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By *issBehave69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bulgaria

Be allowed to have “will meet TVs/ CDs” on their looking for section.

I don’t think they should to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you have already answered your own question. But i concur with you. I dont think they should.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

If they are looking for people who identify as a trans woman. Then why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they are looking for people who identify as a trans woman. Then why not."
Well put….theres is not a separate section for this I don’t believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t really know tbh, I think anyone can meet who they want and say whatever they are orientation wise.

Fab isn’t the best with the sexual orientation though, these haven’t been updated since the site started I dont think.

A gynesexual male is attracted to femininity, so could be attracted to feminine woman but not to a more butch, can be attracted to a feminine trans woman pre and post op but perhaps not attracted to the penis area…that still would align more with being straight imo.

Let people be people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab really need to update their gender categories and not lump trans women in with TV's. Surely trans women identify as female, hence there should be no issues meeting straight males.

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By *issBehave69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bulgaria


"If they are looking for people who identify as a trans woman. Then why not."

I agree, that’s the only exception.

Wonder how many are on this site.

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By *issBehave69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bulgaria


"I don’t really know tbh, I think anyone can meet who they want and say whatever they are orientation wise.

Fab isn’t the best with the sexual orientation though, these haven’t been updated since the site started I dont think.

A gynesexual male is attracted to femininity, so could be attracted to feminine woman but not to a more butch, can be attracted to a feminine trans woman pre and post op but perhaps not attracted to the penis area…that still would align more with being straight imo.

Let people be people "

I agree obviously with let people be people.

It’s frustrating when you’re searching though and you have straight males, only meeting women and straight males who would meet a guy, a TV or a CD.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I don’t really know tbh, I think anyone can meet who they want and say whatever they are orientation wise.

Fab isn’t the best with the sexual orientation though, these haven’t been updated since the site started I dont think.

A gynesexual male is attracted to femininity, so could be attracted to feminine woman but not to a more butch, can be attracted to a feminine trans woman pre and post op but perhaps not attracted to the penis area…that still would align more with being straight imo.

Let people be people

I agree obviously with let people be people.

It’s frustrating when you’re searching though and you have straight males, only meeting women and straight males who would meet a guy, a TV or a CD. "

Surely that answers your question. None if us get the perfect package posted to out inbox. Trial and error is the name if the game

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By *enni WhiteTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Where would we stop with categories? There are so many shades under every gender or sexual preference.

I think its time to scrap sexual preference on here, and leave it all to attraction. That's still the biggest things that people use to meet.

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By *heerlover2Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

I stopped being straight the minute I first sucked a girls cock.

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By *loise5TV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow-ish


"Where would we stop with categories? There are so many shades under every gender or sexual preference.

I think its time to scrap sexual preference on here, and leave it all to attraction. That's still the biggest things that people use to meet.

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I get frequent messages from 'straight' guys. It's no hassle to me, although I always ask if I'm what they're looking for.

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By *issBehave69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bulgaria


"Where would we stop with categories? There are so many shades under every gender or sexual preference.

I think its time to scrap sexual preference on here, and leave it all to attraction. That's still the biggest things that people use to meet.

I get frequent messages from 'straight' guys. It's no hassle to me, although I always ask if I'm what they're looking for."

I don’t mind them messaging, it’s when you try searching that’s the problem. The site just needs better filters etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get frequent messages from 'straight' guys. It's no hassle to me, although I always ask if I'm what they're looking for."

I can understand this, which coming from a genuine straight guy probably sounds silly. I think it’s still the stigma pressure behind the reasoning for putting straight. Which is a pity as you’d think in 2023 we would have made more progress there.

Also, some tv’s & pre op trans women are stunning. There was one on fab not too long ago that was incredibly attractive, btw I’m not saying you are not incase that sounds shitty of me, I can understand why some men will be curious.

It’s a safe space, fuck the labels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be allowed to have “will meet TVs/ CDs” on their looking for section.

I don’t think they should to be honest. "

I think anyone should have what they want on there profile, its there profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s their choice up to them. If they liked to be penetrated I wouldn’t say their straight though

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By *Night-Errant-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I don’t see how it’s anyone else’s business who someone is attracted to, or how they define themselves.

I certainly don’t see why someone else should care if - as in the example given - a man who sees himself as straight yet is willing to meet CD/TV individuals. It might not make sense to you, but it obviously does to them, and that’s all that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A profile is merely a guideline as to what anyone seeks. I’m sure many of us have met someone that didn’t fit our profile preferences yet somehow we just clicked with them. Even in sexual preference there can be a circumstance where you try something you didn’t think you’d like but enjoyed. That’s a broad outline but hopefully you get the sentiment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see the issue, I clearly state I’m only interested in women but I get more tv/cd than woman. I usually check TVs profiles out of curiosity and most are stunning. It does cross my mind getting oral but it’s only a thought. I’m sure lots of guys think the same in getting oral pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can search for men looking for TV/TS and then tock the box that says they should be bisexual.... Would that solve it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab really need to update their gender categories and not lump trans women in with TV's. Surely trans women identify as female, hence there should be no issues meeting straight males. "

Im sure most males would like to be allowed to make that informed choice in advance. R

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"Be allowed to have “will meet TVs/ CDs” on their looking for section.

