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By *at-me-drink-me OP   Woman
over a year ago

w.lothian.TAKE ME TO WONDERLAND

So how many people on here dont see themselfs as proper swingers .but enjoy meeting people socials and adult fun .after a long think im not sure that i am a full blown swinger .i love having play mates and im a very sexual person as a single i enjoy to play .but realisticly if i got into a realationship i wouldnt want to play with others. Whats every1s thoughts

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By *hogun300Man
over a year ago

Dundee


"So how many people on here dont see themselfs as proper swingers .but enjoy meeting people socials and adult fun .after a long think im not sure that i am a full blown swinger .i love having play mates and im a very sexual person as a single i enjoy to play .but realisticly if i got into a realationship i wouldnt want to play with others. Whats every1s thoughts"

I do, as in relationship and we both at times play with others, however for other reasons I sometimes feel it would be better if I took a back seat and didn't. It's the type of relationship I want but don't think I will ever fully embrace it like I might want to.

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By *at-me-drink-me OP   Woman
over a year ago

w.lothian.TAKE ME TO WONDERLAND


"So how many people on here dont see themselfs as proper swingers .but enjoy meeting people socials and adult fun .after a long think im not sure that i am a full blown swinger .i love having play mates and im a very sexual person as a single i enjoy to play .but realisticly if i got into a realationship i wouldnt want to play with others. Whats every1s thoughts

I do, as in relationship and we both at times play with others, however for other reasons I sometimes feel it would be better if I took a back seat and didn't. It's the type of relationship I want but don't think I will ever fully embrace it like I might want to. "

What stops u fully embracing it

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By *hogun300Man
over a year ago

Dundee


"So how many people on here dont see themselfs as proper swingers .but enjoy meeting people socials and adult fun .after a long think im not sure that i am a full blown swinger .i love having play mates and im a very sexual person as a single i enjoy to play .but realisticly if i got into a realationship i wouldnt want to play with others. Whats every1s thoughts

I do, as in relationship and we both at times play with others, however for other reasons I sometimes feel it would be better if I took a back seat and didn't. It's the type of relationship I want but don't think I will ever fully embrace it like I might want to.

What stops u fully embracing it"

Myself mostly. Sometimes confidence, sometimes not putting myself out there as much as could.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how many people on here dont see themselfs as proper swingers .but enjoy meeting people socials and adult fun .after a long think im not sure that i am a full blown swinger .i love having play mates and im a very sexual person as a single i enjoy to play .but realisticly if i got into a realationship i wouldnt want to play with others. Whats every1s thoughts"
Yeah totally agree with this , I think you will probably find a lot more people thinking the same thing x

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By *at-me-drink-me OP   Woman
over a year ago

w.lothian.TAKE ME TO WONDERLAND


"So how many people on here dont see themselfs as proper swingers .but enjoy meeting people socials and adult fun .after a long think im not sure that i am a full blown swinger .i love having play mates and im a very sexual person as a single i enjoy to play .but realisticly if i got into a realationship i wouldnt want to play with others. Whats every1s thoughts

I do, as in relationship and we both at times play with others, however for other reasons I sometimes feel it would be better if I took a back seat and didn't. It's the type of relationship I want but don't think I will ever fully embrace it like I might want to.

What stops u fully embracing it

Myself mostly. Sometimes confidence, sometimes not putting myself out there as much as could. "

At the socials i have fun chatting getting to know people then as soon as it turns fae social to club i get so uncomfy i dont tend to play at the club ad rather take some1 home ..im not sure id enjoy knowing it all if i had a partner

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By *at-me-drink-me OP   Woman
over a year ago

w.lothian.TAKE ME TO WONDERLAND


"So how many people on here dont see themselfs as proper swingers .but enjoy meeting people socials and adult fun .after a long think im not sure that i am a full blown swinger .i love having play mates and im a very sexual person as a single i enjoy to play .but realisticly if i got into a realationship i wouldnt want to play with others. Whats every1s thoughts Yeah totally agree with this , I think you will probably find a lot more people thinking the same thing x"

I think every 1 is on here from fulk blown swinger to people wanting a quick pump and dump and anything inbetween

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im definitely in-between

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By *at-me-drink-me OP   Woman
over a year ago

w.lothian.TAKE ME TO WONDERLAND

Me 2 .reg play mates for adult fun .

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By *ink-KameraMan
over a year ago

Livingston

I guess its a very wide question. Urban Dictionary defines a swinger as "Swingers can be couples (married or not) or singles.

They have a sexually free spirit. Couples tend to be in love with each other, and only "share" each other sexually with others. Sometimes this means "swapping wives" sometimes it means "group sex".

Single swingers generally despise the dating process and would rather meet at swinger gatherings where it is acceptable and in some cases expected that sex can/will occur on the spot with whomever they meet and feel attracted to.

Tom and Jane go to a party where they meet Gary and Nancy. They go to a room as a group for sex.

