FabSwingers.com forum: Attached men

By *igd888 OP Man
34 weeks ago

Inverness

Been on here single and attached? Everyone has there own opinions but used to be women liked attached or married men? Is this still the case or very rare?

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

I dont like them mainly because their availability tends to be rubbish, particularly when their partner is not aware. Lots of promises to meet, but reality is disappointing.

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By *igd888 OP Man
34 weeks ago

Inverness

I can imagine that to be about right. I still fancy a bit of extra fun on here just maby not going to happen. Would be difficult making time sometimes but all the more exiting if it dose happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Exciting for you, but frustrating for us trying to arrange a meet, being let down, and built up to nothing lol

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By *igd888 OP Man
34 weeks ago

Inverness

Still do some women get a kick of taking some married or attached cock? I often find attached women way more fun but same problem very difficult to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

I can only speak for myself.. but no kick experienced.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
34 weeks ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Been on here single and attached? Everyone has there own opinions but used to be women liked attached or married men? Is this still the case or very rare?"
some will so won’t it’s as simple as that really

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By *igd888 OP Man
34 weeks ago

Inverness

Thanks have checked out your profile before miss dynamite. Love your pics .. did see I'm out of age range tho. Do you mind attached?x

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By *leaseCumAgain96Man
33 weeks ago

North Lanarkshire

Never had much luck for a long time here. I find most people don't like attached guys now, it was the opposite years back. People actually liked them.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
33 weeks ago

Edinburgh

While I don't judge I don't meet attached incase of their partner finding out and finding a way to contact me just don't need the drama

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By *wiftieeMan
33 weeks ago

near Glasgow

"I dont like them mainly because their availability tends to be rubbish, particularly when their partner is not aware. Lots of promises to meet, but reality is disappointing."

What you say is very valid, and true.

However, in my case, there's been no sex for about 20 years.

I have been stood up once by a girl, but I've never failed to break an arrangemet.

For me, I can only do what I've done because of the work I do. In the early days, I did the usual 1 off meets, but then have had the pleasure of 2 longish 'relationships'.

Since the last one finished, I've had no success, Fab would seem to be 'ageist', but I live in hope!!

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By *xybumWoman
33 weeks ago

East Kilbride

I’m afraid I do judge and would never meet a cheat. No excuse in my opinion and no one will ever convince me otherwise!

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By *orl1971Couple
33 weeks ago

Glasgow

We don’t meet married or attached men. Just our preference as it’s potential drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

The abuse I get for not wanting to meet attached. I find asking for a social let’s you know who is really single. Kind of puts me of clubs as you have no idea who is attached, not fair on their partners, know a lot of women who get off on it but not for me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

It's the same as married women, feck that.

Quite a while ago I started chatting to a woman, all going well, told me she was single etc... so we met and had fun and a day later she messaged me to tell me that her husband seen her coming into my flats. I didn't even knew she was married ffs. I'm not here for hassle and rather the woman was single or playing with a couple who both want to swing.

If we chose to have fun with a married person, then we cant expect any sympathy if it goes wrong

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By *itty.kat2023Woman
33 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

I've got on my profile that I'm only looking for single men, and that I'll only have a first meet out in public as a social.

I find(if they read it), that the profile alone can stop a lot of people bothering wasting their time messaging me.

As above, availability can be an issue, especially if partner not aware, and I really don't want the drama personally. Been caught unawares in the middle of 2 couples before and it's just a disaster I don't want to repeat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

In my opinion swinging when your attached or married and your partner doesn't know, it's not swinging its cheating, I go out to not meet attached men it's the lying you get from them though particularly when they know you avoid them or the then messages from their Mrs.....

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By *ubbyandHisHotwifeCouple
33 weeks ago

Glasgowish

"We don’t meet married or attached men. Just our preference as it’s potential drama. "

100% no issue with couples in the life who play separately but always double check partners permission

MrsH&HHW

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
33 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

I certainly wouldn't meet a married man. No way. Mainly because I am straight. Not even Fab Straight.

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By *rs grumpyWoman
33 weeks ago

motherwell

They still do. They just don't announce it on the forum as they like to keep the moral high ground.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

I am 100% 'single'

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Way I see it is if his Mrs doesn't want him, why would anyone else.