I don’t think they should to be honest. "

Why would they, if they're straight?

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By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago

Paisley Scotland


"I don’t really know tbh, I think anyone can meet who they want and say whatever they are orientation wise.

Fab isn’t the best with the sexual orientation though, these haven’t been updated since the site started I dont think.

A gynesexual male is attracted to femininity, so could be attracted to feminine woman but not to a more butch, can be attracted to a feminine trans woman pre and post op but perhaps not attracted to the penis area…that still would align more with being straight imo.

Let people be people "

This 100%

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By *tarboy8696Man
over a year ago

kirkintilloch

Personally even if I did find a pre op that I liked, it still wouldn't be for me.

Just my preferance but I agree with above. some guys call them self straight but go with them that 100% there buisness but in my opinion that is fulfilling the other person's fantasy of being with straight people so they confirm themselves as a woman.

Again just my opinion not wanting to put anyone down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should straight guys be allowed to have "will meet tv" on their profile? Why does this matter? does anyone actually care? Why is this even a topic?

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By *omcupCouple
over a year ago

Alexandria

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By *omcupCouple
over a year ago

Alexandria

I really don't understand why this is a question in this day and age when fabs supposed to be all about inclusion

I've seen loads of straight guys begging to suck my straight husband off after seeing our pics.

That doesn't make them gay it's just about whatever way the moment takes you

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

This topic could go on forever without ever reaching a conclusion but makes for good chat

As I tell my kids, don’t give yourself a label, enjoy what you enjoy, be honest with partners and be safe

If a guy likes being pegged does that mean he is bi?

I kissed a girl last week - does that make me bisexual, bicurious, biplayful?

A guy thinks a TV/CD looks hot when dressed does that make them bi?

I’m on dating sites trying to find a life partner, does that make me mad - very possibly

I think for the most part be honest on your profile then everyone can make informed choices about who to play with and who to avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This topic could go on forever without ever reaching a conclusion but makes for good chat

As I tell my kids, don’t give yourself a label, enjoy what you enjoy, be honest with partners and be safe

If a guy likes being pegged does that mean he is bi?

I kissed a girl last week - does that make me bisexual, bicurious, biplayful?

A guy thinks a TV/CD looks hot when dressed does that make them bi?

I’m on dating sites trying to find a life partner, does that make me mad - very possibly

I think for the most part be honest on your profile then everyone can make informed choices about who to play with and who to avoid

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So true

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"This topic could go on forever without ever reaching a conclusion but makes for good chat

As I tell my kids, don’t give yourself a label, enjoy what you enjoy, be honest with partners and be safe

If a guy likes being pegged does that mean he is bi?

I kissed a girl last week - does that make me bisexual, bicurious, biplayful?

A guy thinks a TV/CD looks hot when dressed does that make them bi?

I’m on dating sites trying to find a life partner, does that make me mad - very possibly

I think for the most part be honest on your profile then everyone can make informed choices about who to play with and who to avoid

"

Knew you would have a very sensible response to this. Where was my kiss

I was being all inclusive with the kisses last week too

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By *obbi_sutherlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Dornoch

If it wasn't for straight guys I'd never get any winks or messages!

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"This topic could go on forever without ever reaching a conclusion but makes for good chat

As I tell my kids, don’t give yourself a label, enjoy what you enjoy, be honest with partners and be safe

If a guy likes being pegged does that mean he is bi?

I kissed a girl last week - does that make me bisexual, bicurious, biplayful?

A guy thinks a TV/CD looks hot when dressed does that make them bi?

I’m on dating sites trying to find a life partner, does that make me mad - very possibly

I think for the most part be honest on your profile then everyone can make informed choices about who to play with and who to avoid

Knew you would have a very sensible response to this. Where was my kiss

I was being all inclusive with the kisses last week too "

Christmas is a time for sharing the love

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Live and let die!!

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By *issBehave69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bulgaria


"If it wasn't for straight guys I'd never get any winks or messages! "

Pretty much true

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By *lam granWoman
over a year ago

falkirk

People describe themselves in all manner of misleading ways on here. I receive pms from men who claim to be funny and charismatic but their messages leave me contemplating a relaxing bath with my toaster.

So whilst I, personally, would not consider a man straight if he's partial to cock, he can say what he likes on his profile. It's his prerogative. Just as it is mine to think it's misleading of him to class himself as straight.

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