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"Erectile dysfunction is one of those topics guys don’t really want to talk about openly but I wanted to make a post. We have all had an experience, at some point, of the wee man not wanting to work as he should and it’s soul destroying. Mine was a good while ago, pure nerves as she was banging (couldn’t resist the pun) Seeing all these adverts for Hardon pills on telly now that they are no longer prescription only is annoying me. I have a friend, genuine friend, who done a really long cycle for charity and he couldn’t get it up afterwards. The cialis and viagra didn’t help. It turned out to be the damaged blood vessels in the area between his bumhole and balls (perineum) stopping the blood getting to the desired location. Mind these pills only enlarge the blood vessels and encourage more blood to skoosh up your boaby. They don’t make you horny or aroused despite the usual preconceptions. But they can cause long term issues if used incorrectly, The pills won’t work if the blood can’t get to your dick guys, so if it’s injury related like my chum, you need to rest. Also, if you worry about getting it up, the nerves and brain signals will stop the knob getting hard. Try looking at apps/ community sites such as Mojo and/ or speaking to the gp. These pills will only get you hit with headaches, red flushes to the face, dehydration and many other side effects. If you do struggle with getting it up and your not waking up with a hardon, speak to your gp as it could be testosterone based. If your getting hard for wanking sessions on your own, but not with sexual partners it hints stronger towards what my issue was, a mental block or nerves in the moment. There isn’t much worse than a wee voice of doubt in your head when your trying to get your end away. That’s where community sites such as Mojo or psychology hell can be sought. It’s a touchy topic, inbox is always open. (For clarity, it was my mate, I’m too lazy to cycle anywhere)" excellent topic mate . | |||
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"If anyone downloads the Mojo app, I meant to put this in sorry, sign up for the one week free. Then go to cancel the subscription, it’s quite pricey, they offer you the same subscription at a reduced cost of 50%. " cheers mate, might just give that a go! | |||
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"I have been buying from the isg site forum. internationalsexguide.nl posted from the uk.No prescription reqd." Yeah they went no prescription needed late last year fella. You can buy it in boots now, Asda too. But if the issue is psychological or blood vessel damage, the pills won’t work nearly as well. The side effects are meant to be brutal too | |||
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"The moral of that story is cycling will fcuk you up " This!!! | |||
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"Dr fox. (Online) No prescription. Allegedly " This.... | |||
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"Agree with you here, and a worthwhile topic to get started on. I've also suffered from phycological ED at times and like you said, the drugs have no effect if it's your mind that has a blocker on you, no matter how much your into who your meeting. Used mojo for a few months last year and there's some great topics on there, even when you end your subscription you can still use some of the exercises and mediations that you went through in the program. I do however think that the drugs can have their place, since if the issue isn't medical and the mental side is good, I have found that for long play sessions, the extra hardness and quick recovery can add to the fun." This is THE reply! Absolutely agree with everything said here! I’m hoping it’s a topic that guys can open up about, even to each other/ others that can be trusted. The insight to mojo is ace too, it’s a vast app but def has its bonuses | |||
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"As men age there testosterone drops so if your member does not work sp well do a trt course and your dick will think your 18 again Seems a big thing in the states " Ah but the really big issue that guys are seeing now is coming off trt in the incorrect manner this absolutely fucking their bodies ability to then begin producing testosterone naturally. You go into the gym and you can eyeball the ones on trt and the likes or oral anabolics easily, I’d bet 3-4/10 know how to come off correctly. One of my closest friends’ husband, mid 30s, done this and has his gp giving him jabs every two weeks at the moment to kick start his own natural testosterone production. Scary! Don’t do the steroids! | |||
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"Unless a guy couldn't get an erection at all then I don't see a need for this. I'm certainly not keen on the idea of it being taken as a performance enhancer " Agreed, this is where communities such as Mojo are excellent, helps guys get past the mental side of performance inabilities. The key issue is getting guys to speak about it, even to each other as when you struggle, it’s got to be the worst thing to face alone. | |||
