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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tonight we got a message from a couple to which we sent a polite reply telling them we were up to our eyes in other things right now so were putting new meets on hold for a short time.

The reply we got was unbelievably cheeky and basically called us timewasters for daring to have a life away from here and not announcing it on our profile, then we got blocked so couldn't even send them a reply.

Have any of you been giving a hard time for having the bare faced cheek of being a bit busy and not telling everyone?

Also do you think it's right for other couples to have a strop when you send them a polite reply?

You may notice I'm not too happy about this couple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

BTW, the title should say MESSAGES. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so u not happy then xix????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"so u not happy then xix????"

No Katy, I'm not too happy about it at all.

Makes you wonder if it's worth staying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you do LandJ, plenty nice couples here to make up for the rude ones xxxx

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By *ashmira2008Woman
over a year ago

renfrew

I get them from guys who when u give a polite no call u names

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just pissed me off a bit laine.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

ppls attitudes on this site at the mo is just so unbelievabe its no wonder so many genuine swingers r gettting p****d off by it lots of nice peeps on here so hang in there as im trying to do xxx

luv jacs

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages,

I am also very anoyed with the messages I got not long ago,

Half a dozen eggs, 6 rolls and pkt. Oh smoked bacon, geeeez no much change fae a fiver!!

Ohhhhhh, sorry wrong kind oh messages , just ignore them and block them back, they are not worth bothering about if thats the way they feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hiya, some people just take the huff,anyway why worry have fun as were all the genuine people not like some!!!!!!!!!!!!! xx

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

yes i know what u mean some folks dont know when no means no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohh yoy get them, lol, i sent a message into that catch22 that is, "no single males but love partys" so dafty sent info on partys, all very polite, "i appreciate you dont like idea of solo males but we do hold partys often, might you both like to", well jesus the reply was like from Kelly osbourne on Bo selecta, lol.

"Why dont you f,,,ing f,,, off because you f,,,ing cant read you f,,,ing tit", (have shortened it) ,lol.

Took it as a "no thanks",lol

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had some corkers of nasty and rude messages the other weekendd and a cpl this week too..... some folks either don`t read profiles right or get a lil touchy when u chat to folks they like in the room n stuff.....

guess some folks don`t wanna play the way it`s meant n stuff...

but well am still here.. but admittedly it was close,very close to me wiping it.. hopefully the good will outweigh the bad..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

afraid ive had plenty like that fancy a shag doll ?? no thanx , didnt want to shag u u fat cow anyway etc etc...

water off ducks back but mind if i do see emm in the street i will stick the car in reverse and hit emm again!!!

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By *egs4uWoman
over a year ago

somewhere around

yeah im sick of it give a polite no and get called a bitch, cock tease, timewaster etc.

My best one was just recently got a mail saying 'why you so angry?' replied 'excuse me' the mail i got back was :-

hello you are pardoned i am not welsh irish or welsh an asshole or a timewaster @ i dont buy women lunch i dont know SO what are you apart from being a racist and gold digger

he couldnt even get what i had said in my profile correct and at the end of the day its MY CHOICE who,when and how i meet.

foxi

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

afraid it happens all the time just have to ignore them and get on with it or you would be forever stressing forever hunni xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"afraid it happens all the time just have to ignore them and get on with it or you would be forever stressing forever hunni xxxxx"

Yep, thats exactly what we're gonna do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The T**ts will soon get bored when they realise they're pi**ing everyone off and no one speaking to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ohh yoy get them, lol, i sent a message into that catch22 that is, "no single males but love partys" so dafty sent info on partys, all very polite, "i appreciate you dont like idea of solo males but we do hold partys often, might you both like to", well jesus the reply was like from Kelly osbourne on Bo selecta, lol.

"Why dont you f,,,ing f,,, off because you f,,,ing cant read you f,,,ing tit", (have shortened it) ,lol.

Took it as a "no thanks",lol

T xx "

Mmmm.... I think you should mail back, not sure if their reply was clear enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think It just comes down to people not knowing how to behave in a 'virtual' or 'online' arena.

Most people wouldn't behave like this in the street or a club. THey just think cos its online and faceless they can get away with anything

It's their loss, not yours... a lucky escape really, they obviously not worth meeting anyway with that attitude!

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a sense of humour I think is a must on here ...

laugh it off its a mail we have delete n block buttons ...

desperation is not a turn on one day they might figure it out

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a sense of humour I think is a must on here ...

laugh it off its a mail we have delete n block buttons ...

desperation is not a turn on one day they might figure it out

xxxx"

If bloody Pumfrey gets much more action off here then it'll be me gettin' desperate FFS!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

know how you feel lanj

we got a message the other week askn to meet but the cpl where 15yrs older than us..now it does say in our profile we have an age limit

sent a polite reply sayn thanx but a tad over oour age group...guess what...they blocked us ? lol

oh well.

auds

chin up lanj plenty sexy peeps on here to keep you right lol

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" If bloody Pumfrey gets much more action off here then it'll be me gettin' desperate FFS!!! "

dont be like that stu jealousy doesn't suit you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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If bloody Pumfrey gets much more action off here then it'll be me gettin' desperate FFS!!!

