FabSwingers.com forum: How do we find the unfound

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We hear all people chatting about Unicorns. What is the equity. Thanks

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By *ittleMizzNaughty88.Woman
over a year ago

Renfrewshire

I do meet couples...

One problem I come up against is the rules they have in place!

Totally get no kissing as its intimate but so is sucking them off.

I've also had you can play with me but not husband... aye ok it's a performing puppet they were looking for...

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

Funtown

Now I understand the whole unicorn scenario regarding a female but how does it work for a male what's the brief . ?

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

What's a unicorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a unicorn "

Yes what is the unicorn thing all about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's a unicorn "
view 2md posts profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's a unicorn

Yes what is the unicorn thing all about. "
view 2nd persons post

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do meet couples...

One problem I come up against is the rules they have in place!

Totally get no kissing as its intimate but so is sucking them off.

I've also had you can play with me but not husband... aye ok it's a performing puppet they were looking for...

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now we af Educated the younger

U are going to get a Barrage off ( i hope nice PM )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a unicorn

Yes what is the unicorn thing all about. view 2nd persons post"

Yes just did still none the wiser thanks for info.

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

So it's a single woman who meets couples ??

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

Funtown

Elusive female or male who's single I believe

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

"Elusive female or male who's single I believe "

I thought that was half the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Elusive female or male who's single I believe

I thought that was half the site "

Second that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok dokie . This is what people don't do they don't Read the Thread Correctly .As 2nd poster said ( inside)

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

"Ok dokie . This is what people don't do they don't Read the Thread Correctly .As 2nd poster said ( inside)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok dokie . This is what people don't do they don't Read the Thread Correctly .As 2nd poster said ( inside)

I’m just not going to comment I’m non the wiser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok dokie . This is what people don't do they don't Read the Thread Correctly .As 2nd poster said ( inside)

Unicorn relationships are polyamorous but with a very specific arrangement. This type of relationship always starts with an existing couple, who could be heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, or anything in between. A third person is then invited into the relationship; this is the unicorn.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok dokie . This is what people don't do they don't Read the Thread Correctly .As 2nd poster said ( inside)

I’m just not going to comment I’m non the wiser

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Don't cut and Paste. Read 2nd post and pls Understand

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

"Ok dokie . This is what people don't do they don't Read the Thread Correctly .As 2nd poster said ( inside)

Xxx"
thanks ..what was the big secret ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got it now

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

"Got it now

I understand now but still.have no clue what I was ment to understand??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok dokie . This is what people don't do they don't Read the Thread Correctly .As 2nd poster said ( inside)

Xxx thanks ..what was the big secret ..."
was never a Secret. It has always been. But to find is like Hens teeth .

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

Well thought I was a couger seems I'm a unicorn too ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got it now

I understand now but still.have no clue what I was ment to understand??"

I get the unicorn thing now that’s all I took in.

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By *ngelstormWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Urbandictionary

Unicorn.

A common swinging term used in the community to refer to a single female interested in meeting other couples. Described as such due to the rarity of finding said females. By no means derogatory but quite the opposite, a rare treat.

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

Funtown

"Well thought I was a couger seems I'm a unicorn too .."

Well sparkle I like u icons and cougars ,.aybe we can grab a coffee when I'm back up in Dundee. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was recently told about a different type of unicorn in the lifestyle/ fab scene and it was quite interesting. Human behaviour geek hat on for a moment.

There are plenty bi women that meet couples, they just get an awful lot of emails. There are huge amounts of bi guys that meet couples too, would they be called a uniHorn..?

Is the real unicorn a single on the scene who is attractive both physically and mentally, emotionally intelligent, respectful, patient with the aura that causes you to want them long after they have left?

We have all encountered the rare people that are like this.

Just my 2p, geek hat off

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

Is there a post missing on the thread? The see second post thing doesn’t make sense, maybe just me.

The urban dictionary definition is helpful, my understanding was it’s more a F thing with couples.

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By *e_AdoredWoman
over a year ago

east fife

The elusive single bisexual female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was recently told about a different type of unicorn in the lifestyle/ fab scene and it was quite interesting. Human behaviour geek hat on for a moment.

There are plenty bi women that meet couples, they just get an awful lot of emails. There are huge amounts of bi guys that meet couples too, would they be called a uniHorn..?

We have all encountered the rare people that are like this.

Just my 2p, geek hat off

sometimes fab is a magical place

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By *rudie42Man
over a year ago

Towie

I'll volunteer if it's helpful!

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By *rudie42Man
over a year ago

Towie

I'll volunteer if it's helpful!

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By *heNaughtyPTMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"What's a unicorn "

..best friend of Santa!

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By *heNaughtyPTMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I was recently told about a different type of unicorn in the lifestyle/ fab scene and it was quite interesting. Human behaviour geek hat on for a moment.

