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"We could arrange to do something x" Id be up for that | |||
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"I'm always up for a social. Love a coffee social or a stroll in the park. " Id love that aswel.find alot of guys never want to meet for just a social | |||
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" Id love that aswel.find alot of guys never want to meet for just a social" Those are the guys to avoid. Go get some coffee and cake with the man  | |||
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" Id love that aswel.find alot of guys never want to meet for just a social Those are the guys to avoid. Go get some coffee and cake with the man "Agreed! I always arrange a social first and if they can't be bothered then it's a definite red flag for me!  | |||
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" Id love that aswel.find alot of guys never want to meet for just a social Those are the guys to avoid. Go get some coffee and cake with the man
Agreed! I always arrange a social first and if they can't be bothered then it's a definite red flag for me! "100% …. I like to check they are not a serial killer first  | |||
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" Id love that aswel.find alot of guys never want to meet for just a social Those are the guys to avoid. Go get some coffee and cake with the man "I do love cake | |||
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"The socials organised by Pinkandlittlemiss have been brilliant for me and I've now got a wonderful group of fab friends. So much so, a group of us went to Blackpool and another group of us are heading to Leeds next month. There's also the plans of a weekend together in November! "Aww can I come for a weekend away from S x | |||
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"The socials organised by Pinkandlittlemiss have been brilliant for me and I've now got a wonderful group of fab friends. So much so, a group of us went to Blackpool and another group of us are heading to Leeds next month. There's also the plans of a weekend together in November!
Aww can I come for a weekend away from S x"Hope u both have a fun naughty time at the weekend away | |||
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"The socials organised by Pinkandlittlemiss have been brilliant for me and I've now got a wonderful group of fab friends. So much so, a group of us went to Blackpool and another group of us are heading to Leeds next month. There's also the plans of a weekend together in November!
Aww can I come for a weekend away from S x"Message sent to you both! Good group coming along! | |||
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" Id love that aswel.find alot of guys never want to meet for just a social Those are the guys to avoid. Go get some coffee and cake with the man
Agreed! I always arrange a social first and if they can't be bothered then it's a definite red flag for me!
100% …. I like to check they are not a serial killer first "Aye socials in a public place | |||
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"Im a single mum and work full time.i have social anxiety but have really enjoyed pushing myself and going to arranged group socials.id like to meet more people (females,males.couples) locally for friendship/socials and start enjoying the social side of fab getting out and having a laugh.im in west lothian " Thank you for this, I  a social and meeting new people and this has resulted in a quite a few new connections! | |||
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"I’m always up for a social meet a walk in the park ten pin bowling or cinema " . Thanks for the mail | |||
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"Sharing is caring ." Lol, I don't share, but I get the sentiment! | |||
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"I'm always up for coffee and cake. Who doesn't love cake " | |||
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"I'm always up for coffee and cake. Who doesn't love cake "Me! I don't have a sweet tooth! | |||
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"Sharing is caring . Lol, I don't share, but I get the sentiment! "How about trade … S for a sherbet fountain and can of vimto | |||
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"Sharing is caring . Lol, I don't share, but I get the sentiment!
How about trade … S for a sherbet fountain and can of vimto "Can of Irn Bru Xtra and strawberry haribos and you've got a deal! | |||
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"Sharing is caring . Lol, I don't share, but I get the sentiment!
How about trade … S for a sherbet fountain and can of vimto "Il just jump in the middle no need for trades | |||
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"I'm always up for coffee and cake. Who doesn't love cake
Me! I don't have a sweet tooth! "I'll buy you a bag of crisps then | |||
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"I'm always up for coffee and cake. Who doesn't love cake
Me! I don't have a sweet tooth!
I'll buy you a bag of crisps then "Big family sized bag of plain ridges, and you've got a deal! | |||
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"Sharing is caring . Lol, I don't share, but I get the sentiment!
