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"Is is unreasonable to expect to chat at bit first and seemed a pic when you're comfortable to? With so many fake profiles andpic collectors, it's dangerous to be just putting your face out there when anyone could see it. Everyone is entitled to do their thing i here however they want but its a shame so many require it right away and ignore messages with no pic attached. " It doesn't matter if they want a picture straight away, that's their prerogative, doesn't mean you have to send it or doesn't mean you have to message. if your not comfortable with sending face pic straight away then, I get you, so don't worry, just find someone else that interest you 
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"Any couple or female who ask for a face pic in the first message, Can feckin bolt. "100%
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"Is is unreasonable to expect to chat at bit first and seemed a pic when you're comfortable to? With so many fake profiles andpic collectors, it's dangerous to be just putting your face out there when anyone could see it. Everyone is entitled to do their thing i here however they want but its a shame so many require it right away and ignore messages with no pic attached. " Some will ask for one right away if this doesn’t suit you just tell them your not comfortable swapping so soon . I do prefer to get face pics out the way quite quickly as it saves time being wasted but I’m talking a good few messages over at least a week or so before exchanging . Just saves time if there is no attraction  | |||
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"Is is unreasonable to expect to chat at bit first and seemed a pic when you're comfortable to? With so many fake profiles andpic collectors, it's dangerous to be just putting your face out there when anyone could see it. Everyone is entitled to do their thing i here however they want but its a shame so many require it right away and ignore messages with no pic attached. Some will ask for one right away if this doesn’t suit you just tell them your not comfortable swapping so soon . I do prefer to get face pics out the way quite quickly as it saves time being wasted but I’m talking a good few messages over at least a week or so before exchanging . Just saves time if there is no attraction "I'm with you there! | |||
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 ) so I do tend to ignore blank profiles due to keeping identity safe/discreet. | |||
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"The other side to the discussion on when you talk to someone for a few days .things seem to be looking good.then you say shall we swap face pics and then there profile disappears off fab. So you've wasted 3 days. It's a tough one but no right or wrong answer to be honest " Agreed but for profiles that have been over a year and have a few verifications from, which looks like regulars, then I would find this strange that they delete but from profiles, even a month or so old and no verification or only one verification from another new profile then I can see them deleting for many reasons fake or real I'd still rather have a face pic to be sure but then again they might delete because its going to fast or they're not used to the scene yet and feel uncomfortable this early in their mind to send a face pic but it true, its all ifs and butts | |||
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"Is is unreasonable to expect to chat at bit first and seemed a pic when you're comfortable to? With so many fake profiles andpic collectors, it's dangerous to be just putting your face out there when anyone could see it. Everyone is entitled to do their thing i here however they want but its a shame so many require it right away and ignore messages with no pic attached. " If someone tries to pressurise anyone into doing anything they don’t want to, whether it’s sending a picture or anything else then they are not worth your time OP. You’re right to stick your guns and be cautious | |||
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"Is is unreasonable to expect to chat at bit first and seemed a pic when you're comfortable to? With so many fake profiles andpic collectors, it's dangerous to be just putting your face out there when anyone could see it. Everyone is entitled to do their thing i here however they want but its a shame so many require it right away and ignore messages with no pic attached. Some will ask for one right away if this doesn’t suit you just tell them your not comfortable swapping so soon . I do prefer to get face pics out the way quite quickly as it saves time being wasted but I’m talking a good few messages over at least a week or so before exchanging . Just saves time if there is no attraction "Good point. I’m innocently cute. | |||
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"Is is unreasonable to expect to chat at bit first and seemed a pic when you're comfortable to? With so many fake profiles andpic collectors, it's dangerous to be just putting your face out there when anyone could see it. Everyone is entitled to do their thing i here however they want but its a shame so many require it right away and ignore messages with no pic attached. If someone tries to pressurise anyone into doing anything they don’t want to, whether it’s sending a picture or anything else then they are not worth your time OP. You’re right to stick your guns and be cautious "This. You pressurised me into eating a Fish Supper and I was on a diet | |||
