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By (user no longer on site) OP   
50 weeks ago

Hi everyone. Joined a year ago and then just been busy with work/life etc. Just trying to find my feet on here. I understand everyone being cautious but it would be nice even just to chat and see where it goes. 53(almost 54) hehe and attached but looking for discreet fun. Aren't we all?

Live in the Lanarkshire area and looking for like minded people.

Thanks for reading.

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By *luebell888Woman
50 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Hello and welcome. A bit confused as you say you joined a year ago but your verification is from 5years ago?.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
50 weeks ago

Thanks for the reply. God I didn't realise it was that long ago. That was from my ex partner. Wow it's been ages. I think I came back on a year ago and sent some messages but didn't get anywhere so came off again.

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By *assy LassieWoman
50 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

Playing behind your partners back will lessen your chances of making connections by about 90%. At least you are upfront about it giving potential partners an informed choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Review your age limits (please don’t hope to fondle a 99 year old or grope an 18 yo), get photo verified, attend a social event and bobs your uncle…not your actual uncle ofcourse.

The social events are an absolute godsend for guys to be able to say hello to people, introduce themselves in the proper way and eventually have a positive experience with the site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago


"Playing behind your partners back will lessen your chances of making connections by about 90%. At least you are upfront about it giving potential partners an informed choice."

Thanks for the reply.

Yeah I am just being honest about my situation. Wow that's a big percentage haha, must try harder.

All the best

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By *lam granWoman
49 weeks ago

falkirk


"Review your age limits (please don’t hope to fondle a 99 year old or grope an 18 yo), get photo verified, attend a social event and bobs your uncle…not your actual uncle ofcourse.

The social events are an absolute godsend for guys to be able to say hello to people, introduce themselves in the proper way and eventually have a positive experience with the site "

Genuine question, why is it an issue if he does want to fondle a 99yr old or "grope" an 18yr old. I'm forever reading on here about not kink shaming and people having preferences. Isn't he allowed to have these preferences? Fair enough if you've offered that as genuine advice to improve his chances of meeting someone. But it could be read as judging his perfectly legitimate preferences.

(I silently judge folk all the time btw!).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago


"Review your age limits (please don’t hope to fondle a 99 year old or grope an 18 yo), get photo verified, attend a social event and bobs your uncle…not your actual uncle ofcourse.

The social events are an absolute godsend for guys to be able to say hello to people, introduce themselves in the proper way and eventually have a positive experience with the site

Genuine question, why is it an issue if he does want to fondle a 99yr old or "grope" an 18yr old. I'm forever reading on here about not kink shaming and people having preferences. Isn't he allowed to have these preferences? Fair enough if you've offered that as genuine advice to improve his chances of meeting someone. But it could be read as judging his perfectly legitimate preferences.

(I silently judge folk all the time btw!)."

I appreciate the backup haha, he is probably right, I don't see me getting with an 18yr old but it's so tough on here that I am keeping my options open

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By *lam granWoman
49 weeks ago

falkirk


"Review your age limits (please don’t hope to fondle a 99 year old or grope an 18 yo), get photo verified, attend a social event and bobs your uncle…not your actual uncle ofcourse.

The social events are an absolute godsend for guys to be able to say hello to people, introduce themselves in the proper way and eventually have a positive experience with the site

Genuine question, why is it an issue if he does want to fondle a 99yr old or "grope" an 18yr old. I'm forever reading on here about not kink shaming and people having preferences. Isn't he allowed to have these preferences? Fair enough if you've offered that as genuine advice to improve his chances of meeting someone. But it could be read as judging his perfectly legitimate preferences.

(I silently judge folk all the time btw!).

I appreciate the backup haha, he is probably right, I don't see me getting with an 18yr old but it's so tough on here that I am keeping my options open "

Was just an observation. We both know you've got about as much chance of bagging an 18yr old as I have waking up tomorrow morning to find Tom Hardy between my thighs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago


"Review your age limits (please don’t hope to fondle a 99 year old or grope an 18 yo), get photo verified, attend a social event and bobs your uncle…not your actual uncle ofcourse.

The social events are an absolute godsend for guys to be able to say hello to people, introduce themselves in the proper way and eventually have a positive experience with the site

Genuine question, why is it an issue if he does want to fondle a 99yr old or "grope" an 18yr old. I'm forever reading on here about not kink shaming and people having preferences. Isn't he allowed to have these preferences? Fair enough if you've offered that as genuine advice to improve his chances of meeting someone. But it could be read as judging his perfectly legitimate preferences.

(I silently judge folk all the time btw!).

I appreciate the backup haha, he is probably right, I don't see me getting with an 18yr old but it's so tough on here that I am keeping my options open

Was just an observation. We both know you've got about as much chance of bagging an 18yr old as I have waking up tomorrow morning to find Tom Hardy between my thighs."

