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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bringing this over from the lounge, what is the longest meet you have had?

I’ve never had a fab meet that was under an hour and after my last fab “relationship” which lasted a few months I doubt I will ever do sleep overs again for a long while. Looking to get back in the saddle and expect a meet to be at least a few hours then leave without out staying my welcome, what is your expected meet expectation, personally I’d hope for a few hours to be fully satisfied and leave with a big smile, what are people’s thoughts?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

It really depends on who I’m meeting how long a meet lasts. Used to meet a guy regularly and he’d stay for a few hours. We’d also have overnights but they usually included dinner and a night out.

I’ve also had meets where we’ve played through the night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It really depends on who I’m meeting how long a meet lasts. Used to meet a guy regularly and he’d stay for a few hours. We’d also have overnights but they usually included dinner and a night out.

I’ve also had meets where we’ve played through the night. "

Totally agree it depends on the person and the dynamic you have with each other, guess I’m just craving longer meets on these cold nights, thanks for input

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to not have expectations when meeting new people, though most socials I've had have been over an hour, never mind fab meets. I agree with someone else depends on the dynamic etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tend to not have expectations when meeting new people, though most socials I've had have been over an hour, never mind fab meets. I agree with someone else depends on the dynamic etc."

Yeah same, I should have stated “play time” most socials I’ve had from here and other sites are usually well over few hours, I don’t drink so like a coffee meet or my last profile I was lucky enough to meet lovely guys who also had dogs who liked beach meets and long woodland walks (sadly they don’t seem to be here anymore)

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By *igsaw93Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Anything from literally minutes to 14 hours (roughly) for pure play meets in the past.

If it's a play evening meet with 2 or 3 people then a 2-4 hour window would be pretty average.

I only really think about it when deciding if I need to be home before midnight (or risk turning into a pumpkin). Otherwise just go with it and see when the connection naturally eases.

Jigs x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anything from literally minutes to 14 hours (roughly) for pure play meets in the past.

If it's a play evening meet with 2 or 3 people then a 2-4 hour window would be pretty average.

I only really think about it when deciding if I need to be home before midnight (or risk turning into a pumpkin). Otherwise just go with it and see when the connection naturally eases.

Jigs x "

Yeah I’d say that’s acceptable, finding that every message I get this time around is looking for a quick meet, maybe I’m just unlucky, glad to hear it’s acceptable to want a few hours or much longer, also a lot of married men here who for obvious reason won’t be able to stay long, not for me but no judgement to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off Topic do we av to Bring from the Lounge . But i Get It

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By *panksspankedMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I don't have a set time. It really depends on the person and situation.

Dungeons charge by the hour!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't have a set time. It really depends on the person and situation.

Dungeons charge by the hour! "

Not necessarily, a very good one in Edinburgh has a great 4 hour rate

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

Under 5 minutes if things are going to plan. Not suggesting that's right or normal though!

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By *helamontsCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

How long is a bit of string ... depends on the meet and the situation ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No right or wrong answers, I’m obviously more greedy than I thought is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a girl on fab for a one off in a Dundee hotel. 9 years later, still together. Easily my longest meet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I met a girl on fab for a one off in a Dundee hotel. 9 years later, still together. Easily my longest meet!"

That brilliant, worthwhile meet there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a girl on fab for a one off in a Dundee hotel. 9 years later, still together. Easily my longest meet!

That brilliant, worthwhile meet there! "

100%. Hottest girl on fab with a cracking pair of feet. Lucky man!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never used to think about spending the night but have done so, it’s been at their request though which I’ve always found surprising… I generally don’t think of timescales however.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never used to think about spending the night but have done so, it’s been at their request though which I’ve always found surprising… I generally don’t think of timescales however. "

Yeah can’t see me doing an over night on a meet but depends on the situation and the person like you say x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Havent met in a couple of years so started chatting to a guy i previously spoke with met him couple times in the car just to chat arranged for him to come to mine when i was free, arrived quick kiss he touched i sucked he pumped and left all within about 8 mins of him arriving, turns out his gf was home from work early so he didnt really have the time but needed to cum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Havent met in a couple of years so started chatting to a guy i previously spoke with met him couple times in the car just to chat arranged for him to come to mine when i was free, arrived quick kiss he touched i sucked he pumped and left all within about 8 mins of him arriving, turns out his gf was home from work early so he didnt really have the time but needed to cum "

I suppose as long as you got yours that works, if I’m not guaranteed an O, I’m not interested I’d rather stay home with the wand lol x

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By *enusandMars 87Couple
over a year ago

airdrie

We expect at least 2 hours but last couple of meets have been 12 hours. Exhausted an understatement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Havent met in a couple of years so started chatting to a guy i previously spoke with met him couple times in the car just to chat arranged for him to come to mine when i was free, arrived quick kiss he touched i sucked he pumped and left all within about 8 mins of him arriving, turns out his gf was home from work early so he didnt really have the time but needed to cum

I suppose as long as you got yours that works, if I’m not guaranteed an O, I’m not interested I’d rather stay home with the wand lol x"

Believe me i got nothing lol

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

2 or 3 hours maybe more if its an fwb have done overnights with them too

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By *gowguy0988Man
over a year ago

Coatbridge

I don't have any expectations on time but prefer to go with flow, but certainly don't expect it to end to quickly, take time plenty build up and fun, it is sometimes nice for person to stay over bit of morning fun to if time allows but it's really up to each different situation and how it goes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Havent met in a couple of years so started chatting to a guy i previously spoke with met him couple times in the car just to chat arranged for him to come to mine when i was free, arrived quick kiss he touched i sucked he pumped and left all within about 8 mins of him arriving, turns out his gf was home from work early so he didnt really have the time but needed to cum

I suppose as long as you got yours that works, if I’m not guaranteed an O, I’m not interested I’d rather stay home with the wand lol x

Believe me i got nothing lol "

Aw damn, that’s disappointing, here’s hoping the next meet you have more than makes up for it then. Nothing worse than the selfish man x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for input, guess I’ll just have to keep looking for the diamond in the rough that can keep up! Here’s to long meets and a women’s pleasure guaranteed too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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100%. Hottest girl on fab with a cracking pair of feet. Lucky man!!"

I try to be as daft and jovial as possible so believe me, I’m trying to hard to toe the line with the feet jokes here..

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