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"Is is unreasonable to expect to chat at bit first and seemed a pic when you're comfortable to? With so many fake profiles andpic collectors, it's dangerous to be just putting your face out there when anyone could see it. Everyone is entitled to do their thing i here however they want but its a shame so many require it right away and ignore messages with no pic attached. If someone tries to pressurise anyone into doing anything they don’t want to, whether it’s sending a picture or anything else then they are not worth your time OP. You’re right to stick your guns and be cautious
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"Is is unreasonable to expect to chat at bit first and seemed a pic when you're comfortable to? With so many fake profiles andpic collectors, it's dangerous to be just putting your face out there when anyone could see it. Everyone is entitled to do their thing i here however they want but its a shame so many require it right away and ignore messages with no pic attached. " We don't demand a face pic straightaway, although it is preferable as we don't want to waste our time or anyone else's if there's no attraction. | |||
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"I don’t necessarily need a face pic right away but if the profile is a blank silhouette then I can’t be bothered talking to a shadow. There are so many ways to take half decent pics that don’t reveal your identity but still gives a wee hint of personality (or a wee tease… ) so I do tend to ignore blank profiles due to keeping identity safe/discreet. "This. | |||
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"Is is unreasonable to expect to chat at bit first and seemed a pic when you're comfortable to? With so many fake profiles andpic collectors, it's dangerous to be just putting your face out there when anyone could see it. Everyone is entitled to do their thing i here however they want but its a shame so many require it right away and ignore messages with no pic attached. Some will ask for one right away if this doesn’t suit you just tell them your not comfortable swapping so soon . I do prefer to get face pics out the way quite quickly as it saves time being wasted but I’m talking a good few messages over at least a week or so before exchanging . Just saves time if there is no attraction "Amen to this | |||
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"The other side to the discussion on when you talk to someone for a few days .things seem to be looking good.then you say shall we swap face pics and then there profile disappears off fab. So you've wasted 3 days. It's a tough one but no right or wrong answer to be honest Agreed but for profiles that have been over a year and have a few verifications from, which looks like regulars, then I would find this strange that they delete but from profiles, even a month or so old and no verification or only one verification from another new profile then I can see them deleting for many reasons fake or real I'd still rather have a face pic to be sure but then again they might delete because its going to fast or they're not used to the scene yet and feel uncomfortable this early in their mind to send a face pic but it true, its all ifs and butts "I'm so confused now | |||
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"In my case, I really couldn’t care less about a face pic until I establish an attraction in conversation. You may look absolutely drop dead gorgeous but if there is no mutual connection, it’s game over. "Looks 1st for me then the banter, cant shag someone im not physically attracted to lol | |||
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"What gets me is the profiles with no pics (some times unverified) demanding a face pic in first message lol " If thats how they want to use fab they can, noone says u have to message them or send a pic | |||
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"Is is unreasonable to expect to chat at bit first and seemed a pic when you're comfortable to? With so many fake profiles andpic collectors, it's dangerous to be just putting your face out there when anyone could see it. Everyone is entitled to do their thing i here however they want but its a shame so many require it right away and ignore messages with no pic attached. " For men its a meat market… its very simple first are you good looking enough to fuck, second is your cock big enough / wide enough for said person and then second have you fhat enough to not make it a fuck n go and make them feel used…. Most folk on here are no longer swingers, swingers are the ones socialising with folk before meets, spending time to get to know that person… Most folk ping up a meet now sign on a friday or Saturday and hope that some one sees it they fancy fucking… the rest of us go to socials or clubs and have a banter and sex is just the icing on the cake (if it even gets that far) Play the game, or dont get meets or socials is my advice. If you dont send the pics then you do get past phase one | |||
