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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
50 weeks ago

grangemouth

How do other mf couples find this when looking for other mf couples?

It seems to be a difficult thing

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By *rMrsEastCouple
50 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Difficult!

Takes so much time & effort we sometimes think is it worth it.

There are lots of good genuine couples here, just need to change the way you find them x

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By *adbury girlWoman
50 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

You could try the socials as always lots of couples attend and it’s a good way to meet people with no expectations just a fun evening out. Everyone is friendly so you won’t be left not talking to anyone

There are two coming up in February - valentines one on 11th I think might be full just now and silent disco on 24th, there are threads on the forum if you want to check them out

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By *r Horny and Mrs NaughtyCouple
50 weeks ago

Lanarkish

So hard. Seem to never get past the social despite them going well and everyone agreeing so. Seems people are always on the look out for something better or just for the verification maybe?

We are at the point now we think what’s the point lol.

Mrs x

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By *SCouple81Couple
50 weeks ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

It takes some luck and determination to meet. Keeping conversation going sometimes can be time consuming but it's worth the effort when you meet someone you want to play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Don’t put too much pressure on yourself or others and things will happen in time , It will work if it’s meant to be xx

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

it can be difficult fitting in around each others family commitments

we arnt necessarily the best at keeping conversation going via messages so you get chatting with a couple and maby they cant meet fir a week or two posibly now we arnt free that weekend so thats now 4 weeks of chat which just tends to dry up at that point

we usually end up meeting single guys last minute as they tend to be able to be more flexible

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By *ornybiccoupleCouple
50 weeks ago

falkirk

Defo is hard to find other couples without having to go to a club or something

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

I think it takes more time as there has to be attraction between all relevant parties , for us both mentally and physically.

Equally you need to be what both the other couple are looking for ( we won’t be for everyone ). Failing that social only drinks and filthy chat can be as much fun for us.

P x

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By *ischiefandmayhem69Couple
50 weeks ago

Leuchars

Even when a meet has been agreed a lot just gaslight you and then block you. We are getting to the point also like many others of thinking why do us genuine fabbers bother.

If anyone is interested we are in Inverness Friday Saturday 27th January in Inverness if our profile appeals to you

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By *orl1971Couple
50 weeks ago

Glasgow

It’s very difficult. We probably would end up going to clubs to find people when we get more time. On our last club visit we got two Fab couples who then contacted us.

People behave online in a way they would never do face to face and sometimes the behaviour of people you contact on Fab can become tedious. Better to know people in the real world.

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
50 weeks ago

Bathgate

We find that only meeting in clubs seems to be a good filter against time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

We agree with all of you above. Hard to find because we have some standards and we are sure others have too.

We are both "action" people, straight to the point, for instance we like to chat a bit and make social - to see people in a flesh and show ourselves. We appreciate if people has drive and enthusiasm.

Hard to arrange the meeting, we always feel like we are just an option and they have other shags arranged

(tbh we understand they are not into us for various reasons)

No drama, we go with the flow.

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By *ischiefandmayhem69Couple
50 weeks ago

Leuchars

"We agree with all of you above. Hard to find because we have some standards and we are sure others have too.

We are both "action" people, straight to the point, for instance we like to chat a bit and make social - to see people in a flesh and show ourselves. We appreciate if people has drive and enthusiasm.

Hard to arrange the meeting, we always feel like we are just an option and they have other shags arranged

(tbh we understand they are not into us for various reasons)

No drama, we go with the flow.

May we compliment you both fabulous

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By *unkydunkyCouple
50 weeks ago

Glasgow

"It’s very difficult. We probably would end up going to clubs to find people when we get more time. On our last club visit we got two Fab couples who then contacted us.

People behave online in a way they would never do face to face and sometimes the behaviour of people you contact on Fab can become tedious. Better to know people in the real world. "

Totally agree with this. At least when you meet people in the flesh you know that there is an attraction there. Fab can have to many fakes, fantasists and filtered photos

F xx

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By *orl1971Couple
50 weeks ago

Glasgow

"It’s very difficult. We probably would end up going to clubs to find people when we get more time. On our last club visit we got two Fab couples who then contacted us.

People behave online in a way they would never do face to face and sometimes the behaviour of people you contact on Fab can become tedious. Better to know people in the real world.

Totally agree with this. At least when you meet people in the flesh you know that there is an attraction there. Fab can have to many fakes, fantasists and filtered photos

F xx"

Don’t talk to us about photos. lol.

