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By *iscodave OP   Man
over a year ago

larkhall

Is it happening to all guys on here or just me, happened a few times, decent converstion, no cheekyness, then bam, nothing......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they got bored with the convo, life also takes over some just dont have the time

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By *iscodave OP   Man
over a year ago

larkhall

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By *iscodave OP   Man
over a year ago

larkhall


"Maybe they got bored with the convo, life also takes over some just dont have the time"

Nah not with my outstanding patter

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Just you. Absolutely everyone else shagging constantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it was a bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it happens to most guys especially if you’re new to the fab scene. There is other dating sites remember this. I got a compliment from a woman the other night and next day deleted lol.

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By *iscodave OP   Man
over a year ago

larkhall


"Just you. Absolutely everyone else shagging constantly "

Maybe one day ill get a shag then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just you. Absolutely everyone else shagging constantly

Maybe one day ill get a shag then "

Do you not have friends with benefits outside Fab if you don’t well happy wanking

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By *iscodave OP   Man
over a year ago

larkhall


"Just you. Absolutely everyone else shagging constantly

Maybe one day ill get a shag then

Do you not have friends with benefits outside Fab if you don’t well happy wanking "

Yeah but looking for more thats why im here

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By *iscodave OP   Man
over a year ago

larkhall


"Maybe it was a bloke "

Wouldnt surprise me on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just you. Absolutely everyone else shagging constantly "

Fecking spat my tea out there reading this pmsllllllllllllllllllllllll

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By *reeformMan
over a year ago

China

Happens to me too...

Really odd, conversation goes well and then gone all of a sudden.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Just you. Absolutely everyone else shagging constantly

Fecking spat my tea out there reading this pmsllllllllllllllllllllllll "

Why you got time to drink tea. Get back to the shagging ffs. It's the rules!!!

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I’ve been seeing a guy for years on and off, I see him quite often for a few weeks at the latter part of the year then just as I think we are getting somewhere cause he buys me nice gifts he then ghosts me so I don’t hear from him for months until the following December when he starts it all over again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that’s not good at all. I hope you’re okay x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m afraid to say it has happened to me heaps of times and I’m never disrespected anyone. I have no clue what I’m doing wrong

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

It's not just men, believe it or not. It doesn't feel great, but most of the time it's probably not personal. Life happens, Fab is a small slice of it for many of us. Don't fret.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I’ve been seeing a guy for years on and off, I see him quite often for a few weeks at the latter part of the year then just as I think we are getting somewhere cause he buys me nice gifts he then ghosts me so I don’t hear from him for months until the following December when he starts it all over again "

Is it santa. Please tell me it is.

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish


"I’ve been seeing a guy for years on and off, I see him quite often for a few weeks at the latter part of the year then just as I think we are getting somewhere cause he buys me nice gifts he then ghosts me so I don’t hear from him for months until the following December when he starts it all over again "

Is there an explanation or what does he say when he reappears,

sorry don’t mean to pry, but, I’m just thinking how?

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish


"It's not just men, believe it or not. It doesn't feel great, but most of the time it's probably not personal. Life happens, Fab is a small slice of it for many of us. Don't fret. "

Without getting too deep, no-one likes rejection and unexplained is worse with the doubts, questions and insecurities that we all have.

Certainly know I’ve questioned myself, ‘what did I say/do’ but as you say, it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it happening to all guys on here or just me, happened a few times, decent converstion, no cheekyness, then bam, nothing...... "

Just wait till you decide to venture into the dating scene where you are actually ghosted in the way where is actually does frustrate. You speak, you get on, arrange to meet up and they don’t turn up. Atleast on fab you just get ignored after a few emails.

Dust yourself down and move on buddy, it’s really not that bad considering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens A LOT. Thought Halloween was well done with, but clearly not… haha xx

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By *oxy RedWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I’ve been seeing a guy for years on and off, I see him quite often for a few weeks at the latter part of the year then just as I think we are getting somewhere cause he buys me nice gifts he then ghosts me so I don’t hear from him for months until the following December when he starts it all over again

Is it santa. Please tell me it is. "

This! Lol

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By *ide em cowgirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Ah no one is safe from a bit of ghosting on here. Don’t take it to heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Caspers everywhere!!

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

It happens to females as well...chat for a good while then nothing for weeks then a massage pops up you think wtf I say move on in my mind it's his loss

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I’ve been seeing a guy for years on and off, I see him quite often for a few weeks at the latter part of the year then just as I think we are getting somewhere cause he buys me nice gifts he then ghosts me so I don’t hear from him for months until the following December when he starts it all over again

Is it santa. Please tell me it is.