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"As men age there testosterone drops so if your member does not work sp well do a trt course and your dick will think your 18 again Seems a big thing in the states Ah but the really big issue that guys are seeing now is coming off trt in the incorrect manner this absolutely fucking their bodies ability to then begin producing testosterone naturally. You go into the gym and you can eyeball the ones on trt and the likes or oral anabolics easily, I’d bet 3-4/10 know how to come off correctly. One of my closest friends’ husband, mid 30s, done this and has his gp giving him jabs every two weeks at the moment to kick start his own natural testosterone production. Scary! Don’t do the steroids!" Pct if your on a full 12 week cycle yeah but doing trt is only small does so wont have the same effect as doing 1ml of test E twice a week. Trt you could possibly get from your doctor if your levels are low. Joe rogan does a got talk on it | |||
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"Happens to the best of us! Would be great to get a cheaper alternative that ticks all the boxes!" Have never ever bought from a chemist yet,been taking them for about 8 yrs now.Some have inflated prices not willing to pay what they offer.Been using a guy who sells on a few sites for a couple of years now and the generic pills and gels he has works a treat on me.can even get sildenafil fruit chewables and oral gels which are not available at the uk chemists. | |||
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" Pct if your on a full 12 week cycle yeah but doing trt is only small does so wont have the same effect as doing 1ml of test E twice a week. Trt you could possibly get from your doctor if your levels are low. Joe rogan does a got talk on it" That’s the problem, a lot of these young guys aren’t running that end cycle and it’s killing their natural T levels. It’s quite scary " Have never ever bought from a chemist yet,been taking them for about 8 yrs now.Some have inflated prices not willing to pay what they offer.Been using a guy who sells on a few sites for a couple of years now and the generic pills and gels he has works a treat on me.can even get sildenafil fruit chewables and oral gels which are not available at the uk chemists." Have you ever thought of the possibility that your body could build up a resistance? I don’t know if that does happen with these meds but obvs we do with painkillers, antibiotics etc | |||
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"Happens to the best of us! Would be great to get a cheaper alternative that ticks all the boxes! Have never ever bought from a chemist yet,been taking them for about 8 yrs now.Some have inflated prices not willing to pay what they offer.Been using a guy who sells on a few sites for a couple of years now and the generic pills and gels he has works a treat on me.can even get sildenafil fruit chewables and oral gels which are not available at the uk chemists." Have used the fruit jellies in the past (Kamagra ) from memory,worked a treat, not sure if you can still get them,i do remember At the time, being advised that they were less harmful than Viagra, saying that, im not sure how qualified he was. I think this is a great thread,well done BOW for kicking it off | |||
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"The moral of that story is cycling will fcuk you up " I really don’t find that comment amusing whatsoever. Boyo, That’s a brilliant post detailing the effects of men’s ED. Unfortunately, there are men out there who will use it for additional pleasure rather than what it is intended. My suggestion to anyone who requires it, speak to your GP. Too many men avoid it and seek random companies online. When blood flow is dramatically increased, it pulls blood from your heart, we’ve all heard of the heart attack stories. It’s prescribed for a reason. Abuse of the drug not only will it dabble with your sex life, you’ll be dabbling with your life. | |||
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"Booboo, your response is brilliant and I’m really taken aback by the openness you’ve shown there. I mean that absolutely genuinely. I can relate directly to the drop off in sex drive at times, I work in a fairly stressful sector and that can at times see my sex drive just fall off the end of a cliff. Gemma Atkinson could be in the scud offering me bjs" Yeah I seem to be at the bottom of the cliff right now but im trying to do the right things to make it return. Sleep effects my mood massively and I think in turn is also a major contributor. I don't necessarily have any ED issues since coming of the ADs as I can make it happen when I want to, but the hardest thing is that a lot of the time I just don't want to. Can't be arsed with anything, and sex is just one of those things. | |||
