FabSwingers.com forum: Over 50's

By *hoswho OP Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Curious?

Does anyone else feel this is a restriction to having fun or not, given the age limit some folks have? Xx

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By *M60Couple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

63 and it certainly hasnt held me back.

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

Soon to be 65 has not stopped me at all

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By *urd no1Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I hope not

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not at all. Still dancing the nights away

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By *SCouple81Couple
over a year ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

Absolutely not. We had some of the most enjoyable meets with people slightly older than us

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Can't wait till I'm 50

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By *innietheMinx2Woman
over a year ago

Grampian

54 and going strong

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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow ish

57 and partying harder than I did in my teens/twenties...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not

Mrs C

Happy shagging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think Geography can be more of an issue than age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older and fun go well together

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Of course, everyone has their age preferences and that means some will choose younger people, but there are lots of lovely 50+ swingers. We often know what we want and enjoy and take a relaxed and intimate approach to sex. It’s a time to enjoy and explore, and that’s what I love

Here’s to all you fellow over 50 explorers

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By *ittleMizzNaughty88.Woman
over a year ago

Renfrewshire

I will definitely be at 50!

I've 50 things I want to do before the big 5 0!

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"I will definitely be at 50!

I've 50 things I want to do before the big 5 0!

If you need any help making your way through that list, then just say the word

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By *inkyropecoupleCouple
over a year ago

carluke

Age is just a number, it’s not important

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I think if you a single female then not so much but I’d say it’s probably different for couples & single males .

I’ve not experienced any issues myself

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By *allguynowMan
over a year ago

durham

"Curious?

Does anyone else feel this is a restriction to having fun or not, given the age limit some folks have? Xx"

61, I go gym three times a week and still box. I'm fitter than a lot of younger obese ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have probably enjoyed some of the best sex since I hit 50+

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

For us guys, people think we're over the hill. At clubs, nobody knows your age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think Geography can be more of an issue than age

i agree … geography is the issue for me

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

If you’re looking to meet people in their 20s then yes it’s probably a hindrance. If you’re over 50 and looking to meet over 50s then why would it be a problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll be honest and say my libido and energy has dropped off in the past year or two. I can understand why a lot of folk, mainly single men over 50 give up and get a hobby or fire into the drink.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I think Geography can be more of an issue than age

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only if you let it be .

Some people are worth traveling for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is certainly true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmmm what can I say, I'm just here for the banter

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

Age isn’t the restriction for me, it’s time and opportunity.

Have some chances for fun and I don’t think my age a factor from comments I’ve had.

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By *igman40123Man
over a year ago

travelling

"I will definitely be at 50!

I've 50 things I want to do before the big 5 0!

If you need a wingman, give me a shout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"63 and it certainly hasnt held me back."

Same, it must be a good number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmmmm what can I say, I'm just here for the banter

Pfft … neigh comment

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By *rwomble 56Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

I am 64 been on here for about 8 years now and have been fortunate from time to time and met some lovely people .

I do find it a bit more difficult now as getting older but still fully functioning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do believe there are alot of people only looking up to a certain age but this hasn't stopped me finding pleasure and if I'm to old for them then thats thier loss for missing out on experiences.

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By *orders CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Kelso

We're still active and having fun. I think, on fab, a lot of people setting their age restrictions at 50 or lower means they're missing out on some great opportunities xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that it’s a game of diminishing returns the older I get on fab.

But, having said that, when I do connect with someone here these days, I find that the fun is far more satisfying and drama free x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive seen a growing amount of gorgeous looking older women on here so it shouldn't restrict chances/meets in my opinion

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By *essarosa7leeCouple
over a year ago

East Fife

We do not feel limited at all, we hold ourselves young and enjoy the freedom of a empty nest to play in.

Other advantages for us, no menstrual period, both sterilised,

secure in our relationship, experience, more play oriented than just orgasm oriented (orgasm is part of the the play, not the end of it), sexuality freedom (Not afraid of same gender contact or play), know what we like and open to try other things.

As to others age restrictions, each to thier own.... it helps filter out play partners.

"Sometimes you can bake the best bread in an older over"

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do not feel limited at all, we hold ourselves young and enjoy the freedom of a empty nest to play in.

Other advantages for us, no menstrual period, both sterilised,

As to others age restrictions, each to thier own.... it helps filter out play partners.

"Sometimes you can bake the best bread in an older over"

Xxx"

Nice post x

Totally agree. Benefits of age and experience are an appreciation of the joy of the journey. When you’re younger it’s about how hard you cum. Now it’s about how many times and it’s so much more fun.

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By *essarosa7leeCouple
over a year ago

East Fife

Nice post x

Thank you, the funniest part of the subject..... youth and beauty is fleeting. What you sow in youth shall you reap in mature years.

We to were once younger....lol

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely go for mature woman, just a different breed of woman and lots to learn from them.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Geography and available free time are definitely more of a factor.

The real difference to me, has been COVID and the changes in work culture.

Used to be out and about a lot with work. Driving all over the place which gave plenty of opportunities to play in lots of different places. Now work's all done by phone and video chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather meet an older woman than anyone younger than me I seem to have more in common with them

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Nothing sexier than an older woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing sexier than an older woman "

I agree

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By *ill67Man
over a year ago

alloa

seems most profiles only go to 55 which is restricting if your over that but only just

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Older and wiser.....well maybe not wiser

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By *un-shineWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Curious?

