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By *ark3a0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

A lot of people are writing huge profile descriptions and mentioning not looking for time waste people. Just wondering asking users to read the entire profile is a waste of time. If you cannot build a conversation to know people, please don’t use fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think for some people it’s not just take what you can get, some know what their looking for and the profiles could be for the readers benifit.

Catch 22, talk to them and don’t connect means your a time to waster, now written by a bio to help also means your a time waster.

Might as well put us down as time wasters then

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By *pank-me-harderWoman
over a year ago

close to leven


"Think for some people it’s not just take what you can get, some know what their looking for and the profiles could be for the readers benifit.

Catch 22, talk to them and don’t connect means your a time to waster, now written by a bio to help also means your a time waster.

Might as well put us down as time wasters then "

We all like , on our profiles we state what we like and dislike ..if people don't read they then get passed when we decline as not looking for tue same .. so always good t9 read that way you can then message with what interests each other ... x

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By *ibliosWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I guess it depends what you consider 'huge' - I've yet to come across anything that rivals War & Peace!

Personally I'd rather spend 5 minutes and have enough to go on to determine if it's even worthwhile chatting than an hour of message ping pong to only to establish we're looking for completely different things.

And if someine has a problem with that approach we're probably not going to get along anyway, so it's a win-win!

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By *ark3a0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Instead keeping all the stuff in profiles. Just make your profile in short and sweet way by telling what you need in few lines. About us not ours autobiography. Is just what we need.. some of them will keep what subject need to written in their profile.. it will be like studying for an exam and finding the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Instead keeping all the stuff in profiles. Just make your profile in short and sweet way by telling what you need in few lines. About us not ours autobiography. Is just what we need.. some of them will keep what subject need to written in their profile.. it will be like studying for an exam and finding the answer "

Don’t read, don’t contact.

Simple, win win

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By *ark3a0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Please this is not to hurt anyone’s feelings. Everyone will have their own opinions. This is my opinion. Bio can be what we are looking for and when we are looking for. And some about us. The shorter it is the sweeter

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By *r d and Ms ACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I hope this will be hurting to whoever have long bio and whoever is fake

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By *at-me-drink-meWoman
over a year ago

w.lothian.TAKE ME TO WONDERLAND

Bios show that some1 is actually interested in meeting u.not just looking to fuck every and anything If they take 5 min out of their time scrolling fab rather than sending every 1 the same mail and expecting to get a meet .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer reading a bio with some thought behind it. Serves as a good method of introduction.

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By *ark3a0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yeah absolutely. I agree. FAB is not something only used for fuck. But if you see someone who has written long bio will definitely mention what kind of people they wanna fuck

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By *at-me-drink-meWoman
over a year ago

w.lothian.TAKE ME TO WONDERLAND

No 1s tastes are exactly the same .1 person u like mite be into hard core maybe 1 bit mare vanilla 1 could be inexperienced 1 may only do group 1 maybe only 1 on 1 .u cant go in with the exact same approch to every 1 and expect to it to work .if u read a bio its there to help u .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people are writing huge profile descriptions and mentioning not looking for time waste people. Just wondering asking users to read the entire profile is a waste of time. If you cannot build a conversation to know people, please don’t use fab "

What would be the point in a very short profile that wouldn’t possibly fit everything that a person/ persons are looking for? You’re saying you don’t want to waste time reading profiles, which by the way is just lazy and will be seen as such, but then why would you be more eager to waste even longer exchanging emails only to realise on email 7 that you don’t fit what each other is looking for?

Looking at yours, literally I’m seeing that you would happily meet a 98 year old man and his 96 year old wife for a sexual meet. You’d gleefully fist his wifes anus as the old boy lights up his cigar, sits in his rocking chair to take photos of the action in their cottage because you cant accommodate. Would that be accurate? You see the issue now?

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By *ark3a0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes, everything is mentioned in looking for title. Meeting title and in Interest title… then why to mention the same stuff in bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people are writing huge profile descriptions and mentioning not looking for time waste people. Just wondering asking users to read the entire profile is a waste of time. If you cannot build a conversation to know people, please don’t use fab

What would be the point in a very short profile that wouldn’t possibly fit everything that a person/ persons are looking for? You’re saying you don’t want to waste time reading profiles, which by the way is just lazy and will be seen as such, but then why would you be more eager to waste even longer exchanging emails only to realise on email 7 that you don’t fit what each other is looking for?

