FabSwingers.com forum: It Aint Easy Being A Single........................ Straight Guy

By *lasguy1972 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ok it's a moan or a question I know. I don't mean to bitch so will avoid doing it. Think of this as more of a plea for advice.

How the hell do you get a meet on here.

I mail nice mail that sometimes get rea. Although usually it gets deleted without being read or goes unread. So my effort levels in writing goes down. I tend to not 1st mail much more than 4 sentences. Why should I put effort in although I do read profiles and mention segments in mail to prove I do.

I also send face photo.

The dearth of responses makes me think I am either ugly or fab seems to have a majority of ignorant people. I know from some nice folk i spoke to on here that that isn't true.

I am just a single straight guy looking for fun times. Turn up be respectful and have fun my verifications speak for themselves.

I get more mail from gay guys than replies from females or couples and my profile clearly states straight.

So what am I doing wrong?

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Lots of people will check profiles before even looking at a message... If a profile says absolutely nothing about the person or has nothing of interest in it then often it won't matter how nice your messages are.

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By *lasguy1972 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Point taken and have edited my profile text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not easy being a couple either . Our profile needs help too . Xx

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

nope sorry never even read it just heard violins

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By *lasguy1972 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

And reason it is hard being single guy on here becomes obvious

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"And reason it is hard being single guy on here becomes obvious "
what were you expecting you obviously read threads like this before so you know whats written on them did you think by making header a little diffrent the sympathy shags would flood in ? use the site how you please but the moaning is tiresome

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

If you cant get a meet on here,and you have no particular kink.

Just go to the fucking pub, pick up a bird,and stop whinging.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Over the year that you have been here and the fact that you are on the west coast, there have been gang bangs, socials, drink nights & cj's greedy girl and club nights... Now with a little more effort possibly you could have had a lot more fun....

All the best

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

You have had meets so what do you think your doing differently now to what you done then to get the meets ?

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By *ictiiWitchCouple
over a year ago

Helensburgh

Not everyone can get to the socials etc

even though we may want to lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't mean to bitch so will avoid doing it"

"makes me think I am either ugly or fab seems to have a majority of ignorant people"

Looks a lot like bitching to me.

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By *lasguy1972 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Seems to be two clear camps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would'nt be the first guy to compile a thread like this, then a few months down the line we read your,"How to enjoy the best time ever on here" thread.

On a high with the recent fun meets and lovely new friends made and indeed offer up lovely pointers to guys struggling to, "how do i get a meet on here",

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By *lasguy1972 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Wasn't that this post was a exercise in self improvement to see what feedback I could get in a constructive way. I have a few really good pals on here and have had some meets and recommend this site to folk. Just felt that after a drought wondered if the world had moved on.

I like the good constructive advice thanks miss d, I really should of just mailed you straight, you always have been sage advisor. I can't get to really any socials as my life has its own happenings, when i can meet I advertise

Yet get no replies usually so as I said got thinking has the game changed.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid I have to agree with Kola.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This place is mental.

Just got an invite, usually I'd ignore a random invite (this time I thought what the hell) I did not fit this persons profile.

So I asked in a nice way, why the invite when I don't fit what you are looking for.

2 min later blocked.

Guess it was a look at pics, saw I was an ugly mofo and bolted.

Why not just take two Secs to reply and say I was nosey. After all they contacted me.

Good manners, starting to think it is a long lost art.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wasn't that this post was a exercise in self improvement to see what feedback I could get in a constructive way. I have a few really good pals on here and have had some meets and recommend this site to folk. Just felt that after a drought wondered if the world had moved on.

Yet get no replies usually so as I said got thinking has the game changed.

Thanks "

You yourself could not decide if you were asking an ask or having a moan.

You asked how the hell does a guy get a meet on here, maybe you meant Why the hell?

Now it sounded like you simply never had it in perspective, therefore others theorised about the Why part for you, thats quite helpfull for someone who is pretty much peeved at no meets and therefore trys a thread about it on here, its maybe new and news to some what you ask, but its generally par for the course for most guys on here, so maybe take some comfort in the fact your not alone thinking what your thinking.

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