How about trade … S for a sherbet fountain and can of vimto
Can of Irn Bru Xtra and strawberry haribos and you've got a deal! "Did someone mention Haribo??  | |||
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"I'm always up for coffee and cake. Who doesn't love cake
Me! I don't have a sweet tooth!
I'll buy you a bag of crisps then "No sharing tho. I mean i dont mind sharing .cake crisps socials fun | |||
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"Sharing is caring . Lol, I don't share, but I get the sentiment!
How about trade … S for a sherbet fountain and can of vimto
Can of Irn Bru Xtra and strawberry haribos and you've got a deal! "You drive a hard bargain | |||
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"Sharing is caring . Lol, I don't share, but I get the sentiment!
How about trade … S for a sherbet fountain and can of vimto
Can of Irn Bru Xtra and strawberry haribos and you've got a deal!
Did someone mention Haribo?? "Got to be the giant strawberry one's though! | |||
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"Sharing is caring . Lol, I don't share, but I get the sentiment!
How about trade … S for a sherbet fountain and can of vimto
Can of Irn Bru Xtra and strawberry haribos and you've got a deal!
You drive a hard bargain "100%! Go big or go home! | |||
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"100% looking for socials for friendship after summer holidays" | |||
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"This is a lovely wee thread. I would be up for making new friends "Thank you. Every 1 could use some like minded friends.to get out and have a laugh with | |||
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"We would be up for a social... "Just noticed you both had winked me.sorry i very rarely check winks | |||
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"Sharing is caring . Lol, I don't share, but I get the sentiment!
How about trade … S for a sherbet fountain and can of vimto
Can of Irn Bru Xtra and strawberry haribos and you've got a deal!
Did someone mention Haribo?? "I'll definitely bring you more Haribo | |||
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"I’m always up for a social, love meeting new people and having a laugh, I’ll bring the custard creams haha" One of my fav | |||
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"I’m always up for a social, love meeting new people and having a laugh, I’ll bring the custard creams haha One of my fav" Yeah everyone loves a wee custard cream, Do you spilt them in half to eat them? | |||
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"I'll definitely bring you more Haribo" This is why we’re friends!  | |||
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"I’m always up for a social, love meeting new people and having a laugh, I’ll bring the custard creams haha One of my fav Yeah everyone loves a wee custard cream, Do you spilt them in half to eat them?" Na just eat them | |||
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"Definitely would be up for a social be nice to see you for a hot chocolate sometime if you would like that. Xx Lexi " Sounds lovely lexi | |||
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"I agree Finding red flags before a meet/social or just after having 1 is the way forward . . And the social does help you find people u get a great chemistry with " It's the best way. Plus if free time allows you get to see different locations. The coffee always tastes better with company | |||
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"I'd love to meet for a social!! Who doesn't love coffee and cake?! Xx" I'll swing past Fisher and Donaldson on the way up | |||
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"Its always got to be a social first for me. Breaks the ice and no awkwardness. If the chemistry is there, the second meet is much better. You cant force the chemistry - if its not there its not happening!!" Alot of mine are massage meets to start as they break the ice .but i want to do social side | |||
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"Outside your age range re fun, which is fine, but would happily meet for social if you’d like. Similar to other posts I’m always up for cuppa and cake, I also enjoy cinema, theatre, gigs etc. it’s a good social scene in glasgow, keep an eye on the forum for organised socials as they are quite regular usually at least one a month often more. " Im never in glasgow .i go to the arranged socials in edinburgh | |||
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"Crazy golf is absolutely great idea. I would love to meet people and talk as being roaming alone in city got boring. Any planned event for social in Glasgow, im happy to attend and make friends " Therea6a social event next month for crazy golf but think it's sold out. Always a good idea to keep an eye out here for events | |||
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"I'd be up for a 1:1 social - coffee and cake is good as is a walk in the park,10 pin bowling I'm crap at, but enjoy playing and I'm easily gubbed if you're competitive! "Agree with so much here, next to impossible to meet new people if you have come from outwith Scotland and the couple of times I tried CJs it was just tough as a single man. A walk in the nourishing rain followed by far more nourishing cake perfect intro. | |||
