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By *erfHerder74 OP   Man
50 weeks ago

Greenock

Has anyone thought of having a cuddle buddy?

Someone just to hold you tight, let you talk through your annoyances with life, family, work.

Building a man on man connection isn’t always about sex. It can be fully clothed , in your underwear or naked. Sometimes men need that body contact and friendship.

Has anyone had this experience?

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By *oisonSlutWoman
50 weeks ago

Glasgow

Curious why if it’s not sexual it needs to be a man for you? I’ve previously had that sort of relationship with a wonderful gay male friend of mine. There was no sexual attraction between us and we could tell each other the lewdest dirtiest tales, and give help and advice as required.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
50 weeks ago

Motherwell

An ex told me I should be a professional cuddler.

I have mentioned it to others from time to time and thry all say, yeah thats a geeat idea.

I just dont see people being willing to pay for hugs by the hour (though i would be worth it for sure)

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By *oat yardMan
50 weeks ago

Ayr

I’ve got a few wonderful platonic friends who are also ENM that I can speak with about anything. Sometimes play for me with a partner (mostly involving rope) is also physical and emotional but not sexual. I really value these friendships and experiences.

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By *eteHarleyCouple
50 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"An ex told me I should be a professional cuddler.

I have mentioned it to others from time to time and thry all say, yeah thats a geeat idea.

I just dont see people being willing to pay for hugs by the hour (though i would be worth it for sure)"

In Germany we have something called cuddle therapists that actually do exactly that, cuddle with people for money. A lot of times those services get used by people with strong physical disabilities.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
50 weeks ago

Motherwell


"An ex told me I should be a professional cuddler.

I have mentioned it to others from time to time and thry all say, yeah thats a geeat idea.

I just dont see people being willing to pay for hugs by the hour (though i would be worth it for sure)

In Germany we have something called cuddle therapists that actually do exactly that, cuddle with people for money. A lot of times those services get used by people with strong physical disabilities."

Do you think i should go for it?

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By *eteHarleyCouple
50 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"An ex told me I should be a professional cuddler.

I have mentioned it to others from time to time and thry all say, yeah thats a geeat idea.

I just dont see people being willing to pay for hugs by the hour (though i would be worth it for sure)

In Germany we have something called cuddle therapists that actually do exactly that, cuddle with people for money. A lot of times those services get used by people with strong physical disabilities.

Do you think i should go for it?"

Follow your dreams

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By *entlemanrogueMan
50 weeks ago

Motherwell


"An ex told me I should be a professional cuddler.

I have mentioned it to others from time to time and thry all say, yeah thats a geeat idea.

I just dont see people being willing to pay for hugs by the hour (though i would be worth it for sure)

In Germany we have something called cuddle therapists that actually do exactly that, cuddle with people for money. A lot of times those services get used by people with strong physical disabilities.

Do you think i should go for it?

Follow your dreams "

Thanks, i do consider it, from time to time

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By *luebell888Woman
50 weeks ago

Glasgowish

My dogs are my cuddle buddies.

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By *heerlover2Man
50 weeks ago

Amsterdam

I’d love to be a cuddle buddy as I enjoy body to body contact without necessarily having any sex involved.

If I was doing this I would also be caged if the person wanted naked contact, so there is absolutely no chance of any sexual activity taking place.

I’m up for doing this if anyone wanted.

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By * J xxxMan
50 weeks ago

Glasgow

I do love a cuddle xxx

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By *agnar73Man
50 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"My dogs are my cuddle buddies. "

My dog sits right on me at times. It’s good but not quite a hug.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

I ave a great friend who is a Cuddle Buddy, Mentor, and sounding board. All for it

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By *ellinever70Woman
50 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I wouldn't get anything at all from this kind of intimate contact with a stranger

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By *100Man
50 weeks ago

Essex

I’d love to be a cuddle buddy with benefits if the feeling is mutual

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago


"I wouldn't get anything at all from this kind of intimate contact with a stranger "
so u life the way Fab is the 3F's ( Find , Fuck, Forget )

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By *ellinever70Woman
50 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"I wouldn't get anything at all from this kind of intimate contact with a stranger so u life the way Fab is the 3F's ( Find , Fuck, Forget ) "

Strange conclusion

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago


"I wouldn't get anything at all from this kind of intimate contact with a stranger so u life the way Fab is the 3F's ( Find , Fuck, Forget )

Strange conclusion "
is that not Fab.