Plus, as someone else said, too much drama.

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By *p4fun74Man
33 weeks ago

Motherwell

"Been on here single and attached? Everyone has there own opinions but used to be women liked attached or married men? Is this still the case or very rare?some will so won’t it’s as simple as that really "

And what about you? Would you meet a man that's attached?

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By *ide em cowgirlWoman
33 weeks ago

Edinburgh

There must be some women that meet attached men somewhere. It’s personal taste. I don’t as getting meeting time can be hard plus the partner not knowing is a big no no for me as part of this lifestyle I enjoy is the openness and freedom you have and it’s important to be open and honest. I am single so I can enjoy the experience fully and it just seems abit selfish to me but each to their own.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
33 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

There are plenty of married women on here playing without permission. They tend not to advertise it and men don't tend to give a shit.

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By *OSCCOSMITH69Man
33 weeks ago

glasgow

"There must be some women that meet attached men somewhere. It’s personal taste. I don’t as getting meeting time can be hard plus the partner not knowing is a big no no for me as part of this lifestyle I enjoy is the openness and freedom you have and it’s important to be open and honest. I am single so I can enjoy the experience fully and it just seems abit selfish to me but each to their own. "

Thats weird, i keep getting told by couples it’s discretion and secrecy rather than that in the lifestyle.

Nice to see the same opinions as myself for once

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By *ugbyVsYogaCouple (MM)
33 weeks ago

west end

I am single. but been on here attached in the past. I am pretty open minded to meeting married or attached.

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By *ou aint that specialMan
33 weeks ago

falkirk

"Way I see it is if his Mrs doesn't want him, why would anyone else.

Plus, as someone else said, too much drama. "

What a horrible comment to make when you know nothing about these people.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

I prefer attached women, less drama, jealousy,discrete, stay independent and free x

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By *ee69Man
33 weeks ago

glasgow

"I dont like them mainly because their availability tends to be rubbish, particularly when their partner is not aware. Lots of promises to meet, but reality is disappointing.

Tbf I’m attached a always say so within first couple off messages and am honest about my availability, in my experience it the lady’s who let you down with the meets , maybe it’s just me lol , one thing for sure it getting harder to meet folk , either your meeting or no lol

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"Way I see it is if his Mrs doesn't want him, why would anyone else.

Plus, as someone else said, too much drama.

What a horrible comment to make when you know nothing about these people.

If they are married and cheating, what more would I need to know?

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"Exciting for you, but frustrating for us trying to arrange a meet, being let down, and built up to nothing lol"

^ this and then the expectation of "sexting" to fill an immediate need which frankly, leaves me more frustrated which I no longer do.

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By *uriousLad89Man
33 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Way I see it is if his Mrs doesn't want him, why would anyone else.

Plus, as someone else said, too much drama.

What a horrible comment to make when you know nothing about these people.

Totally agree mate

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By *hYouNaughtyKittenWoman
33 weeks ago

Fife

It’s not for me to judge someone else’s circumstances but my experience has been married/attached men are fine to chat with but not great at arranging a meet.

Not exactly surprising so I tend to reserve my time for single men, much easier!

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By *ighland couple 99Couple
33 weeks ago

Inverness

Not interested in attached men/women. Just not our thing

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By *otwifeHusband888Couple
33 weeks ago

Within touching distance

I can see why women don't like it and I can see why some do. Maybe some women on here don't want to admit they like the thought of turning an attached man's head.

The reality is that it's extremely difficult to arrange a meet with an attatched person for obvious reasons. The sex chat is fun but then that starts to get less exciting we find. With no meet to keep it going you eventually just stop talking and move on.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
33 weeks ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Way I see it is if his Mrs doesn't want him, why would anyone else.

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Tbh that’s a little bit presumptuous because there could be many reasons for married or attached guys being here .

It could be him that doesn’t want her .

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

I'm really of the judgement where as if it doesn't affect me then it's none of my buisness ..

What I really don't get is the judgement , no one knows what goes behind closed doors .. but to judge others when you know nothing about them or the situation . Seems there's alot of folk out there willing to take the moral highground when their own morality seems to always be moving the goal posts ..