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"Love walking in the rain. Love cake love a frap or bowling" No such thing as bad weather, just inappropriate clothing. | |||
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" Agree with so much here, next to impossible to meet new people if you have come from outwith Scotland and the couple of times I tried CJs it was just tough as a single man. A walk in the nourishing rain followed by far more nourishing cake perfect intro." I'm unable to comment re CJs as I'm not a swinger. As to not originally being from Scotland, I would hope that shouldn't be a downfall of any sort. | |||
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" Agree with so much here, next to impossible to meet new people if you have come from outwith Scotland and the couple of times I tried CJs it was just tough as a single man. A walk in the nourishing rain followed by far more nourishing cake perfect intro. I'm unable to comment re CJs as I'm not a swinger. As to not originally being from Scotland, I would hope that shouldn't be a downfall of any sort. " It's the same when you move to any new country no previous network of friends, and without obvious meeting points such as work nowadays for many its tricky to assimilate. | |||
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" Agree with so much here, next to impossible to meet new people if you have come from outwith Scotland and the couple of times I tried CJs it was just tough as a single man. A walk in the nourishing rain followed by far more nourishing cake perfect intro." Not sure I agree with that. If you mean you message people who are hundreds of miles away then fair enough, as outwith clubs I won't meet anyone more than 40 miles away from home because I'm looking for regular playmates. If you mean you struggle to meet people as you're originally not from Scotland then I don't see why a different accent should preclude you from meeting anyone. When you went to CJs did you attempt to get chatting with anyone, or did you just keep to yourself? If you did chat and were interested in them did you ask if they'd like to play? | |||
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" Agree with so much here, next to impossible to meet new people if you have come from outwith Scotland and the couple of times I tried CJs it was just tough as a single man. A walk in the nourishing rain followed by far more nourishing cake perfect intro. Not sure I agree with that. If you mean you message people who are hundreds of miles away then fair enough, as outwith clubs I won't meet anyone more than 40 miles away from home because I'm looking for regular playmates. If you mean you struggle to meet people as you're originally not from Scotland then I don't see why a different accent should preclude you from meeting anyone. When you went to CJs did you attempt to get chatting with anyone, or did you just keep to yourself? If you did chat and were interested in them did you ask if they'd like to play? " Hi, thanks for the thoughts, I'm referring to moving here from a different continent not messaging from afar, in days gone by you would meet new people at work, at the school gate, etc, in this digital age a lot of human interaction has gone by the by. Its not an accent thing, mote not sharing same cultural backgrounds - didn't know St Johnstone played in Perth before arriving here. CJ,s was an odd experience, did try to mingle but tricky 'butting' into groups who know each other, asked one couple if they played but no takers - that's fair enough. So walk and cake it is! | |||
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" Agree with so much here, next to impossible to meet new people if you have come from outwith Scotland and the couple of times I tried CJs it was just tough as a single man. A walk in the nourishing rain followed by far more nourishing cake perfect intro. Not sure I agree with that. If you mean you message people who are hundreds of miles away then fair enough, as outwith clubs I won't meet anyone more than 40 miles away from home because I'm looking for regular playmates. If you mean you struggle to meet people as you're originally not from Scotland then I don't see why a different accent should preclude you from meeting anyone. When you went to CJs did you attempt to get chatting with anyone, or did you just keep to yourself? If you did chat and were interested in them did you ask if they'd like to play? Hi, thanks for the thoughts, I'm referring to moving here from a different continent not messaging from afar, in days gone by you would meet new people at work, at the school gate, etc, in this digital age a lot of human interaction has gone by the by. Its not an accent thing, mote not sharing same cultural backgrounds - didn't know St Johnstone played in Perth before arriving here. CJ,s was an odd experience, did try to mingle but tricky 'butting' into groups who know each other, asked one couple if they played but no takers - that's fair enough. So walk and cake it is!" I'm not local, so i know how it feels. It's hard moving to a different town, let alone a different country. I still struggle a bit where I am now, even after having lived here for 13 years. I think it gets harder to "make friends" the older we get as well. On the countdown now to move back to where I was before we moved to the Borders and hopefully will feel more at home again. The fab socials are a fantastic way to meet lots of people and a good excuses to get out away for a while. And so are the swingers clubs, but I never go expecting sex to avoid disappointment if it doesn't happen. Hope you've settled in well in Perth and don't write off the clubs just yet | |||