People seem to treat face pics as the ultimate confirmation people are genuine. We’ve seen pics that were 20 years and 4 stone ago as well as seeing hugely filtered photos. Some we were not even sure it was the same person.

The best way to check people out is to meet people face to face. Lovely people can also take a bad picture and are more attractive face to face.

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
50 weeks ago

grangemouth

Everyone is different and that's ok.

For us

If someone messaged

We look at pics

If we are visually attracted

We would rather just be honest

What are you looking for

What we are looking for

Be honest if there's something you will not do

If we are all looking for similar things

Then meet

It's frustrating when people message

Not honest

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
50 weeks ago

grangemouth

"We agree with all of you above. Hard to find because we have some standards and we are sure others have too.

We are both "action" people, straight to the point, for instance we like to chat a bit and make social - to see people in a flesh and show ourselves. We appreciate if people has drive and enthusiasm.

Hard to arrange the meeting, we always feel like we are just an option and they have other shags arranged

(tbh we understand they are not into us for various reasons)

No drama, we go with the flow.

Agreed on standards or preferences

Also if you are honest some people are not willing to give you time

There way or nothing

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
50 weeks ago

grangemouth

"Difficult!

Takes so much time & effort we sometimes think is it worth it.

There are lots of good genuine couples here, just need to change the way you find them x"

Also people put something on profile that is different in a message

We are easy going

If someone is wanting to build up or try something that is ok

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By *ustforfun1759Couple
50 weeks ago

IRVINE

It's near impossible these days

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

"We agree with all of you above. Hard to find because we have some standards and we are sure others have too.

We are both "action" people, straight to the point, for instance we like to chat a bit and make social - to see people in a flesh and show ourselves. We appreciate if people has drive and enthusiasm.

Hard to arrange the meeting, we always feel like we are just an option and they have other shags arranged

(tbh we understand they are not into us for various reasons)

No drama, we go with the flow.

Agreed on standards or preferences

Also if you are honest some people are not willing to give you time

There way or nothing "

Sometimes being to honest can go against you but I’m not going to lie, if someone doesn’t like me i don’t mind at least they are being honest back and I appreciate this.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

We were really enthusiastic when we first ventured into this, probably naively thinking it can't be that difficult to make something happen, but it definitely requires patience. Organised socials are a great way to connect with people. We prefer clubs these days to meeting people for individual socials, as it increases the chances on the night.

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By *ubbyandHisHotwifeCouple
50 weeks ago

Glasgowish

honestly socials & clubs

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By *amoruUsagiCouple
50 weeks ago

Glasgow

It is difficult.

We met up with a woman from the Fife area here but nothing happened. She left Fab because of abuse from other members on here.

We are currently looking for a girl to join my partner and I for fun but we are taking our time due to work commitments and real life. I am considering asking my partner if he wants another couple to join us.

Hopefully, something will happen because I do enjoy Fab.

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By *orl1971Couple
50 weeks ago

Glasgow

To be honest online people are just flaky.

We met a new unverified couple for a social. Seemed nice and all agreed we might meet up again. They’re new so we did not pressure them.

They contact us to say another social would be good and when were we available. We messaged some dates. They read the email then blanked us for a few months. Then before Christmas messaged to say they’re leaving the site.

Then last night they’re looking for a meet then saying looking forward to a sexy meet if anyone is available. WTF.

Yes so many couples are flaky and just waste time. As someone said clubs and socials are the answer.

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By *ife2010Couple
50 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

"To be honest online people are just flaky.

We met a new unverified couple for a social. Seemed nice and all agreed we might meet up again. They’re new so we did not pressure them.

Then last night they’re looking for a meet then saying looking forward to a sexy meet if anyone is available. WTF.

Yes so many couples are flaky and just waste time. As someone said clubs and socials are the answer. "

Some couples aren’t ’couples’!

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By *ischiefandmayhem69Couple
50 weeks ago

Leuchars

So very true

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By *ischiefandmayhem69Couple
50 weeks ago

Leuchars

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

"To be honest online people are just flaky.

We met a new unverified couple for a social. Seemed nice and all agreed we might meet up again. They’re new so we did not pressure them.

Then last night they’re looking for a meet then saying looking forward to a sexy meet if anyone is available. WTF.

