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By *andy_Fraser OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I was thinking about this earlier, but say Fabs had a dating sub-site or section that cost you an extra £5 a month or so to be part of, would you be interested in it?

It wuld be a way for people looking for more than a bit of the Swinging side of things to be identified and maybe make other contacts?

Thoughts?

Mandy

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By *ergus1000Man
over a year ago

Greenock

No.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Id say a lot of people on here would be interested because many are on here to find more than just sex from what I can gather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, majority of people would actively use both and would only lead to others being hurt imo.

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By *igsaw93Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

No, a fee wouldn't help. I'd pay for a safer, fully verified part of fab though.

Jigs x

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Not sure I’d pay for it but perhaps some way of showing on your profile that you’re interested in a relationship would be good.

I know of several people who have met on Fab or through clubs and socials and started seeing each other. I recently started seeing a guy I met briefly at an event and then at my Sunday coffee meet ups. He asked me out for lunch and been seeing each other since then.

I’ve previously run a singles social on Valentine’s Day and another Fab friend has run a speed dating night which was fun. Maybe more events for singles looking to date would be useful.

Maybe a dating section on the forum would be helpful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, a fee wouldn't help. I'd pay for a safer, fully verified part of fab though.

Jigs x "

I think this is spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be open to something that could allow me to express myself and my hopes a bit better. Maybe then I'd get some interest from women instead of just men asking if I want to suck their dick lol

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"I'd be open to something that could allow me to express myself and my hopes a bit better. Maybe then I'd get some interest from women instead of just men asking if I want to suck their dick lol"

You do realise that the pic you have on your profile attracts guys rather than women. Also there’s not much in your profile to say what you’re looking for.

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By *abulousAvaWoman
over a year ago

Dainty Town


"I was thinking about this earlier, but say Fabs had a dating sub-site or section that cost you an extra £5 a month or so to be part of, would you be interested in it?

It wuld be a way for people looking for more than a bit of the Swinging side of things to be identified and maybe make other contacts?

Thoughts?

Mandy"

In theory this sounds good, but there will be those that play their games and spoil it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be open to something that could allow me to express myself and my hopes a bit better. Maybe then I'd get some interest from women instead of just men asking if I want to suck their dick lol

You do realise that the pic you have on your profile attracts guys rather than women. Also there’s not much in your profile to say what you’re looking for. "

Yeah, I really should put more in there. Maybe a couple more pics as well. I dunno. I'm useless on these kinds of things. Write a massive essay about who I am and what I'm looking for only to delete it and write something inane like, "chats and meets anyone?" or whatever I ended up writing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be open to something that could allow me to express myself and my hopes a bit better. Maybe then I'd get some interest from women instead of just men asking if I want to suck their dick lol"

This is a bit confusing… you’re bi. So men’s messages shouldn’t be unwelcome. What you are experiencing is that men form the vast majority of members (no pun intended there) so you will have NO problem attracting men or “fab straight” men. If you do seek to attract women sadly being bi will put many women off (not MY opinion but does seem to be a “thing”). Being on fab is a learning curb, I always think a good look round the sites advice and forum topics, FAQ’s etc yields much advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be open to something that could allow me to express myself and my hopes a bit better. Maybe then I'd get some interest from women instead of just men asking if I want to suck their dick lol

This is a bit confusing… you’re bi. So men’s messages shouldn’t be unwelcome. What you are experiencing is that men form the vast majority of members (no pun intended there) so you will have NO problem attracting men or “fab straight” men. If you do seek to attract women sadly being bi will put many women off (not MY opinion but does seem to be a “thing”). Being on fab is a learning curb, I always think a good look round the sites advice and forum topics, FAQ’s etc yields much advice x"

I didn't mean the requests are all unwelcome. I mean, it's always basically just, "wanna fuck" or some such shit. Sometimes I just want a decent conversation. I do wink at and occasionally message women but get nothing back. Also, I really don't mean to sound bitter because I'm not. I just meant it would be nice to have a place to go and just chat and get to know someone instead of the usual shit from me cos most think with their dicks. But heyho, first cuppla hours of being able to use the forums here and I've mad a fool of myself in two threads. Standard lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I'd be open to something that could allow me to express myself and my hopes a bit better. Maybe then I'd get some interest from women instead of just men asking if I want to suck their dick lol

This is a bit confusing… you’re bi. So men’s messages shouldn’t be unwelcome. What you are experiencing is that men form the vast majority of members (no pun intended there) so you will have NO problem attracting men or “fab straight” men. If you do seek to attract women sadly being bi will put many women off (not MY opinion but does seem to be a “thing”). Being on fab is a learning curb, I always think a good look round the sites advice and forum topics, FAQ’s etc yields much advice x

I didn't mean the requests are all unwelcome. I mean, it's always basically just, "wanna fuck" or some such shit. Sometimes I just want a decent conversation. I do wink at and occasionally message women but get nothing back. Also, I really don't mean to sound bitter because I'm not. I just meant it would be nice to have a place to go and just chat and get to know someone instead of the usual shit from me cos most think with their dicks. But heyho, first cuppla hours of being able to use the forums here and I've mad a fool of myself in two threads. Standard lol"
why not use your filters and stop guys from messaging you and do your own searching !?