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"Is is unreasonable to expect to chat at bit first and seemed a pic when you're comfortable to? With so many fake profiles andpic collectors, it's dangerous to be just putting your face out there when anyone could see it. Everyone is entitled to do their thing i here however they want but its a shame so many require it right away and ignore messages with no pic attached. For men its a meat market… its very simple first are you good looking enough to fuck, second is your cock big enough / wide enough for said person and then second have you fhat enough to not make it a fuck n go and make them feel used…. Most folk on here are no longer swingers, swingers are the ones socialising with folk before meets, spending time to get to know that person… Most folk ping up a meet now sign on a friday or Saturday and hope that some one sees it they fancy fucking… the rest of us go to socials or clubs and have a banter and sex is just the icing on the cake (if it even gets that far) Play the game, or dont get meets or socials is my advice. If you dont send the pics then you do get past phase one" Is swinging really swinging if there's no sex? | |||
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"Is is unreasonable to expect to chat at bit first and seemed a pic when you're comfortable to? With so many fake profiles andpic collectors, it's dangerous to be just putting your face out there when anyone could see it. Everyone is entitled to do their thing i here however they want but its a shame so many require it right away and ignore messages with no pic attached. Sex isnt just penetration, theres flirting, chemistry, build up, playing with the mind not just the mind not just the body so i would say yes larger part of swinging doesnt envolve sex For men its a meat market… its very simple first are you good looking enough to fuck, second is your cock big enough / wide enough for said person and then second have you fhat enough to not make it a fuck n go and make them feel used…. Most folk on here are no longer swingers, swingers are the ones socialising with folk before meets, spending time to get to know that person… Most folk ping up a meet now sign on a friday or Saturday and hope that some one sees it they fancy fucking… the rest of us go to socials or clubs and have a banter and sex is just the icing on the cake (if it even gets that far) Play the game, or dont get meets or socials is my advice. If you dont send the pics then you do get past phase one Is swinging really swinging if there's no sex?" | |||
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"My wife says there's got to be some sort of attraction. She won't ever be with someone she's not attracted too and I wouldn't want her to ether. A pic early doors can save so much time and acceleratethe meet. The problem single guys have who don't send them early is they probably go to the back of the queue behind the ones guys that do. I feel bad for the good single guys to be honest there's so much compilation on here so they really need to try stand out from the rest. On average we get 20/25 messages a day and and 95% are similar if not the same copy and pasted messages the send everyone so a pic that gets our attention helps you get a reply. It's as simple as that we don't have time to get to know 25 people a day. " This exactly! | |||
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"My wife says there's got to be some sort of attraction. She won't ever be with someone she's not attracted too and I wouldn't want her to ether. A pic early doors can save so much time and acceleratethe meet. The problem single guys have who don't send them early is they probably go to the back of the queue behind the ones guys that do. I feel bad for the good single guys to be honest there's so much competition on here so they really need to try stand out from the rest. On average we get 20/25 messages a day and and 95% are similar if not the same copy and pasted messages the send everyone so a pic that gets our attention helps you get a reply. It's as simple as that we don't have time to get to know 25 people a day. This exactly! "A always send a pic , think it the norm , think most guys on here have to accept we are always going to have to send millions a messsges to all different ladies to get meets , just the way it is , poor women get bombarded lol , it hard to stand out unless your good at typing patter an shite , so at least if they like the pic it a better chance for both folk | |||
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"I won't ask for a face pic till I feel comfortable sending mine. I do like to see who I'm talking to though (body etc) as there does need to be a bit of attraction in the other person C x" All the folk a ever chatted to want one off the bat now but suppose the body one is good too | |||
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"I ignore messages from silhouettes profiles like yours and if you’re not willing to send a face pic either it’s no use to us. Also all the chat in the world won’t get you anywhere if their is no attraction so face pics early on are important for us "Exactly this.. We have limited time and get a lot of messages like most couples. We don't reply unless people can send a face picture, saves a lot of time. Genuine people will be happy to send a face picture as their intention is to actually meet. | |||
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