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By *elsbells2011 OP   Couple
44 weeks ago

fife

Maybe a long shot but probably like many we’ve found ourselves in the position where we have 2 separate life’s. One of which is our normal vanilla daily life with our vanilla friends who’d probably be horrified to find out what we get up to behind closed doors. Then the other which is fab where we can let go and enjoy some filthy more wild and unhinged. Hubby doesn’t play and I’m straight so it mostly rules out meeting other couples as they tend to want to swap or have fem on fem play. Is there any other couples out there that would be up for a night out sorta thing. Out in Edinburgh or something, grab some food and hit some pubs then grab the last train home kinda thing. Would kinda be good to find some like minded people to chat to and have a laugh and share experiences and stories but without any expectations of play. We only have each other on the fab side so would be great to have fab friends if that makes sense. Must be other couples out there in the same kinda boat

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By *assy LassieWoman
44 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

You should maybe try some organised social events. Great way to make friends

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"You should maybe try some organised social events. Great way to make friends"

I think that’s a cracking idea actually, I mind away back in 2010-12 a group of women did Ann Summers nights which was really popular.

You could do a couples only social event?

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By *ittleMizzNaughty88.Woman
44 weeks ago

Renfrewshire

There was a couple's social a few years ago.

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By *bzsissyTV/TS
44 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"Maybe a long shot but probably like many we’ve found ourselves in the position where we have 2 separate life’s. One of which is our normal vanilla daily life with our vanilla friends who’d probably be horrified to find out what we get up to behind closed doors. Then the other which is fab where we can let go and enjoy some filthy more wild and unhinged. Hubby doesn’t play and I’m straight so it mostly rules out meeting other couples as they tend to want to swap or have fem on fem play. Is there any other couples out there that would be up for a night out sorta thing. Out in Edinburgh or something, grab some food and hit some pubs then grab the last train home kinda thing. Would kinda be good to find some like minded people to chat to and have a laugh and share experiences and stories but without any expectations of play. We only have each other on the fab side so would be great to have fab friends if that makes sense. Must be other couples out there in the same kinda boat"

Sounds like a great idea

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By *elsbells2011 OP   Couple
44 weeks ago

fife

A couples social event does sound like it could be fun

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By *uietbloke67Man
44 weeks ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Why don't you just go along to a social, they are always a good mix of people.

It will at least let you see that there is a mix and everyone is relatively normal at least in a safe and secure environment

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By *D0323Couple
44 weeks ago

Edinburgh

We would be up for this

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By *r3mrsCouple
44 weeks ago

Edinburgh

We're in the same boat, Mr does play occasionally but we've never met another couple or female from here as there's always an expectation for girl on girl action.


"Maybe a long shot but probably like many we’ve found ourselves in the position where we have 2 separate life’s. One of which is our normal vanilla daily life with our vanilla friends who’d probably be horrified to find out what we get up to behind closed doors. Then the other which is fab where we can let go and enjoy some filthy more wild and unhinged. Hubby doesn’t play and I’m straight so it mostly rules out meeting other couples as they tend to want to swap or have fem on fem play. Is there any other couples out there that would be up for a night out sorta thing. Out in Edinburgh or something, grab some food and hit some pubs then grab the last train home kinda thing. Would kinda be good to find some like minded people to chat to and have a laugh and share experiences and stories but without any expectations of play. We only have each other on the fab side so would be great to have fab friends if that makes sense. Must be other couples out there in the same kinda boat"

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By *elsbells2011 OP   Couple
44 weeks ago

fife


"We're in the same boat, Mr does play occasionally but we've never met another couple or female from here as there's always an expectation for girl on girl "

Same with us. We’ve tried a few times speaking to couples and it mostly always resorts back to expectations of either girl on girl or the other hubby with me while the other partners watch. That isn’t our thing at all but it would just be nice to relax and enjoy a night out and few drinks and laughs. Literally haven’t spoke to anyone about our lifestyle it’s just our big secret that nobody in our real life knows about and sometimes it gets tough / lonely having nobody to have chats / banter with Would be good just having a total blow out without having to hide and can just enjoy being filthy buggers but without the expectations of any play. Not sure that even makes sense but hope it does

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

We would be interested if there was a couples social , no expectations xx

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By *ife2010Couple
44 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

We’d be interested in meeting as we are in a similar situation.

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By *SCouple81Couple
44 weeks ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

We would be up for a social

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By *he KinkysCouple
44 weeks ago

Edinburgh

A couples social would be lovely xx

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44 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

We would be interested too x

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By *ighland couple 99Couple
44 weeks ago

Inverness

Sounds fun

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By *elsbells2011 OP   Couple
44 weeks ago

fife

Got a few couples interested. I’ve never organised anything like this before so no idea where to start. The kinda idea we had thought of was meet up in Edinburgh centre. We’ve recently been to a place with our vanilla friends called Roxy lanes on rose street. Bar / food, bowling, beer pong and other fun games all in the one place. We were kinda thinking this setup would be ideal as it’s got all in one. Overall tally scores men vs women and just have a good laugh. If anyone seriously interested for it give me a shout, ideally 2-4 couples just to keep it small at first. Night be a non starter but could be something fun

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By *dinburghcouple77Couple
43 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Hi

We would be interested x

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By *he couple nextdoorCouple
43 weeks ago

grangemouth

Sounds really good to us

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By *he couple nextdoorCouple
43 weeks ago

grangemouth

We agreed

We have our day to day life

And this side

But find it difficult to chat to others

It would be a great idea

Less pressure

But perhaps a mix of couples

8/10 so there is a variety

Be nice meeting others who we can share with no judgement

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By *adbury girlWoman
43 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

There is an organised social in glasgow on 23 feb - silent disco with some spaces left if that interests you. There will be plenty couples attending that and they are always a great night

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By *assy LassieWoman
43 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"There is an organised social in glasgow on 23 feb - silent disco with some spaces left if that interests you. There will be plenty couples attending that and they are always a great night "

It's the 24th. Don't you be going a night early

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By *he couple nextdoorCouple
43 weeks ago

grangemouth


"There is an organised social in glasgow on 23 feb - silent disco with some spaces left if that interests you. There will be plenty couples attending that and they are always a great night "

That just sounds a little bit different

Being able to speak to others

That are similar

Many people have their day to day life

Then a different side

Be fun and who knows might click

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By *adbury girlWoman
43 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"There is an organised social in glasgow on 23 feb - silent disco with some spaces left if that interests you. There will be plenty couples attending that and they are always a great night

It's the 24th. Don't you be going a night early "

Hahaha I know it’s the Saturday

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By *adbury girlWoman
43 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"There is an organised social in glasgow on 23 feb - silent disco with some spaces left if that interests you. There will be plenty couples attending that and they are always a great night

That just sounds a little bit different

Being able to speak to others

That are similar

Many people have their day to day life

Then a different side

Be fun and who knows might click "

It will be a great night though as mentioned above it’s the 24th the organisers put in a lot of effort, someone will probably arrange pre drinks so can meet up in a pub beforehand if you have time.

There is a telegram chat also which will open up the week before I think, so you can chat to others going on the lead up to it.

Definitely worth considering

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