FabSwingers.com forum: Attached

By *heemuffinman OP Man
47 weeks ago

Larkhall

Anyone think there should be seperate section for attached people or willing to meet attached people, seems to be a lot of abuse flung around on both sides for this

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By *inkycarolineTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Kilwinning

Good idea

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By *emini58Woman
47 weeks ago

Central belt

Yes ....lot of guys playing at being single but attached..no thanks

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By *heemuffinman OP Man
47 weeks ago

Larkhall

"Yes ....lot of guys playing at being single but attached..no thanks"

Ive always been honest about it

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By *hyme2020Woman
47 weeks ago

Glasgow Scotland

That sounds like a good idea. I make it clear in my profile i don’t meet attached men. Doesn’t stop them trying or not telling me and then it comes out later on after I have got invested in the chat and/or arranged to meet

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By *heemuffinman OP Man
47 weeks ago

Larkhall

"That sounds like a good idea. I make it clear in my profile i don’t meet attached men. Doesn’t stop them trying or not telling me and then it comes out later on after I have got invested in the chat and/or arranged to meet "

Always best to be honest about it, i could lie but what would be the point it would come out sooner or later then someone gets hurt.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Idea is fair in principle but people would still hide it. It would also be a section of the website that would be an even more densely populated sausagefest

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By *ide em cowgirlWoman
47 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Yea don’t think too many females would be looking for that tbh

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By *adbury girlWoman
47 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

Is that not what dating sites are for? No? Must just be my experience then

It would be good if there was a clear way on a profile to say you’re married/attached as at the moment you need to read the whole profile to see if it mentions it or not as I don’t meet married/attached so it would be easier if there was a tick box so to speak.

This way those that want to avoid, can and those that want to meet, can. Not sure how exactly it could be done but that’s my tuppence worth

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By *rs grumpyWoman
47 weeks ago

motherwell

Whilst they're obviously lying to their partners so not

, I actually applaud the honesty of folk who say straight up that they're attached. They're telling you what you're dealing with and then it's up to you to decide.

What does make me laugh are women (usually always women) who declare they'd never fuck a married man but a wee read through verifications clearly demonstrates otherwise.

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By *heemuffinman OP Man
47 weeks ago

Larkhall

"Whilst they're obviously lying to their partners so not

, I actually applaud the honesty of folk who say straight up that they're attached. They're telling you what you're dealing with and then it's up to you to decide.

Well said, lol

What does make me laugh are women (usually always women) who declare they'd never fuck a married man but a wee read through verifications clearly demonstrates otherwise."

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By *a1970Man
47 weeks ago

East cork

Up front and straight to the point..... Cleaner game.... All supposed to be adults here. Some people are in shock and horror when they relise there's married attached people on here.

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By *heemuffinman OP Man
47 weeks ago

Larkhall

"Up front and straight to the point..... Cleaner game.... All supposed to be adults here. Some people are in shock and horror when they relise there's married attached people on here. "

And nasty about it too

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
47 weeks ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Anyone think there should be seperate section for attached people or willing to meet attached people, seems to be a lot of abuse flung around on both sides for this"
people still won’t be honest about it .

I have met married/attached in the past who were honest with me about it then I’d see a new verification in their profile from women who claim not to meet married or attached men so they are either lying about it to these women or the women aren’t asking the right questions to find out the truth .

Having a forum would catch a few out to those who choose not tell the truth .

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By *emini58Woman
47 weeks ago

Central belt

What's makes it worse is the wife not knowing about hubby being on here. To me that's cheating 100% marriage vows were exchanged. The guys who say wife has health issues and no sex life but has permission to meet and play..ladies do you believe that one. Sorry but I will pass on that one as well not for me

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By *heemuffinman OP Man
47 weeks ago

Larkhall

"Anyone think there should be seperate section for attached people or willing to meet attached people, seems to be a lot of abuse flung around on both sides for thispeople still won’t be honest about it .

Having a forum would catch a few out to those who choose not tell the truth ."

Yeah thats a good idea, personally i dont see the point in lying, its alwasy going to come out and then the other parry will always be wary in the future and start handing out dogs abuse on here, like a few ive encoutered, lol

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By *onderlust69Couple
47 weeks ago

Central belt

Men know it hugely reduces the number of women and couples that will meet them if they are honest about their situation, people will still be dishonest even with another section.

We've been around for years and yes there's lots of genuine single guys on here but unfortunately our experience is most are attached, it becomes quickly obvious.

It's easy to be anonymous on fab and we've just accepted that it attracts alot of men and women that are playing without permission. Club nights seem to be where we find the most genuine guys. Xx

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By *onderlust69Couple
47 weeks ago

Central belt

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By *erlins5Man
47 weeks ago

South Fife

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By *rs grumpyWoman
47 weeks ago

motherwell

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47 weeks ago

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By *elpieandSelkieCouple
47 weeks ago

Aberdeen

It would be great if the message filters section was expanded for things like the above, as well as being able to filter by sexuality.

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By *a1970Man
47 weeks ago

East cork

There's a very inportant button that can be pressed when you discover something about someone that you don't like, they arenot for you etc...... Its the block button.... It should be used more often. Start using it it will make your life on here easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Great idea ?? just makes life easier. Everyone has their own personal reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Great idea !!! I mean

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By *oberto7Man
47 weeks ago

Greenock

Well said miss Grumpy

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By *rs grumpyWoman
47 weeks ago

motherwell

"Well said miss Grumpy

Mrs! Am no hiding the fact I'm attached!

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By *oberto7Man
47 weeks ago

Greenock

Not judging lol x

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By *eetsterMan
47 weeks ago

Glasgow

Sounds like a good idea, add it as a selection in search. However I see people not being truthful or owning up to it if you’d be able to have it as a selection

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