Yes so many couples are flaky and just waste time. As someone said clubs and socials are the answer. "

That’s a right pain, I get the same couple contacting me wanting friends requests face pic then some messages and ghosted. Happened 4 times I don’t understand them well the woman who does the messaging.

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By *nowy and the GruffaloCouple
50 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

Sometimes it can be very difficult. I think that’s why some couples give up every now and again. If you are fortunate enough to live close(ish) to a good club I imagine it would make life so much easier.

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By *essarosa7leeCouple
50 weeks ago

East Fife

Very simply said by Fife2010...

Some couples aren’t ’couples’!

The have photos up from long ago and then repeat post them after erased earlier. (Photo recycling)

Or... keen to meet until you set a date then cancelled with messages saying the female can't make it but they can.

Yes, linking up with couples is sometimes difficult but when it happens, we have made really good friends.

Xxx

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By *otrock-cplCouple
49 weeks ago

Glenrothes

We have had our fair share of couples that are complete timewasters but have never put us off from great times with many more.

We all have our day to day life's and some people need to remember this.

We are always looking for more genuine couples and single females x

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By *ife2010Couple
49 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

Then there is the other side of the coin.

Friendships made!

We went to the wedding of a couple that fancied K.

Buffet was amazing!

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
49 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Still looking to meet a couple and a female in the future

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By *eeling hot hot hotCouple
49 weeks ago

Ardrossan

"How do other mf couples find this when looking for other mf couples?

It seems to be a difficult thing

We only chat on here, all our first meets are club meets

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

As a single guy I can be quite picky about who I meet. I can only imagine that as a couple it must be harder because 4 people need to like each other.

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By *andN2Couple
49 weeks ago

Glasgow

Our overall experience of the people on fab has been great.

Our problem is we can only meet 2 or 3 time per year. our list of folk to meet is much long than our availability. So it’s a bit frustrating for all parties involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"Our overall experience of the people on fab has been great.

Our problem is we can only meet 2 or 3 time per year. our list of folk to meet is much long than our availability. So it’s a bit frustrating for all parties involved. "

Oh wow

Would love to be added to your folk to meet list lol x

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By *otstuff69xCouple
49 weeks ago

dundee

seems to be a lot of timewasters and fakes.with no pictures together or maybe 1 if your lucky but that could be anyone.

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By *allBubblesCouple
49 weeks ago

Glasgow

We don't do socials before hand as we have to be discreet. Not ideal, but when thecstars align it can be great fun.

Full 4 way play though, none of this soft swap nonsense.

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By *ischiefandmayhem69Couple
48 weeks ago

Leuchars

Very hard

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By *rsheelzCouple
48 weeks ago

Glasgow

Only ever met 2 couples on here, would like to do the social but paranoid about bumping into someone we would know

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"Only ever met 2 couples on here, would like to do the social but paranoid about bumping into someone we would know"

Many feel like this.

Two things.

If you live in Glasgow then go to a Dundee or Edinburgh Social or if you live in Edinburgh then go to Glasgow or Ayrshire social, in your mind you will feel more at ease in your mind of less chance of meeting someone you know..

If you do meet anyone you know, guess what they are there for the same reason you are, so don’t worry about it. You can take it further but if they are not for you then don’t. Your here as a couple to meet couples, Don't let anyone hold you back, just have an absolute blast together.

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
48 weeks ago

grangemouth

Glad it's not just us

Trying to find a couple who likes similar stuff

Some attractions that are wanting to meet

If you can meet anytime or no preference maybe easy

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

We find it easier to meet couples at the clubs

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By *itkat_and_cutCouple
48 weeks ago

Edinburgh

We find that like ourselves most couples have limited time available due to having kids. Trying to align diaries is always tricky and conversations can dwindle as time goes on. We're probably going to try a club this year to see what that's like.

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
48 weeks ago

Edinburgh

We tend to explore together in clubs and socials. Also fun to have other exploring playmates interested in other aspects. We make doace for each other to have alternate fun.

Yes the traditional mf mf let's make a date has never quite worked for us. We plan in advance and then the other party cancels last minute.

I'm hopeful we will find a lovely long term couple soon.

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
48 weeks ago

grangemouth

It seems that a lot of people are feeling the same

It's clicking with another couple

Who like the same as you

Also when suits

Then send address what if ....

