FabSwingers.com forum: Gang bang

By *at-me-drink-me OP Woman
over a year ago

w.lothian.TAKE ME TO WONDERLAND

What would be your top tips for arranging a gang bang .its something iv always wanted to try .bit nervous arranging it tho

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife

What happend to the last one you were having?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be the scared man hiding in the corner??????

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By *at-me-drink-me OP Woman
over a year ago

w.lothian.TAKE ME TO WONDERLAND

"What happend to the last one you were having?"

The guy that was going to arranged it ghosted me after weeks of talking about it

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"What happend to the last one you were having?

The guy that was going to arranged it ghosted me after weeks of talking about it"

A club may be a safer environment for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What happend to the last one you were having?

The guy that was going to arranged it ghosted me after weeks of talking about it

A club may be a safer environment for you

Why is it safer?

That's certainly not true, Fact.

There was a girl who was on fab and hearing of the same attitude felt safer at a club and during the gangbang one of the men took his condom off and came inside her. I remember the commotion the next day and unsure if police were called but she had to go though tests to make sure she wasn't pregnant or anything else.

I've arranged a couple of gangbangs in the past where I picked all the guys or took my company to a gangbang and they have all had a fantastic time and were totally safe.

The last one was about cpl of month ago, I took a friend to her first group gangbang which she had never tried, I never partook in it but just made sure she knew I was there incase she felt insecure. She didn't and had a blast.

Important:

I think its the person who wants the gangbang choosing the right people or conditions to arrange it, feeling safe can be in a club or privately arranged.

Whatever way you choose poster, I'm sure you will have a fantastic time and you will have a ball

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife

"What happend to the last one you were having?

The guy that was going to arranged it ghosted me after weeks of talking about it"

Ah the good ole single guys

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By *at-me-drink-me OP Woman
over a year ago

w.lothian.TAKE ME TO WONDERLAND

"What happend to the last one you were having?

The guy that was going to arranged it ghosted me after weeks of talking about it

Ah the good ole single guys

Aye. .i knew the guy and he was so up for it them bam ghost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the good ole single guys

Not an exactly correct view here, with that narrative I could then say “oh the good ole single women always wanting gangbanged…” and you’d all flip your lid.

Starting to tire of the targeted gender bias that goes on.

She was let down by a guy, that’s where it ends.

Horsey makes the perfect point with regards to GB and safety. It’s not always about the venue, it is always about the persons selected, male female and any other gender that may be available.

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife

Ah the good ole single guys

Not an exactly correct view here, with that narrative I could then say “oh the good ole single women always wanting gangbanged…” and you’d all flip your lid.

Starting to tire of the targeted gender bias that goes on.

She was let down by a guy, that’s where it ends.

Horsey makes the perfect point with regards to GB and safety. It’s not always about the venue, it is always about the persons selected, male female and any other gender that may be available. "

I see men slating women all the time , it's not one sided

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife

And also there is reason for the so called "gender bias"

I'm a fan of men, check my veris but been around long enough to know how it works here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not about sides or genders, it’s specifically the behaviours of individuals. Nothing more nothing less.

I’m sorry if this sounds rude but if you are happy to splat every person of a specific gender due to individuals behaviours then you might need to shake your head a little.

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife

"It’s not about sides or genders, it’s specifically the behaviours of individuals. Nothing more nothing less.

I’m sorry if this sounds rude but if you are happy to splat every person of a specific gender due to individuals behaviours then you might need to shake your head a little."

Deary me

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife

So anyway,

Maybe you could ask another trusted friend or couple to arrange for you?

My first one I held at mine and when it comes to clubs or home then there's risks with both, just depends what you are going to be comfy with.

You can use afterdark some daytime's I'm sure aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So anyway,

Maybe you could ask another trusted friend or couple to arrange for you?

My first one I held at mine and when it comes to clubs or home then there's risks with both, just depends what you are going to be comfy with.