Looking at yours, literally I’m seeing that you would happily meet a 98 year old man and his 96 year old wife for a sexual meet. You’d gleefully fist his wifes anus as the old boy lights up his cigar, sits in his rocking chair to take photos of the action in their cottage because you cant accommodate. Would that be accurate? You see the issue now?"

Bravo

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I don't mind a long profile. There's normally something in it that gives a clue about whether you'll have anything in common

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh well best avoid mines then

On a serious note the fact your saying you can't be arsed to read a profile would suggest your either lazy , out for yourself and your needs with no regards to what anyone else needs .. its kinda red flags .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like a long, lengthy......

profile

the end!

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By *hYouNaughtyKittenWoman
over a year ago

Fife


"I quite like a long, lengthy......

profile

the end!

"

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By *r-mrs-albaCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Depends who you’re trying to attract. Women/couples tend to write longer profiles than single guys and they want to know a single guy has taken 30 seconds to read it.

Reading someone’s profile shows you actually have an interest. If I get a message from a single guy who tries to strike up a common interest based on what they’ve read I’ll talk to them. If I get a “hi” with a dick pic and their profile says “ask what you want to know” I know they’ve looked at my pictures and thought they’d chance it with no thought, it doesn’t set that person a part from majority of the other single guy profiles & messages so I’m not going to bother.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

My profile contains all the important points. It's supposed to save people messaging me if they're not what I'm looking for, and vice versa.

If people don't bother to read it then message me and it's clear they're not what I'm looking for, they have no right to complain when their message is deleted.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Longer profiles have an air of care, elegance, maturity and reality. Worth the read

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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago

London

As Rhett said to Scarlett

"Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn"

My profile, my words.

If you or others can't be arsed to read and understand them, then that's your issue.

Not Mine.

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By *isge BeathaWoman
over a year ago

Here, There and Everywhere

My profile is lengthy but if you read it, you'll know if we're compatible. I make no excuses nor will I apologise for this as I'm not here to have my time wasted.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"My profile is lengthy but if you read it, you'll know if we're compatible. I make no excuses nor will I apologise for this as I'm not here to have my time wasted. "

I failed at fit

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Please this is not to hurt anyone’s feelings. Everyone will have their own opinions. This is my opinion. Bio can be what we are looking for and when we are looking for. And some about us. The shorter it is the sweeter "

People won't change profiles to suit your narrative. If you don't like reading them. Don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please this is not to hurt anyone’s feelings. Everyone will have their own opinions. This is my opinion. Bio can be what we are looking for and when we are looking for. And some about us. The shorter it is the sweeter

People won't change profiles to suit your narrative. If you don't like reading them. Don't. "

This… we all like different things. If you don’t like long profiles don’t read or contact them. Some folk don’t like profiles that are silhouettes folk are still entitled to have them though.

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By *Night-Errant-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've never once seen a profile that took longer than a minute or two to read; if someone isn't willing to read that, then I'd echo others in seeing that as a major red flag.

Moreover, a time-waster is someone who pretends to be interested in potentially meeting someone, when they have little to no intention of actually doing so; their real goal is usually just to try and get pictures or have an arousing conversation (which is why the vast majority of the culprits are male).

Someone with even a massive profile is not a time-waster just because of this, and it's an outright lie to accuse them being one, just for that reason. Anyone is allowed to have whatever length of profile they like, and are allowed to have whatever preferences they have; no-one is entitled to demand how others should have their profile, least of all because some random guy out there can't be bothered to read a few sentences.

Personally, I like profiles which actually show a little personality, and more importantly, give important information to see if we're even basically compatible! There's little point corresponding if neither of us can accommodate and the other person doesn't like going to clubs, for example.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

My profile, my prerogative, my choices, my desires, my criteria, my necromancy. My profile to do as I please.

Typically those who have the ability to read my profile are usually the ones who can hold a conversation better than most people can hold a cock. Those are the people who interest me and the ones who are interested in me.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Oh well best avoid mines then

On a serious note the fact your saying you can't be arsed to read a profile would suggest your either lazy , out for yourself and your needs with no regards to what anyone else needs .. its kinda red flags ."

Perfectly put!

Mine has been honed over many years on fab, far from a time waster as my veris show I not only meet regularly I’m active on the social side of the scene too.

