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"'just ask' as the entire profile " Or “I’ll fill this in later” a year later still a blank profile not even photo verified but always online  | |||
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"'just ask' as the entire profile " Or “ fill in later” in year old picture less profiles  | |||
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"Or “I’ll fill this in later” a year later still a blank profile not even photo verified but always online "Yea this one is just strange. People that post meets constantly, but have a bare-minimum profile and that is the complete text of it. | |||
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"I dislike like it when you send a pic and they say they know you and block you. Being block for no reason even Though you haven't spoke. Them asking for a pic but don't return with a pic." To be honest I have a few local people blocked if I know them, I either don’t want to meet them or know they aren’t discreet and you know you’re business would be talked about in the pub ( had it before, despite them having verifications) in a fairly small town. People block for lots of reason and use as a filter if someone has put a rude or crude status or moan etc, not sexy or appealing. I’d never send a face pic unless talking for a while and if people don’t accept that I don’t care, my discretion is important to me. I wouldn’t take the blocks to heart as a lot of people are just cautious on Fab for obvious reasons | |||
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"Or “I’ll fill this in later” a year later still a blank profile not even photo verified but always online
Yea this one is just strange. People that post meets constantly, but have a bare-minimum profile and that is the complete text of it."It’s a strange one Mandy, if someone isn’t photo verified I just assume they aren’t genuine and don’t talk, let alone meet | |||
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"I dislike like it when you send a pic and they say they know you and block you. Being block for no reason even Though you haven't spoke. Them asking for a pic but don't return with a pic. To be honest I have a few local people blocked if I know them, I either don’t want to meet them or know they aren’t discreet and you know you’re business would be talked about in the pub ( had it before, despite them having verifications) in a fairly small town. People block for lots of reason and use as a filter if someone has put a rude or crude status or moan etc, not sexy or appealing. I’d never send a face pic unless talking for a while and if people don’t accept that I don’t care, my discretion is important to me. I wouldn’t take the blocks to heart as a lot of people are just cautious on Fab for obvious reasons" Ah I see you have blocked me so you know me lol that I don't mind as long as you don't say anything about me being on here thanks | |||
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"Verifications from 2+yrs prior but profile dscription still reads as first day set up, ie. "We are newbies". Update profile asap and regularly change it about to keep it interesting x"  | |||
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"I dislike like it when you send a pic and they say they know you and block you. Being block for no reason even Though you haven't spoke. Them asking for a pic but don't return with a pic. To be honest I have a few local people blocked if I know them, I either don’t want to meet them or know they aren’t discreet and you know you’re business would be talked about in the pub ( had it before, despite them having verifications) in a fairly small town. People block for lots of reason and use as a filter if someone has put a rude or crude status or moan etc, not sexy or appealing. I’d never send a face pic unless talking for a while and if people don’t accept that I don’t care, my discretion is important to me. I wouldn’t take the blocks to heart as a lot of people are just cautious on Fab for obvious reasons Ah I see you have blocked me so you know me lol that I don't mind as long as you don't say anything about me being on here thanks" No I don’t know you, if you don’t have a face pic it’s no doubt due to a forum post I’ve blocked as a filter as I know I wouldn’t want to meet. I use block as a filter as I say, I don’t want to stop all men messaging me like I have in past and message first, so I even block if you have a profile with 20 different photos of a penis from various angles or sadly hairy chests, just not my thing!! I’m here to make my Fab experiences good, that includes not having to see photos I’m not into when scrolling so yeah I block. Some never block people, but I use as a filter. Don’t take blocks to heart as I say, not everyone does it because they know you. Just find the people that do and don’t worry about the rest | |||
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"Big turn off .. People who correct others spelling and grammatical errors , comes across as being anal (pardon the pun) and perhaps being wound to tightly ! " Yeah but worse is saying they hate dick pics (I do understand tbh) but have half their cave hanging out and filtered photos. No need for Snapchat filters on Fab, I avoid | |||
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"Big turn off .. People who correct others spelling and grammatical errors , comes across as being anal (pardon the pun) and perhaps being wound to tightly ! Yeah but worse is saying they hate dick pics (I do understand tbh) but have half their cave hanging out and filtered photos. No need for Snapchat filters on Fab, I avoid" Half their cave? | |||
