FabSwingers.com forum: Bi sexual week

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Since yesterday was bi visibility day (can you see me?) and this week is bisexual awareness week, this might be a good time to dispel a few myths around us lovely folks:

We’re not greedy or more likely to cheat.

It’s not a phase.

Bisexuality isn’t transphobic, the definition is attraction to more than one gender.

You don’t need to feel attraction equally for different genders, it’s completely valid to be hetero romantic and still be bisexual.

Bisexual men aren’t higher risk, they are in the same risk category as promiscuous couples (aka swingers).

Any more myths that you want to dispel?

Shamelessly taken from the lounge

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By *aliskerWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

My fave kinda guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy that’s bi does not want to shag every male he sees.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can still be bisexual without having a same sex experience.

you are still bisexual if your dating the opposite sex monogamously.

you don’t fancy everyone of the same sex.

you are not greedy.

i mean i am but that’s a different story lol.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Wake me up when it's hetrosexual visibility day and awareness week.

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By *andN2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Wake me up when it's hetrosexual visibility day and awareness week."

Yawn. That will be every other week of the year then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is always one, I wouldn’t give him the attention.

Another myth:

A bisexual male/female will always cheat on their partner.

Oh oh and another, bisexual human beans face less stigma….

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Not me looking for attention but that obviously flew over your head

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By *ubbaloofuckMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Not me looking for attention but that obviously flew over your head"

Dude it's cool, I promise you we don't want to fuck you.....we REALLY don't want to fuck you.

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By *r Nicely...Man
over a year ago

Around the Lochs

I've just recently changed my orientation from straight to bisexual as I like a blow job from a guy every now and then.

Does that mean that I'm bisexual or does it mean I just like blow jobs

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Lol weird how folk try to turn it round as if I'm making some sort of negative anti bi comment here's a clue I couldn't give a shit if your straight,bi, gay an outer gebrovian black white asian or any other dividing factor.i simply don't see how "awareness weeks or any other look at our group thing creates anything but the division that it's claimed it will avoid why not just get on with it without the need for i/we want highlighted for a day week month mellenia

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"Lol weird how folk try to turn it round as if I'm making some sort of negative anti bi comment here's a clue I couldn't give a shit if your straight,bi, gay an outer gebrovian black white asian or any other dividing factor.i simply don't see how "awareness weeks or any other look at our group thing creates anything but the division that it's claimed it will avoid why not just get on with it without the need for i/we want highlighted for a day week month mellenia"

I understand your comments let’s just have human being appreciation .

Reasonable you’d think regrettably there are loads of different types of us humans who face abuse or discrimination regardless so if by celebrating these differences leads to greater understanding and acceptance then I’m happy for whoever want to have these days or weeks .

The best of these awareness campaigns have to be disability and pride as they welcome everyone their very inclusive .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile says straight but because I’ve had bi fantasies that included my ex partner as that turned her on in my past mean I’m not straight or am I classed as bi curious all the time?

Most of my profile views/favs/messages are from straight guys. Id be willing to bet most people of both sexes have these fantasies from time to time.

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By *ide em cowgirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I always get shock when I say I have had gfs as well as bfs. I think a lot of people tend to think you just play with both sexes. Nope sorry it means I can connect to both sexually and otherwise. Such a suprise.

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Thank you for this myth bust array of thoughts. As a bi man in a bi couple we are lucky to be able to be out to the world. Many people do have to keep their queer identity very secret. Here on this site amongst fellow sexual beings I really appreciate honest open profiles.

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By *othianGuy41Man
over a year ago

Livingston

Who cares what you are as long as you're happy & having fun! Why put a lable on yourself?

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

"Wake me up when it's hetrosexual visibility day and awareness week."

Are the 365, mostly, straight days not enough for you?

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By *erfHerder74Man
over a year ago

Inverclyde

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I actually find "Gynosexual" is more suitable for me,i was recently made aware of this recently by jgmex couple,(Thank you for that) . Personally i don't see a problem with awareness weeks,im pretty sure a lot of people get something from it, which is a good thing, so let the awareness days continue IMO

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