Haha true, I will just have to keep trying, truth is that my sense of humour doesn't always come over so well when written. More of a visual real life funny guy

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By *lam granWoman
49 weeks ago

falkirk


"Review your age limits (please don’t hope to fondle a 99 year old or grope an 18 yo), get photo verified, attend a social event and bobs your uncle…not your actual uncle ofcourse.

The social events are an absolute godsend for guys to be able to say hello to people, introduce themselves in the proper way and eventually have a positive experience with the site

Genuine question, why is it an issue if he does want to fondle a 99yr old or "grope" an 18yr old. I'm forever reading on here about not kink shaming and people having preferences. Isn't he allowed to have these preferences? Fair enough if you've offered that as genuine advice to improve his chances of meeting someone. But it could be read as judging his perfectly legitimate preferences.

(I silently judge folk all the time btw!).

I appreciate the backup haha, he is probably right, I don't see me getting with an 18yr old but it's so tough on here that I am keeping my options open

Was just an observation. We both know you've got about as much chance of bagging an 18yr old as I have waking up tomorrow morning to find Tom Hardy between my thighs.

Haha true, I will just have to keep trying, truth is that my sense of humour doesn't always come over so well when written. More of a visual real life funny guy "

Visual real life funny?

So women laugh at you when you're nude then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago


"Review your age limits (please don’t hope to fondle a 99 year old or grope an 18 yo), get photo verified, attend a social event and bobs your uncle…not your actual uncle ofcourse.

The social events are an absolute godsend for guys to be able to say hello to people, introduce themselves in the proper way and eventually have a positive experience with the site

Genuine question, why is it an issue if he does want to fondle a 99yr old or "grope" an 18yr old. I'm forever reading on here about not kink shaming and people having preferences. Isn't he allowed to have these preferences? Fair enough if you've offered that as genuine advice to improve his chances of meeting someone. But it could be read as judging his perfectly legitimate preferences.

(I silently judge folk all the time btw!).

I appreciate the backup haha, he is probably right, I don't see me getting with an 18yr old but it's so tough on here that I am keeping my options open

Was just an observation. We both know you've got about as much chance of bagging an 18yr old as I have waking up tomorrow morning to find Tom Hardy between my thighs.

Haha true, I will just have to keep trying, truth is that my sense of humour doesn't always come over so well when written. More of a visual real life funny guy

Visual real life funny?

So women laugh at you when you're nude then?"

Haha aye it has been known

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"Review your age limits (please don’t hope to fondle a 99 year old or grope an 18 yo), get photo verified, attend a social event and bobs your uncle…not your actual uncle ofcourse.

The social events are an absolute godsend for guys to be able to say hello to people, introduce themselves in the proper way and eventually have a positive experience with the site

Genuine question, why is it an issue if he does want to fondle a 99yr old or "grope" an 18yr old. I'm forever reading on here about not kink shaming and people having preferences. Isn't he allowed to have these preferences? Fair enough if you've offered that as genuine advice to improve his chances of meeting someone. But it could be read as judging his perfectly legitimate preferences.

(I silently judge folk all the time btw!)."

Sorry to interrupt the lovenest that’s going on here but I shall respond.

Personally if he was fiddling with a 99 year old I would call social services as there would potential concerns over the elderly persons capacity to consent. Regardless if they were able to or not, it would be a legit concern. Just to burst your bubble there Norma.

Also if he was so keen to meet an 18 year old at his age, which is perfectly legal ofcourse, I’d also ask for his hard dive to be checked. There is already a guy on fab kicking about with a Jimmy Saville van, we can’t risk another

(Only joking buddy I was only saying about the ages cause it does put women off as they see it as little effort in the profile )

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By *lam granWoman
49 weeks ago

falkirk


"Review your age limits (please don’t hope to fondle a 99 year old or grope an 18 yo), get photo verified, attend a social event and bobs your uncle…not your actual uncle ofcourse.

The social events are an absolute godsend for guys to be able to say hello to people, introduce themselves in the proper way and eventually have a positive experience with the site

Genuine question, why is it an issue if he does want to fondle a 99yr old or "grope" an 18yr old. I'm forever reading on here about not kink shaming and people having preferences. Isn't he allowed to have these preferences? Fair enough if you've offered that as genuine advice to improve his chances of meeting someone. But it could be read as judging his perfectly legitimate preferences.

(I silently judge folk all the time btw!).

Sorry to interrupt the lovenest that’s going on here but I shall respond.

Personally if he was fiddling with a 99 year old I would call social services as there would potential concerns over the elderly persons capacity to consent. Regardless if they were able to or not, it would be a legit concern. Just to burst your bubble there Norma.