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" Ah I see you have blocked me so you know me lol that I don't mind as long as you don't say anything about me being on here thanks" I don't get too hung up about people blocking me - there's probably a reason or zero reason and its really none of my business why. If it bothers you that much, you can always counterblock them. | |||
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"Big turn off .. People who correct others spelling and grammatical errors , comes across as being anal (pardon the pun) and perhaps being wound to tightly ! Yeah but worse is saying they hate dick pics (I do understand tbh) but have half their cave hanging out and filtered photos. No need for Snapchat filters on Fab, I avoid Half their cave? "The entrance to that anal tunnel of love  | |||
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"Big turn off .. People who correct others spelling and grammatical errors , comes across as being anal (pardon the pun) and perhaps being wound to tightly ! Yeah but worse is saying they hate dick pics (I do understand tbh) but have half their cave hanging out and filtered photos. No need for Snapchat filters on Fab, I avoid" I didnae say I hated dick pics just don't want unsolicited ones. When you've seen one you've seen them all , just in a different shape or size and wading through them becomes tedious . I do have a couple pics that have a filter on them but not to change my face just for lighting and remove a shadow maybe get rid of a blemish . Each to their own | |||
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"Big turn off .. People who correct others spelling and grammatical errors , comes across as being anal (pardon the pun) and perhaps being wound to tightly ! Yeah but worse is saying they hate dick pics (I do understand tbh) but have half their cave hanging out and filtered photos. No need for Snapchat filters on Fab, I avoid I didnae say I hated dick pics just don't want unsolicited ones. When you've seen one you've seen them all , just in a different shape or size and wading through them becomes tedious . I do have a couple pics that have a filter on them but not to change my face just for lighting and remove a shadow maybe get rid of a blemish . Each to their own " Exactly, each to their own! I personally like a black and white instead of a filter for that sultry look. Just not very fair on people when you send a catfish pic that looks nothing like you. Again why I like a social or a video call before a meet up. If I can make the hard effort to type correctly with my dyslexia, I exact someone not to fool me with a filter | |||
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"I apologise my anxiety can make my mind wander and think the wrong things, but I have had a few people on here say they know me and blocked me. I have not see who they are so worried they k ow my family and might say something. I am truly sorry for jumping to conclusions once again when I posted about being blocked I had just had an incident like I just said, so sorry for the post also. " Honestly no need to apologise! Like I said, don’t send pics unless asked to exchange for your safety and discretion, don’t take anything too seriously and you will find you’re tribe! And don’t take anything personal here, we all do things different for different reasons. I’ll also add, I lost a family member late last year and hid my profile for a while, so best advice is when the anxiety or depression gets bad, Fab is not the place to come for comfort unless you have made connections that truly do care about your well being here so just avoid for a while! Happy fabing | |||
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"Well I forgot to add this to the list People messaging you asking for pypal payment for stupid things. Had a guy trying to get £15 to help me with my anxiety lol all he was going to do was send me some Info (Probably stuff I have already seen b4)" What?! Please, please report him and block. Or if any women/men asking for flowers, Chinese sent to them (saw both last night in status)  or anyone asking for money for sex or other services! | |||
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"Well I forgot to add this to the list People messaging you asking for pypal payment for stupid things. Had a guy trying to get £15 to help me with my anxiety lol all he was going to do was send me some Info (Probably stuff I have already seen b4) What?! Please, please report him and block. Or if any women/men asking for flowers, Chinese sent to them (saw both last night in status) or anyone asking for money for sex or other services! "Sont worry I di report and block lol been dealing with anxiety for many years so pretty sure I would have heard everything had a hundred times lol I might xomw over stupid but I haven't got to where I am dealing with my anxiety and depression without hard work I came on here for social interaction and to push myself to get out more. | |||
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"Well I forgot to add this to the list People messaging you asking for pypal payment for stupid things. Had a guy trying to get £15 to help me with my anxiety lol all he was going to do was send me some Info (Probably stuff I have already seen b4) What?! Please, please report him and block. Or if any women/men asking for flowers, Chinese sent to them (saw both last night in status) or anyone asking for money for sex or other services! "A woman was begging for a site supporters badge.! | |||
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"Well I forgot to add this to the list People messaging you asking for pypal payment for stupid things. Had a guy trying to get £15 to help me with my anxiety lol all he was going to do was send me some Info (Probably stuff I have already seen b4) What?! Please, please report him and block. Or if any women/men asking for flowers, Chinese sent to them (saw both last night in status) or anyone asking for money for sex or other services!
