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By (user no longer on site) OP   
44 weeks ago

Do singles normally just go on there own or do they try find a mate to go?

I really want to go for the first time but nervous in going alone

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By *ife NinjaMan
44 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I'm single. Go on my own. First time, many moons ago, I shit my keks thinking about it, but it gets easier.

Don't sit on your own. Join in and chat. Nothing worse than nursing a pint solo. Don't be one of those guys following folk around or a wanking zombie. You'll be fine. Have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
44 weeks ago

Yea just nervous of approaching folk etc

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By *ane DTV/TS
44 weeks ago

London - till 25th

Just breath, be polite, not pissed, don't go expecting yer hole.

Treat it as a social event with like minded adults.

If you click then you have the chance to explore with out that "where do we go to fuck" problem... aka is the hoose tidy enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
44 weeks ago

Sounds like good advice

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By *azzle99Woman
44 weeks ago

Edinburgh

You won’t just open the front door and see a pile of bodies!

You ll come to a reception area that’s closed off, then likely a locker area. You ll be given a tour and explained any rules. When being shown round you ll likely get people looking your way, smile, say hello. You ll then be taken back to the social area, and explained rules about drinks/bar. I’d say at that point chat to bar staff, chat to a regular at the bar etc. Don’t just go and hide in a corner. It’s not that scary

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
44 weeks ago

Yea the way you put it, sounds a very relaxed atmosphere x

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By *redwilma666Couple
44 weeks ago

Kilbirnie


"Do singles normally just go on there own or do they try find a mate to go?

I really want to go for the first time but nervous in going alone "

Do you go to a pub alone? Clubs are just pjbs with private rooms, like a hotel bar

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
44 weeks ago

Not really haha, know what your saying though mate

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
44 weeks ago

SW Scotland

Would advise to go to a social first and it’ll make your first club trip easier once you’ve met a few people in a normal environment.

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By *T ScotsmanMan
44 weeks ago

Mandurah

Work away most of the time so never have time for my localish club, was working one weekend in Bpool. Saw the club was open and it went exactly like as described. Met a couple who invited me to a private room and started a great night.

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By *4Fun11Woman
44 weeks ago

Glasgow


"You won’t just open the front door and see a pile of bodies!

You ll come to a reception area that’s closed off, then likely a locker area. You ll be given a tour and explained any rules. When being shown round you ll likely get people looking your way, smile, say hello. You ll then be taken back to the social area, and explained rules about drinks/bar. I’d say at that point chat to bar staff, chat to a regular at the bar etc. Don’t just go and hide in a corner. It’s not that scary "

^^^what she said^^^

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