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By *omble 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Symington

Been on here a while now with zero success where am I going wrong ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bashing what you are doing but a lot of women won't want to be involved with someone who's married and doing this behind their partners back.

There are people out there that would, but you've got to find them and then stand out from everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not bashing what you are doing but a lot of women won't want to be involved with someone who's married and doing this behind their partners back.

There are people out there that would, but you've got to find them and then stand out from everyone else. "

Being honest.. that would put us of too. Just our preference though

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By *havennaturistsCouple
over a year ago

Banff

'Anal' and 'Dogging' as interests would put us off for a start!

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife

Happily married but looking to cheat

Your bio puts me off.

Decent pictures though.

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By *OSCCOSMITH69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

“Happily married” but if my wife found my pictures on a swingers site i would be kicked to the kerb…

If your not happy in your marriage either talk to your spouse or leave them and let them be happy with some one else.

Your profile is 100% whats wrong with male profiles on this site… try ashliegh madison

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“Happily married” but if my wife found my pictures on a swingers site i would be kicked to the kerb…

If your not happy in your marriage either talk to your spouse or leave them and let them be happy with some one else.

Your profile is 100% whats wrong with male profiles on this site… try ashliegh madison"

coming from a guy who asked us if we were interested and attached a pic of Michael smith the world darts champion

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By *cotsman269Man
over a year ago

Falkirk


"“Happily married” but if my wife found my pictures on a swingers site i would be kicked to the kerb…

If your not happy in your marriage either talk to your spouse or leave them and let them be happy with some one else.

Your profile is 100% whats wrong with male profiles on this site… try ashliegh madison coming from a guy who asked us if we were interested and attached a pic of Michael smith the world darts champion "

180

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“Happily married” but if my wife found my pictures on a swingers site i would be kicked to the kerb…

If your not happy in your marriage either talk to your spouse or leave them and let them be happy with some one else.

Your profile is 100% whats wrong with male profiles on this site… try ashliegh madison coming from a guy who asked us if we were interested and attached a pic of Michael smith the world darts champion "

ooooffftttt,Thats gonna Sting

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth


"“Happily married” but if my wife found my pictures on a swingers site i would be kicked to the kerb…

If your not happy in your marriage either talk to your spouse or leave them and let them be happy with some one else.

Your profile is 100% whats wrong with male profiles on this site… try ashliegh madison coming from a guy who asked us if we were interested and attached a pic of Michael smith the world darts champion "

Oooooffftttt.... feel the burn

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By *ubbyandHisHotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Glasgowish

big diff between a married couple consensually playing separately vs behind partners back

would be a hard no from us too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play on honesty but gonna be very niche selection of an already small pool of females actually looking

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By *omble 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Symington

Thanks for the replies

We all have our reasons I preferred to put my marital status on just so anyone looking at profile knows the situation fully

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By *ookie69Man
over a year ago

Whistle Dixie


"Been on here a while now with zero success where am I going wrong ?"

There is nothing the matter with your profile.

It’s yours to make changes if you feel you need to.

Sometimes it’s best to tailor a well crafted message to the profile that has interested you. Peruse what they are looking for and marry it up with what you seek.

Marital status - some will, some won’t! It seems to be the main deciding factor on here, Yet some of these happily loving couples on fab are shagging without consent of each other on here for years.

Couples may not be interested in married males but happy to push their female partners into bi curious mode for his personal gain. They won’t say no to a married female tho, hell noooo.

Good luck OP… there’s plenty room for everyone.

Luck is when opportunity meets preparation

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Thanks for the replies

We all have our reasons I preferred to put my marital status on just so anyone looking at profile knows the situation fully "

Yes but you don't need that to take up most of your profile. Tell more about yourself and what you're looking for and what you have to offer, and just a line about being married. If people want to discuss that further with you then they can.

Personally I try not to judge why any married people are on here as no-one knows what goes on at home, unless they're speaking about their unsuspecting partner like dirt then they can fuck off.

I prefer people to be playing with consent, because I know that they're not trying to squeeze in a quick fuck before heading home - if I'm meeting someone I'm giving them my precious time so I expect to be given the same consideration in return and not be treated like a cum dump.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here a while now with zero success where am I going wrong ?"

Try going to a club to meet people looking for a "right now" thing. Based on your profile and situation we would not meet with you.

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock


"“Happily married” but if my wife found my pictures on a swingers site i would be kicked to the kerb…

If your not happy in your marriage either talk to your spouse or leave them and let them be happy with some one else.

Your profile is 100% whats wrong with male profiles on this site… try ashliegh madison coming from a guy who asked us if we were interested and attached a pic of Michael smith the world darts champion

180 "

More like "off the wire"

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"“Happily married” but if my wife found my pictures on a swingers site i would be kicked to the kerb…

If your not happy in your marriage either talk to your spouse or leave them and let them be happy with some one else.

Your profile is 100% whats wrong with male profiles on this site… try ashliegh madison coming from a guy who asked us if we were interested and attached a pic of Michael smith the world darts champion "

da burn!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“Happily married” but if my wife found my pictures on a swingers site i would be kicked to the kerb…

If your not happy in your marriage either talk to your spouse or leave them and let them be happy with some one else.

Your profile is 100% whats wrong with male profiles on this site… try ashliegh madison coming from a guy who asked us if we were interested and attached a pic of Michael smith the world darts champion "

I’ve had a long long day and I needed to read this

Epic!!!

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"“Happily married” but if my wife found my pictures on a swingers site i would be kicked to the kerb…

If your not happy in your marriage either talk to your spouse or leave them and let them be happy with some one else.

Your profile is 100% whats wrong with male profiles on this site… try ashliegh madison coming from a guy who asked us if we were interested and attached a pic of Michael smith the world darts champion "

I soooooo hope you replied "bullhitter!"

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

If playing with a married guy isn’t your thing why even comment? The OP is one of 1000’s of guys on here, many are attached. He chose to be honest about it.

Personally I find that meeting at a social event or a club helps. Your age goes against you for filters but at a club or social people can see for themselves what you’re like.

Perhaps list some things you’re interested in or good at. There will be people willing to meet you.

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By *omble 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Symington

Thanks for the advice and appreciate the suggestion.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

‘Morality police’ would put me off right away you don’t want judged for what your doing but your automatically judging people who don’t agree

Personally I wouldn’t entertain an attached person but thats my choice - perhaps if your wife was aware of your choices and there was mention of a permission to be here people may warm to you more. Just because this is predominately a sex site it doesn’t mean all anyone is looking for is the simple act of sex, often find when people state there getting nowhere they come here thinking they will be inundated with offers, try expecting less and perhaps rewording your bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of men’s profiles on here against the amount of female profiles on here is ridiculous. You could go to a social event / club to meet people. At least you are honest in your profile. Unlike some. Good luck in finding what you are looking for

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"The amount of men’s profiles on here against the amount of female profiles on here is ridiculous. You could go to a social event / club to meet people. At least you are honest in your profile. Unlike some. Good luck in finding what you are looking for "

Totally this. It's hard to get someone's attention online, so if you can get yourself to a club or social and meet folk in real life it'll be an entirely different situation x

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"If playing with a married guy isn’t your thing why even comment? The OP is one of 1000’s of guys on here, many are attached. He chose to be honest about it.

Personally I find that meeting at a social event or a club helps. Your age goes against you for filters but at a club or social people can see for themselves what you’re like.

Perhaps list some things you’re interested in or good at. There will be people willing to meet you. "

He asked where he was going wrong. People answered.

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