed and my company has enjoyed are when that connection hits, and in our minds its been amazing experience.

I'm naturally dominant but not looking for the dominant/submissive relationship or fun, (well not all the time) but in reality I'm quite a chilled, relaxed guy and my company's enjoyment is what I truly enjoy but for me, respect is a huge thing, and having that connection that can have someone showing their submissive side because they truly want too and this can lead to any level we both want or don't even realize we want.

When you think of it, even from what I have posted, there are huge gaps and depths to explore and I'm sure there are many who have explored.

This is without doubt a topic that knows no bounds "

The mind is absolutely the sexiest part of a human being

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