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"Got lobbed off badoo for trying a fab style conversation " Did you ask about jaffa cakes? | |||
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"Got lobbed off badoo for trying a fab style conversation Did you ask about jaffa cakes? " Biscuit or cake?? Or is there another reference I am missing??? | |||
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"Got lobbed off badoo for trying a fab style conversation Did you ask about jaffa cakes? Biscuit or cake?? Or is there another reference I am missing??? " Only if strawberry/cherry or lime ones count as actual jaffa cakes. | |||
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"Got lobbed off badoo for trying a fab style conversation Did you ask about jaffa cakes? " Damn. I knew I should have asked for Victoria's sponge | |||
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"Got lobbed off badoo for trying a fab style conversation Did you ask about jaffa cakes? Damn. I knew I should have asked for Victoria's sponge " should have asked for pineapple upside down cake | |||
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"Got lobbed off badoo for trying a fab style conversation Did you ask about jaffa cakes? Damn. I knew I should have asked for Victoria's sponge should have asked for pineapple upside down cake " Instant pof ban for that! But are you making it with fresh or tinned pineapple? | |||
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"Got lobbed off badoo for trying a fab style conversation Did you ask about jaffa cakes? Damn. I knew I should have asked for Victoria's sponge should have asked for pineapple upside down cake Instant pof ban for that! But are you making it with fresh or tinned pineapple? " tinned fresh is always too hard and not as sweet as tinned lol | |||
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"Got lobbed off badoo for trying a fab style conversation Did you ask about jaffa cakes? Damn. I knew I should have asked for Victoria's sponge should have asked for pineapple upside down cake " And bring cream? | |||
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"Got lobbed off badoo for trying a fab style conversation Did you ask about jaffa cakes? Damn. I knew I should have asked for Victoria's sponge should have asked for pineapple upside down cake Instant pof ban for that! But are you making it with fresh or tinned pineapple? tinned fresh is always too hard and not as sweet as tinned lol " Sweet, or too hard. Would you prefer both? | |||
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"Got lobbed off badoo for trying a fab style conversation Did you ask about jaffa cakes? Damn. I knew I should have asked for Victoria's sponge should have asked for pineapple upside down cake Instant pof ban for that! But are you making it with fresh or tinned pineapple? tinned fresh is always too hard and not as sweet as tinned lol Sweet, or too hard. Would you prefer both? " not in a cake lol | |||
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"Got lobbed off badoo for trying a fab style conversation Did you ask about jaffa cakes? Damn. I knew I should have asked for Victoria's sponge should have asked for pineapple upside down cake Instant pof ban for that! But are you making it with fresh or tinned pineapple? tinned fresh is always too hard and not as sweet as tinned lol Sweet, or too hard. Would you prefer both? not in a cake lol" I was trying to think what was both, now I want to go on holiday and get broken rock pieces and eat them in a faded hotel room. | |||
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"Having been on conventional dating sites and never actually swiping to actually match with anyone, I would probably consider dating if it was a naughty relationship where this side of it was open. Therefore would probably be better just sticking to here as most are in the other sites anyway. Having had a bad experience earlier on tonight with the way a man on here spoke to me though, I just don’t know if it would happen. He was a bellend though and I hope in the minority of men who think women on here deserve no respect because we are on here. " There's bellends everywhere. Intelligent conversation available if required | |||
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"Having been on conventional dating sites and never actually swiping to actually match with anyone, I would probably consider dating if it was a naughty relationship where this side of it was open. Therefore would probably be better just sticking to here as most are in the other sites anyway. Having had a bad experience earlier on tonight with the way a man on here spoke to me though, I just don’t know if it would happen. He was a bellend though and I hope in the minority of men who think women on here deserve no respect because we are on here. There's bellends everywhere. Intelligent conversation available if required " Definitely not tarring everyone with the same brush as I know there are good guys on here! 100%! Somewhere. Hiding perhaps | |||
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"I know there are good guys on here! 100%! Somewhere. Hiding perhaps " Hiding eh, you wanna fight female | |||
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"Are those of us who are on fab and vanilla dating sites looking for the same thing? For me, I would happily date someone I met in fab. But you don’t start with conversation. The opposite is also true, I would happily swing with someone I met on tinder, but you don’t start with conversation… Thoughts ?" This is an answer that would split the two sexes (yes I know there are 675 genders but for easiness let me off this time). I’d say the majority of men are trying to get the leg over regardless if it’s fab or an online Tipping Point fangroup. I say majority, because it is. Women will mostly separate the two. I’ve seen women on fab posting for a ONS in the updates but will have the “No ONS” line in their dating profile. It’s not contradictory, it’s two different places that offer two different purposes | |||
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"Having been on conventional dating sites and never actually swiping to actually match with anyone, I would probably consider dating if it was a naughty relationship where this side of it was open. Therefore would probably be better just sticking to here as most are in the other sites anyway. Having had a bad experience earlier on tonight with the way a man on here spoke to me though, I just don’t know if it would happen. He was a bellend though and I hope in the minority of men who think women on here deserve no respect because we are on here. There's bellends everywhere. Intelligent conversation available if required Definitely not tarring everyone with the same brush as I know there are good guys on here! 100%! Somewhere. Hiding perhaps " In plain sight...... | |||