Frankly your attitude shows I have it just right because if a longer better crafted profile bio puts you off? You’re definitely not for me.

I like someone who can hold a decent conversation that I don’t have to dumb down and who is interested in not only getting their needs met but in the other persons needs too.

Lazy, effortless types? Definitely not my style! You wouldn’t be able to keep up with me if that’s your style

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"Yes, everything is mentioned in looking for title. Meeting title and in Interest title… then why to mention the same stuff in bio"

And yet yours says nothing about what you’re looking for, the type of person, attributes, likes/dislikes, etc. You seem to rely on the fact that you’re a masseuse.

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By *yantico86Man
over a year ago

drumchapel

Everyones profile is there own it's up to them whether they want it long or short

Up to them if the viewer don't like it then crack on no need for a whinge x

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire

So the Pulitzer prize winning author can't take time to read a small bio? Not like anyone on here is asking you to read war and peace - maybe chill out a bit or get some reading glasses!? Lol

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By *redwilma666Couple
over a year ago

Kilbirnie

Maybe all profiles should be pictures only, just for the dumb ass's

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By *redwilma666Couple
over a year ago

Kilbirnie

Maybe all profiles should be pictures only, just for the dumb ass's

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By *B84Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I used to put a lot of effort into profiles in the past, unfortunately not many people read them, so now it’s just short and sweet.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Yes, everything is mentioned in looking for title. Meeting title and in Interest title… then why to mention the same stuff in bio

And yet yours says nothing about what you’re looking for, the type of person, attributes, likes/dislikes, etc. You seem to rely on the fact that you’re a masseuse. "

Which tbh is a definite no for me too. Massage just…annoys me

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"My profile is lengthy but if you read it, you'll know if we're compatible. I make no excuses nor will I apologise for this as I'm not here to have my time wasted. "

Lengthy alright. Nearly took me a full minute to read it all! Need a rest after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, everything is mentioned in looking for title. Meeting title and in Interest title… then why to mention the same stuff in bio

And yet yours says nothing about what you’re looking for, the type of person, attributes, likes/dislikes, etc. You seem to rely on the fact that you’re a masseuse. "

fab has more masseuses than the yellow pages , seems like every man and their dug wae a bottle of essential oils is one .

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By *igboobiesCouple
over a year ago

Saltcoats


"My profile contains all the important points. It's supposed to save people messaging me if they're not what I'm looking for, and vice versa.

If people don't bother to read it then message me and it's clear they're not what I'm looking for, they have no right to complain when their message is deleted."

100% this

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By *erlins5Man
over a year ago

South Fife

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers


" my necromancy."

Are we all just collectively ignoring this part of their post

Haha it is the season I suppose

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Longer profiles give you more of an idea of the person, their preferences and between the lines their level on intellect.

If those things are important to you then longer profiles are useful.

Though on the flip side when we get a ‘How are yous’ message and the profile says ‘Will fill in later’ or ‘Looking to fuck’. Well it makes it less effort to reject.

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By *evils PuddingCouple
over a year ago

the pub or in the nude in Paisley


"Looking at yours, literally I’m seeing that you would happily meet a 98 year old man and his 96 year old wife for a sexual meet. You’d gleefully fist his wifes anus as the old boy lights up his cigar, sits in his rocking chair to take photos of the action in their cottage because you cant accommodate. Would that be accurate? You see the issue now?"

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

Less doesn't always mean more. More doesn't mean it will tell you very much, although it may show up some red flags.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people are writing huge profile descriptions and mentioning not looking for time waste people. Just wondering asking users to read the entire profile is a waste of time. If you cannot build a conversation to know people, please don’t use fab "

Some profiles with lots of bio tells you about that person or couple etc... Sometimes specific stuff is put on and if you don't like, then it saves wasting peoples time as after reading you realise they are not your type.

I enjoy fun with couples but the dynamic is changeable with each couple with their own interests, so a good bio tells me what interests the couple.

I've had profile bio with one sentence woohoo but some with lots of bio but in reality my bio at any time never even scratches the surface of the person I am and chatting and meeting is definitely a better experience for us all.

I find some profiles funny and make me smile and sometimes I message them to say thanks that I enjoyed it even if I have no interest to meet.

Leave everyone to put what they want on their bio, nothing much or tons of bio. If boring we move on, if interesting we either have a laugh or contact them.

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