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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see loads of people like the wink system on here and I've noticed quite a few profiles state they don't.

Can I get a yae or nae.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

I always send winks, think it's a good way to judge the response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I normally send winks but rarely receive back almost like messages

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By *rogalCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

We like winks, and we follow the system of if we wink and get a wink back then we will message. If we receive a wink and then wink back, we will be expecting a message

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Aye I like a wee wink or two, good for the soul.

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Yeah I normally send winks but rarely receive back almost like messages "

Feel your pain mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a yae from me,i mean there's no harm in it really,its not like getting a big hairy boaby in yer in box

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We like winks, and we follow the system of if we wink and get a wink back then we will message. If we receive a wink and then wink back, we will be expecting a message "

We follow the same pattern however some don’t seem to follow this. They winks, you wink back, No message received back.

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By *innMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Nothing wrong with a wink. If people choose to ignore them they are probably missing out on people with manners and etiquette- proper swingers.

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By *om-4-SubMan
over a year ago

KILMARNOCK

I tend to wink to gauge interest.

I feel ladies in particular are inundated with messages so if I receive a wink back i assume they have intimated they wish to be messaged.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I like a wee wink

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By *ittyScritchesWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

No strong opinion either way but I don't usually remember to even check or look at them so it's a bit pointless sending me one of it's to get my attention, a (decent) message is a more reliable option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink, unless they state they don’t bother with winks, and if I don’t hear back I don’t bother them again.

Saves me being a pest and constantly bothering someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No strong opinion either way but I don't usually remember to even check or look at them so it's a bit pointless sending me one of it's to get my attention, a (decent) message is a more reliable option "

A decent massage to you means nothing to others, wink is just another ice breaker to say I'm interested so let chat. Others send a million decent messages never get read or replied to it's all about just trying whatever feels best x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No strong opinion either way but I don't usually remember to even check or look at them so it's a bit pointless sending me one of it's to get my attention, a (decent) message is a more reliable option "

Yep, same for us.

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By *annSummersMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I’ll always respond to a wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I forget it's there so never use it.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

I barely notice it.. I'd rather a message

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

We are definitely winkers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a yay from me

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By *iniskirtCouple
over a year ago

Paisley

We like the wink idea here, it allows for a little ice breaker x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink. And sometime a quick msg too saying hi and if they like my profile to reach back out to me. 25% success rate. Better than nothing haha

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Can’t beat a wee wink

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By *interspiceWoman
over a year ago

Alloa

I think winks are great. If I get a wink I check them out and if I like wink back. Come on the winners

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

Canna hurt to send a wink ...I do, and occasionally get one back , which is always nice ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a wink but I seem to be in the minority.

I think they are handy ice breakers that let someone know that you like their profile. If my wink is reciprocated then I tend to feel more confident messaging.

It’s all a bit hit and miss I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like winks, and we follow the system of if we wink and get a wink back then we will message. If we receive a wink and then wink back, we will be expecting a message "

Thats how it should be

I follow the same rules, saves folks being bombarded by unwanted mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hands up....I'm a winker

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By *opeydeviantMan
over a year ago

Livingston

I do send winks if I have interest, I realise how many messages people may get and I hate to be adding to pestering ,if they see my wink and wink back I believe that shows a wee bit interest, then I'll message ...for me its better than annoying people ...but that's just me

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Sometimes I prefer a more direct approach

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"Hands up....I'm a winker "

I hope that your appreciated .

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By *pisMan
over a year ago

Larkhall

I’m definitely a winker

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

I've been known to wink!

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