Tom and Jane go to a party where they meet Gary and Nancy. They go to seperate rooms: Tom takes Nancy and Gary takes Jane for sex.

Melissa goes to a swinger party by herself. Melissa meets John and Tracy (a couple) at the party. melissa, John and Tracy all end up in a room together for sex."

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By *at-me-drink-me OP   Woman
over a year ago

w.lothian.TAKE ME TO WONDERLAND


"I guess its a very wide question. Urban Dictionary defines a swinger as "Swingers can be couples (married or not) or singles.

They have a sexually free spirit. Couples tend to be in love with each other, and only "share" each other sexually with others. Sometimes this means "swapping wives" sometimes it means "group sex".

Single swingers generally despise the dating process and would rather meet at swinger gatherings where it is acceptable and in some cases expected that sex can/will occur on the spot with whomever they meet and feel attracted to.

Tom and Jane go to a party where they meet Gary and Nancy. They go to a room as a group for sex.

Tom and Jane go to a party where they meet Gary and Nancy. They go to seperate rooms: Tom takes Nancy and Gary takes Jane for sex.

Melissa goes to a swinger party by herself. Melissa meets John and Tracy (a couple) at the party. melissa, John and Tracy all end up in a room together for sex.""

Yeah i knew what a being swinger ment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tend to think of singles as swingers. So don't class myself as one. Then again I'm not a fan of labelling anything anyways. It's all just socials and sex at the end of the day.

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By *at-me-drink-me OP   Woman
over a year ago

w.lothian.TAKE ME TO WONDERLAND


"I don't tend to think of singles as swingers. So don't class myself as one. Then again I'm not a fan of labelling anything anyways. It's all just socials and sex at the end of the day."

If u werent a single and had a partner would you follow the life style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't tend to think of singles as swingers. So don't class myself as one. Then again I'm not a fan of labelling anything anyways. It's all just socials and sex at the end of the day."
Socials and sex thats your thread right there Hopey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't tend to think of singles as swingers. So don't class myself as one. Then again I'm not a fan of labelling anything anyways. It's all just socials and sex at the end of the day.

If u werent a single and had a partner would you follow the life style"

Can't say its something I've thought about, I didn't find any of this until after coming out something long term, I don't see myself ever really settling down with a partner again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't tend to think of singles as swingers. So don't class myself as one. Then again I'm not a fan of labelling anything anyways. It's all just socials and sex at the end of the day. Socials and sex thats your thread right there Hopey "

I'll leave you to start the threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't tend to think of singles as swingers. So don't class myself as one. Then again I'm not a fan of labelling anything anyways. It's all just socials and sex at the end of the day. Socials and sex thats your thread right there Hopey

I'll leave you to start the threads "
ach well if I must, need's tweekin first,not twerking like i almost wrote

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

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By *hYouNaughtyKittenWoman
over a year ago

Fife

I’ve wondered this about myself a few times. I’m single and have been for a few years so I’m free to do what I like with whoever I like. I don’t know how it would be if I was to end up in a relationship.

I do know that any future relationship probably wouldn’t be the traditional monogamous type because I’ve changed and wouldn’t want to go back to how I used to be.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I’ve wondered this about myself a few times. I’m single and have been for a few years so I’m free to do what I like with whoever I like. I don’t know how it would be if I was to end up in a relationship.

I do know that any future relationship probably wouldn’t be the traditional monogamous type because I’ve changed and wouldn’t want to go back to how I used to be. "

Yup. Wore that t-shirt and it's now firmly in the bin. Can't see me having a traditional relationship again. I like my freedom too much. But I prefer regular partners to one offs.

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

Funtown

Hard to find a regular FWB but social aspect is good .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always had an interest in the swinging lifestyle but never had a partner willing to be open enough to explore it with. Former me I feel like I’ll probably not go into another committed relationship because it’s unlikely I’ll meet someone who shares this way of thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve wondered this about myself a few times. I’m single and have been for a few years so I’m free to do what I like with whoever I like. I don’t know how it would be if I was to end up in a relationship.

I do know that any future relationship probably wouldn’t be the traditional monogamous type because I’ve changed and wouldn’t want to go back to how I used to be.

Yup. Wore that t-shirt and it's now firmly in the bin. Can't see me having a traditional relationship again. I like my freedom too much. But I prefer regular partners to one offs."

That's my way of thinking also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy the social side of things more than the sexual as I often find the sexual side more irritating. I will literally meet up with anyone who isn’t an absolute cretin for a social, but sexually I’m picky and whilst being picky, I am also not exactly *insert current super sexy male celebrity, so that narrows the margins down quite a bit.

Once it all stops being fun and interesting, can it. That’s all I’d say

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

We had the advantage of meeting on here so knew that we were both adventurous.

Since we became a couple we would say we are full involved in a swinging lifestyle, clubs, parties festivals and about to try our first swinger’s holiday with friends from here.

We don’t meet separately and always as a couple and meet other couples or singles socially and sexually

It’s lots a fun and great to meet likeminded people so long may the adventures continue

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