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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi to all the fabbers,

Was just wondering iv been on the site few weeks and not had any women/couples actually contact me. It's always been myself trying to initiate a chat.

I realise that there's so many guys to chose from. Any ideas

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Just keep doing what you're doing & join in more on the forums. In a year I think about 3 women have contacted me without me sending a message first. That's just how it goes. Doesn't mean you can't still have loads of fun.

Just chill & it'll happen when it happens. It isn't dial-a-shag :p

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha dial a shag, well that's good to know at least I know it's not jus me. Thanks

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Just keep doing what you're doing & join in more on the forums. In a year I think about 3 women have contacted me without me sending a message first. That's just how it goes. Doesn't mean you can't still have loads of fun.

Just chill & it'll happen when it happens. It isn't dial-a-shag :p"

I have to agree with my learned friend. You get out what you put in. Insta-shag is a nightclub on a fri/sat night followed by the walk of shame. Fab swingers is intelligent, funny, sexy people who like to have fun with their friends

Have fun, get involved, maybe try a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever messaged a guy after some banter on the forums, try joining in and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the messages. I was thinking of trying a social but would be very nervous. Well il keep going and see what the site brings me. Cheers

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Intelligent, funny & sexy? Speak for yourself man!! :p

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well sounds good il try and take more of a interest in the forums as to be honest I didn't really add much. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not sure what it is , I just seem to have endless amount of ladies and couples constantly harrasing me for sex , it getting to the stage now where i think i will employ someone to answer all my messages ,

Jesus is that the time ... time to get up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol I wish I had the women banging down my door ( pardon the pun) there are a lot of really sexy and funny women. I just need to meet them x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

If i like the look of someone i have no problems mailing them and have actually got some meets from doing just that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wish you would mail me lol. Only time iv wished I was older x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I wish you would mail me lol. Only time iv wished I was older x"
Lol good luck xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wonder if I could change my birth certificate mmmm x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I wonder if I could change my birth certificate mmmm x"
lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Or just your mind lol

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I have mailed guys in the past but usually through what I've seen on the forums

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I think we should have women mail day where its only females who can mail first that day ...will be a quiet day in the fab post office that day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or try in chat....gives you a feel to someone's personality. and maybe a look at them if a cam is on xx

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

To OP - just an observation. Your profile wording comes across as a bit me me me. (using I'm a fair few times.)

Also your age preference is 18 - 99. Would you really shag a 99 year old????

Please don't take this as knocking your profile - just offering my humble tuppence worth. Part of the difficulty in profile writing is ya gotta think like a women. If ya crack that nut, gonnae let me know.

Seriously though, join the chat or a social - peeps need to feel safe and trusting before agreeing to meets.

Hope this helps.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"If i like the look of someone i have no problems mailing them and have actually got some meets from doing just that "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To OP - just an observation. Your profile wording comes across as a bit me me me. (using I'm a fair few times.)

Also your age preference is 18 - 99. Would you really shag a 99 year old????

Please don't take this as knocking your profile - just offering my humble tuppence worth. Part of the difficulty in profile writing is ya gotta think like a women. If ya crack that nut, gonnae let me know.

Seriously though, join the chat or a social - peeps need to feel safe and trusting before agreeing to meets.

Hope this helps. "

Corf Corf maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean.............women and couples message guys???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i see a guys profile that takes my fancy then i will mail him...no harm done if they say no thanks!!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If i see a guys profile that takes my fancy then i will mail him...no harm done if they say no thanks!!! Xx "

Just hit me up then cakes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont tell them that you are a child killer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If i see a guys profile that takes my fancy then i will mail him...no harm done if they say no thanks!!! Xx

Just hit me up then cakes lol "

so you can say no thanks lol

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"You mean.............women and couples message guys??????? "

It has been known lol. Not always good though!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im more of a winker lol

auds xx

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"im more of a winker lol

auds xx"

So I see - with me it's a nervous tick lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mean.............women and couples message guys???????

It has been known lol. Not always good though!!! "

I'm obviously doing something wrong!

Maybe I should start one of these 'look at me/what's wrong with my profile' threads??

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By *ombowieMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"If i see a guys profile that takes my fancy then i will mail him...no harm done if they say no thanks!!! Xx "
just MSG you take a look at my profile ta lol ??

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

on a fortnight had a by your verification a very enjoyable meet whats the problem people been on far longer and never had a meet

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Thanks for the messages. I was thinking of trying a social but would be very nervous. Well il keep going and see what the site brings me. Cheers"

I know that feeling.

Been here nearly a year and had about two ladies contact me until i discovered the forums.

Not saying it will lead to instant shags, but you will get to know some nice people.

Going to my first social on the 5th btw.

Only got the courage to do it by chatting in the forums.

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