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"Totally agree on the mental side of things. You can take a shit load of medication but it only amplifies what's already there and if there's no drive then it makes zero difference. Another thing that effects it massively is AD medication. Went through a lot of struggles when on that and would have been easier to raise the titanic and once you get that into your head and get nervous it's goodnight. The issue I'm having at the moment is my sex drive seems to be non-existent at times. I get times when it comes back, but I could be given it on a plate sometimes and I'm absolutely dead inside. Its 100% down to some mental health issues as I've had all my testosterone levels checked etc and it's all fine. It kinda makes me a bit cautious about arranging meets as I don't want to either not be into it or end up pulling out at last minute. Means I really needed to be upfront with people and get a comfort level before meeting. " Well done! Your comment speaks volumes. Not only does it say about the genuine honesty of you being upfront, it says a lot about the genuine people you engaged with. Ladies, this guy is a class act! Good luck Boss | |||
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"Well done! Your comment speaks volumes. Not only does it say about the genuine honesty of you being upfront, it says a lot about the genuine people you engaged with. Ladies, this guy is a class act! Good luck Boss " | |||
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"Totally agree on the mental side of things. You can take a shit load of medication but it only amplifies what's already there and if there's no drive then it makes zero difference. Another thing that effects it massively is AD medication. Went through a lot of struggles when on that and would have been easier to raise the titanic and once you get that into your head and get nervous it's goodnight. The issue I'm having at the moment is my sex drive seems to be non-existent at times. I get times when it comes back, but I could be given it on a plate sometimes and I'm absolutely dead inside. Its 100% down to some mental health issues as I've had all my testosterone levels checked etc and it's all fine. It kinda makes me a bit cautious about arranging meets as I don't want to either not be into it or end up pulling out at last minute. Means I really needed to be upfront with people and get a comfort level before meeting. Well done! Your comment speaks volumes. Not only does it say about the genuine honesty of you being upfront, it says a lot about the genuine people you engaged with. Ladies, this guy is a class act! Good luck Boss " Thanks man. No point in dissapointing other people and leading them on. Just makes it harder in the long run. (No pun intended). I generally stop meeting people when my drive drops. If you meet decent people then this usually isn't an issue. | |||
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"Just wanted to say thank you for starting this feed. Really interesting hearing other people's stories. I haven't checked recently but I know my testosterone levels are a bit lower than they should be (as of 3 years ago anyway). My trouble isn't getting erections but it's just getting solid erections. I get to approximately 60/70% which as you can imagine makes penetration a bit of a struggle. Are there any over that counter testosterone boosters that you recommend or do you think I should swing back to the doctors. I can't deal with the prices of Viagra unfortunately!" I’m honestly no expert man, but I’d wonder if you are getting the blood in to get hard but not to the solid stage, it might be a mind over matter thing. It’s one that I’d think would be best dealt with by speaking to a professional rather than pay the costs, use pills, put up with the side effects and potentially still be at square 1. Mojo is a good app, but it’s pricey at £19.99 a month and that’s with the 50% off trick I’ve written above. Costs and such like for the brands are mental, places (as mentioned) such as Dr Fox will do the generic cialis, viagra etc for about 80p a pill and in boxes of 4-6. | |||
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"Try almonds and Brazil nuts every day, they give quite a boner." I remember Holland & Barratt advertising the horny goat and some sort of vein extract pills as erection aids, but never mentioning caffeine or zinc probably as they were less profitable. I’m sure your spot on though, there’s a link between Brazil nuts and testosterone I’m sure! | |||
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"Try almonds and Brazil nuts every day, they give quite a boner." That sounds absolutely nuts! ?? | |||
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"This is a great topic to discuss OP, and the point you made about having no issue while wanking alone, but sometimes suffering ‘stage fright’ with a sexual partner, is a lot more common than people are usually comfortable talking about. Men aren’t machines, cocks don’t get instantly hard at the click of fingers, and mostly we just put too much ‘performance anxiety’ pressure on ourselves…. " Well said Great reply boss | |||