A woman was begging for a site supporters badge.! "The joys of weekend night shift is the 2-4am status updates, few Saturday’s ago a women was offering BJ’s for a bottle of vodka, pretty grim tbh. A lot of cash pigs on Fab, I just block and report | |||
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" Exactly, each to their own! I personally like a black and white instead of a filter for that sultry look. Just not very fair on people when you send a catfish pic that looks nothing like you. Again why I like a social or a video call before a meet up. If I can make the hard effort to type correctly with my dyslexia, I exact someone not to fool me with a filter" I'd hardly say it was catfishing , it's lightening a pic and a blemish if at that time there is one ,I don't change my face at all , changing a pic to a black and white version has the same effect as lightening it , its ofcourse different from the original as it removes the colour from it where as the couple pics I have lightened the colour. So I fail to see what's the difference . The pics still been changed regardless . I think it's a case of to point a finger make sure your own hands are clean. | |||
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" Exactly, each to their own! I personally like a black and white instead of a filter for that sultry look. Just not very fair on people when you send a catfish pic that looks nothing like you. Again why I like a social or a video call before a meet up. If I can make the hard effort to type correctly with my dyslexia, I exact someone not to fool me with a filter I'd hardly say it was catfishing , it's lightening a pic and a blemish if at that time there is one ,I don't change my face at all , changing a pic to a black and white version has the same effect as lightening it , its ofcourse different from the original as it removes the colour from it where as the couple pics I have lightened the colour. So I fail to see what's the difference . The pics still been changed regardless . I think it's a case of to point a finger make sure your own hands are clean. " (  ) Come on every photo has a Snapchat filter, don’t kid a kidder! The lady doth protest too much and I didn’t realise I’d get such a big catch with the little bait I threw in (as I sit eating my popcorn) | |||
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" Exactly, each to their own! I personally like a black and white instead of a filter for that sultry look. Just not very fair on people when you send a catfish pic that looks nothing like you. Again why I like a social or a video call before a meet up. If I can make the hard effort to type correctly with my dyslexia, I exact someone not to fool me with a filter I'd hardly say it was catfishing , it's lightening a pic and a blemish if at that time there is one ,I don't change my face at all , changing a pic to a black and white version has the same effect as lightening it , its ofcourse different from the original as it removes the colour from it where as the couple pics I have lightened the colour. So I fail to see what's the difference . The pics still been changed regardless . I think it's a case of to point a finger make sure your own hands are clean. ( ) Come on every photo has a Snapchat filter, don’t kid a kidder! The lady doth protest too much and I didn’t realise I’d get such a big catch with the little bait I threw in (as I sit eating my popcorn)"They actually don't, and it's no Snapchat , it's samsung camera .. you stick tae ur black n whites but when your throwing digs mind throw them tae yourself tae , there's enough people seen me in chatrooms and on cam and in person to know I'm not a catfish . But as for every photo .. your the one spitting the dummy out here all because of the original comment I made about folk that correct others spellings and grammatical errors . Gie yourself a wobble ! | |||
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" Exactly, each to their own! I personally like a black and white instead of a filter for that sultry look. Just not very fair on people when you send a catfish pic that looks nothing like you. Again why I like a social or a video call before a meet up. If I can make the hard effort to type correctly with my dyslexia, I exact someone not to fool me with a filter I'd hardly say it was catfishing , it's lightening a pic and a blemish if at that time there is one ,I don't change my face at all , changing a pic to a black and white version has the same effect as lightening it , its ofcourse different from the original as it removes the colour from it where as the couple pics I have lightened the colour. So I fail to see what's the difference . The pics still been changed regardless . I think it's a case of to point a finger make sure your own hands are clean. ( ) Come on every photo has a Snapchat filter, don’t kid a kidder! The lady doth protest too much and I didn’t realise I’d get such a big catch with the little bait I threw in (as I sit eating my popcorn)
