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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why are some people on here so dissmissive. A mean you see someone is online and you drop them a email cause you are bored and strsight away its either sorry too young, did you not read my profile or they dont reply. A mean fuck sake do some people just not talk, a wasnt like asking you to marry me, or do anything

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By *ouplesloversCouple
over a year ago

near Glasgow

ach dont talk shite lol (is that dismissive)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

that one might be tongue and cheek haha

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By *ouplesloversCouple
over a year ago

near Glasgow

defo but I agree sometimes u think u have asked someone for their 1st born to sacrifice

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By *autious CoupleCouple
over a year ago

home

Shhh I am trying to sleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are some people on here so dissmissive. A mean you see someone is online and you drop them a email cause you are bored and strsight away its either sorry too young, did you not read my profile or they dont reply. A mean fuck sake do some people just not talk, a wasnt like asking you to marry me, or do anything"
you should try being married on here and trying to talk to some folk.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Why are some people on here so dissmissive. A mean you see someone is online and you drop them a email cause you are bored and strsight away its either sorry too young, did you not read my profile or they dont reply. A mean fuck sake do some people just not talk, a wasnt like asking you to marry me, or do anything"
Tell me do you reply to every unsolicited piece of email that drops through your door at home ? I think not so here is no diffrent.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

When you've got 100 mails to go through it gets kinda annoying if people haven't read your profile or age preferences and mail you anyway... So why would I go out my way to chat ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you've got 100 mails to go through it gets kinda annoying if people haven't read your profile or age preferences and mail you anyway... So why would I go out my way to chat ? "
am the same cutie it's just email after email

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

often too many messages to even contemplate replying and people put up preferences because thats what they actually are looking for but too many, especially single males, tend to ignore the profile statements

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Why are some people on here so dissmissive. A mean you see someone is online and you drop them a email cause you are bored and strsight away its either sorry too young, did you not read my profile or they dont reply. A mean fuck sake do some people just not talk, a wasnt like asking you to marry me, or do anythingyou should try being married on here and trying to talk to some folk. "

Feel you man! bloody nightmare!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so from what i can tell from this, is that all the females are rude while the males are just wanting to chat lol. kiddin girls, lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"so from what i can tell from this, is that all the females are rude while the males are just wanting to chat lol. kiddin girls, lol"
Affs good luck with that comment

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"so from what i can tell from this, is that all the females are rude while the males are just wanting to chat lol. kiddin girls, lol"

Or maybe it's guys that mail you without respecting what the ladies want that are rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dare I ask what these mails contain?

I could have a wee guess at the gist.

Subject "hi"

Body "how's u"/"want to chat"/"what u into"/"nice tits"

?

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"so from what i can tell from this, is that all the females are rude while the males are just wanting to chat lol. kiddin girls, lol"

Don't think you're going the right way to make friends and influence people mate.

Understand it's a bit frustrating for single guys, trust me I KNOW!

But be patient and respect the people on here, that'll get you further than being rude, trust me.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well maybe we are wrong but is that not what the chat room is for xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i guess who your messaging may likewise want to do as your doing,,browse the site...message who interests them, and get a wee bit too many messages to deal with to the point they may seem dissmisive. a theory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are some people on here so dissmissive. A mean you see someone is online and you drop them a email cause you are bored and strsight away its either sorry too young, did you not read my profile or they dont reply. A mean fuck sake do some people just not talk, a wasnt like asking you to marry me, or do anythingTell me do you reply to every unsolicited piece of email that drops through your door at home ? I think not so here is no diffrent."

What has junk mail through the letter box got to do with recieving messages on fab?

NO message recieved from other users on fab is EVER unsolicitated!

By the simple fact that the reciever has a profile on here LOOKING for messages/meets!! We DON'T sign up to the post office looking for junk mail!!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Why are some people on here so dissmissive. A mean you see someone is online and you drop them a email cause you are bored and strsight away its either sorry too young, did you not read my profile or they dont reply. A mean fuck sake do some people just not talk, a wasnt like asking you to marry me, or do anythingTell me do you reply to every unsolicited piece of email that drops through your door at home ? I think not so here is no diffrent.

What has junk mail through the letter box got to do with recieving messages on fab?

NO message recieved from other users on fab is EVER unsolicitated!

By the simple fact that the reciever has a profile on here LOOKING for messages/meets!! We DON'T sign up to the post office looking for junk mail!!"

My whole point is u dont reply to every email or junk mail you recieve at home so why should it be any diffrent on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are some people on here so dissmissive. A mean you see someone is online and you drop them a email cause you are bored and strsight away its either sorry too young, did you not read my profile or they dont reply. A mean fuck sake do some people just not talk, a wasnt like asking you to marry me, or do anythingTell me do you reply to every unsolicited piece of email that drops through your door at home ? I think not so here is no diffrent.

What has junk mail through the letter box got to do with recieving messages on fab?

NO message recieved from other users on fab is EVER unsolicitated!

