FabSwingers.com forum: Dogging ettiquette

By *otme OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

Why is it when you take a female out dogging that single guys dont signal by putting they,re interior light on to let ther female see them ?? Especially after we,v put ours on to let them see us and that we,r interested,, so many guys just follow the car and dont signal and then drive around our car blinding us with their headlights, but then dont signal any intent,,, are they just expecting the female to jump in with them ??? without us seeing or knowing what you look like !!!!!

It can be quite scary for the female when guys constantly follow us around and dont let us know what their intentions are or let us see what they look like,,

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"..........are they just expecting the female to jump in with them ??? without us seeing or knowing what you look like !!!!!

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Is that all that important?

It's a shag we're talking about here, not a life-long commitment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"..........are they just expecting the female to jump in with them ??? without us seeing or knowing what you look like !!!!!

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Is that all that important?

It's a shag we're talking about here, not a life-long commitment."
of course its important would you turn up for a meet to fuck someone without seeing what they look like ??? Rules are rules

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By *otme OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

haa haa thats typical of what guys expect,, just cos the female is out dogging she,s expected to fuck anyone !!!!!!

To be honest its just wanting ppl to be respectful and at least let her see you b4 a cock is thrust into her face lol

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"..........are they just expecting the female to jump in with them ??? without us seeing or knowing what you look like !!!!!

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Is that all that important?

It's a shag we're talking about here, not a life-long commitment.of course its important would you turn up for a meet to fuck someone without seeing what they look like ??? Rules are rules

Rules, if there are such things in swinging, are made to be broken.

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By *otme OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

Its not so much about rules lol more about respect and showing consideration to others , and its seriously lacking when it comes to fems wanting to go dogging

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over a year ago

"..........are they just expecting the female to jump in with them ??? without us seeing or knowing what you look like !!!!!

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Is that all that important?

It's a shag we're talking about here, not a life-long commitment.of course its important would you turn up for a meet to fuck someone without seeing what they look like ??? Rules are rules

Rules, if there are such things in swinging, are made to be broken."

Thought as much coming from an unverified shadow enough said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

feck wish it was that easy

when we go out

1,,,usually no one about

2,,,if they are they just sit in their cars with the lights off?

i mean wtf are you ment to do,,,just go out and chap on the window?

knowing my luck it would be some oap out enjouying the countryside lol

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not so much about rules lol more about respect and showing consideration to others , and its seriously lacking when it comes to fems wanting to go dogging "
not all are the same,we are often out you do get some that just think they are in there,don't let it put you off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"feck wish it was that easy

when we go out

1,,,usually no one about

2,,,if they are they just sit in their cars with the lights off?

i mean wtf are you ment to do,,,just go out and chap on the window?

knowing my luck it would be some oap out enjouying the countryside lol

auds xx

1.maybe heading out at wrong times or wrong places

2.do you signal to them what you are out for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

defo wrong places and wrong times lol

erm,,,no cause we dont actually know what to do lol

we are terrible doggers lol

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By *otme OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

I,v been dogging for years now and have had a few willing fems who have enjoyed the experience,, but laterly where ever we go it seems to be guys just following the car yet not making signals or letting us know there intentions, and that can be quite off putting for the fem and is a turn off,, we tend to put on the interior lights for a litlle while so that ppl can see we,re a cpl, cars always seem to come closer at that point , but dont signal back or dont speak or say hi,, yet will constanly follow the car if we move and not let us see them or know what their intentions are,,, if they were to put on their light the fem would see them and we,d at the least go and say hello

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By *cotsteveMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"defo wrong places and wrong times lol

erm,,,no cause we dont actually know what to do lol

we are terrible doggers lol

Does the dug make too much noise?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No that would be me

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We've only been out twice, but we've found that the guys are very respectful. We just put our light on and leave it up to them if they want to approach. They ask if it's ok to touch me, and if I say no they back off.

Not had any problems yet, just disappointed that I'm usually the only female and it would be nice to see some others

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By *cotsteveMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"No that would be me

Lol. Wouldn't mind testing that out!

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By *rightspark123Couple
over a year ago

paisley

we,ve been dogging for years and only ever come across one other couple, its always only guys, and the majority of them are ignorant pushy twats

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"..........are they just expecting the female to jump in with them ??? without us seeing or knowing what you look like !!!!!

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Is that all that important?

It's a shag we're talking about here, not a life-long commitment.of course its important would you turn up for a meet to fuck someone without seeing what they look like ??? Rules are rules

Rules, if there are such things in swinging, are made to be broken.

Thought as much coming from an unverified shadow enough said

If you disagree with me, make your case.

Simply pointing to my profile is no more than hiding behind your inability to explain yourself/selves.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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Not had any problems yet, just disappointed that I'm usually the only female and it would be nice to see some others

Finding one female at a dogging site is quite unusual. Finding two is very rare.

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By *otme OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

"..........are they just expecting the female to jump in with them ??? without us seeing or knowing what you look like !!!!!

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Is that all that important?

It's a shag we're talking about here, not a life-long commitment.of course its important would you turn up for a meet to fuck someone without seeing what they look like ??? Rules are rules

Rules, if there are such things in swinging, are made to be broken.

Thought as much coming from an unverified shadow enough said

If you disagree with me, make your case.

Simply pointing to my profile is no more than hiding behind your inability to explain yourself/selves."

I,v made my case , just asking for respect, and you,v made your case,,, a shags a shag,, the fem,s take a slightly different point of view,

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

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Finding one female at a dogging site is quite unusual. Finding two is very rare."