This! Lol "

Ladies do you know him too - I knew we weren’t exclusive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens to females as well...chat for a good while then nothing for weeks then a massage pops up you think wtf I say move on in my mind it's his loss"

Deffo, you chat get on arrange to meet then boom nothing, aw well... next!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Onwards and upwards

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By *rdadjokesMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I remember it happening to me years ago we were getting on so well chatting away for weeks and she encouraged me to book a hotel room for us and even night before she still confirmed and said she was looking forward to it.

So on the day hear I nothing all day and then try and phone and I'm blocked so instead I had a pity party with all the crisps and sweets I bought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember it happening to me years ago we were getting on so well chatting away for weeks and she encouraged me to book a hotel room for us and even night before she still confirmed and said she was looking forward to it.

So on the day hear I nothing all day and then try and phone and I'm blocked so instead I had a pity party with all the crisps and sweets I bought. "

That's actually tragic what a scutter! The crisps and sweets probably tasted better anyway

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

We got ghosted by a couple a few months ago who still look at our profile EVERY SINGLE DAY haha

Our profile is probably the most boring one on fab and hasn't been updated in months so God knows what they're actually looking at

Nowt stranger than folk

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By *rdadjokesMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I remember it happening to me years ago we were getting on so well chatting away for weeks and she encouraged me to book a hotel room for us and even night before she still confirmed and said she was looking forward to it.

So on the day hear I nothing all day and then try and phone and I'm blocked so instead I had a pity party with all the crisps and sweets I bought.

That's actually tragic what a scutter! The crisps and sweets probably tasted better anyway "

Haribo I bought aswell her loss lol

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By *rdadjokesMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"We got ghosted by a couple a few months ago who still look at our profile EVERY SINGLE DAY haha

Our profile is probably the most boring one on fab and hasn't been updated in months so God knows what they're actually looking at

Nowt stranger than folk"

lol aye thats weird if they keep looking at profile everyday after ghosting yous as you say nothing stranger than folk.

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish


"We got ghosted by a couple a few months ago who still look at our profile EVERY SINGLE DAY haha

Our profile is probably the most boring one on fab and hasn't been updated in months so God knows what they're actually looking at

Nowt stranger than folk"

Very weird.

Added some fabs as it’s Xmas time

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen


"Is it happening to all guys on here or just me, happened a few times, decent converstion, no cheekyness, then bam, nothing...... "

To be fair, it's probably me that they are flocking to instead of you lot. I am absolutely waist deep in the Klungeverse at the moment, beating them off with shitty nunchucks as I wade through the fanny. Maybe.

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By *panksspankedMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I’ve been seeing a guy for years on and off, I see him quite often for a few weeks at the latter part of the year then just as I think we are getting somewhere cause he buys me nice gifts he then ghosts me so I don’t hear from him for months until the following December when he starts it all over again "

I'll give you a shout in January then

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Being ghosted is just part of the Fab scene.

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By *panksspankedMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Being ghosted is just part of the Fab scene. "

It's not on my bucket list though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it happening to all guys on here or just me, happened a few times, decent converstion, no cheekyness, then bam, nothing...... "

Happens to me too…

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By *ennyjMan
over a year ago

falkirk

Happens a lot

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

And it's happening again oh well time to move on

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By *tarmix2020Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"I think it happens to most guys especially if you’re new to the fab scene. There is other dating sites remember this. I got a compliment from a woman the other night and next day deleted lol. "

It is really weird though. Wink or message, you reply back, then blocked. Or variations on the theme.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, has happened to us too. I honestly do not understand why some people have no good manners just to say "sorry I/we have changed our mind, we will not come".

For us to get out is a big commitment. We have to arrange our childcare. Very frustrating, time and efforts wasted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people just get a thrill from the 'chase', then when it comes to actually meeting.....they dissappear. Probably never even had the intention of meeting!

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By *eedsanewusernameMan
over a year ago

Mainly under the bed...


"I think some people just get a thrill from the 'chase', then when it comes to actually meeting.....they dissappear. Probably never even had the intention of meeting! "

The fear of living up to that "top shag 2023" moniker they label themselves with.

"I'm going to do nasty things to you..." aye, like melt away like a caburys flake in a hot car.

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By *ekked JackMan
over a year ago

South Lanarkshire

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By *ekked JackMan
over a year ago

South Lanarkshire


"I’ve been seeing a guy for years on and off, I see him quite often for a few weeks at the latter part of the year then just as I think we are getting somewhere cause he buys me nice gifts he then ghosts me so I don’t hear from him for months until the following December when he starts it all over again

Is it santa. Please tell me it is.

This! Lol

Ladies do you know him too - I knew we weren’t exclusive "

Shhh. Don't tell him but I'm shagging Mrs Claus. She's Amy panther.

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By *lam granWoman
over a year ago

falkirk

Probably talking to a guy who got his kicks then bolted.

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