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By *den1000Woman
over a year ago

Hamilton

You’ve not made a fool of yourself - there’s much worse hahaha

Attend some club nights? That’s good for chat and being social

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By *loriouscurvesWoman
over a year ago

wild west lothian


"Not sure I’d pay for it but perhaps some way of showing on your profile that you’re interested in a relationship would be good.

I know of several people who have met on Fab or through clubs and socials and started seeing each other. I recently started seeing a guy I met briefly at an event and then at my Sunday coffee meet ups. He asked me out for lunch and been seeing each other since then.

I’ve previously run a singles social on Valentine’s Day and another Fab friend has run a speed dating night which was fun. Maybe more events for singles looking to date would be useful.

Maybe a dating section on the forum would be helpful."

Yes I agree

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"I'd be open to something that could allow me to express myself and my hopes a bit better. Maybe then I'd get some interest from women instead of just men asking if I want to suck their dick lol

You do realise that the pic you have on your profile attracts guys rather than women. Also there’s not much in your profile to say what you’re looking for.

Yeah, I really should put more in there. Maybe a couple more pics as well. I dunno. I'm useless on these kinds of things. Write a massive essay about who I am and what I'm looking for only to delete it and write something inane like, "chats and meets anyone?" or whatever I ended up writing. "

On another post you say you’re on Fabguys so you’ll obviously get guys messaging you. Many women don’t meet bi guys.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"I'd be open to something that could allow me to express myself and my hopes a bit better. Maybe then I'd get some interest from women instead of just men asking if I want to suck their dick lol

This is a bit confusing… you’re bi. So men’s messages shouldn’t be unwelcome. What you are experiencing is that men form the vast majority of members (no pun intended there) so you will have NO problem attracting men or “fab straight” men. If you do seek to attract women sadly being bi will put many women off (not MY opinion but does seem to be a “thing”). Being on fab is a learning curb, I always think a good look round the sites advice and forum topics, FAQ’s etc yields much advice x

I didn't mean the requests are all unwelcome. I mean, it's always basically just, "wanna fuck" or some such shit. Sometimes I just want a decent conversation. I do wink at and occasionally message women but get nothing back. Also, I really don't mean to sound bitter because I'm not. I just meant it would be nice to have a place to go and just chat and get to know someone instead of the usual shit from me cos most think with their dicks. But heyho, first cuppla hours of being able to use the forums here and I've mad a fool of myself in two threads. Standard lol"

You're not a fool! I like your contributions, you're a breath of fresh air

Seriously though, if you want to attract the women of fab start by changing your profile picture (headless torso and suits go down well with us girls) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be open to something that could allow me to express myself and my hopes a bit better. Maybe then I'd get some interest from women instead of just men asking if I want to suck their dick lol

This is a bit confusing… you’re bi. So men’s messages shouldn’t be unwelcome. What you are experiencing is that men form the vast majority of members (no pun intended there) so you will have NO problem attracting men or “fab straight” men. If you do seek to attract women sadly being bi will put many women off (not MY opinion but does seem to be a “thing”). Being on fab is a learning curb, I always think a good look round the sites advice and forum topics, FAQ’s etc yields much advice x

I didn't mean the requests are all unwelcome. I mean, it's always basically just, "wanna fuck" or some such shit. Sometimes I just want a decent conversation. I do wink at and occasionally message women but get nothing back. Also, I really don't mean to sound bitter because I'm not. I just meant it would be nice to have a place to go and just chat and get to know someone instead of the usual shit from me cos most think with their dicks. But heyho, first cuppla hours of being able to use the forums here and I've mad a fool of myself in two threads. Standard lol"

Hey don’t sweat the small stuff, if you’re new to the site it takes time to absorb the “etiquette” for lack of a better word. Better to be open, polite, respectful and communicative. We all were new once and had to find our way so Pringles is right in what she says. Enjoy your exploration and “fab journey” as some call it… it can be FABulous x

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you ladies

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By *scobar67Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"No, a fee wouldn't help. I'd pay for a safer, fully verified part of fab though.

Jigs x "

I'm with you on this jigsaw

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By *andN2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"No, a fee wouldn't help. I'd pay for a safer, fully verified part of fab though.

Jigs x "

100% other sites / apps are using the latest AI to support the verification process which is cutting out all the fakes etc. FAB need to get with the times, as they are falling behind a bit now.

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

Yes. I have emailed the site a couple of times suggesting this but not even a courtesy reply.

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