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By *oha OP   Man
39 weeks ago

Forfar

why are men 30+ not interesting to women? Everyone has a filter for ages 40+, why is that? what's wrong with men at 30? Or is there something wrong with me?

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Try being in your 40/s

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Just wait till you're over 40, straight on the fab scrapheap

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By *oha OP   Man
39 weeks ago

Forfar


"Just wait till you're over 40, straight on the fab scrapheap "

thanks , I'm in no hurry to grow old

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By *ittleMizzNaughty88.Woman
39 weeks ago

Renfrewshire

Like guys in 20s/30s asking you to a gaff.

Or stupid messages asking you to teach them a thing or two.

Or those age groups asking you to play mummy. I could go on all night.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago


"why are men 30+ not interesting to women? Everyone has a filter for ages 40+, why is that? what's wrong with men at 30? Or is there something wrong with me?"

Don’t take it personal, do a search and always tick “I am age looking for” to find people looking for age you are. A lot of couples or women don’t want to meet people close to their children’s age (why I won’t meet men 18-25) I also see you are a smoker, and a lot of people won’t meet smokers, again use the search and look for fellow smokers or people who meet smokers. You also can’t accommodate, so again only look for people in search that can and best of luck OP.

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By *oha OP   Man
39 weeks ago

Forfar


"Like guys in 20s/30s asking you to a gaff.

Or stupid messages asking you to teach them a thing or two.

Or those age groups asking you to play mummy. I could go on all night. "

yes, there are a lot of fools, but there are also smart guys who already know how to do everything and only want to enjoy women

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By *adbury girlWoman
39 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"Just wait till you're over 40, straight on the fab scrapheap

thanks , I'm in no hurry to grow old"

Ah there in lies your problem, we don’t like to think of 40’s and 50’s as growing old yet you just inferred they are

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By *eroLondonMan
39 weeks ago

Covent Garden

Only roughly 30 men (or more) not interested in women??

What's this confounded world coming to?

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Over 50 here, was v quiet for a long time, however, things have picked up of late, seems a few women are into the silver fox ??

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago


"why are men 30+ not interesting to women? Everyone has a filter for ages 40+, why is that? what's wrong with men at 30? Or is there something wrong with me?"

Ffs try being 54, 6ft 1, hung, sexy as feck, powerful, amazing sexual voice, great patter and sexy eyes. It's no funny, I wish I was your age again

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By *igboobiesCouple
39 weeks ago

Saltcoats


"why are men 30+ not interesting to women? Everyone has a filter for ages 40+, why is that? what's wrong with men at 30? Or is there something wrong with me?

Ffs try being 54, 6ft 1, hung, sexy as feck, powerful, amazing sexual voice, great patter and sexy eyes. It's no funny, I wish I was your age again "

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By *hYouNaughtyKittenWoman
39 weeks ago

Fife


"Ffs try being 54, 6ft 1, hung, sexy as feck, powerful, amazing sexual voice, great patter and sexy eyes. It's no funny, I wish I was your age again "

The struggle is real!

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By *oha OP   Man
39 weeks ago

Forfar

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By *oha OP   Man
39 weeks ago

Forfar


"why are men 30+ not interesting to women? Everyone has a filter for ages 40+, why is that? what's wrong with men at 30? Or is there something wrong with me?

Ffs try being 54, 6ft 1, hung, sexy as feck, powerful, amazing sexual voice, great patter and sexy eyes. It's no funny, I wish I was your age again "

even 20-year-old girls are looking for men 50+, couples 40+ are looking for older men) you’re at a great age) I just don’t understand why everyone thinks that guys under 30 are stupid and incapable of anything?)

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago


"why are men 30+ not interesting to women? Everyone has a filter for ages 40+, why is that? what's wrong with men at 30? Or is there something wrong with me?

Ffs try being 54, 6ft 1, hung, sexy as feck, powerful, amazing sexual voice, great patter and sexy eyes. It's no funny, I wish I was your age again

even 20-year-old girls are looking for men 50+, couples 40+ are looking for older men) you’re at a great age) I just don’t understand why everyone thinks that guys under 30 are stupid and incapable of anything?)"

I wish I was in my 30s again, I’m sure there is lots of woman that are into guys your age. If your that hung up on it change your age I’m sure you can change your age one time.