Does anyone else feel this is a restriction to having fun or not, given the age limit some folks have? Xx"

I think us over 50s restrict ourselves sometimes. I know I do... I have noticed in my 50s though after being on here for about 13yr there are a lot more invitations for up to 49s. Age can be a big issue if us over 50s have adults in their 30s, I personally don't have anything in common with someone in their 30s and would struggle not to mother them like my own kids lol, I have more in common with my own age group and I also understand it from the other side, why would a 30+ want a 50+ when there are loads of their age group and younger to choose from? I understand there are loads of people were age isn't an issue though but I think it is for the majority...

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By *essarosa7leeCouple
over a year ago

East Fife

"seems most profiles only go to 55 which is restricting if your over that but only just

I think a lot of people put 55 as a round number, 60 sounds like we should park our "zimmer frames", put our sleep shirts on and in bed by 8.... lmao.

Shows you how any stereotype is often so incorrect...

Lol

Xxx

Ps: we do go to bed early, but not to sleep

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

51 and probably having the best sex of my life and I really appreciate it now too. I know myself and my body better and I hope I’m good at understanding my play partners too.

No kids at home now, so that gives a certain amount of freedom too.

Yes the offers on fab can dwindle slightly after 50 as younger people don’t look above that age often but I’m not short of interesting offers plus as someone mentioned there’s also clubs and indeed other sites.

I will admit I’m happy to play with younger and that’s not for everyone is maybe part of it.

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By *ighland funMan
over a year ago

moray/highlands

i bet your getting lots of fun sexy lady

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By *ikwaxMan
over a year ago

New Cumnock

70 here and still getting meets and good verifications so can't complain

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

"I think Geography can be more of an issue than age

i agree … geography is the issue for me "

Yeah holy shit that must be a nightmare up there. Thought i suffered here. When you search near you is it the same 3 people who appear

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Yes

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Go along to socials and clubs where people can meet you in person and filters don’t apply.

Yes, it can reduce the number of people who message but at the same time it can also out the time wasters. I’ve met people in person at social or clubs that I probably wouldn’t have met based on a Fab profile and been very pleasantly surprised.

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By *rwomble 56Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

I am 64 been on here for about 8 years and consider myself fortunate to have met some lovely ladies from time to time.

Past couple of years have been a bit more difficult 60 seems to be a cut of point for some but there still some people out their that enjoy some sexy fun!

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By *ez669Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

Over 50s is on the to do list

Some in their 60s on here have fantastic body's

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By *heerlover2Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

As an over 50s dude it’s lovely to hear so many encouraging stories…but the reality is, sorry, but on Fab, the chances of a meet are fewer and fewer.

I love having sex, and body contact etc but as I say the reality is far different while searching for real meets in here. I suppose though there’s a reason everyone has their preferences on here.

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By *andy-FellaMan
over a year ago

Harthill

56 and still game for almost anything! Helps that my better half is way younger - but she gets more action from Fab than I do, so it's all good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it’s a generic number picked and people use it.

I’ve messaged a few folk and say I’m two years old etc and they it’s fine it’s just a marker in the sand sort of thing.

But yea a few people I know I would have fun with but cannot message

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By *atureMale321Man
over a year ago

Moray

The combination of older age and geography can prove more challenging, just a younger tend to have set age limits its more likely to meet people from your peer group/age / interests but you never know what might pop up

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By *oveboyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

All time

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By *issBehave69Man
over a year ago

Bulgaria

I’ll

Meet a Guy no matter what age he is to be honest, in fact I’ve started to look at guys in there 60s and think oh yeah x

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By *oat yardMan
over a year ago

Ayr

I actively seek out people to play with who are a slightly older than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Others perception may change but in my head I’ll always be 20 or 21 so don’t intend to stop or change anything.

Suppose it’s up to others whether they engage and join in

P x

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By *winga2Man
over a year ago

Stranraer

The problem is getting first meets, when they see what they get repeats are easy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curious?

Does anyone else feel this is a restriction to having fun or not, given the age limit some folks have? Xx"
. Nope.Has always been , but on a personal level i have found my Dymanic and it suits all . Hope you both find the same

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By *appygolicky99Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Definitely feels that way

I can't even get someone to chat to lol

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By *ems1966Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

There some old people on here in better shape than some of the younger

So many snow flakes it is shocking

As well as ghost time waster

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Others perception may change but in my head I’ll always be 20 or 21 so don’t intend to stop or change anything.

Suppose it’s up to others whether they engage and join in

P x"

That says it all and age is something that for some is a stumbling block but should be a sign of experience and knowing that it’s not all about speed or longevity

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
over a year ago

Motherwell

Two of my best ever lovers on here are both widowers and over 60 and the skills and stamina of both are exquisite and amazing Mx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curious?

Does anyone else feel this is a restriction to having fun or not, given the age limit some folks have? Xx"

As said to other poster myself & partner welcome any1 who is visting the lovely Ayrshire coast to drop us a reply and we can move on from forum and do coffee's Tea's , Scones ETC

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By *ir laugh a lotMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I met loads of folk at socials and those I met were great people but as the years passed and folk moved on I never enjoyed clubs I went to two. and as a non-drinker I hate socials in pubs I guess I am too damn old for them I prefer a nice meal and a relaxing lunch I enjoy it as a social meet. I had great chats and laughs with some nice genuine folk on here and brilliant trusting support when I ran charity lunches probably time for this old fart to stop looking and dreaming of a miss right coming my way. oh and have a great Christmas everyone , cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to have fun with a woman in her 50s

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