They actually don't, and it's no Snapchat , it's samsung camera .. you stick tae ur black n whites but when your throwing digs mind throw them tae yourself tae , there's enough people seen me in chatrooms and on cam and in person to know I'm not a catfish . But as for every photo .. your the one spitting the dummy out here all because of the original comment I made about folk that correct others spellings and grammatical errors . Gie yourself a wobble !" | |||
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"OP. For the 15yrs i have been on here. Life changes and as ur are a woman . Should i bow to the fact that u don't understand . Age moving on and they use there terminology. . "What? Like most things you write I don’t understand! I don’t ask any one to bow down (although I do appreciate that as a kink) just if you are 38-42 I find it a bit concerning that they type “any1 want 2 fuck” my kids don’t even type like that. And wanted to know others dislikes or ick on profiles as it’s a pet hate on Fab. Was a nightshift musing last night is all! | |||
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"send face picts with 1st message.even though they dont have any picts at all on profile ." I will never understand a person sending a face pic in the first message, risky game tbh as could be a family member/work colleague for all they know | |||
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"Well hung Vwe Vvwe Vvvwe What sizes are they? "Maybe 2 Small and not Small | |||
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"I agree that text speak is a turn off. Another peeve is people messaging that simply say Hey. Just how is that meant to be enticing? I agree about lack of photos and I really must address that on my profile. I did have a profile picture for some time but a Mod removed it. " Aw “hey” if awful! “Hey trouble/sexy” even worse! | |||
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"I agree that text speak is a turn off. Another peeve is people messaging that simply say Hey. Just how is that meant to be enticing? I agree about lack of photos and I really must address that on my profile. I did have a profile picture for some time but a Mod removed it. Aw “hey” if awful! “Hey trouble/sexy” even worse! " I don't even rate that just the one word. And people who I don't know wanting to meet at ridiculous times of night. My favourite thing is clearly heading out in the small hours to meet some wannabe who think they know how to spank | |||
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"OP. For the 15yrs i have been on here. Life changes and as ur are a woman . Should i bow to the fact that u don't understand . Age moving on and they use there terminology. .
What? Like most things you write I don’t understand! I don’t ask any one to bow down (although I do appreciate that as a kink) just if you are 38-42 I find it a bit concerning that they type “any1 want 2 fuck” my kids don’t even type like that. And wanted to know others dislikes or ick on profiles as it’s a pet hate on Fab. Was a nightshift musing last night is all! "no dig and not even looking at ur profile. U are Demanding.  | |||
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"OP. For the 15yrs i have been on here. Life changes and as ur are a woman . Should i bow to the fact that u don't understand . Age moving on and they use there terminology. .
What? Like most things you write I don’t understand! I don’t ask any one to bow down (although I do appreciate that as a kink) just if you are 38-42 I find it a bit concerning that they type “any1 want 2 fuck” my kids don’t even type like that. And wanted to know others dislikes or ick on profiles as it’s a pet hate on Fab. Was a nightshift musing last night is all! no dig and not even looking at ur profile. U are Demanding. "I’m sarcastic not demanding!! I’m also 2 year sober….just saying! | |||
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"Big turn off .. People who correct others spelling and grammatical errors , comes across as being anal (pardon the pun) and perhaps being wound to tightly ! " •too | |||
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"People who post when d*unk, gets annoying after a while "Live and let live!! Are they doing anyone any harm?. Are they being abusive? No-one is forcing anyone to interact with any persons posts. We are all adults afterall. | |||
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"People who post when d*unk, gets annoying after a while
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Are they doing anyone any harm?. Are they being abusive?
No-one is forcing anyone to interact with any persons posts.