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"Having been on conventional dating sites and never actually swiping to actually match with anyone, I would probably consider dating if it was a naughty relationship where this side of it was open. Therefore would probably be better just sticking to here as most are in the other sites anyway. Having had a bad experience earlier on tonight with the way a man on here spoke to me though, I just don’t know if it would happen. He was a bellend though and I hope in the minority of men who think women on here deserve no respect because we are on here. There's bellends everywhere. Intelligent conversation available if required Definitely not tarring everyone with the same brush as I know there are good guys on here! 100%! Somewhere. Hiding perhaps In plain sight...... " I was going to say the same thing lol | |||
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"I know there are good guys on here! 100%! Somewhere. Hiding perhaps Hiding eh, you wanna fight female " Listen I have told you before, I’m not into jelly fights | |||
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"I'm on like 4 dating apps and on here, honestly I don't mind meeting a future partner here or on the dating apps, just wish people on the dating apps actually responded. " Dating sites that bad? Haven't been on them since like 2010. | |||
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"I'm on like 4 dating apps and on here, honestly I don't mind meeting a future partner here or on the dating apps, just wish people on the dating apps actually responded. Dating sites that bad? Haven't been on them since like 2010." They're somewhat wank | |||
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" As long as everyone is upfront and honest and doesn’t mess anyone about it’s all good. " Exactly this! Honesty and transparency is key to developing good relationships - friends, sexual or romantic relationships | |||
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"There are apps and sites for polyamory and swinging people to date but quite honestly I haven’t found them very useful. I’m also on “normal” dating apps a friend asked if I was honest about the bisexuality and the swinging/polyamory which I am, still very hard to meet people. It’s a tricky situation to be in where I would like to date, but I also wouldn’t want to stop swinging, I like my freedom and independence and I’m very much not nor ever have been the jealous type. But it would be nice to meet someone who is into swinging but also happy to go on “proper” dates. Is that the kinda thing you’re looking for OP? As long as everyone is upfront and honest and doesn’t mess anyone about it’s all good. " Now someone talking sense! | |||
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"I look for different things from fab and dating sites. I have friends on fab who have found partners on here when they weren’t actually looking for one whereas I’m on dating sites and can’t actually find a partner If I found a partner on fab I wouldn’t necessarily want to live a fab lifestyle with them initially I would want to concentrate on the relationship side first. " Welcome to my world, I'm equally vexed in this crazy world. | |||
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"Id bloody love a non vanilla gf but i Cant find them on the dating sites" Well thats not quite true, the difference is that on the conventional dating sites you needs to converse with the other human bean to find these things out. Which btw isnt as sore as pulling a tooth like so many seem to think it is. I personally would find learning about a partner bit by bit much more fascinating and enjoyable that getting everything about them on a bio for everyone to see | |||
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"Going by personal experience there's a fair few women on regular dating sites who are into non-vanilla stuff but aren't broadcasting it as they'd get chucked off the site and/or inundated with cock pics - if there's a connection folk usually come out of their shell after a few dates I've noticed a fair amount of people on the regular dating sites that are also on here, you don't need to be Sherlock Holmes to work it out I've certainly had a lot more attention on pof and match than I have on here, that's for sure " I am on vanilla dating sites and I would say I can be very kinky. But I wouldn't put that on my vanilla profile as it attracts the wrong type of men in my experience. For some reason they assume it means I am submissive which is the opposite. I prefer to find out as the relationship progress. | |||
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"Going by personal experience there's a fair few women on regular dating sites who are into non-vanilla stuff but aren't broadcasting it as they'd get chucked off the site and/or inundated with cock pics - if there's a connection folk usually come out of their shell after a few dates I've noticed a fair amount of people on the regular dating sites that are also on here, you don't need to be Sherlock Holmes to work it out I've certainly had a lot more attention on pof and match than I have on here, that's for sure " Yes I would agree with that. Inundated with cock pics is the least of it! On a vanilla site if a woman were to be completely honest from the start it also has the potential to attract less safe types who think that if you are swinging/poly that basically means you’re up for anything with anyone! Er… no! We still have preferences and boundaries. It’s a personal safety issue as much even more so than a question of morals/standards/expected behaviour | |||
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"Going by personal experience there's a fair few women on regular dating sites who are into non-vanilla stuff but aren't broadcasting it as they'd get chucked off the site and/or inundated with cock pics - if there's a connection folk usually come out of their shell after a few dates I've noticed a fair amount of people on the regular dating sites that are also on here, you don't need to be Sherlock Holmes to work it out I've certainly had a lot more attention on pof and match than I have on here, that's for sure Yes I would agree with that. Inundated with cock pics is the least of it! On a vanilla site if a woman were to be completely honest from the start it also has the potential to attract less safe types who think that if you are swinging/poly that basically means you’re up for anything with anyone! Er… no! We still have preferences and boundaries. It’s a personal safety issue as much even more so than a question of morals/standards/expected behaviour " Total agree. Which is why I never mention swinging or kink on a vanilla dating site. | |||
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"Are those of us who are on fab and vanilla dating sites looking for the same thing? For me, I would happily date someone I met in fab. But you don’t start with conversation. The opposite is also true, I would happily swing with someone I met on tinder, but you don’t start with conversation… Thoughts ?" So, how *are* you getting on with dating? Are you searching for a unicorn or being realistic/true to yourself? | |||
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"I’d be amazed if someone I met on fab actually wanted to go on to dating " There are some that become extremely clingy very early on but they hide it by calling it being fwb’s whilst holding an uncomfortable level of eye contact.. I’m certain men are just as bad & it’s not just women. | |||
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