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" NO means NO, if you need to be told NO more than once from the same person, just get your coat and leave! We will *NOT* tolerate pushy males at Club Liberty. " | |||
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"Where is this " It's in Edinburgh but single males must be vetted and the last chance to be vetted for our next event was last week. | |||
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"This does sound right up my street, but I've tried some events in the past and I just don't feel safe being a lone woman in this lifestyle, its sad but true. Great for couples or those with friends, enjoy all! Great venue btw. " Hi Ava, we think our event is safe, but we can appreciate that is easy for us to say. We're really sorry to hear you've had negative experiences in the kink scene previously. I do promise you this though, we do not tolerate pushy people. Would you mind sharing with us (either here or in private) what we could do to make our event feel and be safe for you? Hope you're having a fab weekend, Club Liberty | |||
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"Oops, accidental delete, fat finger morning! Question was: what about enby's?" Morning, as stated above, at this moment in times it's just single males that need to be vetted. NB's, trans and genderfluid peeps don't need to be vetted. However, as we tell everyone, they do need to have a genuine interest in kink. | |||
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"Seems strange vetting closed a week ago when this thread only started 2 days ago but then this site has all cummers on it " Hi, although this post was only created a couple of days ago, the event has been live in the events section for well over a month. The non gendered pricing means we've already had to go through a large number of messages from single males. The Liber-Tea-parties are the only way to be vetted in person unless you happen to be going to other events where we can meet you (we are out on the kink scene at least once a week generally at munches and such). It is also possible to skip the vetting process if you have people known to us who can vouch for you. As I've said, I appreciate this is frustrating for single males because the vast majority of blokes are perfectly lovely but unfortunately the lifestyle does attract more than it's fair share of wanky creepy types who just want to come along and expect to get a shag out of it and we need to make sure that those coming can conduct themselves well. The ladies on our team have insisted on it to help keep our events relaxed and safe. | |||
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"Hey, so our events used to be non vetted, everyone welcome. However as we don't have a gendered/structured price policy and instead have a flat £10 fee for everyone we've had an imbalanced interested from single males. We also run crossover events that are for kinky swingers so we want to be sure that those attending have a genuine interest in kink. The only incidents we've had at previous events were with single males who didn't conduct themselves in accordance with our code if conduct. These things combined led us to the decision to vet single males going forward. I appreciate it may be frustrating for genuine guys out there to have this extra step to go through but it's been put in place for the safety of our attendees. " I have no problems with this. I enquired and was asked if I could make the tea party and I couldn't make it to be vetted. Seems fair. No need to get my pants in a twist. There may be another event, another day | |||
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"Nope it's talking to the team and then checking your profile out , seeing your genuinely interested and you've met others xxx" Well my profile maybe need toned down first, only met once so definitely need to give it more time until I think about coming. I’m always away working so probably never get time off. Definitely interested but. | |||
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"Hello would definitely be interested in this type of meet in the future. Swinging scene is all new to me and I’m sure I would love it but I will bide my time and see if I can attend one of these meets. What happens when getting vetted is it water boarding or something more sinister " Now you're just giving us ideas! :D | |||
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