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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Heres a challenge to you all. Whats the best way to gain trust and overcome the fears of meeting you for the first time without pimping yourself out to every girl going or plastering your face all over the site. hahah met a few people but theres always the initial resistance as people try to sus you out.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Maybe not having a hidden profile would help

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Maybe not having a hidden profile would help "
pmsl your so observant and im guessing that would be a good start

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

other than unhiding my profile and a pic

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Maybe not having a hidden profile would help pmsl your so observant and im guessing that would be a good start "

I wasn't trying to perv.... Honest

Maybe by chatting in forums or chat room but can't see anyone meeting without a pic

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Maybe not having a hidden profile would help pmsl your so observant and im guessing that would be a good start

I wasn't trying to perv.... Honest

Maybe by chatting in forums or chat room but can't see anyone meeting without a pic "

I think by getting involved like cutie says people will get to know what you are like from your posts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok. so say your doing the photos, your profile is there.

you comment on the forums.

what will put folk at ease quickly with you

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"ok. so say your doing the photos, your profile is there.

you comment on the forums.

what will put folk at ease quickly with you"

Honestly, I don't think there is a quick way. But if you are prepared to join in it will just be a matter of time before people start to see you for who you are and trust can be built.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Well in the words of the wise fabio... It's not instashag on here

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Well in the words of the wise fabio... It's not instashag on here "

well said cutie

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By *risky4somesCouple
over a year ago

Near glasgow

Be polite .. Be funny..... Join in on forums/chat...... Don't be an ass ..... And yeah have some sort of profile pic, the more imaginative the better- it might surprise you to know us girls know what cocks look like so dress it up or show something else to catch our interest .... Main thing is to get folk talking ..... Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A profile that has some character n tells a bit about you could inspire ppl to find a subject for breaking the ice with you.

I have always wondered how some girls here n cpls they fill their profies with conditions for being contacted n for guys to be imaginative before they message them... Personally I can't be imaginative with an empty profile lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Just be you people will either like you or hate you but thats totally upto them.

But my advice would be if you want to be welcomed into the commuinty of swingers then attend one of the many socials that go on here ,they are always good fun,places where you can be relaxed and just get to know people with no pressure to play ...good luck

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Imyself ave introduced 3 lovely guys to the swinging scene recently and they are fitting in well an enjoying them selves .

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Imyself ave introduced 3 lovely guys to the swinging scene recently and they are fitting in well an enjoying them selves . "

But they had a good teacher

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