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"I hate TIMEWASTERS with a passion. People who have no respect for other people. They don't think about the upset they cause and it would've been all sorted with a simple message. Eg,something has come up or I've changed my mind. No excuse for it. And I do think we should have a link to name and shame the repeat offenders. Rant over . Have a good day folks." Go to their profile, click report and select “did not turn up” | |||
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"Women who block you right after you send a face pic. " Maybe change your name then if the coupon is memorable for all the wrong reasons | |||
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"I’m finding a lot of people I’d be interest in, the same age as me or just slightly younger write with numbers and missing the letter g. As in I need “fuckin”. This therefore give me the ick as at this age no one should be texting with numbers. Even my kids don’t do this. What on a profile or status puts you off or gives you the ick when other wise you like photos and verifications. Maybe help others out? I know my profile is pretty blunt but sorts the boys from the men!" Unverified profiles that say “send face pic or message will be deleted” Any mention of 420 (this isn’t a writing with numbers thing incase you feel like being blunt) or any other dr*g Pics with dirty nails, mirrors or messy background. People that write “we are clean.” If you feel the need to write that I reckon yer clatty | |||
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"Women who block you right after you send a face pic. " I’ve only had the no reply thing and not the block so maybe that’s not as bad? | |||
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"Women who block you right after you send a face pic. Maybe change your name then if the coupon is memorable for all the wrong reasons " | |||
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"I hate TIMEWASTERS with a passion. People who have no respect for other people. They don't think about the upset they cause and it would've been all sorted with a simple message. Eg,something has come up or I've changed my mind. No excuse for it. And I do think we should have a link to name and shame the repeat offenders. Rant over . Have a good day folks. Go to their profile, click report and select “did not turn up”" I've reported after someone didn't turn up a few times Nothing gets done about it so I just give one chance only to meet now it's served me better but timewasters happen more now than ever Pretty shite to be honest  | |||
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"Being winked from a pictureless blank profile, how the hell am i meant to know if im interested enough to wink back" Does anyone actually respond to winks, i gave them up a while ago, didnt seem to get anywhere | |||
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"Messy or dirty backgrounds, anything with kids toys in the background also is just weird" Aye. It's a red flag for me if a guy can get a semi with Thomas The Tank Engine smiling at him in the background. | |||
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"Messy or dirty backgrounds, anything with kids toys in the background also is just weird Aye. It's a red flag for me if a guy can get a semi with Thomas The Tank Engine smiling at him in the background." Choo! And indeed choo! | |||
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"Male feminists. You don't need to call yourself a feminist to try and be "right on" to increase your chance of getting your hole. Just don't be a dick around women." Some guys can't be themselves because they are dicks, so they pretend to be a good guy. It's very sinister behaviour. | |||
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"Male feminists. You don't need to call yourself a feminist to try and be "right on" to increase your chance of getting your hole. Just don't be a dick around women. Some guys can't be themselves because they are dicks, so they pretend to be a good guy. It's very sinister behaviour." Which are you Guptae?  | |||
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"Male feminists. You don't need to call yourself a feminist to try and be "right on" to increase your chance of getting your hole. Just don't be a dick around women. Some guys can't be themselves because they are dicks, so they pretend to be a good guy. It's very sinister behaviour. Which are you Guptae? "You'll find out soon enough.  | |||
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"Loads of diffrent verifications in a short time put me off, i know thats why most are here but if its too many in too short a time ill pass by, weird because it means they like the boaby, lol "How many and what timescale is to many | |||
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"Loads of diffrent verifications in a short time put me off, i know thats why most are here but if its too many in too short a time ill pass by, weird because it means they like the boaby, lol
How many and what timescale is to many"Should have just posted in here instead of DM. This is where the open discussion takes place. Anyhoo so 3 in a week is excessive and just greedy! | |||
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"Loads of diffrent verifications in a short time put me off, i know thats why most are here but if its too many in too short a time ill pass by, weird because it means they like the boaby, lol
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Should have just posted in here instead of DM. This is where the open discussion takes place.
Anyhoo so 3 in a week is excessive and just greedy!
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"I hate TIMEWASTERS with a passion. People who have no respect for other people. They don't think about the upset they cause and it would've been all sorted with a simple message. Eg,something has come up or I've changed my mind. No excuse for it. And I do think we should have a link to name and shame the repeat offenders. Rant over . Have a good day folks. Go to their profile, click report and select “did not turn up”" Best feature there is... Casper ghost counter | |||
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Too many rules / demands
Ppl who want drink or drugs bought for them before they consider meeting.