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"Erectile dysfunction is one of those topics guys don’t really want to talk about openly but I wanted to make a post. We have all had an experience, at some point, of the wee man not wanting to work as he should and it’s soul destroying. Mine was a good while ago, pure nerves as she was banging (couldn’t resist the pun) Seeing all these adverts for Hardon pills on telly now that they are no longer prescription only is annoying me. I have a friend, genuine friend, who done a really long cycle for charity and he couldn’t get it up afterwards. The cialis and viagra didn’t help. It turned out to be the damaged blood vessels in the area between his bumhole and balls (perineum) stopping the blood getting to the desired location. Mind these pills only enlarge the blood vessels and encourage more blood to skoosh up your boaby. They don’t make you horny or aroused despite the usual preconceptions. But they can cause long term issues if used incorrectly, The pills won’t work if the blood can’t get to your dick guys, so if it’s injury related like my chum, you need to rest. Also, if you worry about getting it up, the nerves and brain signals will stop the knob getting hard. Try looking at apps/ community sites such as Mojo and/ or speaking to the gp. These pills will only get you hit with headaches, red flushes to the face, dehydration and many other side effects. If you do struggle with getting it up and your not waking up with a hardon, speak to your gp as it could be testosterone based. If your getting hard for wanking sessions on your own, but not with sexual partners it hints stronger towards what my issue was, a mental block or nerves in the moment. There isn’t much worse than a wee voice of doubt in your head when your trying to get your end away. That’s where community sites such as Mojo or psychology hell can be sought. It’s a touchy topic, inbox is always open. (For clarity, it was my mate, I’m too lazy to cycle anywhere)" OMG i never new this. Thanks for sharing it, i cycle every day and had no idea of the damage i was doing. I need to get the padded shorts out and walk more often Thanks you so much for sharing | |||
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"Erectile dysfunction is one of those topics guys don’t really want to talk about openly but I wanted to make a post. We have all had an experience, at some point, of the wee man not wanting to work as he should and it’s soul destroying. Mine was a good while ago, pure nerves as she was banging (couldn’t resist the pun) Seeing all these adverts for Hardon pills on telly now that they are no longer prescription only is annoying me. I have a friend, genuine friend, who done a really long cycle for charity and he couldn’t get it up afterwards. The cialis and viagra didn’t help. It turned out to be the damaged blood vessels in the area between his bumhole and balls (perineum) stopping the blood getting to the desired location. Mind these pills only enlarge the blood vessels and encourage more blood to skoosh up your boaby. They don’t make you horny or aroused despite the usual preconceptions. But they can cause long term issues if used incorrectly, The pills won’t work if the blood can’t get to your dick guys, so if it’s injury related like my chum, you need to rest. Also, if you worry about getting it up, the nerves and brain signals will stop the knob getting hard. Try looking at apps/ community sites such as Mojo and/ or speaking to the gp. These pills will only get you hit with headaches, red flushes to the face, dehydration and many other side effects. If you do struggle with getting it up and your not waking up with a hardon, speak to your gp as it could be testosterone based. If your getting hard for wanking sessions on your own, but not with sexual partners it hints stronger towards what my issue was, a mental block or nerves in the moment. There isn’t much worse than a wee voice of doubt in your head when your trying to get your end away. That’s where community sites such as Mojo or psychology hell can be sought. It’s a touchy topic, inbox is always open. (For clarity, it was my mate, I’m too lazy to cycle anywhere) OMG i never new this. Thanks for sharing it, i cycle every day and had no idea of the damage i was doing. I need to get the padded shorts out and walk more often Thanks you so much for sharing " Hey guys, just to say an update on this post. Since reading this, I’ve eased off from the cycling from every day. Purchased a really really good pair of padded shorts. And got myself a packet of Cealis. OMG I feel like a young man again ???????????? Thank you for everybody who put input into this thread. Really means a lot to me | |||
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"I was given Viagra from the doctors hard for ages but the headache after is incredible never had pain like it So it's back to a wee semi lol My oral skills are amazing now though or so I've been told " Yes, I agree with you. A prolonged oral session does seem appealing as you’re waiting for the old chap to get strong again. Some like that some don’t. I try to ensure that I’m meeting an oral enthusiast that doesn’t mind the extended session between a good hard cock experience. | |||
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"I was given Viagra from the doctors hard for ages but the headache after is incredible never had pain like it So it's back to a wee semi lol My oral skills are amazing now though or so I've been told " | |||