There are plenty bi women that meet couples, they just get an awful lot of emails. There are huge amounts of bi guys that meet couples too, would they be called a uniHorn..?

We have all encountered the rare people that are like this.

Just my 2p, geek hat off

sometimes fab is a magical place

Plenty of fairy fart dust for sure here

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Now I understand the whole unicorn scenario regarding a female but how does it work for a male what's the brief . ?"

Single wlmen that want to play with couples are apparently hard to find, making them similar to Unicorns.

However men who want to be with couples are very easy to find, therefore, are not afforded the Unicorn label. They are more like pigeons really.

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By *heNaughtyPTMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Now I understand the whole unicorn scenario regarding a female but how does it work for a male what's the brief . ?

Single wlmen that want to play with couples are apparently hard to find, making them similar to Unicorns.

However men who want to be with couples are very easy to find, therefore, are not afforded the Unicorn label. They are more like pigeons really."

I've found Piggycorn...would suit as well?

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Now I understand the whole unicorn scenario regarding a female but how does it work for a male what's the brief . ?

Single wlmen that want to play with couples are apparently hard to find, making them similar to Unicorns.

However men who want to be with couples are very easy to find, therefore, are not afforded the Unicorn label. They are more like pigeons really.

I've found Piggycorn...would suit as well?"

I think it would be Pidgeycorn.

As your suggestion seems more like a pig.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now I understand the whole unicorn scenario regarding a female but how does it work for a male what's the brief . ?

Single wlmen that want to play with couples are apparently hard to find, making them similar to Unicorns.

However men who want to be with couples are very easy to find, therefore, are not afforded the Unicorn label. They are more like pigeons really.

I've found Piggycorn...would suit as well?

I think it would be Pidgeycorn.

As your suggestion seems more like a pig."

I think Unicock is a better name. “ My wife craves that elusive Unicock”

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By *heNaughtyPTMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Now I understand the whole unicorn scenario regarding a female but how does it work for a male what's the brief . ?

Single wlmen that want to play with couples are apparently hard to find, making them similar to Unicorns.

However men who want to be with couples are very easy to find, therefore, are not afforded the Unicorn label. They are more like pigeons really.

I've found Piggycorn...would suit as well?

I think it would be Pidgeycorn.

As your suggestion seems more like a pig.

I think Unicock is a better name. “ My wife craves that elusive Unicock”

But you know that's not true lol.

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By *heNaughtyPTMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Now I understand the whole unicorn scenario regarding a female but how does it work for a male what's the brief . ?

Single wlmen that want to play with couples are apparently hard to find, making them similar to Unicorns.

However men who want to be with couples are very easy to find, therefore, are not afforded the Unicorn label. They are more like pigeons really.

I've found Piggycorn...would suit as well?

I think it would be Pidgeycorn.

As your suggestion seems more like a pig."

But the Pidgecorn doesn't exist, the Piggycorn's real though.

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

"Urbandictionary

Unicorn.

Xx"

I love meeting couples, never knew it had a name..just thought of it as a threesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do meet couples...

One problem I come up against is the rules they have in place!

Totally get no kissing as its intimate but so is sucking them off.

I've also had you can play with me but not husband... aye ok it's a performing puppet they were looking for...

We had one meet with no kissing. Was just odd. Can’t do that again. R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally get no kissing as its intimate but so is sucking them off.

We had one meet with no kissing. Was just odd. Can’t do that again. R"

Can I ask, did you get the vibe that the no kissing rule was in place mainly from the male half?

I ask this as I’ve had some pretty bad experiences with couples in the past due to jealous husbands. Btw just to be clear, I’m not saying it’s me they were jealous of as that would be a ridiculous claim, it’s been the insecurities around sharing their partners etc.

This is why I’m now hesitant with couples but I am certain I’m not alone with these experiences.

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

Totally get no kissing as its intimate but so is sucking them off.

We had one meet with no kissing. Was just odd. Can’t do that again. R

Can I ask, did you get the vibe that the no kissing rule was in place mainly from the male half?

This is why I’m now hesitant with couples but I am certain I’m not alone with these experiences. "

My last couple she made the rules for both of them ,was a bit strange cause I was like ,what about what I want ?@ im here for me too not just you ..that night ended early not to be repeated

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

"Well thought I was a couger seems I'm a unicorn too ..

Well sparkle I like u icons and cougars ,.aybe we can grab a coffee when I'm back up in Dundee. ?"

Your not a couple so see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally get no kissing as its intimate but so is sucking them off.

We had one meet with no kissing. Was just odd. Can’t do that again. R

Can I ask, did you get the vibe that the no kissing rule was in place mainly from the male half?

This is why I’m now hesitant with couples but I am certain I’m not alone with these experiences. "

Not at all. Clearly a boundary they had set from the off. Was only that to be fair but it’s a deal breaker for us going forward. R

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

Funtown

"Well thought I was a couger seems I'm a unicorn too ..