By the simple fact that the reciever has a profile on here LOOKING for messages/meets!! We DON'T sign up to the post office looking for junk mail!!My whole point is u dont reply to every email or junk mail you recieve at home so why should it be any diffrent on here?"

And my point is that you opt in to recieve that junk mail at home! But you do opt in to recieve messages on fab when you create a profile! So, my point is, whats junk mail got to do with recieving messages on fab!

Junk mail through the letter box has NOTHING WHATSOEVER to do with getting mail on fab!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Why are some people on here so dissmissive. A mean you see someone is online and you drop them a email cause you are bored and strsight away its either sorry too young, did you not read my profile or they dont reply. A mean fuck sake do some people just not talk, a wasnt like asking you to marry me, or do anythingTell me do you reply to every unsolicited piece of email that drops through your door at home ? I think not so here is no diffrent.

What has junk mail through the letter box got to do with recieving messages on fab?

NO message recieved from other users on fab is EVER unsolicitated!

By the simple fact that the reciever has a profile on here LOOKING for messages/meets!! We DON'T sign up to the post office looking for junk mail!!My whole point is u dont reply to every email or junk mail you recieve at home so why should it be any diffrent on here?

And my point is that you opt in to recieve that junk mail at home! But you do opt in to recieve messages on fab when you create a profile! So, my point is, whats junk mail got to do with recieving messages on fab!

Junk mail through the letter box has NOTHING WHATSOEVER to do with getting mail on fab! "

your obviously not getting my point so i wont bother with my time explaining any further i think its actually self exlainatory

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

OK, in my best scouse accent,

"Calm Down, Calm Down".

Ain't we all here to have fun, not bicker over the small stuff?

Anyone up for a shag????

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"OK, in my best scouse accent,

"Calm Down, Calm Down".

Ain't we all here to have fun, not bicker over the small stuff?

Anyone up for a shag????

"

yeah snog fuck and avoid till next time...oppps wrong post hee hee

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"OK, in my best scouse accent,

"Calm Down, Calm Down".

Ain't we all here to have fun, not bicker over the small stuff?

Anyone up for a shag????

yeah snog fuck and avoid till next time...oppps wrong post hee hee "

DOH! Blonde moment again??

Or just trying to lighten the mood?

In which case, what makes ye think i'd LET ye fuck me?!?!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"OK, in my best scouse accent,

"Calm Down, Calm Down".

Ain't we all here to have fun, not bicker over the small stuff?

Anyone up for a shag????

yeah snog fuck and avoid till next time...oppps wrong post hee hee

DOH! Blonde moment again??

Or just trying to lighten the mood?

In which case, what makes ye think i'd LET ye fuck me?!?!"

eh aint all guys desperate on here opppps silly me thought they were hee hee...kidding of course guys .

Nah ud let me alright lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha I'd let you but think most guys would x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Ha I'd let you but think most guys would x"
Hence my post above lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not desperate, just horny lol. And you have good pics lol xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"It's not desperate, just horny lol. And you have good pics lol xx"
Thank you xxx

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"It's not desperate, just horny lol. And you have good pics lol xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always try and answer all our msgs even if its a no thanks! I personaly dont see the point in chattin through mail to some1 that we arent going to meet, in sayin that if we are in the chat rooms we chat to people even if we not interested coz its only chat and thats wit the rooms are for

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Why are some people on here so dissmissive. A mean you see someone is online and you drop them a email cause you are bored and strsight away its either sorry too young, did you not read my profile or they dont reply. A mean fuck sake do some people just not talk, a wasnt like asking you to marry me, or do anythingTell me do you reply to every unsolicited piece of email that drops through your door at home ? I think not so here is no diffrent.

What has junk mail through the letter box got to do with recieving messages on fab?

NO message recieved from other users on fab is EVER unsolicitated!

By the simple fact that the reciever has a profile on here LOOKING for messages/meets!! We DON'T sign up to the post office looking for junk mail!!"

Miss Dynomite is correct. By setting up a profile you are detailing the people you hope to get messages from, and that isn't everyone on the site. If you don't want messages from couples or singles or whatever then they shouldn't be surprised if they don't receive a reply. It is similar to junk mail.

You'd be as well claiming that by living at this address and having a letter box in the door you are inviting mail from everyone.

Fwiw, we do actually reply to (almost) all the messages we receive. The exception being those that haven't even read the most basic part of our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are some people on here so dissmissive. A mean you see someone is online and you drop them a email cause you are bored and strsight away its either sorry too young, did you not read my profile or they dont reply. A mean fuck sake do some people just not talk, a wasnt like asking you to marry me, or do anythingTell me do you reply to every unsolicited piece of email that drops through your door at home ? I think not so here is no diffrent.

What has junk mail through the letter box got to do with recieving messages on fab?

NO message recieved from other users on fab is EVER unsolicitated!

By the simple fact that the reciever has a profile on here LOOKING for messages/meets!! We DON'T sign up to the post office looking for junk mail!!

