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"Not having much luck. Seems to be pic collectors only getting in touch. Seem genuine then they hide their profiles. What's that all about. Starting to think there are no genuine people and thinking about giving up on all this. "your on here 4 weeks for goodness sake chill out and just take your time to get to know people  | |||
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"I have been trying. Just seems to be the wrong people lol. Will be more patient "This isnt instashag babe people need to get to know you before deciding to meet you | |||
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I like getting to know someone first. Not the type of guy to jump into bed with just anyone.
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"Not having much luck. Seems to be pic collectors only getting in touch. Seem genuine then they hide their profiles. What's that all about. Starting to think there are no genuine people and thinking about giving up on all this. "What do you mean by 'only pic collectors' getting in touch? You only have one and thats your profile one thats plain for all to see! | |||
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"Not having much luck. Seems to be pic collectors only getting in touch. Seem genuine then they hide their profiles. What's that all about. Starting to think there are no genuine people and thinking about giving up on all this.
What do you mean by 'only pic collectors' getting in touch? You only have one and thats your profile one thats plain for all to see! "I have multiple private pics. Face etc | |||
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"Don't give up. As the old saying goes... Fab loves a trier! " Thanks will keep trying | |||
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"Not having much luck. Seems to be pic collectors only getting in touch. Seem genuine then they hide their profiles. What's that all about. Starting to think there are no genuine people and thinking about giving up on all this.
What do you mean by 'only pic collectors' getting in touch? You only have one and thats your profile one thats plain for all to see! "How do you know how many pix the op has in his hidden gallery ?  | |||
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"Not having much luck. Seems to be pic collectors only getting in touch. Seem genuine then they hide their profiles. What's that all about. Starting to think there are no genuine people and thinking about giving up on all this.
What do you mean by 'only pic collectors' getting in touch? You only have one and thats your profile one thats plain for all to see! How do you know how many pix the op has in his hidden gallery ? " | |||
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"Not having much luck. Seems to be pic collectors only getting in touch. Seem genuine then they hide their profiles. What's that all about. Starting to think there are no genuine people and thinking about giving up on all this.
What do you mean by 'only pic collectors' getting in touch? You only have one and thats your profile one thats plain for all to see! How do you know how many pix the op has in his hidden gallery ? "I have no idea how many pics the op has in hidden gallery. I was trying to make the point that 'pic collectors' go for the friends only ones!! | |||
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"Not having much luck. Seems to be pic collectors only getting in touch. Seem genuine then they hide their profiles. What's that all about. Starting to think there are no genuine people and thinking about giving up on all this.
What do you mean by 'only pic collectors' getting in touch? You only have one and thats your profile one thats plain for all to see! How do you know how many pix the op has in his hidden gallery ?
I have no idea how many pics the op has in hidden gallery. I was trying to make the point that 'pic collectors' go for the friends only ones!! "what you said You only have one and thats your profile one thats plain for all to see! | |||
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"I did have some as friend only. I have now changed to private. "My question has been answered then, cheers m8.  | |||
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"Not having much luck. Seems to be pic collectors only getting in touch. Seem genuine then they hide their profiles. What's that all about. Starting to think there are no genuine people and thinking about giving up on all this. "I had a lovely chat with someone today who turned out to be a famous actor... Oh wait he was fake and being rather crap and being fake lol | |||
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"Not having much luck. Seems to be pic collectors only getting in touch. Seem genuine then they hide their profiles. What's that all about. Starting to think there are no genuine people and thinking about giving up on all this.
I had a lovely chat with someone today who turned out to be a famous actor... Oh wait he was fake and being rather crap and being fake lol"Oh dear | |||
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"Not having much luck. Seems to be pic collectors only getting in touch. Seem genuine then they hide their profiles. What's that all about. Starting to think there are no genuine people and thinking about giving up on all this. "Well are you doing the checks available to you? How long they been on site? Verified? Relying only on messages or texts and never actually spoken to them as such? Never kid yourself your on the brink of a fun meet just by a message. | |||
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"I did have some as friend only. I have now changed to private. "If people are eager to friend you in message 2 of 3 chances are they are fake, and accessing pics is all they want to do. | |||
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"I did have some as friend only. I have now changed to private.
If people are eager to friend you in message 2 of 3 chances are they are fake, and accessing pics is all they want to do." | |||
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"Not having much luck. Seems to be pic collectors only getting in touch. Seem genuine then they hide their profiles. What's that all about. Starting to think there are no genuine people and thinking about giving up on all this.
I had a lovely chat with someone today who turned out to be a famous actor... Oh wait he was fake and being rather crap and being fake lol"but i am robert carlisle !!!!! | |||
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"Not having much luck. Seems to be pic collectors only getting in touch. Seem genuine then they hide their profiles. What's that all about. Starting to think there are no genuine people and thinking about giving up on all this.