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"When people (usually guys) leave verifications saying “don’t mess them about” or “treat with respect”. Cringe! " Usually after going into excruciating graphic detail about what they did on the meet. | |||
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"When people (usually guys) leave verifications saying “don’t mess them about” or “treat with respect”. Cringe! Usually after going into excruciating graphic detail about what they did on the meet." What would you say is acceptable to put in a verification after a meetx | |||
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"Loads of diffrent verifications in a short time put me off, i know thats why most are here but if its too many in too short a time ill pass by, weird because it means they like the boaby, lol "Some of them could be from socials/social events Or if they are snagging a lot it shouldn't matter as long as they are doing it safely | |||
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"Loads of diffrent verifications in a short time put me off, i know thats why most are here but if its too many in too short a time ill pass by, weird because it means they like the boaby, lol
Some of them could be from socials/social events
Or if they are snagging a lot it shouldn't matter as long as they are doing it safely "Nothing worse than a long snagging list | |||
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"People who add you just to be nosey at your pics and vids and they haven’t even tried to talk to you first. " 100% agree with this. This and add you after chatting, make arrangements for meets and get ghosted. Messages then go unread, or unanswered, despite them being online..majorly pees' me off | |||
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"Any cock pics = Blocked, While their flashing there clabby doo "Oh the pot n kettle comes to mind. | |||
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"Oh..and another one is..having your messages read, no reply and the message just left there. If your not interested and you've read it, why not delete it and give us poor mortals a clue?..lol" Why not make your own assumption of the interaction or lack of...and move on! What other people do with their profiles and mail is no-one elses business. Don't stress over things you can't control | |||
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"Oh..and another one is..having your messages read, no reply and the message just left there. If your not interested and you've read it, why not delete it and give us poor mortals a clue?..lol Why not make your own assumption of the interaction or lack of...and move on! What other people do with their profiles and mail is no-one elses business. Don't stress over things you can't control " It was making assumptions I was trying to avoid, but hey ho..I guess you're right..lol | |||
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"People moaning that they are not desirable No one is perfect we all have flaws learn to be happy with what you have and have fun "Couldn't agree more if I'm being honest..x | |||
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"Oh..and another one is..having your messages read, no reply and the message just left there. If your not interested and you've read it, why not delete it and give us poor mortals a clue?..lol" A dont delete mine.. a usually do a mass delete every now and then, if am interested al reply | |||
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"Any cock pics = Blocked, While their flashing there clabby doo
Oh the pot n kettle comes to mind. "You get my drift sassy lol | |||
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"Oh..and another one is..having your messages read, no reply and the message just left there. If your not interested and you've read it, why not delete it and give us poor mortals a clue?..lol A dont delete mine.. a usually do a mass delete every now and then, if am interested al reply" Thanks Ell...Good to know | |||
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".….…What on a profile or status puts you off or gives you the ick when other wise you like photos and verifications.….…" · A minor 'ick' is receiving messages from women who can only manage monosyllabic words but their profiles dictate "must be articulate and able to string a few intellectual sentences together". | |||
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"A male profile where the pics are predominantly female for example a pic of a naked female where you see from her neck to her thighs yet only see the base of a guys cock as he is penetrating her, photo of a females ass being spread wide by said male. I find it off putting but appreciate it is their profile to do as they wish "I agree. I want to see pics in profile that give me an idea of what the person I'm considering meeting looks like. No some random female. It's like shopping for shoes and the salesperson keeps showing you trousers... waste of time | |||
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"There's most of mine that have been mentioned above but the main ones are; - demanding profiles i.e. face pic with first message. Even worse when they message you first and haven't included one - 'fill in later' or almost nothing in the profile One that's not a turn off but more of a confusion is the profiles with absolutely nothing on them, no pics and 'fill in later' with multiple verifications. Guess it's all in their messages that gets them the meets? " Think of these as filters for profiles you won't be compatible with. Just don't engage. | |||
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"I’m finding a lot of people I’d be interest in, the same age as me or just slightly younger write with numbers and missing the letter g. As in I need “fuckin”. This therefore give me the ick as at this age no one should be texting with numbers. Even my kids don’t do this. What on a profile or status puts you off or gives you the ick when other wise you like photos and verifications. Maybe help others out? I know my profile is pretty blunt but sorts the boys from the men!" The 'Demands' of dos and don'ts. We all have dos and don'ts and understand we want compatibility as well as similar interests but the demands on the profile is off putting. In saying that, I'm a pretty varied guy and I've had slow chilled, even vanilla nights but then again some nights or days of utter kinky, intense filth but whatever I like, doesn't mean its a must on a meet, as my company may not be into everything I like or I'm not into all that they like or we might not be in that mood at the time Fab is here to be enjoyed and for us to have a brill, enjoyable time in compnay but never forget our company's enjoyment as some seem to do. | |||
