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By *hyme2020 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow Scotland

Hi everyone.

Just curious as to what other women probably think since I don’t actually see the female status updates or profiles routinely.

When guys update their status with things like “looking to unload” or “who’s mouth or pussy can I unload into” “looking for offers tonight” “want a meet now” etc etc, do you think to yourself, do other women actually go “ooooh me I will do it” I genuinely wonder sometimes about if people do then reply to these men and go meet them. I dare say there are maybe some, but as a woman on here who gets similar messages to this every day and it makes me roll my eyes or think what kind of person actually just turns up to meet a total stranger. Maybe it’s me that’s weird as I like to actually get to know someone as best I can before meeting them, for safety reasons as much as any other reason. I know what kind of site we are on, and totally each to their own and if that’s your thing and it works for you, amazing. I am just curious as to how other women think. Especially when men are always asking how they can improve their chances on here with meeting.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I find it easy enough to ignore

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By *inglelady2022Woman
over a year ago

inverness

Haha yes! I've often thought exactly the same. Majority seem to be the under 30's so I put it down to the influence of cheap porn

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

New additions to my "not list", when I see status updates like that x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Just ignore because at the end of the day if your never going to meet these people then it doesn’t really matter what status they have on .

However there are many that would meet and that’s totally up to them .

Over the years on here I’ve always insisted on a social meet first but sometimes you just know before that social that there are good vibes going on and you just know where it will end up .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don’t think I could bring my self to write that haha. I need to get to know the person a bit first

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Hi everyone.

Just curious as to what other women probably think since I don’t actually see the female status updates or profiles routinely.

When guys update their status with things like “looking to unload” or “who’s mouth or pussy can I unload into” “looking for offers tonight” “want a meet now” etc etc, do you think to yourself, do other women actually go “ooooh me I will do it” I genuinely wonder sometimes about if people do then reply to these men and go meet them. I dare say there are maybe some, but as a woman on here who gets similar messages to this every day and it makes me roll my eyes or think what kind of person actually just turns up to meet a total stranger. Maybe it’s me that’s weird as I like to actually get to know someone as best I can before meeting them, for safety reasons as much as any other reason. I know what kind of site we are on, and totally each to their own and if that’s your thing and it works for you, amazing. I am just curious as to how other women think. Especially when men are always asking how they can improve their chances on here with meeting. "

I find those statuses a useful filter. They're obviously not fussed about who they meet so we're not compatible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to break the gender rules but I’m naturally a wee rebel.

I always say the same thing to people here, if a guy has a username such as BawsDeep, bigbogginthrobber69 or posts updates like “who’s wanting my creamy sticky out of date snotty load”, it’s a clear advert of the quality of male you are going to encounter.

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By *inglelady2022Woman
over a year ago

inverness


"Sorry to break the gender rules but I’m naturally a wee rebel.

I always say the same thing to people here, if a guy has a username such as BawsDeep, bigbogginthrobber69 or posts updates like “who’s wanting my creamy sticky out of date snotty load”, it’s a clear advert of the quality of male you are going to encounter. "

Exactly, straight to block list

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Avoid avoid avoid!

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By *hyme2020 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow Scotland


"I find it easy enough to ignore "

I do ignore after I have eye rolled

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By *hyme2020 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow Scotland


"Haha yes! I've often thought exactly the same. Majority seem to be the under 30's so I put it down to the influence of cheap porn"

The profiles I see are definitely older than that so I think it happens in all age groups lol

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By *hyme2020 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow Scotland


"New additions to my "not list", when I see status updates like that x"

That’s a great idea. Rather than a block a “not list” would be a great suggestion!!

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By *hyme2020 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow Scotland


"Just ignore because at the end of the day if your never going to meet these people then it doesn’t really matter what status they have on .

However there are many that would meet and that’s totally up to them .