The answers simple if it's not for you then move along .. everyone has a choice .

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By *ittykitty14Woman
33 weeks ago

greenock

"I’m afraid I do judge and would never meet a cheat. No excuse in my opinion and no one will ever convince me otherwise!"

This !!! I agree 100%

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By *ittykitty14Woman
33 weeks ago

greenock

"I'm really of the judgement where as if it doesn't affect me then it's none of my buisness ..

The answers simple if it's not for you then move along .. everyone has a choice ."

I’m all for personal choice and we never know the full story but as far as I’m concerned there’s never an excuse . And I don’t need or want the drama .. so yeah I will just move along and I wouldn’t criticise the person if they messaged me but it’s my personal choice too

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33 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"I'm really of the judgement where as if it doesn't affect me then it's none of my buisness ..

The answers simple if it's not for you then move along .. everyone has a choice .

Yeah everyone has a choice whether to engage in corresponding or even meeting someone who is attached .. what I don't get is why a stranger would judge someone who has no bearing in their life , and take it upon themselves to be a moral conscience especially when their own is so easily moveable to suit themselves ( not saying you) .. I'm a live and let live kinda person and if it doesn't directly involve me then it's none of my buisness.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"Way I see it is if his Mrs doesn't want him, why would anyone else.

Tbh that’s a little bit presumptuous because there could be many reasons for married or attached guys being here .

It could be him that doesn’t want her .

I actually don't care, it's my view which I'm entitled to hold.

You can offer excuses cheating that's your choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"Way I see it is if his Mrs doesn't want him, why would anyone else.

Plus, as someone else said, too much drama.

What a horrible comment to make when you know nothing about these people.

Shock

Totally agree mate

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
33 weeks ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Way I see it is if his Mrs doesn't want him, why would anyone else.

Tbh that’s a little bit presumptuous because there could be many reasons for married or attached guys being here .

It could be him that doesn’t want her .

I actually don't care, it's my view which I'm entitled to hold.

You can offer excuses cheating that's your choice.

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no one was offering an excuse I was just stating that it was maybe him who didn’t want her & not the other way about .

Everyone has reason but it’s not ways black & white

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By *asper1987Man
33 weeks ago

Glasgow

Single or attached it doesn’t matter as long people are genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"Way I see it is if his Mrs doesn't want him, why would anyone else.

Tbh that’s a little bit presumptuous because there could be many reasons for married or attached guys being here .

It could be him that doesn’t want her .

I actually don't care, it's my view which I'm entitled to hold.

You can offer excuses cheating that's your choice.

no one was offering an excuse I was just stating that it was maybe him who didn’t want her & not the other way about .

Everyone has reason but it’s not ways black & white "

Exactly this.. far too many folk get offended on other people behalfs x

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By *igd888 OP Man
33 weeks ago

Inverness

Oh dear I didn't think this would cause so much upset with the nature of the site. Not had many meets on here but the 2 best have been married women without permission and it certainly seemed to add to the excitement for both parties

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By *igboobiesCouple
33 weeks ago

Saltcoats

it does not bother me if single or attached, we are all here for fun

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By *ustaman85Man
33 weeks ago

here and there

"Oh dear I didn't think this would cause so much upset with the nature of the site. Not had many meets on here but the 2 best have been married women without permission and it certainly seemed to add to the excitement for both parties "

see what you started haha

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By *rettCoolMan
33 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Am with a partner ..sex isn't high on her agenda so hence am on hear .. am a decent guy just looking for a bit of descent fun .. wheres the harm ?

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By *ibliosWoman
33 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"Am with a partner ..sex isn't high on her agenda so hence am on hear .. am a decent guy just looking for a bit of descent fun .. wheres the harm ? "

If they know about it and are happy with it then potentially none. If not they could get pretty hurt (along with anyone else you think it's OK to lie to because you've decided getting a shag is the priority)

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By *rs grumpyWoman
33 weeks ago

motherwell

People have their reasons for being here. In some cases it may even help them to stay in an otherwise happy marriage but meet an unfulfilled need.

What I abhor though is people who actively get off on cheating.

