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Just posting as one half of the social organisers on behalf of AbzSocialPear til we can get approved on the forums 
Our next social is on Sunday 4th February 6-10pm.
As usual, the venue will only be disclosed when you message on the day to confirm your intended attendance to the social.
All welcome. We work on a first come first served basis on the day of the event and once we’ve hit the max amount of people we may have to stop accepting more people. Messaging before they day does not guarantee a place. You must confirm on the day please
Social info:
6-10pm
This will be a strictly social event in a public venue so no playing! Discretion is key. Please don’t tell others why we are there.
It will be in a venue in the centre of Aberdeen and the venue will be given out on the day, just message your interest on the day to our page - Abzsocialpear
Once you receive the venue please don’t share this info with others… if you know folk who want to come along they need to message from their profile for the venue
For any newbies thinking of coming along and maybe not sure what to expect/nervous please feel free to post below or DM us. This is just a wee evening out in a pub with like minded folk and with no judgements. It’s a great way to meet folk in the scene in the local area and with no pressure. Our socials in 2024 will be alternated between Sunday evenings and Saturday evenings just to give a bit of balance as we know each day has pros/cons. Our Sunday ones tend to be a bit more relaxed and quieter so perfect for coming along for a good blether
We hope to see you next month! 
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"Really need to make a return to a social but unfortunately I'll be kilted up in Wales at the rugby that weekend" Yes you do Mr! But ooooooo that will be super exciting though so at least your missing it for something fun  | |||
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"I’d like to come but it’ll be my first. Will you look after me?!!! "We went to our first social in November. We were so nervous, but everyone was amazing and make you feel so welcome. Go you won't regret it | |||
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"I’m in
Actually shite, just seen it’s a Sunday. Won’t manage chums
Shitebag getting my hopes up "I know pal I’m sorry, if I can get the babies watched il be up | |||
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"count me in as i want to make this a fab year and looking forward to meeting those from the last social- and more. 2023 wasn't a good yer so lets make 24 awesome " Woooo! Glad to see your fabulous self making a reappearance | |||
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"This sounds great. Definitely interested in attending for the first time. Still novices so be great to chat to some friendly like minded people x"Newbies are always more than welcome! We usually get a mix of regulars and newbies so it’s usually a good mix will be lovely to meet you two | |||
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"I'll come. " Yay! Looking forward to catching up with you lady! | |||
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Don't be worried about coming along for the first time, we are super chilled out friendly bunch! You'll always have someone to chat to, could be 1-1 chats or with a handful of people talking in a little group. | |||
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"I'll come. " Looking forward to catching up with you sunshine | |||
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"I’m in
Actually shite, just seen it’s a Sunday. Won’t manage chums "Nooooooo but yes the one after will be a Saturday | |||
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"I'll come to the next Saturday night one, too far to come myself on a Sunday" That’s alright, will be lovely to meet you at one of the Saturday ones | |||
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"Of course I'll be there! "YAY! | |||
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Newbie inbound! X | |||
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"Gutted I won't make this one. Hope you all have a blast and will hopefully see you at the next one " Gutted to not see your face at this one, looking forward to seeing you at the next! | |||
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"I’d like to come but it’ll be my first. Will you look after me?!!! "Aw yay!! Will be great to meet you! and absolutely you’re in safe hands | |||
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"I’d like to come but it’ll be my first. Will you look after me?!!!