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By *hYouNaughtyKittenWoman
39 weeks ago

Fife


"I wish I was in my 30s again, I’m sure there is lots of woman that are into guys your age. If your that hung up on it change your age I’m sure you can change your age one time. "

Don’t lie about your age, that’s terrible advice

The best advice that’s given on here all the time is that going to clubs is a great way to meet people and get your face known.

You start lying about something as basic as your age, it’s never going to go well.

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By *oha OP   Man
39 weeks ago

Forfar


"I wish I was in my 30s again, I’m sure there is lots of woman that are into guys your age. If your that hung up on it change your age I’m sure you can change your age one time.

Don’t lie about your age, that’s terrible advice

The best advice that’s given on here all the time is that going to clubs is a great way to meet people and get your face known.

You start lying about something as basic as your age, it’s never going to go well."

yes, I support you here, I don’t want to start communication with a lie

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By *ig TennentsMan
39 weeks ago

Ayrshire

As a guy in his last few days of his 30’s I’m just wanting on my inbox exploding when I move up an age category lol

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago


"As a guy in his last few days of his 30’s I’m just wanting on my inbox exploding when I move up an age category lol "

Just you wait your inbox will be on fire and welcome to the over 40s club buddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago


"I wish I was in my 30s again, I’m sure there is lots of woman that are into guys your age. If your that hung up on it change your age I’m sure you can change your age one time.

Don’t lie about your age, that’s terrible advice

The best advice that’s given on here all the time is that going to clubs is a great way to meet people and get your face known.

You start lying about something as basic as your age, it’s never going to go well."

You’re right my advice wasn’t that good but what else can you say if the boy is complaining about his age ? That’s why I said change your age can’t be any clearer than that.

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By *he_Wite_NiteMan
39 weeks ago

Usually Dundee and around

Nearly 50, and not on the fab scrap heap!

I manage to get meets.

I think a positive attitude helps as well as the right attitude and looking for fabsters who share your interests and for whom you are what they are looking for.

If they have under 40s on their profile, fine... Saves wasting time when you are not their thing...

Happy fabbing!

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By *itty Jack SparrowMan
39 weeks ago

Glasgow

By and large fab is a 35+ crowd. The Feeld app is much better for younger people. Especially singletons.

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By *redwilma666Couple
39 weeks ago

Kilbirnie


"why are men 30+ not interesting to women? Everyone has a filter for ages 40+, why is that? what's wrong with men at 30? Or is there something wrong with me?"

If you think 30+ is bad, try doubling it (60+). We go to clubs only & still very busy

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By *rs grumpyWoman
39 weeks ago

motherwell

I can't speak for younger women but I find that men closer to my age are easier to get along with. 30ish men nowadays seems much more immature than when I was in my 30s. Or maybe that's just cause I'm older. Who knows.

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By *ife NinjaMan
39 weeks ago

Dunfermline

They prefer us grey Lords

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By *eiaorganaWoman
39 weeks ago

Dundee

I prefer my men over 30, not got much interest for men under that as most seem to think this is tinder or a knocking shop rather than a lifestyle choice.

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By *allBBWWoman
39 weeks ago

North Ayrshire

I'm 39 and have my age filters at 40-60...because that's what I like (and it helps keep my inbox managable). People have their preferences, just like you will have yours. You just need to keep going to find your people.

I'd agree about going do socials, as it gives people the chance to know you, as a person, rather than just fab by numbers, if you know what I mean?

Sincere good luck xx

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By *ide em cowgirlWoman
39 weeks ago

Edinburgh

There are plenty women looking for younger men seems your looking in the wrong places.

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By *randmrsG123Couple
39 weeks ago

Port Glasgow


"why are men 30+ not interesting to women? Everyone has a filter for ages 40+, why is that? what's wrong with men at 30? Or is there something wrong with me?

Don’t take it personal, do a search and always tick “I am age looking for” to find people looking for age you are. A lot of couples or women don’t want to meet people close to their children’s age (why I won’t meet men 18-25) I also see you are a smoker, and a lot of people won’t meet smokers, again use the search and look for fellow smokers or people who meet smokers. You also can’t accommodate, so again only look for people in search that can and best of luck OP."

This plays a big part in why we look for couples our age or older.

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