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By *omble 69Man
32 weeks ago

Symington

Agree with your reply if it's the only thing missing in your marriage why leave an otherwise good relationship to seek a new one

If you can fulfill your needs here all the better

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By *assy LassieWoman
32 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

"Agree with your reply if it's the only thing missing in your marriage why leave an otherwise good relationship to seek a new one

If you can fulfill your needs here all the better "

Assuming you have that talk with your partner and are upfront. Otherwise it's just deceit

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By *elsbells2011Couple
32 weeks ago

fife

We don’t really care either way. Someone else’s business isn’t really our responsibility but attached guys tend to be less reliable than single as they are never free and can’t really stick to plans

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

"Been on here single and attached? Everyone has there own opinions but used to be women liked attached or married men? Is this still the case or very rare?"

Nope, never, nadda , no !! Each to their own but i would never knowingly meet a married man

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
32 weeks ago

Glasgow

I personally don’t care if your married

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
32 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Some will, some won't, it's a pretty boring subject tbh! Live and let live, who cares!

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By *exy gentMan
32 weeks ago

Midlothian

"I'm really of the judgement where as if it doesn't affect me then it's none of my buisness ..

The answers simple if it's not for you then move along .. everyone has a choice ."

Well said

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By *wiftieeMan
32 weeks ago

near Glasgow

Both of my longish FWB 'relationships' have been with married ladies!!

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By *issBehave69Man
32 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

Don’t really care tbh. Even if you ask does he know / does she know they’ll lie to you anyway.

It is nice though asking the question what he or she won’t do ……cos you know I will.

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By *rs grumpyWoman
32 weeks ago

motherwell

"Don’t really care tbh. Even if you ask does he know / does she know they’ll lie to you anyway.

It is nice though asking the question what he or she won’t do ……cos you know I will. "

Do you trim toenails?

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By *issBehave69Man
32 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

"Don’t really care tbh. Even if you ask does he know / does she know they’ll lie to you anyway.

It is nice though asking the question what he or she won’t do ……cos you know I will.

Do you trim toenails?"

If it gets you off…..yes

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

My thoughts, been on and off the site for years.

I think most people don't read the profile.

Some profiles will say, some want. I'm single but I woukd never like to be someone's hidden secret unless their partner knew

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By *rs grumpyWoman
32 weeks ago

motherwell

"Don’t really care tbh. Even if you ask does he know / does she know they’ll lie to you anyway.

It is nice though asking the question what he or she won’t do ……cos you know I will.

Do you trim toenails?

If it gets you off…..yes

Nah, it's for him.

Toenails like Quavers.

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By *ookie69Man
32 weeks ago

Whistle Dixie

"My thoughts, been on and off the site for years.

I think most people don't read the profile.

Some profiles will say, some want. I'm single but I woukd never like to be someone's hidden secret unless their partner knew"

So,

Three gorgeous looking married women on a girls night out want to take back to their Hotel room and pump ya silly,

You’re gonna say “Naw”

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By *ustaman85Man
29 weeks ago

here and there

random one, iv was chatting to a lady and getting on well, but she thought i was lying about being married?

is that a thing? as she seems to think it is, i don’t understand it, why would i say i am if im not, surly just hinders my chances or chatting etc

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By *oobsorbumMan
29 weeks ago

in between Glasgow/edinburgh

"Exciting for you, but frustrating for us trying to arrange a meet, being let down, and built up to nothing lol"

Is that not expected after all they are married, poor wives, sleazy husbands

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"I’m afraid I do judge and would never meet a cheat. No excuse in my opinion and no one will ever convince me otherwise!"

'here, here'

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"Way I see it is if his Mrs doesn't want him, why would anyone else.

Plus, as someone else said, too much drama.

What a horrible comment to make when you know nothing about these people.

Yeah a bit too strong for the previous poster but the too much drama is soo true.

However, I totally agree they are with a partner and cheating behind their back ffs, there is not one excuse you, I or anyone can say, they are cheating End of

But if you play with a cheating partner, it is your choice and there is no sympathy if anything goes wrong

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By *ustyWoman
29 weeks ago

inverclyde

If the other half don't know about being on here it's cheating no matter what the circumstances are

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