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By (user no longer on site) OP   
45 weeks ago

Don't you just have to laugh at profiles that you read that state we wont send our face pics but if your messaging us we need to see your face . Double standard or what , can only happen on here as people never criticise it .Op's sorrry i have

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By *ustaman85Man
45 weeks ago

here and there


"Don't you just have to laugh at profiles that you read that state we wont send our face pics but if your messaging us we need to see your face . Double standard or what , can only happen on here as people never criticise it .Op's sorrry i have "

yep, baffles me

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By *amierebelMan
45 weeks ago

nae danger.

Its a queer one for sure but then I don't message much on here anyways

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By *allBBWWoman
45 weeks ago

North Ayrshire

If I've asked to see someone's face, I'll always return a pic, it's only fair. Tis definitely a double standard otherwise xx

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By *eetootsWoman
45 weeks ago

Glasgow

I've found that the ones who don't show pics of themselves aren't usually single. So annoying that they expect you to chat to a faceless person and want to see you but won't show themselves. X

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By *nox.Woman
45 weeks ago

Glasgow

What is the etiquette for when they send a face pic and your just not into them, do you send one back and then be like sorry but not for me? That feels harsh I dunno I always worry over that.

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By *ennyjMan
45 weeks ago

falkirk

Just a polite sorry not for me but thanks anyway would suffice for me

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By *rs grumpyWoman
45 weeks ago

motherwell

Maybe they just aasume you're ugly and need to check first.

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By *panksspankedMan
45 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"What is the etiquette for when they send a face pic and your just not into them, do you send one back and then be like sorry but not for me? That feels harsh I dunno I always worry over that."

I think a polite reply is preferable to a 'Here's what you could have won' photo

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By *nox.Woman
45 weeks ago

Glasgow


"What is the etiquette for when they send a face pic and your just not into them, do you send one back and then be like sorry but not for me? That feels harsh I dunno I always worry over that.

I think a polite reply is preferable to a 'Here's what you could have won' photo "

That's good thinking thanks although I'm definitely not a prize either

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By *ert999400Man
45 weeks ago

Glasgow


"I've found that the ones who don't show pics of themselves aren't usually single. So annoying that they expect you to chat to a faceless person and want to see you but won't show themselves. X"

Pot kettle black _eetoots where is your face pic.

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By *rs grumpyWoman
45 weeks ago

motherwell


"I've found that the ones who don't show pics of themselves aren't usually single. So annoying that they expect you to chat to a faceless person and want to see you but won't show themselves. X

Pot kettle black _eetoots where is your face pic."

They're talking about sending face pics via pm. The vast majority of people don't have public face pics.

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By *roplifeMan
45 weeks ago

Perth

I got knocked back recently where after chatting and I’d sent a face pic, the couple said ‘they just weren’t feeling the vibe’. Absolutely fine with that, not everyone is for everyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Been told my face I very comfortable to sit on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"

Pot kettle black _eetoots where is your face pic."

Expecting a woman to publicly have her face on the profile is exactly the attitude not to have chump

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By *eetootsWoman
45 weeks ago

Glasgow


"I've found that the ones who don't show pics of themselves aren't usually single. So annoying that they expect you to chat to a faceless person and want to see you but won't show themselves. X

Pot kettle black _eetoots where is your face pic."

I always send a pic on request

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By *eetootsWoman
45 weeks ago

Glasgow


"

Pot kettle black _eetoots where is your face pic.

Expecting a woman to publicly have her face on the profile is exactly the attitude not to have chump "

Thanks Mr xx

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By *eetootsWoman
45 weeks ago

Glasgow


"I've found that the ones who don't show pics of themselves aren't usually single. So annoying that they expect you to chat to a faceless person and want to see you but won't show themselves. X

Pot kettle black _eetoots where is your face pic.

Exactly, someone who won't show me their face via messages after ive sent mine but suggests to go to Snapchat makes me think that they aren't single (a few have admitted it when I questioned them) its so easy to upload pics on this so the excuses dont work with me x

They're talking about sending face pics via pm. The vast majority of people don't have public face pics."

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

It’s the people who demand photos but won’t show theirs as they’re professionals…

Professional what? Professional idiots?

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

This has just happened to us… Chatting for a bit, all sounded good. He asked to see a face pic, I said yes (if he could send one in return), then the fanny disappeared. Rude AF. A polite, not feeling the vibe would have been sufficient. His loss for sure!

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"This has just happened to us… Chatting for a bit, all sounded good. He asked to see a face pic, I said yes (if he could send one in return), then the fanny disappeared. Rude AF. A polite, not feeling the vibe would have been sufficient. His loss for sure!"

