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By *ingthommmy OP   Man
43 weeks ago

GLASGOW

What's longest you've went without sex? I'm closing in on 18 months n I don't know wither to be ashamed of that or not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago


"What's longest you've went without sex? I'm closing in on 18 months n I don't know wither to be ashamed of that or not lol "

No big deal, over 2 years but was actually very happy, very busy with life and just didn't have the time. It's about being happy with yourself, so if its a day, a week, a year, 2 years etc... if your happy, motivated and active then nothing to think about

ffs just read that back, I sound so convincing

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By *ittleMizzNaughty88.Woman
43 weeks ago

Renfrewshire

3 years but it never actually bothered me.

I'm going through a few months between meeting now aswell..

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By *ingthommmy OP   Man
43 weeks ago

GLASGOW


"3 years but it never actually bothered me.

I'm going through a few months between meeting now aswell.. "

I guess sometimes other things get in the way maybe I'm being too harsh on myself

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By *ingthommmy OP   Man
43 weeks ago

GLASGOW


"What's longest you've went without sex? I'm closing in on 18 months n I don't know wither to be ashamed of that or not lol

No big deal, over 2 years but was actually very happy, very busy with life and just didn't have the time. It's about being happy with yourself, so if its a day, a week, a year, 2 years etc... if your happy, motivated and active then nothing to think about

ffs just read that back, I sound so convincing "

Lol that's fair maybe wasn't looking at it like that, sometimes I do see it as something I need but can't get or maybe I was more so thinking that maybe I'm just not good enough in that sense

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Two weeks

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By *nox.Woman
43 weeks ago

Glasgow

About 2 years don't think it had any impact at all

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I’d say the first 16 years were the worst in all honesty. The final stretch of that, probably the last 3 years or so, all I did was tug tug tug

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By *ingthommmy OP   Man
43 weeks ago

GLASGOW


"I’d say the first 16 years were the worst in all honesty. The final stretch of that, probably the last 3 years or so, all I did was tug tug tug "

This is my situation at the moment mate, probly end up with one arm bigger than the other ????

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago


"What's longest you've went without sex? I'm closing in on 18 months n I don't know wither to be ashamed of that or not lol

No big deal, over 2 years but was actually very happy, very busy with life and just didn't have the time. It's about being happy with yourself, so if its a day, a week, a year, 2 years etc... if your happy, motivated and active then nothing to think about

ffs just read that back, I sound so convincing

Lol that's fair maybe wasn't looking at it like that, sometimes I do see it as something I need but can't get or maybe I was more so thinking that maybe I'm just not good enough in that sense "

Nope, we are all good enough.

Think how different people make us feel in life - amazing, pissed off, angry, happy, content, confused. BUT when you connect with the right ones, why not have more, the same as in swinging. I'm very open and honest if I want more, I'd tell them and if that connection is tight then they will want the same but even if they don't - You are certainly are good enough, we all are and always will be, just find the right moment, people or person.

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By *ingthommmy OP   Man
43 weeks ago

GLASGOW


"What's longest you've went without sex? I'm closing in on 18 months n I don't know wither to be ashamed of that or not lol

No big deal, over 2 years but was actually very happy, very busy with life and just didn't have the time. It's about being happy with yourself, so if its a day, a week, a year, 2 years etc... if your happy, motivated and active then nothing to think about

ffs just read that back, I sound so convincing

Lol that's fair maybe wasn't looking at it like that, sometimes I do see it as something I need but can't get or maybe I was more so thinking that maybe I'm just not good enough in that sense

Nope, we are all good enough.

Think how different people make us feel in life - amazing, pissed off, angry, happy, content, confused. BUT when you connect with the right ones, why not have more, the same as in swinging. I'm very open and honest if I want more, I'd tell them and if that connection is tight then they will want the same but even if they don't - You are certainly are good enough, we all are and always will be, just find the right moment, people or person.

"

Amazing reply, totally agree with what you said

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

After I had my son it was about 7 years before I had sex again, was a single mum and didn't go out.. didn't really bother me and it was before internet and all that.. made up for it though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago


"I’d say the first 16 years were the worst in all honesty. The final stretch of that, probably the last 3 years or so, all I did was tug tug tug

This is my situation at the moment mate, probly end up with one arm bigger than the other ????"

You could take up arm wrestling now you have a larger arm.

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By *oneys1Couple
43 weeks ago

Glasgow


"What's longest you've went without sex? I'm closing in on 18 months n I don't know wither to be ashamed of that or not lol "

Does sex with Pam and her 5 sisters count?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
43 weeks ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I’ve had spells of no sex but sometimes all that’s required is other human contact ie a kiss & cuddle will do

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago


"What's longest you've went without sex? I'm closing in on 18 months n I don't know wither to be ashamed of that or not lol "

5 years - 2016 to 2021

And now since October I think

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By *redwilma666Couple
43 weeks ago

Kilbirnie

16 years

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By *allBBWWoman
43 weeks ago

North Ayrshire

About 5 years. And then a little fun. And then another 5 years! Poor me

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By *oversfunCouple
43 weeks ago

ayrshire


"I’ve had spells of no sex but sometimes all that’s required is other human contact ie a kiss & cuddle will do "

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By *ingthommmy OP   Man
43 weeks ago

GLASGOW


"I’ve had spells of no sex but sometimes all that’s required is other human contact ie a kiss & cuddle will do "

Yeah I agree, so underrated this xx

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By *ingthommmy OP   Man
43 weeks ago

GLASGOW


"About 5 years. And then a little fun. And then another 5 years! Poor me "

5! Wow thats insane x

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
43 weeks ago

Nowhere

Years and years

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

6 hours

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
43 weeks ago

Edinburgh

April 2018 for me. Not that I'm keeping track or anything

Mandy

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By *ussieman74Man
43 weeks ago

Musselburgh

I'm sitting at around 10 +years now

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By *ibennyMan
43 weeks ago

rutherglen

With the Mrs it years now

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By *uffinMan
42 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Dry spell.. it depends what sex is by definition to you. If it's just about penetration well you need to experiment alot more.

Get out and live a little it doesn't need to be with another person to have satisfaction.

No penetration for 6 years but completely insane orgasims 4 times a week that can last 2 hours of fantastic exhaustive play to build.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
42 weeks ago

Edinburgh

3 years when I was with my ex

Just had a baby my libido went down and he was selfish in bed it was always all about his pleasure not mine

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By *uietbloke67Man
42 weeks ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)


"What's longest you've went without sex? I'm closing in on 18 months n I don't know wither to be ashamed of that or not lol

Does sex with Pam and her 5 sisters count?"

Owaaa and Pam swore she was faithful too me tae....the rascal

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By *uietbloke67Man
42 weeks ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Does kissing and a fumble count as sex or has it got to be the full wallop am In or get in....

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By *andE2000Man
42 weeks ago

Bathgate


"What's longest you've went without sex? I'm closing in on 18 months n I don't know wither to be ashamed of that or not lol "

I went for 20 years without sex from my puberty to the day I got married.

Since then the max I've gone without sex is roughly six months. Never without a wank though

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I've not met anyone from here since last year but I have from another site in October.

I'm thinking of maybe taking a break from here?

Should I?

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