Miss Dynomite is correct. By setting up a profile you are detailing the people you hope to get messages from, and that isn't everyone on the site. If you don't want messages from couples or singles or whatever then they shouldn't be surprised if they don't receive a reply. It is similar to junk mail.

You'd be as well claiming that by living at this address and having a letter box in the door you are inviting mail from everyone.

Fwiw, we do actually reply to (almost) all the messages we receive. The exception being those that haven't even read the most basic part of our profile."

Thats what filters are for. If you dn't want mail from a certain criteria, filter them!

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Why are some people on here so dissmissive. A mean you see someone is online and you drop them a email cause you are bored and strsight away its either sorry too young, did you not read my profile or they dont reply. A mean fuck sake do some people just not talk, a wasnt like asking you to marry me, or do anythingTell me do you reply to every unsolicited piece of email that drops through your door at home ? I think not so here is no diffrent.

What has junk mail through the letter box got to do with recieving messages on fab?

NO message recieved from other users on fab is EVER unsolicitated!

By the simple fact that the reciever has a profile on here LOOKING for messages/meets!! We DON'T sign up to the post office looking for junk mail!!

Miss Dynomite is correct. By setting up a profile you are detailing the people you hope to get messages from, and that isn't everyone on the site. If you don't want messages from couples or singles or whatever then they shouldn't be surprised if they don't receive a reply. It is similar to junk mail.

You'd be as well claiming that by living at this address and having a letter box in the door you are inviting mail from everyone.

Fwiw, we do actually reply to (almost) all the messages we receive. The exception being those that haven't even read the most basic part of our profile.

Thats what filters are for. If you dn't want mail from a certain criteria, filter them! "

We don't filter as there will be occasional people we chat to outwith our meeting preferences.

If someone clearly hasn't read the profile then they don't deserve a reply. It doesn't bother us as it's their own time they are wasting. And they can waste even more time if they want to whine about it on the forums.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


" If you dn't want mail from a certain criteria, filter them! "

That would only be valid if there were many many more filters than there are just now.

We can't filter by distance, marital status, can / can't accommodate, height, sexuality.......(to name just a few)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dare I ask what these mails contain?

I could have a wee guess at the gist.

Subject "hi"

Body "how's u"/"want to chat"/"what u into"/"nice tits"

?"

you forgot.....

wanna fuck

I'm passing your way in an hour

great profile

great pictures

you're sexy

I'm parked up in my lorry just up the road

what kinks are you into

are those your legs

i know i'm out your age range, but....

you're up late

you're up early

what size are those tits

etc etc etc

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Dare I ask what these mails contain?

I could have a wee guess at the gist.

Subject "hi"

Body "how's u"/"want to chat"/"what u into"/"nice tits"

?

you forgot.....

wanna fuck

I'm passing your way in an hour

great profile

great pictures

you're sexy

I'm parked up in my lorry just up the road

what kinks are you into

are those your legs

i know i'm out your age range, but....

you're up late

you're up early

what size are those tits

etc etc etc

"

I think you have captured most of them lol that's why I have over 400+ unread!

Ooops did I just admit that

Plus I look at the profile before the message and if they clearly do not meet what I am looking for, why the hell should I bother?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Why are some people on here so dissmissive. A mean you see someone is online and you drop them a email cause you are bored and strsight away its either sorry too young, did you not read my profile or they dont reply. A mean fuck sake do some people just not talk, a wasnt like asking you to marry me, or do anythingTell me do you reply to every unsolicited piece of email that drops through your door at home ? I think not so here is no diffrent.

What has junk mail through the letter box got to do with recieving messages on fab?

NO message recieved from other users on fab is EVER unsolicitated!

By the simple fact that the reciever has a profile on here LOOKING for messages/meets!! We DON'T sign up to the post office looking for junk mail!!

Miss Dynomite is correct. By setting up a profile you are detailing the people you hope to get messages from, and that isn't everyone on the site. If you don't want messages from couples or singles or whatever then they shouldn't be surprised if they don't receive a reply. It is similar to junk mail.

You'd be as well claiming that by living at this address and having a letter box in the door you are inviting mail from everyone.

Fwiw, we do actually reply to (almost) all the messages we receive. The exception being those that haven't even read the most basic part of our profile.

Thats what filters are for. If you dn't want mail from a certain criteria, filter them! "

I do have filters in place but that doesnt mean that every Tom Dick or Harry that mails me deserves a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dare I ask what these mails contain?

I could have a wee guess at the gist.

Subject "hi"

Body "how's u"/"want to chat"/"what u into"/"nice tits"

?

you forgot.....

wanna fuck

I'm passing your way in an hour

great profile

great pictures

you're sexy

I'm parked up in my lorry just up the road

what kinks are you into

are those your legs

i know i'm out your age range, but....

you're up late

you're up early

what size are those tits

etc etc etc

I think you have captured most of them lol that's why I have over 400+ unread!

Ooops did I just admit that

Plus I look at the profile before the message and if they clearly do not meet what I am looking for, why the hell should I bother? "

yep.....sometimes it's just plain bloody boring

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