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By (user no longer on site) OP   
50 weeks ago

Ladies.....help the boys out a wee bit......what do you hope for in an initial message? Many of your profiles state no cock picture (noted).......but what do you want aside from a face picture?

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By *ilverfox84Man
50 weeks ago

Glasgow

Shall be following for information

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By *ide em cowgirlWoman
50 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Everyone is very different on that. I like just a normal message, hi how are you? And maybe a reference to something I have said in my profile. Nothing worse than a guy talking about themselves and what they want. The way I see it as we are all here for the same thing just it’s about finding out if that person is the person you want to do it with. Also if you are messaging females try and not have an update referring to “needing a woman to spunk on” or “I could really do with a blowjob any takers?” Gives the impression you aren’t picky and just trying anyone. Also keep in mind some like to read your profile so have some detail and personality in it. (These are just my views so don’t base everyone off of this obviously.)

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago


"Ladies.....help the boys out a wee bit......what do you hope for in an initial message? Many of your profiles state no cock picture (noted).......but what do you want aside from a face picture? "

You could write the perfect message buddy but it also depends on the profile. No dick pics on the public page, get a torso photo on or a creative one of you clothed (clean background) and make one your profile photo. No profile photo and youl no doubt be deleted. Maybe get to a social for more recent veris.

In the message don’t make it too long, link something to their profile, don’t ask to meet now, don’t mention panties or pussy and please don’t use the same message to everyone. Address both if it’s a couple and make sure you meet their preferences. All the best

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
50 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
50 weeks ago

Ta for the response, much appreciated...

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By *eteHarleyCouple
50 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"Ladies.....help the boys out a wee bit......what do you hope for in an initial message? Many of your profiles state no cock picture (noted).......but what do you want aside from a face picture? "

I like a message that tells me that you read our profile , maybe also put something interesting about yourself, most guys on here just come up with a "hey how are you" message that can get old pretty quickly , I am attracted to personality so always prefer a message that shows a little of that as well a little compliment is also always a nice thing. Besides that I 100% agree that if you keep your profile in check you will have a bigger chance lol most guys have really unfortunate pictures in weird angles or like 10 different pics of their cock and nothing else, I prefer a nice picture of the body in general or maybe even a face pic hope that helps

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By *assy LassieWoman
50 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

I've answered messages that just sat hi, if the profile is decent and there might be an attraction.

I've deleted decent messages if I've looked at profile and there's no info about what I would be able to expect.

Or I don't find the profile appealing.

Loads of guys fret over a first message. It's the following messages that really count. Soon as the what you wearing now or snap me for mutual wank starts at the 3rd or 4th message I'm out.

In short if someone wants to reply they will. But your profile is more important that your initial message to garner interest. Don't think us ladies don't do our own browsing

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago


"Ladies.....help the boys out a wee bit......what do you hope for in an initial message? Many of your profiles state no cock picture (noted).......but what do you want aside from a face picture? "

I hope for Tom Hardys face photo telling me how much he wants me!

Sorry silly ish response but there's some good advice above.

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By *ewcpl80Couple
50 weeks ago

Scotland


"Ladies.....help the boys out a wee bit......what do you hope for in an initial message? Many of your profiles state no cock picture (noted).......but what do you want aside from a face picture?

You could write the perfect message buddy but it also depends on the profile. No dick pics on the public page, get a torso photo on or a creative one of you clothed (clean background) and make one your profile photo. No profile photo and youl no doubt be deleted. Maybe get to a social for more recent veris.

In the message don’t make it too long, link something to their profile, don’t ask to meet now, don’t mention panties or pussy and please don’t use the same message to everyone. Address both if it’s a couple and make sure you meet their preferences. All the best "

You suprise me, on one hand you shoot every guy down ‘nothing personal but you do just want to get noticed ‘ an the other hand you give the best advice on this site to those same newcomers ?

Can’t say I was impressed seeing you telling folk you were some war here when I know you’ve always been a civvy but hey…

It’s all about impressing the ladies

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By *assy LassieWoman
50 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"Ladies.....help the boys out a wee bit......what do you hope for in an initial message? Many of your profiles state no cock picture (noted).......but what do you want aside from a face picture?

I hope for Tom Hardys face photo telling me how much he wants me!

Sorry silly ish response but there's some good advice above."

Sorry Tom is busy for the next wee while. He's hidden his face somewhere too

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By *agnar73Man
50 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


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I hope for Tom Hardys face photo telling me how much he wants me!

Sorry silly ish response but there's some good advice above."

I could manage that. I look like Tom from about a mile away

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago


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You suprise me, on one hand you shoot every guy down ‘nothing personal but you do just want to get noticed ‘ an the other hand you give the best advice on this site to those same newcomers ?

Can’t say I was impressed seeing you telling folk you were some war here when I know you’ve always been a civvy but hey…

It’s all about impressing the ladies

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love you x

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By *eroLondonMan
50 weeks ago

Covent Garden

OP, do not flummox the fåir måidens on here with your labyrinthine questions, for they will take you down a winding path of confusion and confliction dear fellow. Indeed, do not even bother sending them introductory messages.

On here there is no "perfect introduction" but only imperfect disappointments.

Don't bother with cock pics or face pics, instead woo them and charm them with lashings of ginger beer, jelly, ice cream, tea and cake.

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