Well sparkle I like u icons and cougars ,.aybe we can grab a coffee when I'm back up in Dundee. ?

Your not a couple so see what happens "

No problem

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By *ibliosWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I do meet couples...

One problem I come up against is the rules they have in place!

Totally get no kissing as its intimate but so is sucking them off.

I've also had you can play with me but not husband... aye ok it's a performing puppet they were looking for...

Agree with this - I've got a bit cynical about it of late, most approaches seem to be from couples looking for someone to fulfil a fantasy narrative rather than bringing an equal(ish) third into the mix. Preferences and boundaries are healthy, but when it starts going along the lines of "we'll let you join in with what we want, when we want and leave us to it otherwise" then I'm out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a single female and would love to meet a MM couple! I think that is harder to find than me joining MF couple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a single female and would love to meet a MM couple! I think that is harder to find than me joining MF couple!"

Same haha they are our unicorns

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

Funtown

One half of a MM here just need to find another m lol

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By *ems1966Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

Just looking for real people who are looking for to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it mostly the women in a couple relationship that want to explore with other people single/couples ?

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By *adgerboy777Couple
over a year ago

hamilton

We go out as a couple we have fun sometimes I join in with my wife But the thing that annoys us is that people let u down ie a friend's just turned up with a carry oot or they shit themselves at the last minute

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By *indOf89Man
over a year ago

Rivendell

A mate turning up with a carry out is an odd as fuck excuse tbh. Doesn't surprise me though. Blag a beer and run!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We go out as a couple we have fun sometimes I join in with my wife But the thing that annoys us is that people let u down ie a friend's just turned up with a carry oot or they shit themselves at the last minute "

That must be so annoying when this happens when someone turns up to have a drink, I just can’t really be bothered with drinking but everyone is different I suppose

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi fem half of couple here. Been reading thru replies. Sorry to hear some of u have had bad experiences with this.

We are fortunate enough to have found a very good friend of mine who joins us occassionally. Before we even began we both stated what we wanted from any meeting with another female. When we spoke with my friend there was lots of communication btwn us about what they would enjoy and like to get from experience. We respect their no's and after any meet we still communicate if there was anything they enjoyed more or didnt.

Male has utmost respect for her as i do as we were friends before any meeting took place and will continue friendship even if the dynamic stopped.

I would say good communication between all involved leads to the most amazing encounters.

Good Luck xx

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

"We hear all people chatting about Unicorns. "

Shhhh. Not to loud or you'll scare them off...

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Ok dokie . This is what people don't do they don't Read the Thread Correctly .As 2nd poster said ( inside)

I'd rather someone just said what it is .iv looked at the womans post all it says is a meet night .see this is how nobody gets anyplace .if anybody wants to let me know what a unicorn is please do ..I'm not looking at 2nd post down again"
unicorn a mythical creature somewhat akin to the performing monkey that alot of couples look for. as explained in 2nd post.

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By *ink and CurvesWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I am a bi fem looking for couples but I wouldn’t class myself as a unicorn.

I think a real unicorn is meeting a couple and all 3 of you being into the same stuff and all fancying each other lol

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Trawled through Urban Dictionary and found this, don't think many would agree with it fully though,

Synonym for hot bi babe or HBB, often derogatory, condescending, or ironic. A bisexual person, usually though not always female, who is willing to join an existing couple, often with the presumption that this person will date and become sexually involved with both members of that couple, and not demand anything or do anything which might cause problems or inconvenience to that couple.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

I always thought it was just a zero effort compliment "oh you're so rare to find" this has actually been a good wee informative read however

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never really classed myself as a unicorn but I guess I fit the description - single bi female looking to meet couples, amongst others.

Think there are plenty of us perhaps just not as many as there are couples looking for a single girl

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By *ornyTrouble69Woman
over a year ago

somewhere

I'm putting my tuppence worth in too.

Single bi female that plays with couples yes but I think it's important to highlight that a true unicorn will play equally with both parties of the couple. Which is why we are rare.

There are too many "unicorns" that will if you pardon the pun pay lip service to the female and is more interested in the male.

The hardest part about being a unicorn (which is why I'm not actively advertising myself as one atm) is the hard work of trying not to upset one or the other...and the no kissing crap it's infuriating.

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife

"Ok dokie . This is what people don't do they don't Read the Thread Correctly .As 2nd poster said ( inside)

Xxx thanks ..what was the big secret ...was never a Secret. It has always been. But to find is like Hens teeth .

Definitely not hard to find us

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"What's a unicorn "

Scotland's National Animal!!!

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By *aliskerWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Im a single female and would love to meet a MM couple! I think that is harder to find than me joining MF couple!"

Same here, they are like gold dust!

Even more elusive than the female unicorn, given that MM couples tend to be gay. A bi MM couple is extremely rare.

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By *an_Man69Man
over a year ago

kilmarnock

Yeah iv found that's aswel

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