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"We had a lovely block recently, from a couple we hadn't met, but had exchanged several messages with the male half. They were new to Fab, and we had taken some time to gently embolden them. And then we got a long message, explaining that the female half had changed her mind, the site wasn't for them - fine. But the deep psychological insight into their thought process and relationship was really unnecessary We briefly wished them well, but the message wouldn't send....been blocked! All very unnecessary lol. " That's lovely that you were giving them advice but a shame it lead nowhere. An explanation is an unusual choice but at least gives you some answers..maybe they should have a comment box so if someone blocks you they can write why so you know. | |||
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"How does one know if they have been blocked " I only know if I go to message back and it tells you your blocked. | |||
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"How does one know if they have been blocked I only know if I go to message back and it tells you your blocked. " Does it actually say blocked tho Hopey | |||
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"How does one know if they have been blocked I only know if I go to message back and it tells you your blocked. Does it actually say blocked tho Hopey " I actually can't remember the exact wording but words to that affect. Can't say I've come across it often. | |||
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"How does one know if they have been blocked I only know if I go to message back and it tells you your blocked. Does it actually say blocked tho Hopey I actually can't remember the exact wording but words to that affect. Can't say I've come across it often." If course,who would want to block you | |||
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"Had a bizarre one a few weeks back when a couples profile messaged me from Glasgow…turns out it was actually a female and liked my profile and wanted to get to know me better as they dont just meet and hump anyone and need a connection. Im all for that, we chat i find out shes actually not in glasgow either but from fife lol… More chat and laughs.. then cam with each other to see each other and have more of a laugh for over an hour. She wants to arrange a social and names a place and a date and i agree after cancelling plans. Driving on the way to the place i get a message saying she is canceling saying to me “this isnt a dating site” Boom blocked. Very bizarre lol Pretty shitty i thought.. and strange considering they approached me etc and they suggested a meet. Pride myself on being a good guy and treating folks how i want to be treated but that was an arse lol " Omg getting blocked while traveling to a meet is cut throat! Feels so cruel. | |||
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"A couple messaged me and said they were interested and asked me how I was so I said hello and I'm good thanks, how are you Then, they sent me a message saying, Sorry, you're not our type, we're not interested And then they blocked me, it was quite odd " Where they in the Scotland forum? | |||
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"I’ve had a couple of weird ones, A couple I was chatting with (mostly the female) was all going well, added on snap, we exchanged some pics and voice notes she was saying i was hot and she loved my voice and laugh, ended the convo well that day then next day I goes to message on snap and blocked so checked on here and also blocked. Very bizarre." It's the mid convo ones that confuse me. I get if there's an explanation but if all looks good then sudden full stop it's bizarre. | |||
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"Had one today. Messaged me. When I said I didn't do gootjobs he replied, in caps obvs, that I should have read his profile before messaging. Loser." I love a sloppy gootjob I do | |||
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"Had one today. Messaged me. When I said I didn't do gootjobs he replied, in caps obvs, that I should have read his profile before messaging. Loser. I love a sloppy gootjob I do " Haha... Typing whilst eating chips and tired is never going to end well. | |||
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"I got a horrible message once. I'm used to random insults being sent over, but this was new level for me. It came from a couples profile, but I don't believe it was a couple. I think It was a fake profile set up especially to send that message. It was along the lines of "taste of your own medicine, calling people judgemental and ugly and I should look in the mirror to see what a nasty piece of work I really am. I will end up lonely, no man would want me because I'm jumping from man to man and they only want to use my hole. I'm ugly on the inside and that makes me ugly on the outside" There was more, but I can't remember exactly. I actually felt sick when I read it. There was some proper effort put into that message as well. I thought it might have been a case of mistaken identity, because I'd never call anyone ugly and if I have to give someone a polite no thanks, I'm always nice about it. When I was going to reply, no surprise really, I was blocked. " That's horrible. .. Best not to even engage with that anyway. Some folk aren't busy enough in real life to have the time to write stuff like that. | |||