Shame, because I like to play with girls too

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

where can u find rules and etiquette around doggingas not sure what signals to make or what others signals are

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I,v made my case , just asking for respect, and you,v made your case,,, a shags a shag,, the fem,s take a slightly different point of view, "

Respect can't simply be asked for. It has to be earned.

Your post, however, needs recorded for posterity.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"where can u find rules and etiquette around doggingas not sure what signals to make or what others signals are"

There ain't none. Each site and couple have their own 'rules' and they don't travel beyond the jurisdiction of the local constabulary.

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By *otme OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

I wouldn,t dare ask you for respect Onny, i reckon we wouldn,t meet out dogging anyway as you,d probably be one of the guys that wouldn,t show your face or signal,, so we probably wouldn,t get to speak or have any fun. and as for my post being recorded for prosperity,, i,m not exactly sure what your getting at with that one lol

and can i ask,,, do you take any fems out dogging or are you a single dogger ??

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

..........Onny, .............

and can i ask,,, do you take any fems out dogging or are you a single dogger ??"

I don't take an particular lady dogging at the moment and, indeed - because my GP insisted I give up driving for a while - I've probably spent more of the last 5 years being taken dogging by an assortment of ladies of my aquaintance.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

..........as for my post being recorded for prosperity,, i,m not exactly sure what your getting at with that one lol

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No, I didn't think you would.

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By *otme OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

..........as for my post being recorded for prosperity,, i,m not exactly sure what your getting at with that one lol

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No, I didn't think you would."

Can you explain then ?

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By *otme OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

..........Onny, .............

and can i ask,,, do you take any fems out dogging or are you a single dogger ??

Strange one,, in over 10 yrs of dogging i,v yet to see a lady drive hee hee ,, but then again your doctor stopped you driving 5 years ago,, so i,d imagine you,v not been dogging for a while then ?

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

..........Onny, .............

and can i ask,,, do you take any fems out dogging or are you a single dogger ??

Strange one,, in over 10 yrs of dogging i,v yet to see a lady drive hee hee ,, but then again your doctor stopped you driving 5 years ago,, so i,d imagine you,v not been dogging for a while then ?"

You're doing that 'memorable' posing nonsense stuff again.

As I said, about 5 years ago my GP suggested (very strongly) that I should stop driving. Nothing to do with dogging.

Since then a number of the ladies I'd 'escorted' previously have very kindly agreed to come out with me.

It could be worse.

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By *otme OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

How did the ladies you escorted find the dogging experience then Onny ?

Were they shown respect from ppl or did they have to earn it someway from others that didn,t signsl or show any intent ?? or did they just go ahead and shag,,, as its not a life commitment ?

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By *otme OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

..........Onny, .............

You're doing that 'memorable' posing nonsense stuff again.

Again ,, i need to ask about this statement and whats " emorable posing "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

..........Onny, .............

and can i ask,,, do you take any fems out dogging or are you a single dogger ??

Strange one,, in over 10 yrs of dogging i,v yet to see a lady drive hee hee ,, but then again your doctor stopped you driving 5 years ago,, so i,d imagine you,v not been dogging for a while then ?

You're doing that 'memorable' posing nonsense stuff again.

As I said, about 5 years ago my GP suggested (very strongly) that I should stop driving. Nothing to do with dogging.

Since then a number of the ladies I'd 'escorted' previously have very kindly agreed to come out with me.

It could be worse. "

Blah blah blah oh and blah dont beleive a word u say _nny .

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By *damandeve4funCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Its not so much about rules lol more about respect and showing consideration to others , and its seriously lacking when it comes to fems wanting to go dogging "

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By *damandeve4funCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I,v made my case , just asking for respect, and you,v made your case,,, a shags a shag,, the fem,s take a slightly different point of view,

Respect can't simply be asked for. It has to be earned.

Your post, however, needs recorded for posterity.

So a woman (or man) can't expect to be respected on a first meeting with a guy (or anyone for that matter) because, up to that point, there has been no opportunity yet to earn it? What a strange attitude...I prefer to respect everyone until such time as they do something that forces me to lose that respect for them.

Anyway, I am off to listen to "Onny The Lonely"...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been out a few times and been dead. would love a female dogging partner, especially one who is clued up on the rules. had a couple of meets but still consider myself a novice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next Time we are out

Il give you a shout

Lol

Would like a few guys we could Call on if we are out n about Lol.

Auds x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Next Time we are out

Il give you a shout

Lol

Would like a few guys we could Call on if we are out n about Lol.

Auds x"

your on!

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I,v made my case , just asking for respect, and you,v made your case,,, a shags a shag,, the fem,s take a slightly different point of view,

Respect can't simply be asked for. It has to be earned.

Your post, however, needs recorded for posterity.

Anyway, I am off to listen to "Onny The Lonely"..."

The joy of attracting what the monosylabic see as insults is that you know you've touched a nerve.

When the post references Country Music, the home of incest, it just gets better and better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmm....????

I wonder ?????

Sounds familiar???

Is it????

Nooo surley not????

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By *otme OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

I dont think you,ve hit a nerve Onny, , its a forum where ppl get their say and you got yours,, no one has insulted anyone, but you never really answered many of my questions ,, only the ones you wanted to answer and the observations that you have portrayed seem to be in the minority, and the fact that you seem to have to earn respect from ppl,, how can you if you dont get to meet them first ???

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ask your questions I'll endeavour to answer each and every one (save about locations and people).

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By *otme OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

You can zcroll back and see the questions, but you dont need to answer them,, it,s just that you seem to want to provoke an arguement and want to intelectually bully ppl with your use of language

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His use of language.lol..

Now thats Funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to give it a try but wouldn't have the slightest idea where to start! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Janda I'm out all the time and I'm reliable check my verifications. Message me when you go out and I won't disappoint! X

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