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By *elsbells2011 OP   Couple
over a year ago

fife

We have been thinking of hiring the bdsm sex dungeon in Edinburgh again ( see our photos). Helen is very interested to properly try out all the apparatus and properly go wild. Problem is lm useless at all that stuff so we have been trying to find guy or guys who are experienced in this particular field and not just guys like myself with no particular experience and just whinging it. We didn’t know what half the stuff was used for when we went in lol. Any help would be much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have heard through the Fab grape vine that a well known Glasgow Club put nights on for this and kinda do a workshop so maybe worth reaching out to the owner off said club as they maybe able to help you find said male/males . Hope this helps

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By *panksspankedMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

There's quite a selection isn't there? I'm good with some of it but certainly not everything that's there. Worth trying out the violet wand if you haven't already done so

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By *elsbells2011 OP   Couple
over a year ago

fife


"There's quite a selection isn't there? I'm good with some of it but certainly not everything that's there. Worth trying out the violet wand if you haven't already done so"

What’s that? Didn’t really do too in depth we were only there for an hour and was fairly overwhelmed lol. She’s very keen to try it all out though

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By *panksspankedMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It's a device for giving electric shocks(not too extreme). It's good fun.

An hour can be long enough to have a decent session. A lot depends upon what you enjoy and are into.

I totally understand the kid in a sweetshop syndrome though. It's nice that these places exist

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By *nox.Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"It's a device for giving electric shocks(not too extreme). It's good fun.

An hour can be long enough to have a decent session. A lot depends upon what you enjoy and are into.

I totally understand the kid in a sweetshop syndrome though. It's nice that these places exist "

Any recommendations on violet wands?

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By *panksspankedMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"It's a device for giving electric shocks(not too extreme). It's good fun.

An hour can be long enough to have a decent session. A lot depends upon what you enjoy and are into.

I totally understand the kid in a sweetshop syndrome though. It's nice that these places exist

Any recommendations on violet wands?"

I've never owned one. Simply played with them when the option was there. Probably a good idea to try first and see if it's something you like before investing. Tems machines can be fun too as well as doing what they're intended for

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By *nox.Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"It's a device for giving electric shocks(not too extreme). It's good fun.

An hour can be long enough to have a decent session. A lot depends upon what you enjoy and are into.

I totally understand the kid in a sweetshop syndrome though. It's nice that these places exist

Any recommendations on violet wands?

I've never owned one. Simply played with them when the option was there. Probably a good idea to try first and see if it's something you like before investing. Tems machines can be fun too as well as doing what they're intended for"

Thanks I've been wanting to try one for ages!

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By *panksspankedMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"It's a device for giving electric shocks(not too extreme). It's good fun.

An hour can be long enough to have a decent session. A lot depends upon what you enjoy and are into.

I totally understand the kid in a sweetshop syndrome though. It's nice that these places exist

Any recommendations on violet wands?

I've never owned one. Simply played with them when the option was there. Probably a good idea to try first and see if it's something you like before investing. Tems machines can be fun too as well as doing what they're intended for

Thanks I've been wanting to try one for ages!"

Quite often people at kink events have them. They're usually happy to give you a taste, otherwise a dungeon's a good option for experimenting. Usually someone there will show you how it works if you ask

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By *cottish_switchMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

If buying second hand be very wary. Properly reconditioned the older ones can be very, very good indeed but they NEED to be reconditioned & upgraded by someone who knows what they're doing or they can be extremely dangerous.

Always use a earth leakage circuit breaker on the plug (same as for an electric lawnmower) for safety.

There's loads of information on the web, Nick & Morphia or DV8trade have loads of info - Nick & Morphia is best suited to serious players, DV8trade has more info suited to beginner/casual players.

There are also quite a few people within the BDSM scene who're heavily into wands & electro play - at least one is reasonably regular at a well known Glasgow club & usually willing to give advice & demos.

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By *cottish_switchMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We have been thinking of hiring the bdsm sex dungeon in Edinburgh again ( see our photos). Helen is very interested to properly try out all the apparatus and properly go wild. Problem is lm useless at all that stuff so we have been trying to find guy or guys who are experienced in this particular field and not just guys like myself with no particular experience and just whinging it. We didn’t know what half the stuff was used for when we went in lol. Any help would be much appreciated "

You may do well popping along to one of the BDSM club nights - I know Cornucopia host one occasionally that is well attended. The benefit of club nights is that the equipment & play is usually supervised by experienced players who can provide guidance and more importantly ensure safety. You'll find players of all levels of experience, mostly a friendly bunch who're happy to share knowledge.

They are usually advertised on the fet site & sometimes here.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Try the well known fet site for a Dom. Torture Garden will be coming up in March in Edinburgh. You’d learn a lot and meet doms at that.

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By *panksspankedMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Try the well known fet site for a Dom. Torture Garden will be coming up in March in Edinburgh. You’d learn a lot and meet doms at that. "

TG can be fun but it's not great for serious play. Too many non playing onlookers for my tastes. It's a good night in lots of other ways and certainly worth a visit if you haven't been before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've used that dungeon a few times. Our first experience is one we will never forget, including when it was time to leave. Lifted up the shutter door and all the Hibs fans where matching down for the game.

We swore everyone knew what the place was and what we had been up to

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By *panksspankedMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"We've used that dungeon a few times. Our first experience is one we will never forget, including when it was time to leave. Lifted up the shutter door and all the Hibs fans where matching down for the game.

We swore everyone knew what the place was and what we had been up to "

Ha ha! I can relate to that. I always check the fixtures list before booking a session.

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By *ittyScritchesWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Assuming it's Maison, maybe consider hiring one of the pros for a sesh. Not only will they be experienced and familiar with the kit, it's less of a punt from a skills abd safety pov than some random from Fet or a club (though of course always worthwhile doing some diligence on anyone you opt to scene with).

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By *elsbells2011 OP   Couple
over a year ago

fife

We had thought of that but they are all female. Ideally it’s a male we are looking for as a dom for Helen. Doesn’t seem to be such available

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