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"I was talking to someone for a week or so. Everything going great, she was good craic and we shared the same kinks. Day we were meant to meet I messaged "We still good for tonight?.... Blocked haha " Happened to me a good few times, and absolutely not because I've given them a reason to block me. In fact I fully expect it as the default outcome on here these days, hence I don't really bother much now on here, sadly. I sometimes leave a private note just to remind me. | |||
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"I've just been blocked by someone as I declined his offer of 'balls deep hard doggy sorting me out' in his first message to me on the basis of it being a little too forward for me (my reply was polite). His reply was 'fuck my life it IS a sex site!!!' and then blocked. I mean, no loss, but my my. " It's a swingers site see the amount of guys think a sit wi me legs open willing n waiting for a dick bahahaha naw son!! | |||
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"I've just been blocked by someone as I declined his offer of 'balls deep hard doggy sorting me out' in his first message to me on the basis of it being a little too forward for me (my reply was polite). His reply was 'fuck my life it IS a sex site!!!' and then blocked. I mean, no loss, but my my. " how did you not fall at his feet | |||
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"I've just been blocked by someone as I declined his offer of 'balls deep hard doggy sorting me out' in his first message to me on the basis of it being a little too forward for me (my reply was polite). His reply was 'fuck my life it IS a sex site!!!' and then blocked. I mean, no loss, but my my. how did you not fall at his feet " Because I'm used to a much nicer standard of messages, like yours | |||
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"I've just been blocked by someone as I declined his offer of 'balls deep hard doggy sorting me out' in his first message to me on the basis of it being a little too forward for me (my reply was polite). His reply was 'fuck my life it IS a sex site!!!' and then blocked. I mean, no loss, but my my. how did you not fall at his feet Because I'm used to a much nicer standard of messages, like yours " good to hear, more of you wanted hehe | |||
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"A woman up beside me post happy New car day picking up new car today ( This was Wednesday) I have read her bio on page just the normal from women in Scotland can be so touche ie( No single male no married men no cock picture And only have sex with men when thier wife is present) Being a car guy picking a new car never gets old love that feeling and excitement Think nice to be nice have a nice day happy for you Happy New car day nothing better feeling never gets old wonderful feeling All excited for you hope you enjoy your day 10 later minute blocked " I try not to respond to these type of posts I have responded to a few and deleted messages or blocked. Wonder how many more people are into cars I’m right into my car stuff. Need to have some sort of normal life away from Fab. | |||
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"I just get blocked straight up, I send only nice messages, I read bios and try and start a conversation based on things in the bio Literal straight up blocks " They might not like Goths as your profile name suggests just ignore it buddy move on. | |||
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"I just get blocked straight up, I send only nice messages, I read bios and try and start a conversation based on things in the bio Literal straight up blocks " The irony of this post is funny to me right now. | |||
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"Because of a team I support! " That’s not really that weird considering there’s a full forum post dedicated to people not wanting to meet others based on the political party they vote for | |||
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"Yet another thread about rude ignorant people on here... Really is terrible that people behave this way. I've never ever blocked anybody I've chatted to. If things drift away from what I'm looking for it's very easy and polite to just make a simple explanation and bide them farewell all the best. To be blocked straight away is a cowards way out it really is. It's so prevalent on here .. " I block people all the time and I’m sure I get blocked as well. If their chat is shit, if I don’t like their pics, if I don’t like their status updates, if I don’t like their forum posts etc etc It means I don’t need to waste whatever time I spend on fab looking at profiles that no longer interest me. There’s nothing rude or cowardly about it. It’s not that deep | |||
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"A couple messaged me and said they were interested and asked me how I was so I said hello and I'm good thanks, how are you Then, they sent me a message saying, Sorry, you're not our type, we're not interested And then they blocked me, it was quite odd " This exact thing happened to me, same message. I wonder if it was the same couple…. | |||
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