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By (user no longer on site) OP   
38 weeks ago

Hi all

Looking for advice on how to approach my wife into cuckolding?

Does anyone have any stories how they approached this? Wife has a great sex drive but not sure how approaching opening up to new experiences. I know this has probably been discussed before.

Thanks

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By *uietbloke67Man
38 weeks ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Sneak up behind her

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By *ittleMizzNaughty88.Woman
38 weeks ago

Renfrewshire

Have you ever spoken about fantasies? Or is it yours?

Is it something wife has mentioned?

Maybe get her to join on a couple's profile see what she thinks!

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By *ellinever70Woman
38 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Approach her at your peril

Because once it's out the box there's no taking it back

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By *agnar73Man
38 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"Approach her at your peril

Because once it's out the box there's no taking it back "

Had difficult relationship In past and once physical contact or affection goes, near impossible to get back.

I’d be cautious OP.

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By *omeplaywithus400Couple
38 weeks ago

Glasgow

I’d maybe suggest putting on some porn with that theme and gauge her reaction?

Good way to start a convo about it without fully outing your fantasy if you’re worried she would be uncomfortable with it ? Just an idea x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago

This is a great idea thank and will go down this route. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago

Wife has only ever mentioned it in jesting whenever watching a movie or something like that.

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
37 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"Hi all

Looking for advice on how to approach my wife into cuckolding?

Does anyone have any stories how they approached this? Wife has a great sex drive but not sure how approaching opening up to new experiences. I know this has probably been discussed before.

Thanks"

On all fours, offering her the lead that's dangling from your collar!?

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By *uietbloke67Man
37 weeks ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Well....what happened.

You cannot be leaving is in the lurch here mate?

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By *laireandAndyCouple
37 weeks ago

Highlands

Show her your profile and take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"Wife has only ever mentioned it in jesting whenever watching a movie or something like that."

There’s always a little truth behind every joke.

Maybe put yourself in a situation where the theme comes up, sort of feed her the joke.

Then elaborate on it. Playfully ask questions about it, and let it organically evolve into a serious discussion.

If it’s something she’s ‘joked’ about, there’s a strong possibility she’s giving you a hint..

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By *thwiltsmMan
36 weeks ago

salisbury


"Wife has only ever mentioned it in jesting whenever watching a movie or something like that."

Is that her way of gauging a reaction though?

Sounds like the perfect time to admit you would be turned on seeing her in action.

Do make it all about her though and say how erotic it would be to watch her play.

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By *asmine_23Woman
36 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"Well....what happened.

You cannot be leaving is in the lurch here mate?"

Was thinking the same thing hahaha, c’monnnnnn

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By *rs grumpyWoman
36 weeks ago

motherwell

Would be funny if the Mrs had done a runner with the guy he introduced her to

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"Would be funny if the Mrs had done a runner with the guy he introduced her to "

I think sometimes that’s what the woman is looking to do or definitely crossed her mind.

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By *ockboy77Man
36 weeks ago

Angus, and Aberdeen area

Messaging with a guy who wants this but his wife isn’t responding..

Interesting in how it goes…

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By *rs grumpyWoman
36 weeks ago

motherwell


"Messaging with a guy who wants this but his wife isn’t responding..

Interesting in how it goes…"

This would scream red flag to me.

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By *imHerAndWhoCouple
36 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Approach her at your peril

Because once it's out the box there's no taking it back "

So true!

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"Approach her at your peril

Because once it's out the box there's no taking it back "

Yeah I’ll second this. It’s a great deal different given the desired outcome for both.

I’ve found that talking is great but evolving your preferences, kinks and desires is far better over time than just thrusting something so potentially difficult to deal with in her face.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"Approach her at your peril

Because once it's out the box there's no taking it back "

Couldn't agree more, part of cuckolding is giving up power so once you open that door...not much chance in closing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"Messaging with a guy who wants this but his wife isn’t responding..

Interesting in how it goes…

This would scream red flag to me. "

This .. if the wife isn't responding then she doesnae want you , simple as that

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By *rs grumpyWoman
36 weeks ago

motherwell


"Messaging with a guy who wants this but his wife isn’t responding..

Interesting in how it goes…

This would scream red flag to me.

This .. if the wife isn't responding then she doesnae want you , simple as that "

Scary as fuck the amount of folk who think a "wee bit cajoling and persuasion" is required to get a woman to have sex with another guy. The reality of the situation is often that the husband is a bullying prick and any guy worth his salt on here would recognise that and walk away. I know plenty who have.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"Messaging with a guy who wants this but his wife isn’t responding..

Interesting in how it goes…

This would scream red flag to me.

This .. if the wife isn't responding then she doesnae want you , simple as that

Scary as fuck the amount of folk who think a "wee bit cajoling and persuasion" is required to get a woman to have sex with another guy. The reality of the situation is often that the husband is a bullying prick and any guy worth his salt on here would recognise that and walk away. I know plenty who have."

Totally agree 100% .. no one should feel forced into anything because their partner would like it x

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By *dinburghianMan
36 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Been reading this post with some interest. My wife is very shy when it comes to sex. She does know that I am on here as a single bloke and is happy with it. My thing not for her is her comment. I am interested for her to have some fun with another bloke. However we have spoken about this and she feels it would be betraying me. The other side to this his she has said to me I can have some fun as long as she does not know. She even admits about think about a bbc when we are having sex. Interested in comments

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By *rs grumpyWoman
36 weeks ago

motherwell

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By *rs grumpyWoman
36 weeks ago

motherwell


"Been reading this post with some interest. My wife is very shy when it comes to sex. She does know that I am on here as a single bloke and is happy with it. My thing not for her is her comment. I am interested for her to have some fun with another bloke. However we have spoken about this and she feels it would be betraying me. The other side to this his she has said to me I can have some fun as long as she does not know. She even admits about think about a bbc when we are having sex. Interested in comments "

She's said it's not for her. She's answered your question.

You've said she's shy but she's been open enough to have the discussion with you and told you about her fantasies which is more than a lot of women would do.

Your fantasies of your wife fucking another man are exactly that. Your fantasies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago

No update as of yet sorry.

It not something I'm going to rush into but explorer slowly. It can change dynamics of the relationship and that why asked for advise on how people approached it.

If she did agree would need to be the right person etc and everyone is comfortable and up front.

If she not up for it some things would need to remain a fantasy.

If anything changes I'll update the thread.

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By *asmine_23Woman
36 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"No update as of yet sorry.

It not something I'm going to rush into but explorer slowly. It can change dynamics of the relationship and that why asked for advise on how people approached it.

If she did agree would need to be the right person etc and everyone is comfortable and up front.

If she not up for it some things would need to remain a fantasy.

If anything changes I'll update the thread."

Awwww mate you had us at the edge of our seats

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago

My apologises, depending on how this goes it could be moved to the stories and fantasy thread.

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By *ash0000Man
36 weeks ago

Southwest

Keep hoping, you never know.

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By *agnar73Man
36 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"No update as of yet sorry.

It not something I'm going to rush into but explorer slowly. It can change dynamics of the relationship and that why asked for advise on how people approached it.

If she did agree would need to be the right person etc and everyone is comfortable and up front.

If she not up for it some things would need to remain a fantasy.

If anything changes I'll update the thread."

Cheers. Hope things work out for you.

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