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"I was given Viagra from the doctors hard for ages but the headache after is incredible never had pain like it So it's back to a wee semi lol My oral skills are amazing now though or so I've been told " The other thing I meant to say that I forgot was I did get a slight headache with the Cialis But it wasn’t A blinding one. | |||
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"Viagra is expensive but go for the sildenafils generic types much cheaper.if your getting headaches then your not drinking enough water.best to drink about half pint with pill then keep on drinking water during and after,that may reduce the headache." Ah-Ha, that explains what happened to me after taking two after an event yesterday! | |||
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"viagra is expensive and gives you killer headaches try emla cream any chemist or stud 100 spray , both contain lidocanie and there game changers and miles cheaper , " | |||
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"viagra is expensive and gives you killer headaches try emla cream any chemist or stud 100 spray , both contain lidocanie and there game changers and miles cheaper , " Do these numbing sprays not absolutely kill sensation for yourself though? I want to feel everything and not have orgasms made more difficult to achieve. | |||
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"viagra is expensive and gives you killer headaches try emla cream any chemist or stud 100 spray , both contain lidocanie and there game changers and miles cheaper , " Cheers mate I’ll give the emla cream a try and see what happens. I’ll report back | |||
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"Emla cream ia called 'emla 5%' use a pea size amount on the tip of the penis. Rub around head of penis, leave for 20 minutes for it to work. Wash off before sex. If you don't last long enough, try alittle more next time. If it makes you struggle to get hard, have a viagra too. Viagra and emla are the best duo since jack daniels and " Is it from a pharmacist or over the counter ? | |||
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" Is it from a pharmacist or over the counter ?" It's off the shelf, they sell to anyone | |||
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"Boots Sildenafil 50mg Film-Coated Tablets - 4 Tablets £14.99 amazing stuff , you get a slip of paper after an initial consultation, not only am I harder but I recover very quickly, they are very good" Is this basically like viagra but cheaper ? | |||
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"Boots Sildenafil 50mg Film-Coated Tablets - 4 Tablets £14.99 amazing stuff , you get a slip of paper after an initial consultation, not only am I harder but I recover very quickly, they are very good Is this basically like viagra but cheaper ?" Sildenafil is viagra. Viagra is the trade name. Sildenafil is the name of the medicine. The same with Tadalafil and Cialis. | |||
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"Happens to the best of us! Would be great to get a cheaper alternative that ticks all the boxes!" Sorry, but I just seen your pics. Is erectile dysfunction really the issue here? Is it maybe not that there's not enough blood in your body to pump up that massive cock? in a word- WOW | |||
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"No - don't take it WITH grapefruit! The flavonoids in grapefruit can cause dangerously high blood pressure. That's what the leaflet says anyway...I'm not going to argue!" Oh ok thanks as I was thinking to get some Cialis just want to be sure its safe to take | |||
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"No - don't take it WITH grapefruit! The flavonoids in grapefruit can cause dangerously high blood pressure. That's what the leaflet says anyway...I'm not going to argue! Oh ok thanks as I was thinking to get some Cialis just want to be sure its safe to take" A doctor or pharmacist will tell you if its safe for you. Why get advice on this from a bunch of stangers | |||
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"No - don't take it WITH grapefruit! The flavonoids in grapefruit can cause dangerously high blood pressure. That's what the leaflet says anyway...I'm not going to argue! Oh ok thanks as I was thinking to get some Cialis just want to be sure its safe to take A doctor or pharmacist will tell you if its safe for you. Why get advice on this from a bunch of stangers" Definitely the safest option! | |||
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"No - don't take it WITH grapefruit! The flavonoids in grapefruit can cause dangerously high blood pressure. That's what the leaflet says anyway...I'm not going to argue!" You can’t take any blood pressure meds or these with grapefruit juice. | |||
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"As men age there testosterone drops so if your member does not work sp well do a trt course and your dick will think your 18 again Seems a big thing in the states " Hey what's a trt course? | |||
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