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issues with single blokes. Help!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm having major issues with single guys on here and looking for some advice.

Today I blocked a guy who's been messaging persistently coz he just wasn't my type so then I get a message from another of his profiles calling me weird & time waster. Sorry but isn't the fact he has two profiles weird?! Then another guy sets up profile with fake age coz his real age is outside my limits and he starts his message by telling me this

Is this normal behavior of most single guys on here or is there something in my profile? These are only two examples I've had a few crazy dudes!!

Oh and I haven't introduced myself, Im Lynseyann and very new tp swinging scene

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Any harrassment or abusive messages should be reported to Admin.

I hope things start to go better for you soon.

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By *uncouple981Couple
over a year ago

ayrshire

Why don't you use your filters to block single guys. Then you don't get hassle. You can still message guys if you see someone you like and they will be able to reply. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly there are a few people out there who really do think that this is nothing more than a cattle market.

You have hit the nail on the head in your profile and that is your safety is paramount. Anybody who even remotely causes an alarm bell to ring then avoid like the plague.

You are always going to get some imbecilic idiot who thinks that you are nothing more than a slut who just wants his massive member, thankfully there are lots of genuine guys out there who are honest about who they are etc, you just need to out the bad ones and if needs be report them to admin.

Good Luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you use your filters to block single guys. Then you don't get hassle. You can still message guys if you see someone you like and they will be able to reply. X"

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

There are a lot of decent genuine guys on here and they will always outshine the idiots who frequent this site.

Just report n block .

welcome and have a great time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the thing there's more guys here than women, if a women don't like its the guys problem. They ruin it for a lot of us. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya and welcome!

Thats absolutely not the norm for most of the guys on here. You do seem to have hit on a couple of crazies right from the off though, which is pretty unfortunate!

As with any site, dating or sex, you do get the mentalists but hopefully it hasn't put you off sticking around. Change your filters and report to admin but the easiest way to deter dickheads is to block them. It takes a wee bit of effort to set up a profile but its the easiest thing in the world to block them so keep doing it and they'll soon get bored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As in normal life, there will always be a few nutters who give others a bad name.

Just block this idiot and get chatting with guys who are genuine FABbers, not wee silly boys looking for a thrill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep reporting and blocking hun, there are plenty of good guys here! Always always go with your gut instinct though xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys are complete tools but glad to say there are some decent guys here too unfortunately you have to out the shite :S

L xx

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By *autious CoupleCouple
over a year ago

home

A kick in the goolies works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block him and maye opt for filter out new members messaging you, that takes care of him and his instant made up pest-profiles at you too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice . Will definitely sort out filters then.

I know they aren't all weirdos as I've been lucky enough to have had a meet with a really nice guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yip just use the filters and if they dont help speak to admin asking them why there not working as they do advise people to use them correctly, and if all that works u will have a happy swinging time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What!!! Other crazy fools are using my techniques too? So im not original with my attempt to stand out?

Ok Will have to up my game now and set up a couples profile..should be easy done now I know u can pinch pics on here

Sorry u won't be able to speak to female half on phone, she pops out quite frequently and forgets her phone in the house... all the time. She would lose her head if it wasn't screwed on ...silly rabbit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres clearly a fair few idiots! lol

Just block the single guys and choose the ones you like! x

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