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By *ffshoreguy4fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Hey all. Just a wee post In regards to clubs etc. have been advised by few people on here who have replied to head to a club as that is most likely to make a proper start in the scene especially single guys. Have never been and just feel a bit nervous going alone. Has anyone felt the same and overcome it or anyone in same position? Cheers.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Use the search option or have a nosy through the clubs section, plenty of advice and tips available.

Most importantly, just be yourself

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By *abulousAvaWoman
over a year ago

Dainty Town


"Hey all. Just a wee post In regards to clubs etc. have been advised by few people on here who have replied to head to a club as that is most likely to make a proper start in the scene especially single guys. Have never been and just feel a bit nervous going alone. Has anyone felt the same and overcome it or anyone in same position? Cheers."

When you book in to go tell them it's your first time, they are very accommodating, I got buddied up until I was good to go around the club on my own.

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By *ilverfox84Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm hoping to attend my first club soon also heard good things about them aswell as social meets but they can be hard to get

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By *rakenguyMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Like your first day at school once you’ve visited you’ll be back for more

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
52 weeks ago

Glasgow

It’s honestly absolutely fine. If anything more relaxed and less nerve wracking than a vanilla club.

If your glasgow based cjs is highly recommended and there’s usually a pre drinks before the fun for all and theme nights which is a smaller social before the event so kinda eases you in.

Happy to advise

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By *ide em cowgirlWoman
52 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I attend a club on my own and know how daunting it can be. There are usually socials on and they are a good way to meet people before you go. After dark socials in Edinburgh are also held in the club so you can get a feel for the club without the pressure of play etc and then stay on for club opening if you fancy it, Staff are lovely and helpful at putting you at ease. Just go with an open mind, no expectations and being sociable.

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By *oreverplayfulCouple
52 weeks ago

motherwell


"Hey all. Just a wee post In regards to clubs etc. have been advised by few people on here who have replied to head to a club as that is most likely to make a proper start in the scene especially single guys. Have never been and just feel a bit nervous going alone. Has anyone felt the same and overcome it or anyone in same position? Cheers."

Op me and mr have just had this same convo tonight and feeling so nervous about it all suppose my bonus is I have him with me but still can't find out the basics on the forum about them and the etiquette of when your there and what you wear lol

C x

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By *ide em cowgirlWoman
52 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"Hey all. Just a wee post In regards to clubs etc. have been advised by few people on here who have replied to head to a club as that is most likely to make a proper start in the scene especially single guys. Have never been and just feel a bit nervous going alone. Has anyone felt the same and overcome it or anyone in same position? Cheers.

Each club is different my lovely. But you can always message people who have been that can give you a heads up about it. I go to After Dark in Edinburgh so can help answer question about there (well as much as I can)

Op me and mr have just had this same convo tonight and feeling so nervous about it all suppose my bonus is I have him with me but still can't find out the basics on the forum about them and the etiquette of when your there and what you wear lol

C x"

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By *oat yardMan
52 weeks ago

Ayr


"Like your first day at school once you’ve visited you’ll be back for more"

This is a great description - it’s going to be scary before your first time like it was for probably everyone, but once you’re inside you’ll see that people there are normal, friendly folk

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By *oreverplayfulCouple
52 weeks ago

motherwell

Think just need that wee friendly face when you get there to make it less daunting but because we mainly look for single guys we don't know many fems or couples (because we know the girls are alot less scary than the guys)

C x

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52 weeks ago

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52 weeks ago


"Think just need that wee friendly face when you get there to make it less daunting but because we mainly look for single guys we don't know many fems or couples (because we know the girls are alot less scary than the guys)

C x"

Honestly the best way is to just jump in, I would recommend giving pinkandlittlemiss a follow and going along to their events if interested in the afterdark (edinburgh) side. They run social events and club events and usually will start a telegram group chat a week beforehand to break the ice and it makes it feel like you already know people by the time the night comes around, then you'll just be milling about talking to people! Everyone is so friendly I promise you'll be fine

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By *ilverfox84Man
52 weeks ago

Glasgow

I think i mite try after dark

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By *hikkMan
52 weeks ago

LIVINGSTON

I am new to all this and find the idea of a club quite daunting especially alone but I need to step out the comfort zone

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By *agnar73Man
52 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Daunting is probably my sort of thought too, sort of thought about it and would like to, but a bit of ‘what do I wear/ is it okay in my own’ sort of thing.

I’m sure it’s easier second time as people say, but just that first step

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By *oreverplayfulCouple
52 weeks ago

motherwell


"Think just need that wee friendly face when you get there to make it less daunting but because we mainly look for single guys we don't know many fems or couples (because we know the girls are alot less scary than the guys)

C x

Honestly the best way is to just jump in, I would recommend giving pinkandlittlemiss a follow and going along to their events if interested in the afterdark (edinburgh) side. They run social events and club events and usually will start a telegram group chat a week beforehand to break the ice and it makes it feel like you already know people by the time the night comes around, then you'll just be milling about talking to people! Everyone is so friendly I promise you'll be fine "

Thanks lovely 3 think because it is something new to us that we haven't done when we've been up to this for so long aswell lol. I'll go ad to my hot list and see what's happening then there's always the fear you bump into someone you know haha

C x

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By *eebzMan
52 weeks ago

Falkirk


"Hey all. Just a wee post In regards to clubs etc. have been advised by few people on here who have replied to head to a club as that is most likely to make a proper start in the scene especially single guys. Have never been and just feel a bit nervous going alone. Has anyone felt the same and overcome it or anyone in same position? Cheers."

I feel the same way mate, I’ve just bit the bullet and booked CJs for the 9th of December,nervous and exited haha

Get yourself booked up buddy

Get yourself booked up buddy

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By *isstucWoman
52 weeks ago

Glasgow

Ease yourself in to it - come try libertea it's a social and will get you networking

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By *assy LassieWoman
52 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"Ease yourself in to it - come try libertea it's a social and will get you networking "

That's a good idea. The socials will introduce you to folk in a non play situation so no pressure. Some are just like nights out at a pub or a private function.

Libertea has cake tho

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By *artan811Couple
52 weeks ago

somewhere in scotland

Keep an eye for pre drinks before a club night, our first visit to club we went to a social first met a group of folk then all went to the club together

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