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"Women moaning on the forum about the emails they get from guys when all they need to do is use their filters and do their own search. Ranting updates again from women who moan about not meeting married or attached guys yet the verifications they have say different . " Some rants are offputting must admit. | |||
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"Single male profile says straight but he wants to suck a guy. Last profile was mysteriously deleted. I'm back for more. I have experience. I'm a "Professional" " Would like to find out what exactly is a professional do they go to a sex College something like the School of Cock | |||
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"Single male profile says straight but he wants to suck a guy. Last profile was mysteriously deleted. I'm back for more. I have experience. I'm a "Professional" Would like to find out what exactly is a professional do they go to a sex College something like the School of Cock "Exactly. | |||
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"Judgmental swingers, still can't get my head around that one." Haha aye why we are all in a swingers site lol | |||
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"I put up a status this morning that (Guys it's not sexy when you take a pic on or around the toilet area it's very off putting). And I meant guys as in both sexes. And I got an abusive message calling me a cow fat and ugly. Lol x" Should be a life time ban for any abusive messages, sorry you had to deal with that | |||
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"Women moaning on the forum about the emails they get from guys when all they need to do is use their filters and do their own search. Ranting updates again from women who moan about not meeting married or attached guys yet the verifications they have say different . Unfortunately they don't always mention it prior Or change profile after meeting x It's not about the guys it's that if you state bi couple,no straight men Then they message , you check profile saying straight. You then have to say bi men only You should see some responses Oh I'm bi Oh I have been thinking about maybe trying What would I need to do, have to do I'm half bi. If straight message a straight mf couple x " | |||
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"I put up a status this morning that (Guys it's not sexy when you take a pic on or around the toilet area it's very off putting). And I meant guys as in both sexes. And I got an abusive message calling me a cow fat and ugly. Lol x" I had this yesterday, a nice polite “don’t think we are compatible” the reply was “your a big fat mess anyway!” I’m a size 12 ya cock Womble got to laugh. No wonder I don’t even send a polite reply if not interested most of the time | |||
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"I put up a status this morning that (Guys it's not sexy when you take a pic on or around the toilet area it's very off putting). And I meant guys as in both sexes. And I got an abusive message calling me a cow fat and ugly. Lol x I had this yesterday, a nice polite “don’t think we are compatible” the reply was “your a big fat mess anyway!” I’m a size 12 ya cock Womble got to laugh. No wonder I don’t even send a polite reply if not interested most of the time"Jeez. | |||
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"The people who make a profile up and say something like on their bio or title. "Do you remember me from previous, come say hi" with either no picture or a picture of their freckle " their freckle! I hate my freckles so they stay in ninja mode (ninja) | |||
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"The people who make a profile up and say something like on their bio or title. "Do you remember me from previous, come say hi" with either no picture or a picture of their freckle "Haha!! Their freckle | |||
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"Pics of mens willy's up another female bum ..yea I don't want that to be all I see when I'm taking to you instant No from me Also toilet pics " Definitely agree, so off putting on a single male profile. Also have to worry if the women has given consent to the photo being on Fab. Been there and not good for the anxiety at all | |||
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"Pics of mens willy's up another female bum ..yea I don't want that to be all I see when I'm taking to you instant No from me Also toilet pics Definitely agree, so off putting on a single male profile. Also have to worry if the women has given consent to the photo being on Fab. Been there and not good for the anxiety at all" ^this. Massive turn off | |||
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"send face picts with 1st message.even though they dont have any picts at all on profile ." This, is my absolute hate, for so many reasons, was just going to post it. | |||
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"People who think cause they are hot they can look down on you and there's alot of that on this site am sure everyone has experienced this" Narcissists!! Fecking no time for them. Swing-wise, there's little worse than that very attractive individual, so far up their own end: and worse, don't seem to know they actually have zero personality 
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"Women with beer bellys .. quite a few on hear .. " Why? You could bump bellys. A new kink? | |||
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"Women with beer bellys .. quite a few on hear .. Why? You could bump bellys. A new kink? " | |||
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Another one for the minging toilet cock photos. | |||
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