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Fantasies To Try In Life or Leave Just As Fantasies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago

Was chatting with a non fab member and got onto chat about sex, honest, it wasn’t me, it was her

Anyways she was talking about fantasies and some she wants to try but some might never happen or even way out there and I said to her ‘some of them could be just left as a fantasy and never try but think about during your life’ and she was in agreement.

So the question is: are there fantasies that you think about but quite happy to leave as a fantasy for the rest of your life and never try?

Fantasies could be those unrestrained, unrestricted things you wanted to try OR left as ‘don’t want to try’ but are intrigued and arousing. !!!

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By *agnar73Man
40 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

I think I was at point two years ago where I wondered if I’d ever have Sex again.

Obviously grateful that I have and also ticked off some stuff that I honestly never thought I’d be doing.

So if something else, I’d like to do happens, then great, but I’m happy learning as I go here.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
40 weeks ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I’ve a few things I’d liked to have tried with a trusted playmate but think now they will be left as fantasies never to happen sadly

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By *hyme2020Woman
40 weeks ago

Glasgow Scotland

I have numerous fantasies that I want to try out, but only if I can build up enough trust with someone I am meeting regularly and are friends with. The offers to do certain fantasies with randoms are just not going to cut it for me. I only get one chance at a first attempt to fulfil it, so I don’t want it ruined with the wrong person/people. I feel a lot of the time it just won’t ever happen!

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By *ittleMizzNaughty88.Woman
40 weeks ago

Renfrewshire

Done most of my fantasies that I loved & was everything I wanted in them.

One not so good but was probably just the wrong choice of people for that one. Will visit it again!

So any Paul Hollywood lookalikes police officers. My inbox is open!

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By *luebell888Woman
40 weeks ago

Glasgowish

If I have a fantasy then I will make it reality. Life is too short to have regrets.

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By *nver40Man
40 weeks ago

Inverness

Fully agree that life is too short. Life is for living! Try everything while you can and live those dreams…

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By *panksspankedMan
40 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Still got a few on the bucket list but I've had fun fulfilling some of mine too. I can't really complain

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I agree with you horsey, I think some are def left as fantasies, mainly the old mother in law/ step mum kind. Ones that have the potential to cause hurt are never ever a good idea imo

As with every straight or bi male, a mff was the top of my list at the start of my journey and it was more amazing than I’d ever thought. That being said, people do have bad experiences such as guys not getting hard due to nerves or the scenario being clunky and that causes such a let down for people.

I’d say, if you are to push the boat out and make a fantasy a reality, just make sure you pick the right people.

As Bluebell says above, life is too short to have regrets but don’t regret rushing into it either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"I agree with you horsey, I think some are def left as fantasies, mainly the old mother in law/ step mum kind. Ones that have the potential to cause hurt are never ever a good idea imo

As with every straight or bi male, a mff was the top of my list at the start of my journey and it was more amazing than I’d ever thought. That being said, people do have bad experiences such as guys not getting hard due to nerves or the scenario being clunky and that causes such a let down for people.

I’d say, if you are to push the boat out and make a fantasy a reality, just make sure you pick the right people.

As Bluebell says above, life is too short to have regrets but don’t regret rushing into it either. "

Yeah I understand many who keep their fantasies as fantasies to look back and think of as in reality it might have been too much for them.

Me personally, nope, no fantasies left to do, have done tons of mental things that even a Porn star would think Ffs wooowwww but yip, we are always learning, experiencing and enjoying something new.

For some, life is too short, 100% but for some, they are happy the way it is

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By *cottish30Man
40 weeks ago

aberdeen


"If I have a fantasy then I will make it reality. Life is too short to have regrets."

Exactly this!

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By *hebirdsMan
40 weeks ago

Haddington

For me fantasies should generally be viewed to remain just that, a fantasy, as they cross a line.

A bucket list is attainable activities.

I have found though that with the right person/people some fantasies can be enacted but unless it is with the right people there is no point trying as it will be a disappointment.

The mental connection, the physical attraction, the shared level of kinkiness all required.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Think I’ve pretty much fulfilled my fantasies. Most have been everything I hoped for, a couple weren’t. An unexpected element was the sheer fun and laughs you can have with the right person. For me that’s an important element and not one you can plan

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By *otmale5Man
40 weeks ago

glasgow

I think fantasies are only unfulfilled sexual desires. Unless , of course , your fantasy is having sex with a stranger, I believe it’s often important to fulfill it with the right person and in the right settings. Otherwise it remains meaningless.. I’ve had the pleasure of some pretty fun and very exciting experiences over the years and despite my maturity , still have that sexual fantasy urge limited only by my imagination. I’m sure many mature members will feel the same .

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By *omeplaywithus400Couple
40 weeks ago

Glasgow

I think fantasies should be tried , granted they don’t always turn out to be how you imagined . However you can still have the fantasy the way you imagined it - if that makes sense?

My moto is your better to regret what you have done than regret what you have not ! Could be the best time of your life and you would never know . If not - put it down to experience x

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"I think fantasies should be tried , granted they don’t always turn out to be how you imagined . However you can still have the fantasy the way you imagined it - if that makes sense?

My moto is your better to regret what you have done than regret what you have not ! Could be the best time of your life and you would never know . If not - put it down to experience x"

Exactly

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