You can use afterdark some daytime's I'm sure aswell

I had arranged one at my friends place and I arranged another at the Marriott. As i said, it really depend son the individual who wants a gangbang, can they trust the individual as that's wat it boils down too.

Some people who want gangbangs may wants ones where they will never, ever see the men again, some would rather the men are known so they feel safer. its all about choices and trusting each other, privately or at a club, it's just the same

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By *ryffindorChamp7Man
over a year ago

North Ayrshire

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By *inky-kk69Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I arranged a bukkake on my couples page not exactly same but similar obv

Mr was there with me to ensure I was okay and happy at all times. I did organise it within like 24 hours lol probs a bit quick for some people but yeah.

I got all pics from all and checked veris and went from there.

I was told to over invite as people cancel or don't show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to agree ,men get such a raw deal on here and are all too often pigeon holed into eing timewasters and fantasist, there are as many women who are time wasters and fantasist ,it's not gender specific more so the actions of certain individuals .

But in regards to having a safe experience in a gb , pick a venue your comfortable with whatever that may be , careful select those who will be invited , do some digging , have someone there whom you feel safe with , and lastly don't leave the guest list in the hands of someone else , it's your experience you take control of it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's raw deals..and there is likely truths..

Club your likely verified..and certainly.unlikely to be welcome back if you abuse expectations.

Whilst it may be the case some men are vilified... the good guys will know why..and understand scrutiny and diligence.

Just be cool.. accept yes..accept no. Be respectful and enjoy where you can.

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By *indOf89Man
over a year ago

Rivendell

Honking take to paint every dude with the same brush as above.

I get the criticism, don't get me wrong, but yeah .. just nah, I'm sorry.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Areange it wntirely with people you have already met and played with, there is more chance of all of them turning up.

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By *ill67Man
over a year ago

alloa

Have a trusted friend male or female there with you decide how many guys your looking for and invite double that possibly more as most have said alot take cold feet last minute have been to a few gangbangs plenty condoms and a good venue and enjoy the meet

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By *elix72Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

Intrested if it goes ahead x

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By *r humanMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Best place for gang band is at swingers club your and other folks both feel safe to play nether go after dark club or cjs. Only two swingers club would recommend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a few guys on here that arrange and host GB’s for people. I’ve been to a few and always enjoyed myself.

You could do it in a club, they hire out rooms if you ask.

There’s a risk of being caught and deposit kept at an Airbnb or the embarrassment of being thrown out of a hotel if you have a few visitors. There’s also the issue of inviting strangers to your home if you host it.

Personally I would speak to one of the guys that host GB’s and ask them to arrange it. That way you can give them a description of people you would like and just turn up. They may also have trusted guys that turn up regularly.

Oh and since I’ve met you in the past I would like an invite if it goes ahead

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By *bzHotCplCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

You’ll get about 60-80% pull out and that’s even with verified guys. So suggest you multiply the number of guys you want by 3 or 4 times the number of confirmed invites!!

Or better still just go to a greedy girl GB night in a club where you’ll most likely get what you are looking for in a ‘safe’ environment or alternatively, as someone else mentioned on here, speak to guys / MM groups on here that have lots of verifications in organising GB’s.

Good luck. The effort is well worth it

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By *rown DynamiteMan
over a year ago

Coatbridge

I would be happy to arrange a gangbang in a private apartment men vetted by both of us and be on hand for safety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best place for gang band is at swingers club your and other folks both feel safe to play nether go after dark club or cjs. Only two swingers club would recommend"

Sorry, did you read the post that I put up earlier, proves its not the case that the best place to have a gangbang is at a swingers club: FACT.

The creator of the post has options, work out the pros and cons

Mull over what is said on here also;

3 main ways:

Swingers clubs

Arranged by a trusted friend

Arrange yourself and have a trusted friend to be there as your safety guard.

Good luck whatever you choose and I'm sure it will be safe and an absolute blast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say better someone you trust organises it with clear rules, do's and don'ts with support from all at the experience. Safety together in an open environment. Respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please be carefull who you choose.

It's very difficult to get decent honest folk here (in my experience anyway) make sure you have at least one trusting person.Horsey despite his name, seems OK.