Over the years on here I’ve always insisted on a social meet first but sometimes you just know before that social that there are good vibes going on and you just know where it will end up . "

Oh absolutely. I love that chemistry

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By *hyme2020 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow Scotland


"I just don’t think I could bring my self to write that haha. I need to get to know the person a bit first "

Yes it’s definitely not all men

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By *hyme2020 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow Scotland


"Hi everyone.

Just curious as to what other women probably think since I don’t actually see the female status updates or profiles routinely.

When guys update their status with things like “looking to unload” or “who’s mouth or pussy can I unload into” “looking for offers tonight” “want a meet now” etc etc, do you think to yourself, do other women actually go “ooooh me I will do it” I genuinely wonder sometimes about if people do then reply to these men and go meet them. I dare say there are maybe some, but as a woman on here who gets similar messages to this every day and it makes me roll my eyes or think what kind of person actually just turns up to meet a total stranger. Maybe it’s me that’s weird as I like to actually get to know someone as best I can before meeting them, for safety reasons as much as any other reason. I know what kind of site we are on, and totally each to their own and if that’s your thing and it works for you, amazing. I am just curious as to how other women think. Especially when men are always asking how they can improve their chances on here with meeting.

I find those statuses a useful filter. They're obviously not fussed about who they meet so we're not compatible."

Absolutely. I think people forget that we can remember names and things as well if it’s happening all the time.

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By *hyme2020 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow Scotland


"Sorry to break the gender rules but I’m naturally a wee rebel.

I always say the same thing to people here, if a guy has a username such as BawsDeep, bigbogginthrobber69 or posts updates like “who’s wanting my creamy sticky out of date snotty load”, it’s a clear advert of the quality of male you are going to encounter. "

You feel free to break the rules! Your responses always make me laugh. Yours makes me wonder too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guy half here and I cringe reading some never mind my wife.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Hi everyone.

Just curious as to what other women probably think since I don’t actually see the female status updates or profiles routinely.

When guys update their status with things like “looking to unload” or “who’s mouth or pussy can I unload into” “looking for offers tonight” “want a meet now” etc etc, do you think to yourself, do other women actually go “ooooh me I will do it” I genuinely wonder sometimes about if people do then reply to these men and go meet them. I dare say there are maybe some, but as a woman on here who gets similar messages to this every day and it makes me roll my eyes or think what kind of person actually just turns up to meet a total stranger. Maybe it’s me that’s weird as I like to actually get to know someone as best I can before meeting them, for safety reasons as much as any other reason. I know what kind of site we are on, and totally each to their own and if that’s your thing and it works for you, amazing. I am just curious as to how other women think. Especially when men are always asking how they can improve their chances on here with meeting.

I find those statuses a useful filter. They're obviously not fussed about who they meet so we're not compatible.

Absolutely. I think people forget that we can remember names and things as well if it’s happening all the time. "

And the notes section is so useful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent subject poster i have to say. I have noticed 1 or 2 woman have put similar posts up but more of the (any guy wanting to meet today) and i just laugh at them as i tend to think most fems on here are definitely more safety orientated.

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By *lydebuilt69Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

Yeah I've seen stuff like that and wondered if that actually works for people.

I wouldn't have the nerve to put something like that up as it just shows you up to be a selfish prick tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely big turn off for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ignore because at the end of the day if your never going to meet these people then it doesn’t really matter what status they have on .

However there are many that would meet and that’s totally up to them .

Over the years on here I’ve always insisted on a social meet first but sometimes you just know before that social that there are good vibes going on and you just know where it will end up . "

This!

Though I did press not looking for so I don't have my local newsfeed show anymore.

Just have my friends and hotlist statuses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't understand it either. Good chat and chemistry are key. X

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By *ollyRoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Wishaw


"Sorry to break the gender rules but I’m naturally a wee rebel.