Some people are just on here for the wrong reasons ie: not to meet.

Just block these kind of people

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By *oberto7Man
45 weeks ago

Greenock

Ask you to send face pic & then block you Why i am so ugly lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

They didn’t block me. Quite possible they couldn’t respond straight away, but understandably most people would take that as a knock back. Anyway, I know we’re definitely not ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"This has just happened to us… Chatting for a bit, all sounded good. He asked to see a face pic, I said yes (if he could send one in return), then the fanny disappeared. Rude AF. A polite, not feeling the vibe would have been sufficient. His loss for sure!

Some people are just on here for the wrong reasons ie: not to meet.

Just block these kind of people

"
I do block such pests.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"This has just happened to us… Chatting for a bit, all sounded good. He asked to see a face pic, I said yes (if he could send one in return), then the fanny disappeared. Rude AF. A polite, not feeling the vibe would have been sufficient. His loss for sure!

Some people are just on here for the wrong reasons ie: not to meet.

Just block these kind of people

I do block such pests. "

Quite right.

But maybe they’ve realise that he / them are not in your league and just thought “f*ck it”

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"What is the etiquette for when they send a face pic and your just not into them, do you send one back and then be like sorry but not for me? That feels harsh I dunno I always worry over that."

Yeah, it's something that we feel a bit uneasy with. We're guilty of sending back a pic when we know it's going no further. I think it's more out of courtesy.

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By *assy LassieWoman
45 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"This has just happened to us… Chatting for a bit, all sounded good. He asked to see a face pic, I said yes (if he could send one in return), then the fanny disappeared. Rude AF. A polite, not feeling the vibe would have been sufficient. His loss for sure!

Some people are just on here for the wrong reasons ie: not to meet.

Just block these kind of people

"

Wouldn't say its the wrong reasons. Just different reasons to you. So therefore incompatible. Not wrong

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By *eetootsWoman
45 weeks ago

Glasgow


"What is the etiquette for when they send a face pic and your just not into them, do you send one back and then be like sorry but not for me? That feels harsh I dunno I always worry over that.

Yeah, it's something that we feel a bit uneasy with. We're guilty of sending back a pic when we know it's going no further. I think it's more out of courtesy. "

I do this also as I feel bad and don't want them thinkin it may be someone they know

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Happy to share a face pic in a message or friends add, I do not put on public pics tho.

Totally agree double standard when someone asks for a pic but will not do the same

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By *nox.Woman
45 weeks ago

Glasgow


"What is the etiquette for when they send a face pic and your just not into them, do you send one back and then be like sorry but not for me? That feels harsh I dunno I always worry over that.

Yeah, it's something that we feel a bit uneasy with. We're guilty of sending back a pic when we know it's going no further. I think it's more out of courtesy.

I do this also as I feel bad and don't want them thinkin it may be someone they know "

Just never sure lol tried both ways and have had abuse either way

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By *eetootsWoman
45 weeks ago

Glasgow


"What is the etiquette for when they send a face pic and your just not into them, do you send one back and then be like sorry but not for me? That feels harsh I dunno I always worry over that.

Yeah, it's something that we feel a bit uneasy with. We're guilty of sending back a pic when we know it's going no further. I think it's more out of courtesy.

I do this also as I feel bad and don't want them thinkin it may be someone they know

Just never sure lol tried both ways and have had abuse either way "

Ye can't win eh

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By *.Anony mouseMan
45 weeks ago

Dumbarton

I don’t have a face pic public anymore purely for work reasons and where I live (small town) when I did have someone told my ex who used it against me.. I’m happy to share once chatted and there are some on my profile if we become friends… not every silhouette profile is a cheater

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By *ellaboo400Couple
44 weeks ago

Gorebridge


"Don't you just have to laugh at profiles that you read that state we wont send our face pics but if your messaging us we need to see your face . Double standard or what , can only happen on here as people never criticise it .Op's sorrry i have "

I thought that too

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
44 weeks ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"Don't you just have to laugh at profiles that you read that state we wont send our face pics but if your messaging us we need to see your face . Double standard or what , can only happen on here as people never criticise it .Op's sorrry i have "

Instant red flag and side swipe..

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By *izzmasterzeroMan
44 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I think if you want to see a face pic of someone then you should be sending your face pic first before expecting theirs

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By *hav02Man
44 weeks ago

Glasgow/London

It's the silhouette profiles that baffle me.

But participating in face pic Friday can be fun

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By *thleticLad100Man
44 weeks ago

Greenock

100% agree with the OG on this, as a single guy on here it's hard enough at the best of times and if u speak out about things that annoy u then u get shot down in flames in a public forum. Nice to see so many folk agree on something

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