I had a lovely chat with someone today who turned out to be a famous actor... Oh wait he was fake and being rather crap and being fake lolbut i am robert carlisle !!!!!"Yeah and I am Spartacus lol  | |||
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"Yeah and I am Spartacus lol No,I'm Spartacus!!!!!" I'M SPARTACUS !! | |||
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"Yeah and I am Spartacus lol No,I'm Spartacus!!!!! I'M SPARTACUS !! "No!!!!!!I'm Spartacus!!!! | |||
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"Yeah and I am Spartacus lol No,I'm Spartacus!!!!! I'M SPARTACUS !! "Bunch of fakes ..I AM SPARTACUS!!! on a serious note perhaps after a little chatting and seeing your private pics they just didnt like what they saw and instead of prolonging the inevitable they just blocked | |||
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Have enjoyed the forums and will continue on them.
Not sure about the socials yet. Bit nervous to be honest but sure I will get there.
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"Thanks everyone. Not in any rush
Have enjoyed the forums and will continue on them.
Not sure about the socials yet. Bit nervous to be honest but sure I will get there.
Much appreciated listening to my wee rant "Il look after you at a social   | |||
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"Thanks everyone. Not in any rush
Have enjoyed the forums and will continue on them.
Not sure about the socials yet. Bit nervous to be honest but sure I will get there.
Much appreciated listening to my wee rant "Regarding the socials i'm sure there's nothing to be nervous about, anymore more than meeting any new group of people. I cant really get to socials on here due to not knowing in advance if i can make it or not, but i do go to a lot of munches (kink scene socials) and 5 mins in the door you're chatting away and realise it's not so scary at all. If you're able to plan a month or two ahead then take the leap would be my advice. | |||
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"Thanks everyone. Not in any rush
Have enjoyed the forums and will continue on them.
Not sure about the socials yet. Bit nervous to be honest but sure I will get there.
Much appreciated listening to my wee rant Il look after you at a social "  two timer thought you were looking after me at social
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"Thanks everyone. Not in any rush
Have enjoyed the forums and will continue on them.
Not sure about the socials yet. Bit nervous to be honest but sure I will get there.
Much appreciated listening to my wee rant Il look after you at a social two timer thought you were looking after me ato social
Pmsl "I look after all my guests at my socials | |||
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"Thanks everyone. Not in any rush
Have enjoyed the forums and will continue on them.
Not sure about the socials yet. Bit nervous to be honest but sure I will get there.
Much appreciated listening to my wee rant Il look after you at a social two timer thought you were looking after me ato social
Pmsl I look after all my guests at my socials "Go to MissD's next social and you'll have a blast. She is the hostess with the mostess!!!! Lol. Seriously, if you can come in the forum a social will be no problem | |||
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"Thanks everyone. Not in any rush
Have enjoyed the forums and will continue on them.
Not sure about the socials yet. Bit nervous to be honest but sure I will get there.
Much appreciated listening to my wee rant Il look after you at a social "Aww thanks | |||
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"Yeah and I am Spartacus lol No,I'm Spartacus!!!!! I'M SPARTACUS !!
Bunch of fakes ..I AM SPARTACUS!!!
on a serious note perhaps after a little chatting and seeing your private pics they just didnt like what they saw and instead of prolonging the inevitable they just blocked "I am Spartacus! The way I see it, posting a whingey thread does you no favours.. You are relatively new, not given yourself any time for people to know you, and haven't really made an informed choice of mailing folk who turn out to be pic collectors. Have you been into chat and spoken to people that way? You can at least see and judge people better that way. Also putting 'bored' on your status is hardly going to get people beating the door down to mail you. Just saying.... | |||
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"some people on this site should give up swinging and become agony aunts! everyone knows its a million times easier for women to get meets...but guys dont need to be told be patient, they just need some honest people to give them a chance...but some women also get knockbacks and timewasters, we are not all super models (or think we are) we are just down to earth people with feeling....so dont be so hasty to simply delete a message or block someone just because they aren't "PERFECT"" LOVE THIS
Yep nobody's perfect or gods gift, you can get a complex on here trying to get a reply but if some people would chat a bit and give people a chance then you might just actually find a decent person that you like and get on with...just saying! | |||
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"some people on this site should give up swinging and become agony aunts! everyone knows its a million times easier for women to get meets...but guys dont need to be told be patient, they just need some honest people to give them a chance...but some women also get knockbacks and timewasters, we are not all super models (or think we are) we are just down to earth people with feeling....so dont be so hasty to simply delete a message or block someone just because they aren't "PERFECT"" I dont think it was implied that the op wasnt perfect,Im a long standing member of this site and if people ask on the forums for some advice then i will offer it, that doesnt mean im an agony aunt and should leave swinging as you suggest lol | |||
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" don't be so hasty to simply delete a message or block someone just because they aren't "PERFECT" LOVE THIS
Yep nobody's perfect or gods gift, you can get a complex on here trying to get a reply but if some people would chat a bit and give people a chance then you might just actually find a decent person that you like and get on with...just saying!"I agree too. I do think a lot of women on here are quick to delete/block/ignore men and couples also. You could be missing out on something good. X | |||
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" don't be so hasty to simply delete a message or block someone just because they aren't "PERFECT" LOVE THIS
Yep nobody's perfect or gods gift, you can get a complex on here trying to get a reply but if some people would chat a bit and give people a chance then you might just actually find a decent person that you like and get on with...just saying!