Also if he was so keen to meet an 18 year old at his age, which is perfectly legal ofcourse, I’d also ask for his hard dive to be checked. There is already a guy on fab kicking about with a Jimmy Saville van, we can’t risk another

(Only joking buddy I was only saying about the ages cause it does put women off as they see it as little effort in the profile ) "

Thanks for clarifying.

Your Jim'll Fix It badge is in the post.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"Review your age limits (please don’t hope to fondle a 99 year old or grope an 18 yo), get photo verified, attend a social event and bobs your uncle…not your actual uncle ofcourse.

The social events are an absolute godsend for guys to be able to say hello to people, introduce themselves in the proper way and eventually have a positive experience with the site

Genuine question, why is it an issue if he does want to fondle a 99yr old or "grope" an 18yr old. I'm forever reading on here about not kink shaming and people having preferences. Isn't he allowed to have these preferences? Fair enough if you've offered that as genuine advice to improve his chances of meeting someone. But it could be read as judging his perfectly legitimate preferences.

(I silently judge folk all the time btw!).

Sorry to interrupt the lovenest that’s going on here but I shall respond.

Personally if he was fiddling with a 99 year old I would call social services as there would potential concerns over the elderly persons capacity to consent. Regardless if they were able to or not, it would be a legit concern. Just to burst your bubble there Norma.

Also if he was so keen to meet an 18 year old at his age, which is perfectly legal ofcourse, I’d also ask for his hard dive to be checked. There is already a guy on fab kicking about with a Jimmy Saville van, we can’t risk another

(Only joking buddy I was only saying about the ages cause it does put women off as they see it as little effort in the profile )

Thanks for clarifying.

Your Jim'll Fix It badge is in the post. "

Haha yes!!!!! This is the reply of the day! Bravo bravo! I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Strange Content but Site not removed . But i would take Jimmy oot

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"Strange Content but Site not removed . But i would take Jimmy oot "
see really after reading this post . I'am more Curious ( not bi ) too Why this upsets people. IS IT A AGE THING . Pls all explain ?

We as a Couple have what Females ( pressured by Males) have .Our Dymanic works. So why all the Drama. Maybe its cause we Chat and over 50.

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By *lam granWoman
49 weeks ago

falkirk


"Strange Content but Site not removed . But i would take Jimmy oot see really after reading this post . I'am more Curious ( not bi ) too Why this upsets people. IS IT A AGE THING . Pls all explain ?

We as a Couple have what Females ( pressured by Males) have .Our Dymanic works. So why all the Drama. Maybe its cause we Chat and over 50. "

Do you mean why does a big age difference cause an issue for some? I suppose it's as suggested above. People think that a significantly older or younger sexual partner could be taken advantage of maybe and possibly exploited in some way?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago


"Review your age limits (please don’t hope to fondle a 99 year old or grope an 18 yo), get photo verified, attend a social event and bobs your uncle…not your actual uncle ofcourse.

The social events are an absolute godsend for guys to be able to say hello to people, introduce themselves in the proper way and eventually have a positive experience with the site

Genuine question, why is it an issue if he does want to fondle a 99yr old or "grope" an 18yr old. I'm forever reading on here about not kink shaming and people having preferences. Isn't he allowed to have these preferences? Fair enough if you've offered that as genuine advice to improve his chances of meeting someone. But it could be read as judging his perfectly legitimate preferences.

(I silently judge folk all the time btw!).

Sorry to interrupt the lovenest that’s going on here but I shall respond.

Personally if he was fiddling with a 99 year old I would call social services as there would potential concerns over the elderly persons capacity to consent. Regardless if they were able to or not, it would be a legit concern. Just to burst your bubble there Norma.

Also if he was so keen to meet an 18 year old at his age, which is perfectly legal ofcourse, I’d also ask for his hard dive to be checked. There is already a guy on fab kicking about with a Jimmy Saville van, we can’t risk another

(Only joking buddy I was only saying about the ages cause it does put women off as they see it as little effort in the profile )

Thanks for clarifying.

Your Jim'll Fix It badge is in the post.

Haha yes!!!!! This is the reply of the day! Bravo bravo! I love it "

Fkn hell mate, just on here and you hit out with that shite.

Banter is one thing but fk me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago


"Strange Content but Site not removed . But i would take Jimmy oot "

The guy is a cheeky bastard, banter is fine but that's out of order, no wonder people find it hard on here

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
49 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"Strange Content but Site not removed . But i would take Jimmy oot

The guy is a cheeky bastard, banter is fine but that's out of order, no wonder people find it hard on here "

You should never take anything you read here too personally.

Wonder boy likes the sound of his own voice, you’ll get used to it

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By *lam granWoman
49 weeks ago

falkirk


"Strange Content but Site not removed . But i would take Jimmy oot

The guy is a cheeky bastard, banter is fine but that's out of order, no wonder people find it hard on here "

Now then, now then....

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