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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So how would members bring this up in conversation as its not a thing most people who aren't a Cpl or in a committed relationship talk about . Just my curious nature

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

You could start a thread about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m quite anal about dishes being left in the sink and I’m also really anal about people who don’t pick up their dogs mess..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how would members bring this up in conversation as its not a thing most people who aren't a Cpl or in a committed relationship talk about . Just my curious nature "

Begs more questions than answers here… whom are you seeking to start the conversation with and why.

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By *liballyWoman
over a year ago

west dunbartonshire

I think ive always went with the assumption that if you're comfortable enough with someone to sleep with them you should be comfortable enough to ask if they like anal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live by the mantra - it's better to beg forgiveness than ask permission.

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By *ocktailsdreamsMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I live by the mantra - it's better to beg forgiveness than ask permission."

Consent???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I live by the mantra - it's better to beg forgiveness than ask permission.

Consent???"

Whooshhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how would members bring this up in conversation as its not a thing most people who aren't a Cpl or in a committed relationship talk about . Just my curious nature "

Do you like any type of anal foreplay, toys, sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think ive always went with the assumption that if you're comfortable enough with someone to sleep with them you should be comfortable enough to ask if they like anal?"

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Had this conversation last week. It’s not that difficult if you’re with someone and having an open conversation about likes and dislikes. It just happened to come up in conversation that it was something I enjoyed but he didn’t have any experience of anal. It’s now something we can explore and I have the pressure of helping him.

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By *ocktailsdreamsMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Use the old Teresa joke.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Talking about anal should not be taboo. I talk about everything and anything with no issues.

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Instead of flowers, take her a gift-wrapped strap-on. Her reaction will speak a thousand awkward words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually in conversation I'm very open and speak honestly. Anal, ffs I adore but don't expect everyone to like it but yeah it would come up in conversation easily and naturally and the conversation would just flow and if the partner wasn't into it then the subject would change and the convo would still carry on enjoyably

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So how would members bring this up in conversation as its not a thing most people who aren't a Cpl or in a committed relationship talk about . Just my curious nature

Begs more questions than answers here… whom are you seeking to start the conversation with and why. "
i have no qualms asking whoever i wanted to ask but post was too see how others would approach subject not me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So how would members bring this up in conversation as its not a thing most people who aren't a Cpl or in a committed relationship talk about . Just my curious nature

Do you like any type of anal foreplay, toys, sex? "
this post is not about what i like but about how others would approach Said subject .

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By *evils PuddingCouple
over a year ago

the pub or in the nude in Paisley

Anytime she says "what do you want to do tonight?"

Say "anal"

"What do you want for your birthday?"

"Anal"

"What are you going to do with the guys at the pub tonight?"

...Hold on this isn't working

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anytime she says "what do you want to do tonight?"

Say "anal"

"What do you want for your birthday?"

"Anal"

"What are you going to do with the guys at the pub tonight?"

...Hold on this isn't working "

Ya fanny, I spat my tea out when I started reading this pmslllllllllllllllllll

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By *ill dance for wineMan
over a year ago

balloch

Me: when was the last time you did a poo?

Her: WTF, Why?

Me: cause I’d quite like to podger yer bum hole

That kind of idea?

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By *ocktailsdreamsMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Tell her this Joke

A young boy ask his daddy why is my sister called Teresa?

His father answers, well son your mother loves Easter and the letters if Easter rearranged spell Teresa that's why you my son are called Alan.

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

Busby


"I live by the mantra - it's better to beg forgiveness than ask permission."

That will get you on a register real quick.

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

Busby

Go with a quick quiz:

Cats or dogs?

Mercedes or BMW?

Salt n sauce or salt n vinegar?

Blur or Oasis?

Pink canoe or starfish?

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By *hatwedointheshadowsWoman
over a year ago

back’o’beyond


"I live by the mantra - it's better to beg forgiveness than ask permission."

U should really change that Mantra to I shall not break the law

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By *hyme2020Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow Scotland


"I live by the mantra - it's better to beg forgiveness than ask permission."

Not everyone getting your sense of humour here….

Maybe not one of your best ones

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By *inglelady2022Woman
over a year ago

inverness

Thus shouldn't be a difficult discussion with a lover that you know and trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I live by the mantra - it's better to beg forgiveness than ask permission.

Not everyone getting your sense of humour here….

Maybe not one of your best ones "

My humour is pretty crap tbf, probably why you laugh at it so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never dreaded having this conversation with anyone

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"I’ve never dreaded having this conversation with anyone "

Well you are a tradesman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never dreaded having this conversation with anyone

Well you are a tradesman! "

The tradesman’s entrance is the first thing your taught as an apprentice

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By *ookie69Man
over a year ago

Whistle Dixie


"I’ve never dreaded having this conversation with anyone

Well you are a tradesman!

The tradesman’s entrance is the first thing your taught as an apprentice "

Are you a Joiner if they gave ya a good hammering or was it thick as 2 short wanks ?

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By *aliskerWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

It’s always a conversation I really enjoy…

Him: Shall we try anal tonight?

Me: Damn, I didn’t bring my strap on with me, maybe next time.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"It’s always a conversation I really enjoy…

Him: Shall we try anal tonight?

Me: Damn, I didn’t bring my strap on with me, maybe next time. "

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