I agree too. I do think a lot of women on here are quick to delete/block/ignore men and couples also. You could be missing out on something good. X"'would that apply to Married people aswel then. Everyone in different circumstances. Should not be judged As some mad shagger | |||
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"some people on this site should give up swinging and become agony aunts! everyone knows its a million times easier for women to get meets...but guys dont need to be told be patient, they just need some honest people to give them a chance...but some women also get knockbacks and timewasters, we are not all super models (or think we are) we are just down to earth people with feeling....so dont be so hasty to simply delete a message or block someone just because they aren't "PERFECT"I dont think it was implied that the op wasnt perfect,Im a long standing member of this site and if people ask on the forums for some advice then i will offer it, that doesnt mean im an agony aunt and should leave swinging as you suggest lol"Well said missD | |||
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"I currently have 229 unread messages in my inbox..... So should I reply and friend everyone that asks " wanna fuck" "hi" or "you free now" or should I concentrate on the ones that make a little bit of effort and have read my profile?? I do reply to a lot and chat to some that I probably won't ever meet but I don't think I should have to reply to every single one..... And no I don't think I'm something special as I'm anything but "brilliant cutie says it all. Ps your a mate So ithink your special | |||
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No, I don't think it does. I'm willing I offer my advice to anyone if they ask for it. Not everyone will agree with me but that's why it's called my advice. I have been a swinger for about 7 years now, was part of a couple now a single so I've seen both sides. Therefore, if someone relatively new to swinging or fab asks for help and advice I'm more than willing to give it. However, it's then up to that person to take it on board along with others advice and work out what's best for them
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"Dude ive been on and off here for about 5yrs! Only met 2 women and went to a few swingers party. Single guys get very limited joy" more than married ones  | |||
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"Dude ive been on and off here for about 5yrs! Only met 2 women and went to a few swingers party. Single guys get very limited joy" Then i think some guys really need to look at the bigger picture on here and ask themselfs why they aint as succesfull as other guys on here,because i do think its down to how you aproach people initally that makes them to decide if they want to meet you or not ...food for thought i think . Also the amount of people who winge about not getting replies to emails ask yourselfs this ...do you reply to every unsolicitated junk mail that falls through your door at home? I think not | |||
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"I currently have 229 unread messages in my inbox..... So should I reply and friend everyone that asks " wanna fuck" "hi" or "you free now" or should I concentrate on the ones that make a little bit of effort and have read my profile?? I do reply to a lot and chat to some that I probably won't ever meet but I don't think I should have to reply to every single one..... And no I don't think I'm something special as I'm anything but "Haha I think you need to give up your job and start replying. No I was more directing my comments at the women who have a long list of rules for messages or the ones who enjoy or love to boast about deleting messages and blocking people. All I'm saying is they could be missing out on a nice genuine person. X | |||
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"I currently have 229 unread messages in my inbox..... So should I reply and friend everyone that asks " wanna fuck" "hi" or "you free now" or should I concentrate on the ones that make a little bit of effort and have read my profile?? I do reply to a lot and chat to some that I probably won't ever meet but I don't think I should have to reply to every single one..... And no I don't think I'm something special as I'm anything but
Haha I think you need to give up your job and start replying.
No I was more directing my comments at the women who have a long list of rules for messages or the ones who enjoy or love to boast about deleting messages and blocking people. All I'm saying is they could be missing out on a nice genuine person. X"It wasn't directed at you I agree with you on that, can't stand ranty and demanding profiles | |||
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"I currently have 229 unread messages in my inbox..... So should I reply and friend everyone that asks " wanna fuck" "hi" or "you free now" or should I concentrate on the ones that make a little bit of effort and have read my profile?? I do reply to a lot and chat to some that I probably won't ever meet but I don't think I should have to reply to every single one..... And no I don't think I'm something special as I'm anything but
Haha I think you need to give up your job and start replying.
No I was more directing my comments at the women who have a long list of rules for messages or the ones who enjoy or love to boast about deleting messages and blocking people. All I'm saying is they could be missing out on a nice genuine person. X
It wasn't directed at you I agree with you on that, can't stand ranty and demanding profiles "Thanks I was worried I had offended you girls.  | |||
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"Take your time, patience is key on Fab. Get to know members and get involved with the forums or any local socials. " Perfectly said | |||
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"Not having much luck. Seems to be pic collectors only getting in touch. Seem genuine then they hide their profiles. What's that all about. Starting to think there are no genuine people and thinking about giving up on all this. "have patience, any you only got one pic on public none on friends so why would pic collectors hassle you lol have fun and go to some socials or clubs | |||
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