I always say the same thing to people here, if a guy has a username such as BawsDeep, bigbogginthrobber69 or posts updates like “who’s wanting my creamy sticky out of date snotty load”, it’s a clear advert of the quality of male you are going to encounter. "

My thoughts exactly- my block button is used liberally on fab! Hahaha

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By *eg2509Woman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I absolutely hate when men send a first message and say things like I want to lick your fanny or the C word. I’m an adult and also swear but I just find it disrespectful as an introductory message. I delete the message. Just tonight I had someone message saying about licking my fanny, looked at him then deleted the message. He then messaged me saying I was rude for not replying when he’d gone to so much effort. Am I just being uptight ? Surely it’s not just me who hates this kind of thing??

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

It’s definitely a way to be added to my block list.

What happened to cheesy chat up lines and a bit of flirting?

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By *inglelady2022Woman
over a year ago

inverness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see this is woman only Thread, why not pressure admin to add a females only section . Where no guy can comment .

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By *inglelady2022Woman
over a year ago

inverness

I completely agree. I have had many a vile message sent to me and plenty who cannot accept a respectful 'no' graciously. This has led to a very long block list and often me hiding my profile. I've even found that posting on forums result in being hassled. So, why do I stay on Fab? Because I've made some awesome friends with some absolute gems. I can only assume that the culprits send the same message to multiple ladies in the hope that someone will engage with them. I do wonder, do the men have similar experiences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has been a subject on this site and in every forum section for years ( by n take individual sections ) so why don't fems approach Admim or our Scottish Mods ( to bring to admins attention ) just saying.

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By *inglelady2022Woman
over a year ago

inverness

I report each one but as I then block I have no idea if they are still active on fab. I'd imagine other ladies do the same.

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By *evils PuddingCouple
over a year ago

the pub or in the nude in Paisley


"Hi everyone.

Just curious as to what other women probably think since I don’t actually see the female status updates or profiles routinely.

When guys update their status with things like “looking to unload” or “who’s mouth or pussy can I unload into” “looking for offers tonight” “want a meet now” etc etc, do you think to yourself, do other women actually go “ooooh me I will do it” I genuinely wonder sometimes about if people do then reply to these men and go meet them. I dare say there are maybe some, but as a woman on here who gets similar messages to this every day and it makes me roll my eyes or think what kind of person actually just turns up to meet a total stranger. Maybe it’s me that’s weird as I like to actually get to know someone as best I can before meeting them, for safety reasons as much as any other reason. I know what kind of site we are on, and totally each to their own and if that’s your thing and it works for you, amazing. I am just curious as to how other women think. Especially when men are always asking how they can improve their chances on here with meeting. "

I think the same as you 100% lol I’m like seriously what woman see’s those updates and thinks yes, me, I’ve been looking to just go suck a random off

Half the time I’m tempted to block them more than anything!

Harley

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By *inky-girl-for-useWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire/glasgow

Totally agree with this! I see a status saying “gonna be around ayr town between 1-3pm who wants my load?” and honestly wonder who would respond to that!

What annoys me more than anything are the guys who constantly have statuses up saying “this site is shite/ never get a meet so what’s the point/ women on here are just stuck up bitches” I saw a lovely one from a profile that was 8 hours old saying “you should all get to the clinic, you’re all riddled”

I now just block folk who put up statuses like that

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By *evils PuddingCouple
over a year ago

the pub or in the nude in Paisley

These guys got no game

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By *ollyRoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Wishaw


"Totally agree with this! I see a status saying “gonna be around ayr town between 1-3pm who wants my load?” and honestly wonder who would respond to that!

What annoys me more than anything are the guys who constantly have statuses up saying “this site is shite/ never get a meet so what’s the point/ women on here are just stuck up bitches” I saw a lovely one from a profile that was 8 hours old saying “you should all get to the clinic, you’re all riddled”

I now just block folk who put up statuses like that "

Yes!!! Me too! I check the 'who has looked at you' list and block the crackpots with stupid ass statuses!!!! Lolz

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