dont be like that stu jealousy doesn't suit you

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awwww hun we had one of those too....read their message and didnt answer straight away....8 mins after i read it i received another one saying :-

you read our mail and didnt even dignify it with a response u stuck-up bitch, didnt wanna meets uze anyway you were our last resort, timewasters like uze should be struck of the site oh and ps. uze r ageist!!!!! lmaoooo....

phewwwwwww lucky escape i think but yip before i could reply guess what, they BLOCKED us lol....

nexttttttttttttttttt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry you got some hassle landj....but i've been using this kinda site for some years now both as a single guy and as a cpl ....

at the end of the day its no real diffrent as if you were in a pub if ppl are nice you will be nice back if ppl are nasty you will be nasty back

i've never met you but you sound a lovely cpl and sort of ppl this site needs..as for the ass holes well you dont give then a 2nd thought an laugh at them as you would an asshole in a pub ..to put it simply they just aint worth it ....

all the best for xmass and new year

tom&nancy

honeybags xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've had messages in the past where i have sent a polite thanks but not interested message and been called allsorts for it as well as being told i'm not genuine...

as my profile says, i don't have to meet everyone who emails me to be genuine.....

so i blocked them.

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what's this?

You guys come on to a swing site and you won't shag anyone (or anything, lol) that mails you? Poor show I say.... maybe need to rethink why your on here if you have standards to keep too.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Tonight we got a message from a couple to which we sent a polite reply telling them we were up to our eyes in other things right now so were putting new meets on hold for a short time.

The reply we got was unbelievably cheeky and basically called us timewasters for daring to have a life away from here and not announcing it on our profile, then we got blocked so couldn't even send them a reply.

Have any of you been giving a hard time for having the bare faced cheek of being a bit busy and not telling everyone?

Also do you think it's right for other couples to have a strop when you send them a polite reply?

You may notice I'm not too happy about this couple."
that was a bit of a lame excuse,being busy on the run up to christmas.whos going to believe that. yous are never going to meet them.so i wouldnt let being blocked worry yous to much.if you stopped doing everything because of a*******S you woudnt get out of bed in the morning.i would say they have a problem,not yous.so swing on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I'm to new to the scene, I've been helped by a few people who know I'm genuine, as we met at a party and they told me about this site. I'm planning on putting up some photos soon. I've been nice, polite and respectful to people requesting friends and leaving polite messages. I recieved some horrible and vicious replys. I thought we were all here for the same thing to have fun and get to know people who have the same interests, and maybe meet up and enjoy ourselves. I understand as a single male I'm limited to who I can contact. All I ask for is a polite " no sorry I'm not interested" how hard is that. Manners is allowed even in emails. Sorry for going on but rude people are putting me off staying here and getting into the scene altogether

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!


"Hi I'm to new to the scene, I've been helped by a few people who know I'm genuine, as we met at a party and they told me about this site. I'm planning on putting up some photos soon. I've been nice, polite and respectful to people requesting friends and leaving polite messages. I recieved some horrible and vicious replys. I thought we were all here for the same thing to have fun and get to know people who have the same interests, and maybe meet up and enjoy ourselves. I understand as a single male I'm limited to who I can contact. All I ask for is a polite " no sorry I'm not interested" how hard is that. Manners is allowed even in emails. Sorry for going on but rude people are putting me off staying here and getting into the scene altogether "

I'm afraid not everyone has time to reply to every single email they receive so the best thing to do is if someone doesn't reply then take it as thanks but no thanks. Some couples and single females get literally hundreds of emails A DAY! I would bet that more than half of them are deleted without being read.

Welcome to the site tho, get into the chatroom and talk to folk, put your name down for socials and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hey xix i wouldbe bother lol

i got blocked yday from a guy

i chat 2 an cause i said i was

2 busy just now 2 meet due 2

working silly hours an being tired

from the silly shifts but hey ho

i say..feck it or not eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had a fella have a pop at me the other day in the chat room , he had messaged and had not got a reply , our profile clearly states if kate is interested she will get in touch , if not the chances are she aint . Anyway this fella is hounding me on the chat as to why he aint had a reply !! Eventually had to say that i am not kates keeper so do one !!

Weirdos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she a wee tiger thats why am hooked lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have not had anything like this yet do you think its a form of "swing rage" haveing said that dont think they dare i work out you know yoga mon nights and salsa twice a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get that coming from the single male point of view, you get a lot less reply's but I'd never pester anyone.

The worst is when you delete your sent items thanks to the new setup and then you don't know if they have read the message or deleted it, so now you don't know what to think if there's no reply lol.

Why anyone would start going mad because something came up is just crazy, everyone has a life of their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These people who throw the dummy at the drop of a hat then block ya. Will eventually block themselves into a lonely corner with no one to swing with .

We dont meet very often for different reasons and if people cant get their head round it and go in the huff, hey! their loss not ours

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