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" Agree with so much here, next to impossible to meet new people if you have come from outwith Scotland and the couple of times I tried CJs it was just tough as a single man. A walk in the nourishing rain followed by far more nourishing cake perfect intro. Not sure I agree with that. If you mean you message people who are hundreds of miles away then fair enough, as outwith clubs I won't meet anyone more than 40 miles away from home because I'm looking for regular playmates. If you mean you struggle to meet people as you're originally not from Scotland then I don't see why a different accent should preclude you from meeting anyone. When you went to CJs did you attempt to get chatting with anyone, or did you just keep to yourself? If you did chat and were interested in them did you ask if they'd like to play? Hi, thanks for the thoughts, I'm referring to moving here from a different continent not messaging from afar, in days gone by you would meet new people at work, at the school gate, etc, in this digital age a lot of human interaction has gone by the by. Its not an accent thing, mote not sharing same cultural backgrounds - didn't know St Johnstone played in Perth before arriving here. CJ,s was an odd experience, did try to mingle but tricky 'butting' into groups who know each other, asked one couple if they played but no takers - that's fair enough. So walk and cake it is! I'm not local, so i know how it feels. It's hard moving to a different town, let alone a different country. I still struggle a bit where I am now, even after having lived here for 13 years. I think it gets harder to "make friends" the older we get as well. On the countdown now to move back to where I was before we moved to the Borders and hopefully will feel more at home again. The fab socials are a fantastic way to meet lots of people and a good excuses to get out away for a while. And so are the swingers clubs, but I never go expecting sex to avoid disappointment if it doesn't happen. Hope you've settled in well in Perth and don't write off the clubs just yet "*good excuse | |||
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" Agree with so much here, next to impossible to meet new people if you have come from outwith Scotland and the couple of times I tried CJs it was just tough as a single man. A walk in the nourishing rain followed by far more nourishing cake perfect intro. Not sure I agree with that. If you mean you message people who are hundreds of miles away then fair enough, as outwith clubs I won't meet anyone more than 40 miles away from home because I'm looking for regular playmates. If you mean you struggle to meet people as you're originally not from Scotland then I don't see why a different accent should preclude you from meeting anyone. When you went to CJs did you attempt to get chatting with anyone, or did you just keep to yourself? If you did chat and were interested in them did you ask if they'd like to play? Hi, thanks for the thoughts, I'm referring to moving here from a different continent not messaging from afar, in days gone by you would meet new people at work, at the school gate, etc, in this digital age a lot of human interaction has gone by the by. Its not an accent thing, mote not sharing same cultural backgrounds - didn't know St Johnstone played in Perth before arriving here. CJ,s was an odd experience, did try to mingle but tricky 'butting' into groups who know each other, asked one couple if they played but no takers - that's fair enough. So walk and cake it is! I'm not local, so i know how it feels. It's hard moving to a different town, let alone a different country. I still struggle a bit where I am now, even after having lived here for 13 years. I think it gets harder to "make friends" the older we get as well. On the countdown now to move back to where I was before we moved to the Borders and hopefully will feel more at home again. The fab socials are a fantastic way to meet lots of people and a good excuses to get out away for a while. And so are the swingers clubs, but I never go expecting sex to avoid disappointment if it doesn't happen. Hope you've settled in well in Perth and don't write off the clubs just yet "Hi Pringles, that's great to hear, thanks for your kind advice. Better wander back to CJs. . ... | |||
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