We went to our first social in November. We were so nervous, but everyone was amazing and make you feel so welcome. Go you won't regret it"Aww thank you so much for this, we really appreciate it! And looking forward to seeing the two of you again | |||
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"I'm too shy "We’re shy too so you’ll be absolutely fine | |||
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"We’re hoping to get to one! Unfortunately can’t make this one" No worries at all - were waiting for venue confirmation before we put future dates out for diaries and hopefully we’ll get to meet you two at one of them | |||
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"Need/ want to start attending these but not going to lie nervous as hell of bumping in to Sandra from the office or Tom and Joan the neighbours from down the street lol "That’s totally valid and understandable but I guess they would be there for the same reason | |||
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"Need/ want to start attending these but not going to lie nervous as hell of bumping in to Sandra from the office or Tom and Joan the neighbours from down the street lol
That’s totally valid and understandable but I guess they would be there for the same reason "Haha I know lol but I’m also worried about them being cliquey do folk mix? It sounds like a fun way to get to know people il admit | |||
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) but me and the other host enjoy introducing newbies to folk if they want a wee helping hand and usually people will talk in 1-1s or small groups depending on how social they want to be it’s a hard one to answer without waffling on like a looney tune I’m (E) quite bad for bringing with me really cheesy ice breaker questions too I’m really painting myself as a professional mature person | |||
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"So Looking forward to attending it’s been too long since I’ve been to a social. Not my first time but still a newbie and hopefully make some new friends " Looking forward to welcoming you back on Sunday | |||
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"Sadly I’ll no longer make it. I’ve had a rethink given I’m up at 6am on the Monday and I’ve no control when there’s wine involved!! If there’s a Saturday one, I’ll be there!! (With a wine in each hand!) ENJOY! " Totally understandable, it’s usually a sober one for folk, I think I’ll be behaving as working after the social finishes so no cheeky shots or wine
March will be a Saturday so hopefully see you at that one | |||
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"Hi you lot, I’m travelling up to Aberdeen on the Sunday for once. No idea about the travel arrangements yet as I think there is a Strike but I’m hoping to be around. V Nervous about popping in but….. I can be brave lol " Yay fortune favours the brave or whatever the saying is fingers crossed for the travel plans going ahead | |||
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"Right I’m in I’m being a brave girl and coming alone so please be nice lol "Yay! looking forward to meeting you | |||
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"We haven't managed to get along to a social in some time now. Looking to rectify that on Sunday "Hello strangers! Would be absolutely lovely to see you both again, we’ve missed your faces | |||
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We’ll see you guys next month though! X | |||
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"We haven't managed to get along to a social in some time now. Looking to rectify that on Sunday "Yay! Yay! Yay! We have missed you! (Well, I can only speak for myself )  | |||
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Hopefully we will get to the march one instead x | |||
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"We haven't managed to get along to a social in some time now. Looking to rectify that on Sunday
Hello strangers! Would be absolutely lovely to see you both again, we’ve missed your faces "Aww thank you. We will be sure to bring our faces along | |||
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"We haven't managed to get along to a social in some time now. Looking to rectify that on Sunday
Yay! Yay! Yay! We have missed you! (Well, I can only speak for myself ) "Wow, three yays, we're rather partial to a three-yay
Missed you and the other lovely folks too
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"Is there room for one more? "Of course sunshine! Just going through messages so drop us one for the details | |||
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If you can drop us a message if you are confirming attendance for details - newbies read the profile first and if you get your messages in by 2ish that would be grand so we can get organised beforehand x | |||
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"Hello everyone! Yay it’s today!
If you can drop us a message if you are confirming attendance for details - newbies read the profile first and if you get your messages in by 2ish that would be grand so we can get organised beforehand x "Oops I'm a bit late, you'd think I'd know by now . Hopefully I'll still get to come along | |||
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"Hello everyone! Yay it’s today!
If you can drop us a message if you are confirming attendance for details - newbies read the profile first and if you get your messages in by 2ish that would be grand so we can get organised beforehand x
Oops I'm a bit late, you'd think I'd know by now . Hopefully I'll still get to come along "You are never too late sunshine looking forward to seeing you later! | |||
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So if we talked, please let me know and I'll get you verified if you want one (was sitting down at the back of the room for most of the night) | |||
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can’t wait to attend more | |||
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"Thanks littlered for introducing me to everyone at the social "You are very welcome! Glad you got settled in pretty well and next time you'll be able to come and speak to everyone! | |||
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"I’d like to come but it’ll be my first. Will you look after me?!!! "Of course | |||
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"I’d like to come but it’ll be my first. Will you look after me?!!!
Of course "Something oddly sinister about saying this after the event
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"I’d like to come but it’ll be my first. Will you look after me?!!!
Of course
Something oddly sinister about saying this after the event
I like it "Pmsl I actually read the dates wrong. My apologies lol when’s the next one? | |||
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"I’d like to come but it’ll be my first. Will you look after me?!!!
Of course
Something oddly sinister about saying this after the event
I like it
Pmsl I actually read the dates wrong. My apologies lol when’s the next one? "Don’t e apologising man, I’m only poking fun. Abzpear tend to list dates and things on their page chum, go have a snoop. Hope you can get along, always good to see new faces with old | |||
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