Also people put information on profile that could stop you messaging

Or couples who it's what they want no flexibility

So many reasons it can be difficult

We naively thought it would be easier

Also if you are discreet it can be hard

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By *oungAtHeartCurvyCoupleCouple
48 weeks ago

Glasgow

Very difficult most couples look for verifications but to get verified you need to meet vicious circle lol

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
47 weeks ago

grangemouth

What is wrong with people

They ask to meet then don't show

Or straight men fake that they are bi

Enough

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
47 weeks ago

grangemouth

Just seen a good idea on the form

A social for couples

But a fun social

For couples to meet chat play bowling etc

Have a drink and see how it goes

Less pressure

Definitely sounds good

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Just seen a good idea on the form

A social for couples

But a fun social

For couples to meet chat play bowling etc

Have a drink and see how it goes

Less pressure

Definitely sounds good "

Sounds good to us. Just need someone to organise it.

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By *orl1971Couple
47 weeks ago

Glasgow

We’d be interested in a social for couples but we tried organising before and everyone dropped out. Many just revert to clubs as you know people will turn up.

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By *erryandjuneCouple
47 weeks ago

Livingston

It does seem like an industry trying to find the right couple!

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
47 weeks ago

grangemouth

"Just seen a good idea on the form

A social for couples

But a fun social

For couples to meet chat play bowling etc

Have a drink and see how it goes

Less pressure

Definitely sounds good

Sounds good to us. Just need someone to organise it.

It does seem like it is more difficult for couples meeting other couples

And some people have their day to day life

Then their naughty side

Social isn't for everyone

But it actually sounds like fun

A good mix of couples

Meeting up at a location

Drinks ,pool,beer pong etc

May meet friends

May go further

Less pressure

And for some keeping it secret restricts meets

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
47 weeks ago

grangemouth

"It does seem like an industry trying to find the right couple!"

I agree

It's finding a couple that are iniin similar

Attraction

Where to meet

Messing around

And everyone is different

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By *nchantingEncountersCouple
46 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

We find it's far too much hard work here, understand that's there has to be an attraction and that but people are to weird lol, site works great for us abroad but Scotland is torture for this site, so many attention seekers and folk that are scared to take the leap or seeking perfection, tend to have our fun on holidays as it's limited here x

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By *ngelnfugyCouple
46 weeks ago

Dundee

difficult

preferring club meets nowadays

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
46 weeks ago

grangemouth

We all have different preferences

Good to know we are not the only ones

If u just do anything with anyone then it's easy

But if you are restricted with kids etc

If you have a preference

And discreet

It makes things harder

Could write a book

Ppl who messaged you tell them your preference

They say ok ...

Then backtrack only so they can come see female

Why lie just message others suitable

Then the ppl who don't show

Stop taking

Etc

Or they ppl who are just fishing to see who you are to out you locally makes u worry x

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By *adbury girlWoman
46 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

"Only ever met 2 couples on here, would like to do the social but paranoid about bumping into someone we would know

Many feel like this.

Two things.

I get your points but although people are generally all there for the same reason the impact of people recognising you can be different for everyone.

For example I have adult children so if their friends happened to be there then it could be embarrassing for my kids if they found out.

Some people it can be their jobs, not all companies would be understanding, would say it gives out the wrong image or could compromise you if your position is one that makes decisions that impacts on other people’s lives.

I don’t mind people knowing I’m on here, many people do, but there are people I would prefer didn’t know

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
46 weeks ago

grangemouth

"Only ever met 2 couples on here, would like to do the social but paranoid about bumping into someone we would know

Many feel like this.

Two things.

I get your points but although people are generally all there for the same reason the impact of people recognising you can be different for everyone.

For example I have adult children so if their friends happened to be there then it could be embarrassing for my kids if they found out.

I don’t mind people knowing I’m on here, many people do, but there are people I would prefer didn’t know

Yes it's difficult if you want to keep your privacy intact

Not everyone is respectful

Or decent

We have had someone call at all times threatening to just show up

So stopped giving our number

Another person threatening to publicly out us

So now wary of sending face pics

Send address then they don't show

So it starts being less fun

Pros and cons

We don't mind knowing someone as long as it's not shared

If we see someone we have met

We would need put them in a position

Just a hi or something.x

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
46 weeks ago

grangemouth

Interested in seeing if there are other mf couples

Ideally with both bi or male bi

That are also looking to meet regularly

Social and pleasure

Nightin nights out hold etc

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