Goes without saying I am happy to attend as well.

Be good

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By *abulousAvaWoman
over a year ago

Dainty Town

It has proved difficult to arrange. I had tried to arrange socials to at least meet the men involved, that proved difficult. There has to be a level of trust involved or at least with one or two of the men involved, to have your back if things go tits up (no pun intended).

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By *panksspankedMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

However it plays out, I hope you have fun

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By *offee and Cream 100Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Cumbernauld

1 guy who you know needs to coordinate and remember the boundaries that you have set out, he can play, but his job is the director to ensure you get what you want out of the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gangbang Challenges:

1) Fantasists/timewasters. Many people on Fab are married and have no intention of meeting. They are on here for a quick thrill and a wank, and don't care who they stand up or piss off. These are people of all genders, and no one gender is worse than any other. Men get a bad rap because there are more of them on here. I speak with timewasters all the time and can smell them a mile away. And, I understand that lots of men fantasise about being one of the anonymous dudes in the latest 5 Guy Cream Pie video. So it's a perfect lure for a fantasist/timewaster who can - in the fashion of Richie from TV's Bottom, smirk "a real woman wants a gangbang... saucy bitch!" Before his pathetic load drizzles out his cock like the insides of a squished cockroach.

2) Time - it can be tricky to get a time to suit everyone, or even most. Many people work in the daytime, and many others in the evening. And in my experience, most are not willing to take the day/evening off. (Yeah, I don't understand this either)

3) Venue - presumably you don't want a parade of Rando Calrisians knowing where you live. So you'll probably need to book and pay for a hotel. But you will risk the capital if no one turns up, which has happened to a woman on here before.

4) Undesirables - regrettably, you will attract some undesirables. The unwashed. The smelly. The ungroomed. The downright mocket. This can prove socially awkward if a guy who looks like Christopher Lloyd in Denis the Menace turns up, whips his cock out and the scent of his smeg is stronger than Eddie Hall.

Overall Recommendation

Message Club Play in Blackpool and get booked in. Tell them you're looking for a gangbang on a particular night and I'm sure their in-house team will be able to sort you out and send a few guys into accompany you in the gangbang room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1 guy who you know needs to coordinate and remember the boundaries that you have set out, he can play, but his job is the director to ensure you get what you want out of the fun. "

Think this shows that everyone's experience is different, to the ones who have been successful in the gangbang either one or arranging a few or to the ones who realized not going well and didn't arrange anymore.

Even if your the safety, you still have to allow freedom for the woman and not restrict what she wants or may wants during the fun.

I have arranged gangbangs in the past and all have been successful, but yes, i did not participate, i just made sure it went well. I've only had one person whom I felt during one of the gangbangs needed reminded what was wanted but it went great. I have went to gangbangs with a friend and not participated but just made sure she knew I was there. Yes I have been to gangbangs and orgys and watched or joined in and all different experiences but all have been great.

I do have the view that a gangbang for a woman is for the woman and the guys are just the toys and she can have the type of gangbang she desires and trust me, sometimes the woman does change during the fun what way she wants it to go.

It's each unto their own what way they want a gangbang.

Clubs, or privately, both can be brilliant and successful and both can not work out and have a not enjoyable effect.

But I'm sure the poster will have a blast whatever way she chooses and if she lets herself go, she may remember it for years to come and beyond.

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Pick a date and time

Put a status up

Post on the forums giving as much details as possible

Invite the people you've already met

Chat to the people you've not met before as much as you can. Make sure they are verified

Get recommendations from people who's met reliable guys

Do a bit of research for genuine people. Don't just wait for people to message you, you'll find more genuine people searching yourself (profiles with gangbang in the name)

Have someone there you trust to watch to make sure no one is doing anything untowards

Get them all on a kik group. Don't be scared to delete them off the group if you're not feeling them for whatever reason

Know exactly what you want and don't let others sway your decision

I've had a few group meets and also gang bangs. Feel free to message if you have any questions

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