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By *assy LassieWoman
50 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"I wouldn't get anything at all from this kind of intimate contact with a stranger so u life the way Fab is the 3F's ( Find , Fuck, Forget )

Strange conclusion is that not Fab. "

Would you not know how fab works I have the Impression you've been here before Chic

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By *heerlover2Man
50 weeks ago

Amsterdam

I could really do with a cuddle buddy today I’m telling you. Just want / need some close body contact tonight. Don’t know if it’s Christmas around the corner or the weather but ive always said I’m alone but not lonely. Tonight feels very very different.

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By *herrixxWoman
50 weeks ago

Dundee


"In Germany we have something called cuddle therapists that actually do exactly that, cuddle with people for money. A lot of times those services get used by people with strong physical disabilities."

My worst nightmare

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By *eamworkboyMan
50 weeks ago

Irvine

I love a cuddle and don't remember the last time I had one, so yes, I think cuddle buddies are a great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Good post and interesting takes above.

Human comfort, ie cuddles and sex too btw, releases oxytocin which is often called the love hormone (I’ve a good bit of writing on the kink place about this). Oxytocin is nullified by testosterone, so due to this emotional attachments form quicker for women than they do men (other genders are available) with the difference in testosterone within the system. Regular cuddle buddies with no possibility of anything progressing would, in theory, suit men more than women.

Science is always an opinion splitter, I’d love a cuddle chum!

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By *r-King SizeMan
50 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I would do this I do love a cuddle and a lot of the time it's what I miss most

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago


"Has anyone thought of having a cuddle buddy?

Someone just to hold you tight, let you talk through your annoyances with life, family, work.

Building a man on man connection isn’t always about sex. It can be fully clothed , in your underwear or naked. Sometimes men need that body contact and friendship.

Has anyone had this experience?"

Nope for me this is something I'd have more with family and close friends- hugs and chatting life, family, work. Its not something I'd look for on fab.

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By *agnar73Man
50 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

I’ve heard of meet-up groups down in England where people meet for a hug group. Clothes on etc etc church hall type thing.

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By *eedsanewusernameMan
50 weeks ago

Mainly under the bed...


"An ex told me I should be a professional cuddler.

I have mentioned it to others from time to time and thry all say, yeah thats a geeat idea.

I just dont see people being willing to pay for hugs by the hour (though i would be worth it for sure)

In Germany we have something called cuddle therapists that actually do exactly that, cuddle with people for money. A lot of times those services get used by people with strong physical disabilities."

I mean,I'll give hugs for dollars too!

Just don't ask to see my qualifications first.

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By *assy LassieWoman
50 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

Cuddles are underrated. Sometimes all you need is a cuddle

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By *aydumfriesMan
50 weeks ago

heathhall


"Cuddles are underrated. Sometimes all you need is a cuddle "

We're going to get on brilliantly

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago


"An ex told me I should be a professional cuddler.

I have mentioned it to others from time to time and thry all say, yeah thats a geeat idea.

I just dont see people being willing to pay for hugs by the hour (though i would be worth it for sure)"

You do give great hugs!

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"I’ve heard of meet-up groups down in England where people meet for a hug group. Clothes on etc etc church hall type thing."

You just know Itl be all those guru style hippies though. Il think I shall pass man

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
49 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

Hugs have healing powers. I loooove a good cuddle.

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By *lam granWoman
49 weeks ago

falkirk

This is why I have a pet.

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